Toks2008:



you caught my attention.


cool pics and calm beauty

Thanks a lot

myztikal:


you could teach her if you can cook...alternatively, a 3 months training in a catering school can work wonders

Yeah and she must try to learn o.

Some ladies have this appalling way of thinking they are good and the "'na so i dey cook am syndrome" wont allow her calm down to learn properly.

No matter your expertise,always ask your man how she loves that delicacy best a might surprise you that the way he wants it might be a far cry from what you are used to.

What if marriage is not for everyone what if some of us are 2 flawed to be with anyone.

JustCalMeDBoss:
What if marriage is not for everyone what if some of us are 2 flawed to be with anyone.

i can actually relate with this 100

@OP thanks for this thread, i am in my early 30, i am a workaholic and an introvert though trying to socialize and work on my people skills becos my profession needs it as a civil doctor( guess you should figure that out yourself or ask Shakespeare) smiles. I spend my 48hrs weekend at home all indoor except i am at the mechanic, in church or out of town. I love older women they are understanding, matured and fun to be with especially the matured discussion. The only thing is dread is the marriage issue. I dont wanna get marry, i hate marriage at least for now .
I moved to Lagos few months back and will like to hook up atleast up my social skills. I dont do social parties, its a kill joy, but do go out to gardens and club on friday nights which is once in green moon, maybe when i am extremely sad. Watching people dance gives me joy even if i dont know how to dance. Now describe me in a single word.

klassic:
@OP thanks for this thread, i am in my early 30, i am a workaholic and an introvert though trying to socialize and work on my people skills becos my profession needs it as a civil doctor( guess you should figure that out yourself or ask Shakespeare) smiles. I spend my 48hrs weekend at home all indoor except i am at the mechanic, in church or out of town. I love older women they are understanding, matured and fun to be with especially the matured discussion. The only thing is dread is the marriage issue. I dont wanna get marry, i hate marriage at least for now .
I moved to Lagos few months back and will like to hook up atleast up my social skills. I dont do social parties, its a kill joy, but do go out to gardens and club on friday nights which is once in green moon, maybe when i am extremely sad. Watching people dance gives me joy even if i dont know how to dance. Now describe me in a single word.

U already did.INTROVERT

i desire a lady btw 30 to 33 years of age, gainfully employed, if with kid (only one if possible a boy with no legal handbag) and would desire one or two more, tall, chubby, speaks fluent english, openminded, non-fanatic but God fearing, publicly presentable (admirable) and yet humble but not gullible.
I need all these features cos of my high taste and cos of features i want to see in my children.
thank you @op for starting this thread.

JustCalMeDBoss:
What if marriage is not for everyone what if some of us are 2 flawed to be with anyone.

This just got me thinking. Hmmmmmm

JustCalMeDBoss:
What if marriage is not for everyone what if some of us are 2 flawed to be with anyone.

God never designed anyone to be so flawed, that marriage wasn't for them...never doubt yourself, doubt kills! if you chose to remain unmarried, then let it be because you wanna be celibate

@klassic
I would describe u as a classic doctor. U display all the traits of a doc. I'd hate to trust my medicare to a dj jock doctor who wear yellow pants and green socks. I think ur cool and I like u just the way u are. Its ok for u not to be interested in marital stuff for now. U need to concentrate on ur career for now and look after us. In ur mid-thirties, u interests and view on marriage will change.

@magent
Stop that thing jare. Do u think this is Daily times? Did u pay for advert space here? My friend, behave urself jare. Go to Punch and advertise in the Personals.

myztikal:


I implore you not to quote the Bible out of context, it wasn't a question, that was advice from king Lemuel, and is even referred to as an "oracle from his mother"...read verses 29-31

just because you don't believe there's true love doesn't mean there isn't...such women do exist

excuse me. What does my ideology about love gat to do with this? Well issorite. To you and some guys, they exist while to me and some other people, they don't. Yea dear, they don't exist. But I am not against what you believe sha.

torqque7:

Haba being a politician is not a bad thing now just no thief money like diezani Alison when u become a politician lol. hmm am not really into football like the average nija guy o,but I like arsenal and man u sha..you de find who to yab abi?aspa chelseas loss?God pass u....so I take it you like football Abi?where do you belong?.by the way am very much interested in the story you said you cudnt share here in public, so how do i hear/read it privately?

chai torqque. Hahahahah honestly I for yab you die if to say you bi chelsea fan. Amibo .your ears are itching. Besides I don't know how to accept that request. I will find a way out sha.

