I was born and brought up in the east, in Awka, Anambra state. My dad is a yoruba man while my mum is an Igbo woman. From the story I was told, my father served in the Nigerian army during the civil war. His last unit was in Agulu in Anambra state. His name is Olu as I was told. My mum was staying with him when she conceived me but due to the tradition, he was denied the paternity because he did not pay the dowry. My mum's parents forcefully brought her back home. By the time my father came to pay the bride price, my mother ran away. He left with frustration and since then has not returned. He does not even know if my mother later delivered me and if she does, wether a boy or girl, he does not know. My mother has hidden my father's identity from me. She claims that all she knows is that he is from Ondo state. Please what can I do to locate him?

42 years? Ah! ANd you don't even have his picture not to talk of his real name. I will advice you wait till we all meet in heaven

Cry to your mother, rub Chinese balm in your eyes if you can't do crocodile eyes. Tell her you need to know the truth.

9niceguy:
42 years? Ah! ANd you don't even have his picture not to talk of his real name. I will advice you wait till we all meet in heaven

When Lord Jesus Christ said "Oh Ye Of Little Faith, he was talking to people like you. May the Good Lord grow your faith.

U see d problem of baby factory children...I advice all d ibos to start taking dia so called "father" for a DNA test..

Hey!!!!!!!! This is serious

Gosh

42 years is a long time

Your mum should know more than just his name been Olu- i mean his LGA, siblings name, e.t.c

montanaguy:
I was born and brought up in the east, in Awka, Anambra state. My dad is a yoruba man while my mum is an Igbo woman. From the story I was told, my father served in the Nigerian army during the civil war. His last unit was in Agulu in Anambra state. His name is Olu as I was told. My mum was staying with him when she conceived me but due to the tradition, he was denied the paternity because he did not pay the dowry. My mum's parents forcefully brought her back home. By the time my father came to pay the bride price, my mother ran away. He left with frustration and since then has not returned. He does not even know if my mother later delivered me and if she does, wether a boy or girl, he does not know. My mother has hidden my father's identity from me. She claims that all she knows is that he is from Ondo state. Please what can I do to locate him?

Of course there is a possibility of reuniting your dad, hopefully he would still be alive. But you really need to make your mom open up, the info she holds within, will go a long way in helping you achieve your mission. Don't you know is surname, do a Google and face book search, narrow it down to Osun state, then you ask questions. Good luck.