ashkenking:
the mama self suppose chop cain.. instead of giving the little child hope. u complicating issues for her.. some parents are just too dull or illiteracy caused that too. common sense

Just shut up if you have nothing to say. Do you think it was easy on her? You will never understand until ssuch a thing befalls you.

I blame the mofos that molested her.

The girl probably felt it was a death sentence. There was nothing to live for again.
The Police should have known better by giving her contraceptive drugs and flushing her from conceiving from the ordeal, after which they can assign her a Counselor to advise and encourage her.

Come to think of it, how many men married virgins self? So she can still marry and achieve her dreams with an understanding man to nurture her.

Joavid:
Cc: 50calibre.

Rape is as worse as murder.

Stop talking nonsense!!

Rap*e isn't as worse as murder.... No one is to blame for her death except her.

People kill themselves for various reasons, some as trivial as breakup, bullying.... Are we also to say bullying is as worse as murder?

nawa ooooooo boys and puccy nawa oooooo

and it took the death of that teenager to awaken the police and the community..Woe be to the mum for the indirect role in her death.and to think all the brother in law could do when he had the chance was to engage in a free for all?..poor girl,all she needed to have known was there is so much more to life.

ashkenking:
the mama self suppose chop cain.. instead of giving the little child hope. u complicating issues for her.. some parents are just too dull or illiteracy caused that too. common sense

I bet that even some highly educated people would behave like the mother. I am very sure it was her words that drove the poor girl to her death. People always emplasize on how children should behave but never on how a parent should. It's so sad

I just saw this.

50calibre:


Stop talking nonsense!!

Rap*e isn't as worse as murder.... No one is to blame for her death except her.

Seriously? Did you think about that before typing?

People kill themselves for various reasons, some as trivial as breakup, bullying.... Are we also to say bullying is as worse as murder?

Although untreated depression is no1 cause of suicide and depression is a common condition among rape and bullying victims.
post-traumatic stress disorder, the stigma and victimisation is also common among rape victims which is not associated with bullying.

Effects of bullying is usually, depression, low self esteem.
As for me, Kids who commit suicide because of bullying lack discipline, emotional, and moral support.
Oyinbo kids and their xtupidity.

The hype around that bullying thing is something my Naija mind cannot understand.

But really, rape is just something else.

I know someone who gang raped by 3 guys, she tried committing suicide twice. She couldn't tell anyone, she was scared to.
The day she started talking about it without being judged, she felt heaviness in her heart disappear.

Joavid:
I just saw this.


Seriously? Did you think about that before typing?

Yes I did!! My personal, traditional, and religious beliefs offer little or no justification for suicide. A child stup*id enough to terminate his/her own life doesn't deserve any sympathy and frankly isn't worth the coffin he/she is buried in.

Although untreated depression is no1 cause of suicide and depression is a common condition among rape and bullying victims.
post-traumatic stress disorder, the stigma and victimisation is also common among rape victims which is not associated with bullying.

Bullying has exactly the same effects, you have no point here. Bullying is a greater cause of suicide than rap*e, as a matter of fact, bullying can be worse than rap*e. Rap*e is concealed but bullying often takes place in public...

Effects of bullying is usually, depression, low self esteem.
As for me, Kids who commit suicide because of bullying lack discipline, emotional, and moral support.
Oyinbo kids and their xtupidity.

The hype around that bullying thing is something my Naija mind cannot understand

Same way you've been brainwashed into believing that rap*e is worse than murder (a direct consequence of too many Hollywood TV shows/movies & western propaganda) forgetting that in most third world countries (including Nigeria) at least 35% of women have experienced rap*e at some point in their lives.. And in war torn countries like Sudan, Somalia, Sierra Leone, Liberia, Rwanda, Congo, more than 60% of the women have been victims of rap*e.

But really, rape is just something else.

I know someone who gang raped by 3 guys, she tried committing suicide twice. She couldn't tell anyone, she was scared to.
The day she started talking about it without being judged, she felt heaviness in her heart disappear.

And I know many people whose families were murdered and they're still living and have moved on

50calibre:


Yes I did!! My personal, traditional, and religious beliefs offer little or no justification for suicide. A child stup*id enough to terminate his/her own life doesn't deserve any sympathy and frankly isn't worth the coffin he/she is buried in.



Bullying has exactly the same effects, you have no point here. Bullying is a greater cause of suicide than rap*e, as a matter of fact, bullying can be worse than rap*e. Rap*e is concealed but bullying often takes place in public...