Can a man stay with one lady all his marital life?


Philandering is an act that is predominant among men and women alike.To some men this act seem normal due to the erroneous belief that men can be polygamous, but some women experience philandering due to narcissistic or even sociopathic mindset.

But as they say,it is a cruel world of men and often times the women are at the receiving end of this reckless act so this write up is directed to men and women alike but with more focus on the men and this write up will list 5ways you can prevent philandering or reduce the act to the barest minimum.

1.Accept that it is a reckless and destructive act to you mentally,physically,Financially and spiritually: Yes as sweet as philandering may seem to be, it is a very destructive act because it can lead you to eternal destruction of your soul as the Quran and Bible suggested and i believe your soul is worth more than the flimsy passion of exploring many death traps in the name of women. Asides this you can readily contract deadly infections and many men have had sexual encounters with different spiritual beings in the name of women and not forgetting the fact that in most cases,the act of philandering tend to make you spend excessively as you will need to spend on the side chicks from time to time just to satisfy your lustful desire.


2.Understand that Philandering is more than a regular bad habit but a demonically influenced act: I have always counseled many ladies that they can not nag a man out of philandering but can only pray him out of it because most times,the men who indulge in it are influenced by demonic spirits so if you are a man who wants to stop or prevent this then you must be willing to pray to GOD to prevent the spirit from possessing you and to help you cast it out of you because this is one act you can not stop on your own.


3.Go for a lady that turns you on physically:I always have a slogan that i will rather remain single for life than marry a woman that does not appeal to me physically. Yes they say choosing a wife is more than the physical attributes but nevertheless i believe you can always get a lady who has a good attribute as well as a good physical appeal.

Why should a man who loves a bootilicious lady settle for a flat ass? and if you love a big body lady why settle for a slim one?I remember having an affair with a lady while i was in the university and at a point i began to pray that GOD should make this lady develop some sexual features..
"can you imagine?"

If you love a busty lady and you settle for a small cup size then you just might fantasize about huge bust-line whenever you make out with a wife with a small cup size and to me,this is perpetual self inflicted bondage because there are billions of ladies out there single and ready to mingle so why pick the one that does not turn you on just by her physical appearance.


4.Accept the fact that no lady has the monopoly of beauty:No matter how sexy or outwardly beautiful your woman may be,there will always be a lady sexier and more attractive than her out there and you are bound to meet many of such so if you are the type who can't take his eyes away from every sexy damsel then you just might be on a fast track to your grave because you can never outdo these daughters of eve who are always willing to show you the fastest way to hell. Just make that choice and do your best to maintain your choice by helping her retain her sexy figure in anyway you can.Learn to appreciate and be content with what you have because in actual fact,its the same hole and same pleasure,just that it is the skills that differs so teach her the skills rather than seek for a facade in the name of varieties.


5.It takes the fear of GOD and great discipline to do away with philandering: It is practically almost impossible for a man who does not fear GOD to desist from this pleasurable but deadly act so as a lady you must pray and try to lead your man closer to GOD because if a man fears GOD then apparently he will make you happy and for the man please understand that you must practically go closer to GOD so that your love and fear for him will keep you away from this act.

Yes the act of philandering is a strong one that tends to enslave any susceptible person and it is not want anyone can just wish away but with GOD i believe that it can be prevented.

GOD HELP US. and I hope this helps

what if you cant stay with someone for a week without having the feeling that they are encroaching on your time, need ur time and they disturb your quite moment. For example when they wanna talk, you want absolute silence or you have to force yourself to talk in anger mode, or u are silent and starring and even sleep off. I know woman hate this but what if you cant just help it?

