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Unbeliever Why Bother Be Good? by johnydon22(m): 3:33pm On Aug 15, 2015
[b]So many times i and am sure other atheists, agnostics, deists, pantheists have heard this question..

"Why be good?"
we have seen this from every angle, even here on nairaland, in real life..

The idea of it from the questioners perspective is

"Since you have no God who will burn you in hell or reward you in heaven then why do you bother being good?

We are very familiar with that and many theists won't deny having conceived that question, trailing that line of thought or asking it when discussing with an Unbeliever or the concept of Unbelief.

Actually this line of thought terrifies me, it scares me and gets me really very afraid when i see people ask that question or directly or indirectly imply it...
It makes me think "So without the idea of religion coming up with the concept of a God who is willing to roast you in a literal fire forever these people won't bother to be good?"

"So without it, we would have these people depicting to be saints as serial killers, rapists, murderers, thieves?"

Anybody reading this would agree with me that people who trail such line of thought really lack INDEPENDENT MORAL BASIS, therefore shows someone who has absolutely no need for his brain to guide his day to day activities but allow religious dogmas, superstition and psychological fear do that for him/her.

Before i proceed on why an atheist, agnostic, deist or pantheist are good without adhering to the idea of threats to do so, let me first define what an unbeliever Considers to be moral because generally many things religions consider MORAL are directly Opposite of what we (even theists included) consider to be MORAL.

e.g: Killing Unbelievers/Apostates like the Quran has charged
e.g: Killing Brides found not to be virgins as the bible Charged.
(even Mary would have been a victim of this if according to the fable an angel had not warned Joseph in a dream not to rat her out)
[size=15]
So societal Secular definition of Morality is: Actions that DECREASES individual human suffering and/or betters societal well being, freedom, equality and Justice...[/size]

So going by this one is sure to see that what secular society or independent moral basis considers to be MORAL are just actions towards others and the world that are pleasing and not what a religious book says.

It takes perception to recognize that which we find to be moral (Good to us and the society and what we find not to be) and this is rooted in EMPATHY which is considering the feeling of others in your actions towards them.

SO NOW MOVING INTO WHY AN UNBELIEVER IN A GOD/RELIGION BOTHER TO BE GOOD.

You need to buy bread, you saw John and called him to buy the bread for you. He refuses and goes on his merry way. Ordinarily this one action of John is wrong to you.

On a second scenario you called John and asked him to buy you a bread offering him #20 tip or threatening to slap thunder out of his eyes if he doesn't and John rushes to buy the bread.. why do do you think John agreed to go to that errand?

On a third scenario; You call Joseph to buy a bread for you, he carries out that request swimmingly ..

Which among the two kids John and Joseph (Judging from the 2nd and 3rd Scenario) really did good??

Now looking at this from the MORALITY PERSPECTIVE AND RELIGION.

example 1
If you are good because you want to make heaven, you are not good because you want to be good but because you want to earn a reward after all, you only are good for your own gain... We call that selfishness... Is that goodness in entirety??

example 2
If you are good because you fear hell, you want to escape hell. You are only good because you want to escape punishment, you just want to save your own skin after all..
that still is a selfish reason... is that goodness in entirety??

example 3
One that is good not because they want a heaven or fear a hell but because they want good to happen, because they care and because they are empathic and compassionate towards others?

Among these three examples, who amongst them is truly good?? I would let you be the judge of that..

Anybody reading this wouldn't want me to go any further to see that One be it a believer or an unbeliever do not need the promise of a heaven or the threat of a hell to be good..One can be good for goodness sake.

WHY BOTHER BE GOOD..
Robert Ingersoll once said:
"The Only Good is Happiness, Where to be Happy is here and how to be happy is to make OTHERS happy.."

This one simple quote speaks volume of why bother to be Good..

When i see a dirty starving kid lying in the mud, if i pick and clean him up, feed and wash him.. This one act itself is enough to make that kid happy, and the smile on that kids face is enough to make you smile...

