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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by skyfullofstars(f): 10:19pm On Jul 20, 2015
Dayociro:
To give some points why Nigeria guys don't wanna marry Nigeria girls. I am currently in the uk, I date white and black girls, when I and the white girl are picnic for shopping, the white don't like to use your money to buy everything she wants, she is going to contribute from her wallet. but the black girls want you to do everything for them at all cost, they even request for money meaningless things. Moreover, Nigeria girls feel pompous and feel higher than their personality. So men feel reluctant to cope with that situation. If white girls love black guy, they did with their heart.
Thanks

Well, that's true, but it's society fault. Women are taught to do that since they are little girls...! If you wanna change the situation, then men should empower Nigerian women, let them be independent, and don't confide them in the space of the kitchen. The matter is much more deeper than what you mention.

Doesn't this system of sugar daddies teach girls that all they have to give is sex, and that as long as they do it they will receive money?

Also, I'm tired of reading in this forum how the wives should be submissive to the husbands. If that's what you want, you know which result you will get...

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Nobody: 10:19pm On Jul 20, 2015
sinaj:
nigga itz called choice....



u dnt av to generalise because a hot hoe u got married to, burnt you.


avnt u heard of Caucasians dat are happily married to Nigerian gurls
WE NEVER HEAR THAT ONE OHH, EVEN NTA NEWS NO KNOW ABOUT AM

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Raalsalghul: 10:19pm On Jul 20, 2015
jerryunit48:
I even saw one who said she is not ready to work only to be a house wife
Very funny, but true. I've seen ladies too with that kind of mentality.

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Nobody: 10:19pm On Jul 20, 2015
It's the mixed baby syndrome
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by kalufelix(m): 10:20pm On Jul 20, 2015
F*ck marriage
And to think of attempting it with a naija gal??
Hell NO! NO! NO!

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Nobody: 10:20pm On Jul 20, 2015
cachilike12:
U rmb the saying " money miss road" that's the story of our ladies abroad. First they two Clas of Nigerian ladies living abroad... The one from a rich or middle class home that came to study and the second class is the one that came to find future and hope cos Naija failed them.

The first class don't have so much time living abroad they only cane to study and if u are lucky to get there attention before another Nigerian young dude get them, then consider yourself lucky. Cos they are down to earth and have tested luxury, comfort and powers. But the second class heart is evil, satanic and looking for young naija dude to derail. They come and have a feel of how women are considered first in the society before men and they used there wicked money miss road syndrome to destroy any naija man that come there way in the bid of testing superiority over men. Let me make it easier to understand they screw our men abroad. So naija men run to other National to make relationship and in turn get married. The pleasant thing is that other national can die to have a naija man and work with them with little or no hassles.
That's it, you said it all.
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Missonas(f): 10:20pm On Jul 20, 2015
Aren't we the enemies of ourselves.We dey ever patronise made in nigeria good before ni?

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Raalsalghul: 10:22pm On Jul 20, 2015
Niklausa:


Shut your trap!
Won't you agree to marry/date a rich guy, despite your own financial status?
Won't you readily accept the proposal of a man who has money even if you don't have a penny?

Are your dreams not to marry a wealthy man?

Are you not the same ladies that abandon a broke guy that loves you and foolishly trail a rich guy like a lost sheep?

Most of you ladies even don't care about building a successful future for yourselves, all you do is day dream about establishing a financial empire on the foundation of the financial success of man.

See your mouth like "girls are not after your money"
Nonsense!
Smiles! Dude take it easy, I understand your point, but you can be civil while trying to pass it across.
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by onelife97: 10:24pm On Jul 20, 2015
I don't know if there is any gud girl in Nigeria again.I am also married with oyinbo and I ve bn thinking of coming bk home to find a gud 9ja girl but damn it they r all the same VULTURES that won't let u die b4 descending on whatever they could grab.
especially taking ur name to pastor, alfa baba alawo ,etc.cannot trust a 9ja babe.
One I met few months ago,a med doctor that I tot shld b educated and normal but alas!she is a miss.I am regretting everything I did with her.

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by martineverest(m): 10:24pm On Jul 20, 2015
op,d question should have been y Nigerian women are not marrying Nigerian men in europe?
Nigerian men in europe are as bad as useless
they are only looking for who to milk dry in Europe.dey lack qualities of a good husband and father.dey arr always looking for working class nigerian women to feast on and dump fem after getting what(noney) dey want
most of Dem are gold diggers

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Raalsalghul: 10:24pm On Jul 20, 2015
jerryunit48:
Thank you sir , some of them are like that
Not just some of them, most of them in fact.