God never designed anyone to be so flawed, that marriage wasn't for them...never doubt yourself, doubt kills! if you chose to remain unmarried, then let it be because you wanna be celibate[/quote]

siamia:
@klassic
I would describe u as a classic doctor. U display all the traits of a doc. I'd hate to trust my medicare to a dj jock doctor who wear yellow pants and green socks. I think ur cool and I like u just the way u are. Its ok for u not to be interested in marital stuff for now. U need to concentrate on ur career for now and look after us. In ur mid-thirties, u interests and view on marriage will change.

@magent
Stop that thing jare. Do u think this is Daily times? Did u pay for advert space here? My friend, behave urself jare. Go to Punch and advertise in the Personals.

@op it was an innocent post, i'm sorry that you did find it offensive and unacceptable. my understanding of this thread is such that it would be a medium or enabling platform for adults to air their respective views and possibly relate with suitable adults too. that is my entry standard for any lady i would be chatting with here, i wont come here and start chatting with everyone. This is a market and i know what i want to purchase. if anyone shows interest its definitely going to be seen here and our chat would be laid bare here. am i out of your thread's purpose with this? i stand to be guided. thank you

@ op, You are not quite correct. I am a civil doctor/(attorney- at- law), about my my taste in marriage, it might not really change, my younger ones guys are married and have kids. They marry quite early in my fam. Guess its not just my thing.

MaGenT77:


@op it was an innocent post, i'm sorry that you did find it offensive and unacceptable. my understanding of this thread is such that it would be a medium or enabling platform for adults to air their respective views and possibly relate with suitable adults too. that is my entry standard for any lady i would be chatting with here, i wont come here and start chatting with everyone. This is a market and i know what i want to purchase. if anyone shows interest its definitely going to be seen here and our chat would be laid bare here. am i out of your thread's purpose with this? i stand to be guided. thank you

fairlyisabel:
chai torqque. Hahahahah honestly I for yab you die if to say you bi chelsea fan. Amibo .your ears are itching. Besides I don't know how to accept that request. I will find a way out sha.

Hahaha I don tell you before God pass you..hmm I don't think there is a way you can find around it o cos people have tried and complained about the request/mail thing..do you have a bb?maybe I can drop my pin if you don't want to drop yours for everyone to see cos my ear is really itching for the tori o

MaGenT77:
i desire a lady btw 30 to 33 years of age, gainfully employed, if with kid (only one if possible a boy with no legal handbag) and would desire one or two more, tall, chubby, speaks fluent english, openminded, non-fanatic but God fearing, publicly presentable (admirable) and yet humble but not gullible.
I need all these features cos of my high taste and cos of features i want to see in my children.
thank you @op for starting this thread.

Sharp guy lol but dont you think you are too specific to a fault? It was as if i was reading fela lyrics..hands up,hands down,stand up,sit down,forward march,attention lol...

Abeg o wayo wayo

Toks2008:


Sharp guy lol but dont you think you are too specific to a fault? It was as if i was reading fela lyrics..hands up,hands down,stand up,sit down,forward march,attention lol...

Abeg o wayo wayo

i'm not as sharp as you think, but i have taste and quite blunt- if i cant respect a lady, its just going to last a moment and i think i have had enough of that. respect comes with personal, social and financial security. guys like me prefer assets bruv

@klassic
Oh I see.

@maGent
Pls just post chats, let people get to know u. Get to know them. Don't make the ladies feel they are goats for sale, and ur a buyer inspecting ur goods.
Thanks.

ariyebaba:
Hello Tbaby...............

Hi riyeba

@siamia says i should just chat. re u kidding me did i make a mistake? i thought this thread is for adults. adults dont just talk/chat when there is no reason/cause to. with utmost respect ma, i beg to differ on this.

Ah...this thread is growing really fast....been trying to catch up.

Welcome to all new comers

MaGenT77:


i'm not as sharp as you think, but i have taste and quite blunt- if i cant respect a lady, its just going to last a moment and i think i have had enough of that. respect comes with personal, social and financial security. guys like me prefer assets bruv

See its an imperfect world and we just have to narrow down our demands from these complex beings.

in any list of virtues expected from any man or woman there is always the one ones that top the list.

I will fall in a flash for a lady who is a magician iin the kitchen,sexually decent,appealing to my eyes and humble with no age retrictions and i dont even mind a single mum.