Just cleaning a dirty patch of land is enough to make me smile when i see it..

Giving to a poor man is enough to make them smile and enough to also put a smile on your face.

So when next you ask an unbeliever why bother be good, please also ask them.
"Why bother not killing their mother?"
"why bother loving their kids?"
or most importantly "Why bother being happy?"

So my actions are not as a result of any religious stipulated morals or about a God or about any religious creed, threat or reward.

My actions are towards people, humans, other life forms and the earth. . So assuming there is a God i don't even care what it says or thinks about my dealings with people because my actions are towards people not Deities.

Someone would ask an atheist: "Why don't you rape, murder, steal and destroy as much as you want"

"Yes actually i do those thing as much AS I WANT. I rape, i murder, i steal and destroy as MUCH AS I WANT and the MUCH I WANT IS ZERO (0) and that is it."

That i am good is because I WANT TO not because any deity or anybody wants me to
. . Good or bad is sorely my decision and my responsibility..

If you are good to others because of the promise of heaven, it shows how little you think of others.

if you are good because of hell, it shows how little you think of yourself. . .

Be Good for Goodness sake.

I have once told a pastor "You cannot tell me about morality until you and i agree on what we think is moral, because subjecting a little child to the psychological abuse and fear by threatening him/her with a horrifying burning flame in order to instill morality is horrifying, disturbing, wrong, wicked and immoral to me..."

One should be good because of Goodness sake, because they want good to happen, because they are empathic and compassionate towards others.
We have always affirmed that Empathy guides morality and empathy is a human emotion.

If muslim Jihadists were Empathic or compassionate towards others they would not kill or murder them in the name of God because of belief, in fact they even see this action to be right.

If a Christian pastor is empathic towards the poor masses, he would not extort money from them in the name of God..

Or the atheistic man that killed three people, if he was empathic towards them, he wouldn't have done that..

Morality is not synonymous to belief, having a belief is not same as being moral neither is not being a believer in any abstract concept same as immorality.

Morality deals with actions and not belief or unbelief.

So i hope after this; Nobody will ask an atheist, agnostic, pantheist or deist "why they are good or why bother be good or in the common sense mistake religion or belief to mean moral"

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Re: Unbeliever Why Bother Be Good? by INTROVERT(f): 3:34pm On Aug 15, 2015
Re: Unbeliever Why Bother Be Good? by chocolateme(f): 3:37pm On Aug 15, 2015
All you wrote is true..
Thats why everyone to himself, conscience, personality.. everyone must answer for himself or herself on the day of reckoning.

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Re: Unbeliever Why Bother Be Good? by delishpot: 3:39pm On Aug 15, 2015
Intro intro, welcone o

INTROVERT:

Choco baby I see you too o
chocolateme:
.

True talk OP. Many people are MANAGING to be nice because of hell fire not because they love humanity

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Re: Unbeliever Why Bother Be Good? by chocolateme(f): 3:41pm On Aug 15, 2015
delishpot:
Intro intro, welcone o



Choco baby I see you too o

True talk OP. Many people are managing to be nice because of hell fire not because they love humanity
Nne I see you too.. wetin you carry come?
Re: Unbeliever Why Bother Be Good? by delishpot: 3:43pm On Aug 15, 2015
chocolateme:
Nne I see you too.. wetin you carry come?

LOL nwanem, na only me waka come o.......Ngwanu; make I continue.

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Re: Unbeliever Why Bother Be Good? by fearlesschicken: 3:51pm On Aug 15, 2015
Nice topic! Deserving of front page!
I don't even know why someone would ask that kinda question, it is very silly and beyond human reasoning. It just shows the low mentality they have.

Cc:lalasticlala

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Re: Unbeliever Why Bother Be Good? by Nobody: 3:59pm On Aug 15, 2015
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Re: Unbeliever Why Bother Be Good? by johnydon22(m): 4:13pm On Aug 15, 2015
fearlesschicken:
Nice topic! Deserving of front page!
I don't even know why someone would ask that kinda question, it is very silly and beyond human reasoning. It just shows the low mentality they have.

