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Re: Question For The Men by Nobody: 5:35pm On Oct 06, 2015 |
bukatyne: Anyway, i have overlooked it. i do the one i can and, i did talked but he prefer i ask but am not wired like that. i hate to send an adult a message or remind him that something needs to be done. |
Re: Question For The Men by MARKone(m): 5:36pm On Oct 06, 2015 |
IYADARA: Lol, not every man will be like your husband, where he is lacking, he might be making up in another, you really cannot have it all when it comes to the opposite s£x. Take heart that is marriage for you. You can pretend to collapse due to the workload, we are all actors and actresses, in different ways, this may stir him to help out with house chores, it has worked for some women. |
Re: Question For The Men by bukatyne(f): 5:38pm On Oct 06, 2015 |
Mrs0J: Ok then, It is well. |
Re: Question For The Men by Nobody: 5:38pm On Oct 06, 2015 |
LewsTherin: yes, i sieve my amala to remove ants |
Re: Question For The Men by babygirlfl: 5:58pm On Oct 06, 2015 |
LewsTherin: Very true. In a bid to show how many yards of wife material that they are, many females will not let their boyfriends lift a finger to help with chores. Then when they get married they expect the guy to know that it is his duty to help with chores and hurt when he doesn't |
Re: Question For The Men by LewsTherin: 6:04pm On Oct 06, 2015 |
Mrs0J: Oh ok. Phew!!! This I understand. |
Re: Question For The Men by babygirlfl: 6:05pm On Oct 06, 2015 |
These questions are what every couple should ask before marriage. Every couple should be able to discuss how their family would be run. They should decide if they want a traditional home, a modern home or a hybrid of the two. |
Re: Question For The Men by Kimoni: 9:53pm On Oct 06, 2015 |
Re: Question For The Men by cococandy(f): 10:55pm On Oct 06, 2015 |
make sure you don't release another babadara in the form of Dara to the society. The change now begins with you. Pele. Exactly. 2 Likes |
Re: Question For The Men by cococandy(f): 11:00pm On Oct 06, 2015 |
Eya Pele iyadara. Goodluck communicating with him. @topic, dem no born any of my sons well to sit and laze around. He must learn all there is to learn in home keeping. |
Re: Question For The Men by bellong: 12:34am On Oct 07, 2015 |
Kimoni: It is true now. Common on this forum, many a female married with two eyes opened yet will come here to rant about their husbands. Last weekend, I was asking a lady some basic questions about her fiancé and she couldn't give me answers. I was forced to ask her what they talk about in the relationship. Courtship is not meant to be going to fast food joints, movies or night suyas, it is to get to know each other well if you could live together. Emotions and logic must be balanced. If you erroneously married a lazy husband, please spare us the agony of your rant here. |
Re: Question For The Men by Nobody: 7:34am On Oct 07, 2015 |
Mrs0J:I understand that an adult should know when to help but since he doesn't help till you ask, then continue asking him.. It doesn't mean you're sending him msg, he's your husband. . Honey, come and help me with this and that, et al.. no biggie.... Some husbands don't help even when asked so you should take advantage of yours instead of holding grudges and dying in silence... |
Re: Question For The Men by Nobody: 8:51am On Oct 07, 2015 |
MarvellousGod: No grudges, way past that. i do ask when necessary. i do what i can and live the rest that's how i role. |
Re: Question For The Men by kashamyanat: 9:55am On Oct 07, 2015 |
LewsTherin, I must say a big THUMPS Up. 95% of the discription u gave about your self is exactly who my hubby is but in our case we have two luvly boys, the eldest is 6yrs While the younger is two. So in most cases while my hubby is helping me out in the kitchen,my older son is helping out with his kid brother ie he is either feeding him or he is controlling the remote while they watch the telly etc. We've thaught them how to call on our attention when the need arise, that not withstanding kids can be funny so we keep checking on them at interval. Now back to the main TOPIC, in my own case most cases he gets home before me and trust him, he will definately start up something before am back. The sweetest part of it is that (1)He picks up his fatherly and husbandly responsibilities to the fullest(2)If any body(including his parent) needs anything from any of us he will always say" let me discuss with my wife we will get back to u or you will get a fit back from my wife."(3)It strengthens the bond between both of us because while working together we gist, we fight, we play, its alot of fun.(4) Relations and friends especially our immediate families find it very, very difficult to interfer in our marriage because there is no room for that.We both have agreed that since we don't involve them wen making love, we should'nt even on other issues and it has been grate(God has been faithfull).The big assignment he has always left me with is that ;day in day out I keep feeling I want to respect him more, I want to luv him more infact because of all he does I am ever ready for him to make luv to me. Honestly marriage is fun, sweet, interesting, .............oh my God! name it.But remember am not saying we are perfect because we have our fighting period but it is always managed properly ie its mostly settled during or before our night devotion because the fight mostly happen wen carring out our daily activities.Afterall, this little fight is what adds up flavour to the marrige. My brother keep up the good work oh. |
Re: Question For The Men by Nobody: 2:04pm On Oct 07, 2015 |
kashamyanat: Happy for you. Went to my sis place to see my sick mum cos my sis is a medical doctor, while we were in the room gisting, my inlaw was in the kitchen washing dishes, filling water and cooking rice. was so astonished and felt was in her place, commended my inlaw and asked my sis to lease him for 2 yrs to me. my sis replied never not even for billions. can't go on to list out what the man does, how cool headed he is and overtly nice. |
Re: Question For The Men by Kimoni: 3:49pm On Oct 07, 2015 |
bellong: Lol...but you know misery loves company naa |
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