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Nobody: 10:24pm On Jul 20, 2015
Niklausa:


Shut your trap!
Won't you agree to marry/date a rich guy, despite your own financial status?
Won't you readily accept the proposal of a man who has money even if you don't have a penny?

Are your dreams not to marry a wealthy man?

Are you not the same ladies that abandon a broke guy that loves you and foolishly trail a rich guy like a lost sheep?

Most of you ladies even don't care about building a successful future for yourselves, all you do is day dream about establishing a financial empire on the foundation of the financial success of man.

See your mouth like "girls are not after your money"
Nonsense!
YOU DESERVE MY UNINTERRUPTED RESPECT

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by olaolulazio(m): 10:28pm On Jul 20, 2015
I don't blame guys cus most of our ladies there hustle with pu*sy and guys know their scope.

They(ladies) will come home begging dudes with it.

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by claremont(m): 10:28pm On Jul 20, 2015
Personally, I think good and bad people exist in all cultures irrespective of race. I also think it's wrong to paint all members of a particular gender from a country with the same brush, that in itself is prejudice.

That said, I would most likely end up with a foreign lady, not because I choose to, but because they are the only ones who exist within my social and/or professional network. Most Nigerians in the diaspora date foreign ladies because they live/work/socialize in environments where the only ladies therein are non-Nigerians. My current GF is Kenyan, the one before her was French-Moroccan, the one before her was British; I have never dated a Nigerian lady since I emigrated from Nigeria.

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by sukkot: 10:28pm On Jul 20, 2015
truth be told, you have to be rich to marry a decent looking nigerian woman. if you are not rich just forget it. this is on a carnal terrestrial level of course

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Raalsalghul: 10:29pm On Jul 20, 2015
Niklausa:


Story for the gods of olympus.

So if you were to meet me in person and you noticed I was a guy who had cash to spend and was interested in you, you are telling me you speed off into the sunset with me? Eh, sinaj?

You telling me you won't freely allow me to fvck the life out of you? Don't lie.
Dude, you are just making me to laugh here. Seriously, did that lady offend you?
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Dragonking: 10:29pm On Jul 20, 2015
Raalsalghul:
Not just some of them, most of them in fact.

98.9 % of them. grin grin

A friend of mine who is married has warned me seriously to be warry of Nigerian girls. He adviced that instead of me getting married to them i better do baby mama. Thats what Nigerian girls are now good at. They have fallen to the point that baby mama is what fits them best. cry

the guy is currently in pains in his marriage abroad.

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Nobody: 10:29pm On Jul 20, 2015
sinaj:


If u will readily give ur sister away to a wealthy devil,
xori to dissapoint u man, my family aint like dat wink

beside what will I need his money for when I will happily earn mine.

dont think errione think like you do, coz iz not every gurl dat money moves like a monkey okay!

YOU SEE THEM!! angry YOU PEOPLE ALWAYS MAKE THIS LINE " I WILL HAPPILY EARN MY MONEY"

WHEN WILL YOU EARN YOUR MONEY AND STOP MAKING MOUTH LIKE A PARROT angry

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by zeb04(f): 10:30pm On Jul 20, 2015
martineverest:
op,d question should have been y Nigerian women are not marrying Nigerian mem in europe?
Nigerian men are as bad as useless I'm Europe
they are only looking for who to milk dry in Europe
most of Dem are gold diggers
so right.go and see how the men behave over there.giving naija a bad name.

why will any sensible woman settle for that.

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Abimbola29(m): 10:31pm On Jul 20, 2015
sinaj:


u got it all wrong dude...

u guyz always think dat gurls are after yo money nd itz not evn as if u guyz got d money undecided
Sherrap there!!!common

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by busky101(m): 10:31pm On Jul 20, 2015
Walai, i hustle go europe, wetin i wan marrry naija girl for, after all the heartbreak i hv been through....make God punish devil

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Dragonking: 10:31pm On Jul 20, 2015
sonofananimal1:
YOU SEE THEM!! angry YOU PEOPLE ALWAYS MAKE THIS LINE " I WILL HAPPILY EARN MY MONEY"

WHEN WILL YOU EARN YOUR MONEY AND STOP MAKING MOUTH LIKE A PARROT angry

even when they make their money they will never spend it. They expect the man to do all the spending. SMH for naija girls grin

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by wtfCode: 10:32pm On Jul 20, 2015
me marry 4 naija? Unless na miracle.
Naija gals are problems, the only good thing they learned 4rm the white gals is bleaching of skin.