Cc:lalasticlala
Actually people ask this question all the time. . . Its not silly but just shows the level the reasoning and independent thinking ability of that person is which is really low..

Looking out how many times i have heard it this question and have tried teaching otherwise, most people trail this line of thought

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Re: Unbeliever Why Bother Be Good? by frank317: 4:23pm On Aug 15, 2015
Nice one there John.
Unfortunately Christians will purposely misunderstand all you wrote. They will tell you your goodness is like a filty rag to their vengeful and murderous God.
They don't want to see any reason not to classify others as sinners and see themselves as the only ones going to a fake heaven.
Once they agree with you, pastors stop getting mugus and mugus (who are too lazy to use their brains) will be faced with the burden of feeling responsible for their actions.
No! They will reject it. Do u want devil to stop being responsible for their inadequacies? Do u want them to live with their guilt when religion has provided them an invisible being to ask for forgiveness when ever they behave badly?
They will come here and tell you you can never be good if you don't join them in their delusion.
Watch out.

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Re: Unbeliever Why Bother Be Good? by fearlesschicken: 4:29pm On Aug 15, 2015
frank317:
Nice one there John.
Unfortunately Christians will purposely misunderstand all you wrote. They will tell you your goodness is like a filty rag to their vengeful and murderous God.
They don't want to see any reason not to classify others as sinners and see themselves as the only ones going to a fake heaven.
Once they agree with you, pastors stop getting mugus and mugus (who are too lazy to use their brains) will be faced with the burden of feeling responsible for their actions.
No! They will reject it. Do u want devil to stop being responsible for their inadequacies? Do u want them to live with their guilt when religion has provided them an invisible being to ask for forgiveness when ever they behave badly?
They will come here and tell you you can never be good if you don't join them in their delusion.
Watch out.

Haba guy take it easy na,we arentt all that bad na

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Re: Unbeliever Why Bother Be Good? by fearlesschicken: 4:32pm On Aug 15, 2015
johnydon22:
Actually people ask this question all the time. . . Its not silly but just shows the level the reasoning and independent thinking ability of that person is which is really low..

Looking out how many times i have heard it this question and have tried teaching otherwise, most people trail this line of thought

lol! If the independent thinking ability is low doesn't it make them silly? And the question asked also silly?

Mmmm....interesting!
Re: Unbeliever Why Bother Be Good? by CaptainJune: 5:11pm On Aug 15, 2015
Johnnydon22, God does not condemn or reward on the basis of your goodness or wickedness. Faith in the death of Jesus on the cross is the basis of salvation, not morality.

You can be the kindest, meekest, humblest person in the world but still end up in hell because your spirit is still dead because of sin. Only the blood of Jesus Christ can wash the sins away, make your spirit alive, make you righteous through belief in Him, not through your works of goodness.

Religions of the world strive to attain righteousness through good deeds, but to God, man's righteousness is filthy rags before Him. The righteousness that qualifies one for heaven is simple belief in the death and resurrection of Jesus Christ. As you can see, that righteousness is not ours, it belongs to God. It is not of works of goodness but by grace. That is the message of the Gospel.

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Re: Unbeliever Why Bother Be Good? by CaptainJune: 5:34pm On Aug 15, 2015
frank317:
Nice one there John.
Unfortunately Christians will purposely misunderstand all you wrote. They will tell you your goodness is like a filty rag to their vengeful and murderous God.

You've just successfully confused yourself since your post suggests that you cannot tell the difference between goodness and righteousness.

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Re: Unbeliever Why Bother Be Good? by johnydon22(m): 5:35pm On Aug 15, 2015
The concept of Sin and Righteousness are religious inventions and in no way adds any weight to the moral tilt of an action..

What you consider Sin are just actions that goes against religiously stipulated dogma or the alleged will of God whether it is good or bad, this doesn't even make the action good or bad.