Now you will say fair enough but then narrowing down those virtues,i just want a sexually decent lady who cooks well and fairly cool physically.

So your long list might look quite innocuous but you just miight realize after a long while that its hard to come by.

MaGenT77:
@siamia says i should just chat. re u kidding me did i make a mistake? i thought this thread is for adults. adults dont just talk/chat when there is no reason/cause to. with utmost respect ma, i beg to differ on this.

Please read her comments again and try to understand the message.

That is why this thread remains credible because honestly no one is freaking over getting hooked both male and female and the first priority is to socialize,get to mingle and be at home and feel at home then along the way you just might find that connection or bonding.


Shey you get?

MaGenT77:


i'm not as sharp as you think, but i have taste and quite blunt- if i cant respect a lady, its just going to last a moment and i think i have had enough of that. respect comes with personal, social and financial security. guys like me prefer assets bruv

Hahaha...this guy sha
Straight to point.
Who no like better thing?

Truth is when i meet guys that seem more interested in what i do than in me as a person....i tend to be more careful around such guys. I once met a guy and in less than a month we me, he asked me to lend him a certain amount of money. I just laugh am for my mind

We all love assets.

You cant be an applicant/apprentice and be ordering for a working class.

Nobody wants liability abeg.

JustCalMeDBoss:
What if marriage is not for everyone what if some of us are 2 flawed to be with anyone.

Very true..many ladies have a repulsive character.

I met a lady early this year,a single mum and we became friends..

She talked about the spiritual hinderance and how she got delivered and i was like cool but trust me by my humble standard,she is so arroganr and i had to tell her that she has no spiritual problem but she only need to work on herself.

The problems of some guys and ladies lie with them.

We are all looking for an ideal partner while we are not even ideal for anyone.

@Magent
Am sure with ur go-getter list, u want one more thing...u want to marry a friend.
Marriage is hard enough. But if she is ur friend, u can weather the storms when they come. And yes they will. Sicknesses. Economical downturns. Loss of job. Mass retrenchment in the workplace. Family trauma. And shakings that come to homes. At the end of the day, ur list won't matter if she is not ur friend. Remember, marriage shd be for the long haul. U shdnt have to go to court twice...one for registry and one for divorce.
God bless.

uchezzz:

Thanks a lot

your smile is out of this world, not forced but from the heart.

torqque7:

Hahaha I don tell you before God pass you..hmm I don't think there is a way you can find around it o cos people have tried and complained about the request/mail thing..do you have a bb?maybe I can drop my pin if you don't want to drop yours for everyone to see cos my ear is really itching for the tori o

Lolllll tough guy. Yes I am on bbm but I might still not open up to you on that. We might end up discussing another thing. Let's digress a little. Have you ever being wooed by a woman before?

siamia:
@Magent
Am sure with ur go-getter list, u want one more thing...u want to marry a friend.
Marriage is hard enough. But if she is ur friend, u can weather the storms when they come. And yes they will. Sicknesses. Economical downturns. Loss of job. Mass retrenchment in the workplace. Family trauma. And shakings that come to homes. At the end of the day, ur list won't matter if she is not ur friend. Remember, marriage shd be for the long haul. U shdnt have to go to court twice...one for registry and one for divorce.
God bless.

very true ma. seriously is marriage really worth it? hypothetically i think its overated. i think one could just adopt a kid or two seeking anyone they could call their parent. thank you and God bless you too

gratefulme40:



Hahaha...this guy sha
Straight to point.
Who no like better thing?

Truth is when i meet guys that seem more interested in what i do than in me as a person....i tend to be more careful around such guys. I once met a guy and in less than a month we me, he asked me to lend him a certain amount of money. I just laugh am for my mind

We all love assets.

You cant be an applicant/apprentice and be ordering for a working class.

Nobody wants liability abeg.

i am not nobody and i dont think you have any value to add to my comment talkless of me. no one asked you of your personal misfortune, please save it for your diary. do you know how much guys spend on ladies daily and keep mum about it as it is expected. its all risk lil sis. when i stated asset - let it be clear, i meant asset, mental asset and not you.