My name is obowunmi. I am getting married, I'm not in love nor do I like the person that I am getting married to. But I will force myself and probably end up cheating on the person.

This particular individual is so in love with me but the feeling is not mutual. My family's pressure is too much and I can't deal with it anymore. I am choosing to get married with the option of divorce and cheating. The individual says they'll stand by me thru thick and thin.

Anyone else feel this way when they got married. Growing up, I always thought that I'd find someone that I loved but those the I love don't love me back. This life sha.

hmmmmmmm, OP elaborate!

Congrats.....
This Marriage dey hungry me no be small. wish I had seen my missing rib

obowunmi:
My name is obowunmi. I am getting married, I'm not in love nor do I like the person that I am getting married to. But I will force myself and probably end up cheating on the person.

This particular individual is so in love with me but the feeling is not mutual. My family's pressure is too much and I can't deal with it anymore. I am choosing to get married with the option of divorce and cheating. The individual says they'll stand by me thru thick and thin.

Anyone else feel this way when they got married. Growing up, I always thought that I'd find someone that I loved but those the I love don't love me back. This life sha.

I CONGRATULATE YOUR BOLDNESS SIR, BUT CAN YOU BE MY FRIEND SO I CAN LEARN MORE AND ATTEND THE WEDDING? YOU REALLY HAVE A STRONG HEART BRO

U wil get to love her wit tym. Yes, u wil.

chumaster:
hmmmmmmm, OP elaborate!

I don't like, I can't stand, and I don't love the person I'm getting married to.

I've been given the license to cheat and if I get tired, to divorce when I'm tired.

Oruemu:
U wil get to love her wit tym. Yes, u wil.

Ok.... I'll love her with my other girlfriends.

Congrats

Oruemu:
U wil get to love her wit tym. Yes, u wil.

I was going to quote you and say something nasty but then I made the mistake of checking your profile pic first.

Nice butt.

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5minsmadness:


I was going to quote you and say something nasty but then I made the mistake of checking your profile pic first.

Nice butt.

Lool... my brother

obowunmi:


I don't like, I can't stand, and I don't love the person I'm getting married to.

I've been given the license to cheat and if I get tired, to divorce when I'm tired.

C'mon man don't give up! Its been a long road but you'll definitely meet the One soon enough

5minsmadness:


C'mon man don't give up! Its been a long road but you'll definitely meet the one soon enough

You know my journey.

I'm trying. I'm trying.

I don't want to punish this girl. I've been with other people that I am excited about. I'm not excited about her. I only see her as a friend.

5minsmadness:


I was going to quote you and say something nasty but then I made the mistake of checking your profile pic first.

Nice butt.

Hiya!

Wat if ur partner thuggerize or jujutalize or arrange boys?

kpele

Oruemu:

Hiya!

Hi dearie,
If I may ask, what part of pluto are you from? Is it anywhere close to the southern part of nigeria?

5minsmadness:

Hi dearie,
If I may ask, what part of pluto are you from? Is it anywhere close to the southern part of nigeria?

Na babe you come pick from my thread abi?

MrHighSea:
Wat if ur partner thuggerize or jujutalize or arrange boys?

Huh?

She's smitten be the money. She can't do such. I treat her like shit and she still stayed.

obowunmi:


Na babe you come pick from my thread abi?

Ejor Ema binu
I see her backside my brain format,
sorry sir.

Dude, you serious? You want to marry someone you feel nothing for? At least, are you guys compatible? If you don't feel anything for this woman now, it might get worse in marriage. There is nothing worse than resentment between two people in contact. Both of you will be greatly hurt, mentally and physically.

Almost everybody has had unrequited love. We love people that hurt us, hurt people that love us. Not every dude is gonna have the chance to kiss the lips of the prettiest girl in town. It is an immutable existentiality of life.

obowunmi:


Huh?

She's smitten be the money. She can't do such. I treat her like shit and she still stayed.

Desperate house wife.

obowunmi:


I don't like, I can't stand, and I don't love the person I'm getting married to.

I've been given the license to cheat and if I get tired, to divorce when I'm tired.

Family pressure? Is your family still feeding you and paying your bills that you have to listen to them? You are not a man that can put his foot down and refuse to marry someone he doesn't like? You want a pity party? Can't deal.

5minsmadness:

Hi dearie,
If I may ask, what part of pluto are you from? Is it anywhere close to the southern part of nigeria?

Very far Nigeria

obowunmi:


I don't like, I can't stand, and I don't love the person I'm getting married to.

I've been given the license to cheat and if I get tired, to divorce when I'm tired.

You mean she gave you the license to cheat

Oh dear, finalllllllllllllllllllllly.

I no want know whether u are depressed or not nor care about that you wanna cheat on your wife even before the marriage proper, my own be say " where's the party at? Where's my IV?"

Cc: Slimyem

obowunmi:


Huh?

She's smitten be the money. She can't do such. I treat her like shit and she still stayed.

Gosh...OMG!!!

What has the society turned our sisters into

5minsmadness:

why are you crying na

Smile chisos lofs you

obowunmi:


I don't like, I can't stand, and I don't love the person I'm getting married to.

I've been given the license to cheat and if I get tired, to divorce when I'm tired.

obowunmi:


I don't like, I can't stand, and I don't love the person I'm getting married to.

I've been given the license to cheat and if I get tired, to divorce when I'm tired.

Congrats o

Clap for yourself.

I hope you guys don't plan to bring any kids into that union.

Has anyone been in a situation like mine?