You may think singing a rap music is a SIN, it still doesn't make rap a morally wrong music because it doesn't even kill or hurt anyone..

Please the topic is on the Reasons to be Good, am not here to discuss religious theology of SIN and Righteousness as you can well see i didn't even mention them cus they absolutely are useless to me..

Belief doesn't make you good or bad; your behaviour does.

And oh i don't even need any reward for my behaviour so you might as well be sure the type of righteousness (belief) you sell, doesn't appeal to me.. Try someone else..

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Re: Unbeliever Why Bother Be Good? by johnydon22(m): 5:36pm On Aug 15, 2015
CaptainJune:
Johnnydon22, God does not condemn or reward on the basis of your goodness or wickedness. Faith in the death of Jesus on the cross is the basis of salvation, not morality.

You can be the kindest, meekest, humblest person in the world but still end up in hell because your spirit is still dead because of sin. Only the blood of Jesus Christ can wash the sins away, make your spirit alive, make you righteous through belief in Him, not through your works of goodness.

Religions of the world strive to attain righteousness through good deeds, but to God, man's righteousness is filthy rags before Him. The righteousness that qualifies one for heaven is simple belief in the death and resurrection of Jesus Christ. As you can see, that righteousness is not ours, it belongs to God. It is not of works of goodness but by grace. That is the message of the Gospel.
I need not even add or say anything on this... Your post says it all...

You can now read the post again to understand what it really says because clearly you are lost to the topic..

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Re: Unbeliever Why Bother Be Good? by johnydon22(m): 5:39pm On Aug 15, 2015
frank317:
Nice one there John.
Unfortunately Christians will purposely misunderstand all you wrote. They will tell you your goodness is like a filty rag to their vengeful and murderous God.
They don't want to see any reason not to classify others as sinners and see themselves as the only ones going to a fake heaven.
Once they agree with you, pastors stop getting mugus and mugus (who are too lazy to use their brains) will be faced with the burden of feeling responsible for their actions.
No! They will reject it. Do u want devil to stop being responsible for their inadequacies? Do u want them to live with their guilt when religion has provided them an invisible being to ask for forgiveness when ever they behave badly?
They will come here and tell you you can never be good if you don't join them in their delusion.
Watch out.
And captainjune just proved you to be very very very right.!!!

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Re: Unbeliever Why Bother Be Good? by Weah96: 5:41pm On Aug 15, 2015
CaptainJune:
Johnnydon22, God does not condemn or reward on the basis of your goodness or wickedness. Faith in the death of Jesus on the cross is the basis of salvation, not morality.

You can be the kindest, meekest, humblest person in the world but still end up in hell because your spirit is still dead because of sin. Only the blood of Jesus Christ can wash the sins away, make your spirit alive, make you righteous through belief in Him, not through your works of goodness.

Religions of the world strive to attain righteousness through good deeds, but to God, man's righteousness is filthy rags before Him. The righteousness that qualifies one for heaven is simple belief in the death and resurrection of Jesus Christ. As you can see, that righteousness is not ours, it belongs to God. It is not of works of goodness but by grace. That is the message of the Gospel.

How do u know who a believer is as opposed to a non believer?

Well, let's see if the much vaunted bible has anything to say:

Mark 16:15-17

He said to them, “Go into all the world and preach the gospel to all creation. 16 Whoever believes and is baptized will be saved, but whoever does not believe will be condemned. 17 [size=15pt]And these signs will accompany those who believe: In my name they will drive out demons; they will speak in new tongues; 18 they will pick up snakes with their hands; and when they drink deadly poison, it will not hurt them at all; they will place their hands on sick people, and they will get well.[/size]"


Can you perform any of these signs? Say the truth.