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by dapsonlou(m): 10:34pm On Jul 20, 2015
When most of them na Asewo. Na thru Libya them Trekk and Enter banana boat to reach Europe.

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by BSF: 10:35pm On Jul 20, 2015
Niklausa:


Shut your trap!
Won't you agree to marry/date a rich guy, despite your own financial status?
Won't you readily accept the proposal of a man who has money even if you don't have a penny?

Are your dreams not to marry a wealthy man?

Are you not the same ladies that abandon a broke guy that loves you and foolishly trail a rich guy like a lost sheep?

Most of you ladies even don't care about building a successful future for yourselves, all you do is day dream about establishing a financial empire on the foundation of the financial success of man.

See your mouth like "girls are not after your money"
Nonsense!
Ooh boy , you dey para ooooh. But meeehn I feel you

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by vislabraye(m): 10:35pm On Jul 20, 2015
skyfullofstars:
Hello. I'm a foreigner, married to a Nigerian. I see nothing wrong with that.

Nigerian ladies are also free to marry foreigners! They're beautiful, and any man would want them...!

I've always been attracted to foreigners, could be because I speak foreign languages, and I've always been interested in learning about other cultures. I never imagined I would end up marrying an African, but life surprised me and here I am...! He wasn't looking for me either, we happened to find each other by pure chance.

Hmmm... nice one. What race are you and your country ?
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Fourwinds: 10:35pm On Jul 20, 2015
sinaj:


u got it all wrong dude...

u guyz always think dat gurls are after yo money nd itz not evn as if u guyz got d money undecided
they are sfter d money my friend. I cannt count how many times girls have asked me how much I earn when it comes to issue of dating. they never think about supporting. it is d guys pocket

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by DonaldGenes(m): 10:36pm On Jul 20, 2015
sinaj:


u got it all wrong dude...

u guyz always think dat gurls are after yo money nd itz not evn as if u guyz got d money undecided

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Raalsalghul: 10:36pm On Jul 20, 2015
Dragonking:


98.9 % of them. grin grin

A friend of mine who is married has warned me seriously to be warry of Nigerian girls. He adviced that instead of me getting married to them i better do baby mama. Thats what Nigerian girls are now good at. They have falling to the point that baby mama is what fits them best. cry

the guy is current in pains in his marriage abroad.
Your above reason is why most Nigerian men are afraid to get married. Maybe you were right when you said baby mamas are suitable for Nigerian ladies, but mind you we still have some good ones that are deserving of being a wife and I tell you, it is easier to swim across the pacific ocean than come across those ladies except you are extremely lucky.

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Dragonking: 10:36pm On Jul 20, 2015
zeb04:
so right.go and see how the men behave over there.giving naija a bad name.

why will any sensible woman settle for that.

See your life..Keep on yarning dust, even Naija celebs are settling down with foriegn girls. Naija girls are just good for baby mamas nothing more.

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by obstead200(m): 10:37pm On Jul 20, 2015
sinaj:
nigga itz called choice....



u dnt av to generalise because a hot hoe u got married to, burnt you.


avnt u heard of Caucasians dat are happily married to Nigerian gurls
@ the OP, read d comment by sinaj and find ur answer dia. See how she runs her mouth without restraint? Even added some very visible insult to her reply
kevinberry:

this is enough evidence to prove that you are not different from other girls out there...
For you to even zero your mind to him going to where you pant is thus your statement speak much of you....nairaland girls..shior...
Kevinberry u replied her perfectly

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Dragonking: 10:38pm On Jul 20, 2015
Raalsalghul:
Your above reason is why most Nigerian men are afraid to get married. Maybe you were right when you said baby mamas are suitable for Nigerian ladies, but mind you we still have some good ones that are deserving of being a wife and I tell you, it is easier to swim across the pacific ocean than come across those ladies except you are extremely lucky.

The bold is the issue. To see those few ones is very difficult. Is like 1 out of 1 million.

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