Same way you've been brainwashed into believing that[b] rap*e is worse than murder[/b] (a direct consequence of too many Hollywood TV shows/movies & western propaganda) forgetting that in most third world countries (including Nigeria) at least 35% of women have experienced rap*e at some point in their lives.. And in war torn countries like Sudan, Somalia, Sierra Leone, Liberia, Rwanda, Congo, more than 60% of the women have been victims of rap*e.



And I know many people whose families were murdered and they're still living and have moved on

At the bolded, I never said.
And its obvious you have some preconceived notions about me, my influence and beliefs.

You called me a feminist and now I've been brainwashed by the western Media.

And please stop pulling statistics from the air.

The struggle rape victims experience is something you might never understand.

Joavid:


At the bolded, I never said.
And its obvious you have some preconceived notions about me, my influence and beliefs.

You called me a feminist and now I've been brainwashed by the western Media.

And please stop pulling statistics from the air.

The struggle rape victims experience is something you might never understand .

Of course I would never understand it because it's propaganda.

Acquaint yourself with reality,.. This should be a good start


http://www.aljazeera.com/news/africa/2014/04/un-3600-raped-drc-four-year-period-20144923542487129.html

http://www.bbc.co.uk/blogs/bbcmediaaction/entries/8c9f97f9-6482-3dc2-8cfc-9e9f719f3128

http://theeagleonline.com.ng/lagos-records-678-rape-cases-in-one-year/

http://www.un.org/en/preventgenocide/rwanda/about/bgsexualviolence.shtml

http://m.huffpost.com/us/entry/5084747

The fact of the matter is; rape is a common experience to African women... Even what the western world categorises as rape, isn't seen as such in Africa e.g a husband can never be guilty of rape in Africa (which by the way, is how it should be)

So brace yourself, if you haven't already experienced rape, you probably will at some point either by a random person or even your husband... When that time comes, let's see if you'd kill yourself

50calibre:


Of course I would never understand it because it's propaganda.

Acquaint yourself with reality,.. This should be a good start


http://www.aljazeera.com/news/africa/2014/04/un-3600-raped-drc-four-year-period-20144923542487129.html

http://www.bbc.co.uk/blogs/bbcmediaaction/entries/8c9f97f9-6482-3dc2-8cfc-9e9f719f3128

http://theeagleonline.com.ng/lagos-records-678-rape-cases-in-one-year/

http://www.un.org/en/preventgenocide/rwanda/about/bgsexualviolence.shtml

http://m.huffpost.com/us/entry/5084747

The fact of the matter is; rape is a common experience to African women... Even what the western world categorises as rape, isn't seen as such in Africa e.g a husband can never be guilty of rape in Africa (which by the way, is how it should be)

Ofcourse, its common knowledge that most African men are dogs and savages and will carry out their animalistic lust on women whenever they have opportunity- that's the reality and that's why more and more women are speaking out and embracing feminism.

So brace yourself, if you haven't already experienced rape, you probably will at some point either by a random person or even your husband... When that time comes, let's see if you'd kill yourself

I can't believe this? WTF?
You wish me rape

You're beyond redemption.
Mean and callous.

God help you.

Joavid:

Ofcourse, its common knowledge that most African men are dogs and savages and will carry out their animalistic lust on women whenever they have opportunity- that's the reality and that's why more and more women are speaking out and embracing feminism.

Stop talking nonsense!! If most African men are dogs and savages, what about the women from whose wombs they emerged?

I can't believe this? WTF?
You wish me rape

I don't wish you rape, I'm only highlighting a reality you'd probably face at some point. Besides I'd rather wish you rape than death.

You're beyond redemption.
Mean and callous.

And you're deluded and misguided

God help you.

Thanks!

50calibre:


Stop talking nonsense!! If most African men are dogs and savages, what about the women from whose wombs they emerged?



I don't wish you rape, I'm only highlighting a reality you'd probably face at some point. Besides I'd rather wish you rape than death.

Reality I'll face at some point?
Now you're the misguided and deluded one.
Definitely out of touch with reality for you to think every African woman will experience rape at some point in their lives because they live in Africa?

And you're deluded and misguided



Thanks!

Being mean, insensitive and callous is worse.
I wish you'd be raped repeatedly in the azz by a gay'got and come out of the trauma sane like it never happened.

Joavid:


Reality I'll face at some point?
Now you're the misguided and deluded one.
Definitely out of touch with reality for you to think every African woman will experience rape at some point in their lives because they live in Africa?

Being mean, insensitive and callous is worse.
I wish you'd be raped repeatedly in the azz by a gay'got and come out of the trauma sane like it never happened.

Now you're being a bit*ch, the type that gets you raped.

Wishing me rape is nothing more than wishful thinking, stop being deluded, there isn't a man alive capable of doing that to me. However yours is a real possibility.

My advice to you... When that time comes, don't fight it. Fighting makes it worse.