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Re: Unbeliever Why Bother Be Good? by herald9: 5:49pm On Aug 15, 2015
John Locke, the author and 'finisher' of this thread, permit me to salute you! cheesy

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Re: Unbeliever Why Bother Be Good? by johnydon22(m): 5:50pm On Aug 15, 2015
herald9:
John Locke, the author and 'finisher' of this thread, permit me to salute you! cheesy

Lol...i salute you too brother... Maybe Seun, lalasticlala and ishilove can finish the job for homepage

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Re: Unbeliever Why Bother Be Good? by hahn(m): 6:04pm On Aug 15, 2015
John, you have started again o

These religious people's matter just tire me abeg

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Re: Unbeliever Why Bother Be Good? by johnydon22(m): 6:05pm On Aug 15, 2015
hahn:
John, you have started again o

These religious people's matter just tire me abeg
Hahahahaha Only needed to set some things straight and clear to people..

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Re: Unbeliever Why Bother Be Good? by CaptainJune: 6:06pm On Aug 15, 2015
johnydon22:

I need not even add or say anything on this... Your post says it all...

You can now read the post again to understand what it really says because clearly you are lost to the topic..

While I addressed your underlying theme of morality as the basis of eternity, you'll do well to expunge the following from your article to avoid misleading
your readers.


johnydon22:

The idea of it from the questioners perspective is

"Since you have no God who will burn you in hell or reward you in heaven then why do you bother being good?




"So without the idea of religion coming up with the concept of a God who is willing to roast you in a literal fire forever these people won't bother to be good?"





Before i proceed on why an atheist, agnostic, deist or pantheist are good without adhering to the idea of threats to do so


e.g1
If you are good because you want to make heaven, you are not good because you want to be good but because you want to earn a reward after all, you only are good for your own gain... We call that selfishness... Is that goodness in entirety??

e.g2
If you are good because you fear hell, you want to escape hell. You are only good because you want to escape punishment, you just want to save your own skin after all..
that still is a selfish reason... is that goodness in entirety??

e.g3
One that is good not because they want a heaven or fear a hell but because they want good to happen, because they care and because they are empathic and compassionate towards others?


Anybody reading this wouldn't want me to go any further to see that One be it a believer or an unbeliever do not need the promise of a heaven or the threat of a hell to be good..One can be good for goodness sake.


If you are good to others because of the promise of heaven, it shows how little you think of others.

if you are good because of hell, it shows how little you think of yourself. . .



I have once told a pastor "You cannot tell me about morality until you and i agree on what we think is moral, because subjecting a little child to the psychological abuse and fear by threatening with a horrifying burning flames in order to instill morality is horrifying, disturbing, wrong, wicked and immoral to me..."

Sometimes, when you guys put up a topic or make a comment, it baffles me that you don't look at it objectively to edit sentences or statements that may imply a meaning other than what you intended to pass across yet you take offense when someone points those statements to you.
Re: Unbeliever Why Bother Be Good? by CaptainJune: 6:10pm On Aug 15, 2015
johnydon22:

And captainjune just proved you to be very very very right.!!!

Lol. The truth has to be said even if it has been repeated over and over like a national anthem.
Re: Unbeliever Why Bother Be Good? by hahn(m): 6:13pm On Aug 15, 2015
johnydon22:
Hahahahaha Only needed to set some things straight and clear to people..

But that's the problem. How can you get things straight in a discussion with people who don't THINK straight?

People who believe in the "known unknown", who believe god is right to push to send people to hell irrespective of how good that person is?

Religion makes these people too lazy to think. So, as long as you believe in Jewish mythology, you're good to go even though you don't have an ounce of good in you. One tends to wonder how they sleep at night.

I can't wait to get my new e-commerce website up. Ill be selling salvation, fear and other crap to these religious folks and make a hell, pun intended, of money.
grin
grin

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Re: Unbeliever Why Bother Be Good? by johnydon22(m): 6:19pm On Aug 15, 2015
CaptainJune:


While I addressed your underlying theme of morality as the basis of eternity, you'll do well to expunge the following from your article to avoid misleading
your readers.
I think it is obvious the mistake rests on you for not knowing when a post implies or the difference between..

Morality being the basis of eternity and Reward or Punishment being the basis of morality...

So why don't you educate yourself to have a better cognitive ability so as not to always swim in your own mistakes..

My post implied people taking Reward and punishment as basis for their morality..and this includes every branch of theism every religion and not addressing one.

I am responsible for what i write, what you understand is totally your responsibility

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Re: Unbeliever Why Bother Be Good? by johnydon22(m): 6:21pm On Aug 15, 2015
CaptainJune:


Lol. The truth has to be said even if it has been repeated over and over like a national anthem.
I do not need to know your religion inside out...

For the fact that you are here implying that your God would burn anybody who doesn't believe as you do in a literal fire forever because of belief.

Tells me all i need to know about You, Your Religion and the God it professes.

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Re: Unbeliever Why Bother Be Good? by hahn(m): 6:39pm On Aug 15, 2015
johnydon22:

I am responsible for what i write, what you understand is totally your responsibility

That was how I "borrowed" this quote of yours for that same dude. That guy's reasoning amazes me.

I still can't get over his famous "the known unknown" statement. grin grin

The ability for theists to substitute reasoning for their "beliefs" is hilarious!

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Re: Unbeliever Why Bother Be Good? by CaptainJune: 7:01pm On Aug 15, 2015
johnydon22:
I think it is obvious the mistake rests on you for not knowing when a post implies or the difference between..

Morality being the basis of eternity and Reward or Punishment being the basis of morality...

So why don't you educate yourself to have a better cognitive ability so as not to always swim in your own mistakes..

My post implied people taking Reward and punishment as basis for their morality..and this includes every branch of theism every religion and not addressing one.

I am responsible for what i write, what you understand is totally your responsibility

Here you go again. Reward and punishment in heaven or hell, are they not eternal? You know what, whatever makes you sleep better. Could counter your post by quoting more statements from the op that contradict this post of yours but I'd rather not. It is not my desire to draw or to be drawn into needless argument. Besides, your article doesn't have this idea as its central focus; it is just a sub topic so why bother prolonging the issue?

Aaah, of course, the lazy writer's creed. Anyway, have fun.
Re: Unbeliever Why Bother Be Good? by CaptainJune: 7:10pm On Aug 15, 2015
Weah96:


How do u know who a believer is as opposed to a non believer?

Well, let's see if the much vaunted bible has anything to say:

Mark 16:15-17



Can you perform any of these signs? Say the truth.

Answering this will only result in shifting the focus of the thread's message further.
Re: Unbeliever Why Bother Be Good? by johnydon22(m): 7:15pm On Aug 15, 2015
CaptainJune:


Here you go again. Reward and punishment in heaven or hell, are they not eternal?
Pheeew ok i think there is need for me to break it down since obviously my choice of words confuses you entirely..

There is a difference between:

Morality is the basis of eternity and
Eternity is the basis of morality..

Just like there is a difference between "Gold is the source of silver and silver is the source of Gold"

I believe you can now correct yourself accordingly and stop rubbing your own confusions on someone's assertions. . Alas it all boils down to what you choose to understand

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Re: Unbeliever Why Bother Be Good? by CaptainJune: 7:40pm On Aug 15, 2015
johnydon22:
Pheeew ok i think there is need for me to break it down since obviously my choice of words confuses you entirely..

There is a difference between:

Morality is the basis of eternity and
Eternity is the basis of morality..

Just like there is a difference between "Gold is the source of silver and silver is the source of Gold"

I believe you can now correct yourself accordingly and stop rubbing your own confusions on someone's assertions. . Alas it all boils down to what you choose to understand

Lolzz. Johnnydon22, don't push me to give you lessons in the English Language. Don't. I have the time and energy but not the desire, my desire being checked by my sense of propriety. I don't say this with any sense of pride but to let you know I'm not new to literature of any format or subject. You don't just go accusing people of misapprehension when you're the source.

Besides, if I did that your thread will be cluttered with so much irrelevant posts that your op will be buried in their accumulation.

Like I said, needless argument is not my thing. Have fun.

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