A 52 year old Nigerian woman has told a touching, sorta scary story of how she dealt with a cheating husband. They have been married for 30 years.

According to this woman, ALL MEN WILL CHEAT! She also narrated how she spent decades of her life unsuccessfully trying to stop him from cheating. The truth this woman shared here will definitely be too hard for so many people to take in.
Please read and share your thoughts....

http://www.lailasblog.com/2015/11/nigerian-woman-married-for-30-years.html

End time wife.

Hmmm

Good

I don't believe every man will cheat... What she posted is educative, but she should take back the statement.


People should stop extrapolating from their situation to judge or predict that of others.


I, for one, know more than three men who have been married for more than 20 years and have never cheated. Never cheated!

She should take back that statement. Not every man is like her husband.

*she said she spent decades of her life.. Is it not a 3 decade marriage? That is a gross exaggeration which was typed to hype things..

Not bad

I am a guy and believe me when I say I won't cheat on my future wifey.

You married one man only and you think you are qualified to tell us what a man will or will not do?this woman has nothing to offer

These kind of women have convinced themselves that every marriage is miserable.

It was her choice to spend 3 decades with a disrespectful man, her husband is not every man, her story is not everybody's story. I understand she is trying to console herself but she doesn't need to malign men to do that

Every man will cheat Really!

alterswerve:
I don't believe every man will cheat... What she posted is educative, but she should take back the statement.


People should stop extrapolating from their situation to judge or predict that of others.


I, for one, know more than three men who have been married for more than 20 years and have never cheated. Never cheated!

She should take back that statement. Not every man is like her husband.

*she said she spent decades of her life.. Is it not a 3 decade marriage? That is a gross exaggeration which was typed to hype things..

@ the bolded, I'm not saying those men have ever cheated but it's funny how you can boldly vouch for them. You think they'd tell you if they've ever cheated?

I don't believe every man will cheat but I believe every man has the potential to cheat. It's inborn, it takes a lot for a man not to cheat in this world we live in.

Bolade005:

@ the bolded, I'm not saying those men have ever cheated but it's funny how you can boldly vouch for them. You think they'd tell you if they've ever cheated?

I don't believe every man will cheat but I believe every man has the potential to cheat. It's inborn, it takes a lot for a man not to cheat in this world we live in.

Shiii... I know wah i'm saying.. I friggin know wah i'm saying bout the emboldened. 'Erryman got potential to cheat' is a different statement from 'every man will cheat'.

I'vr listened to these men talk about their marriages, and when i listen to people, especially in issues like these, i don't just hear words.. I listen. I heard their wives too. These people are not very intelligent so that they can manipulate voice tones and events to make me believe some sick shii...

Meanwhile, it takes a lot for anyone, man, woman, pastor, imam, babalawo, not to cheat.

I still maintain my stand. She should take back that statement.

alterswerve:


Shiii... I know wah i'm saying.. I friggin know wah i'm saying bout the emboldened. 'Erryman got potential to cheat' is a different statement from 'every man will cheat'.

Meanwhile, it takes a lot for anyone, man, woman, pastor, imam, babalawo, not to cheat.

I still maintain my stand. She should take back that statement.

Misery loves company. Instead of owning their bad behaviour people prefer to drag others into their dirt.

Eketem:


Misery loves company. Instead of owning their bad behaviour people prefer to drag others into their dirt.

True. Misery loves company

What the lady posted was educative.. Good.

But telling prospective wives that all men will cheat gives them a faulty psychological mindset and it paints all men promiscuous, which isn't right.

That is what i'm just against. Because these ladies will read it and go into marriage, subconsciously waiting for their spouse to cheat and then for them to practise what they read from that post

If you've read James Allen's As A Man Thinketh, he proves with faultless laws that what a man thinks comes to him

alterswerve:

True. Misery loves company
What the lady posted was educative.. Good.
But telling prospective wives that all men will cheat gives them a faulty psychological mindset and it paints all men promiscuous, which isn't right.
That is what i'm just against. Because these ladies will read it and go into marriage, subconsciously waiting for their spouse to cheat and then for them to practise what they read from that post
If you've read James Allen's As A Man Thinketh, he proves with faultless laws that what a man thinks comes to him

They already go in expecting to be disrespected. Anyway each to their own, this is tiresome jare

alterswerve:
I don't believe every man will cheat... What she posted is educative, but she should take back the statement.


People should stop extrapolating from their situation to judge or predict that of others.


I, for one, know more than three men who have been married for more than 20 years and have never cheated. Never cheated!

She should take back that statement. Not every man is like her husband.

*she said she spent decades of her life.. Is it not a 3 decade marriage? That is a gross exaggeration which was typed to hype things..

byvan03:
You married one man only and you think you are qualified to tell us what a man will or will not do?this woman has nothing to offer

Eketem:
These kind of women have convinced themselves that every marriage is miserable.
It was her choice to spend 3 decades with a disrespectful man, her husband is not every man, her story is not everybody's story. I understand she is trying to console herself but she doesn't need to malign men to do that

Thank you guys/babe for saving me the stress of typing

She didn't "deal" with him.

This thread's title is misleading, @OP. The woman basically let him carry on with his shenanigans and ended up wasting the best part of her life putting up with nonsense. Thirty years later, after losing her looks and business opportunities to make something of her life / build something for her kids, she turns around to say she "dealt" with him? How?

What a joke. It's obvious she's bitter. Who wouldn't be?

Anyway, her advice should come with a serious health warning. 30 years of infidelity and she preaches "let him be". AIDS is real and is no respector of age, class, background, financial status, religion, etc. Anyone who chooses to fold their arms and DO NOTHING should be aware they do it at their own risk.

But then again, becoming a hotbed for a host of STDs and other nasties isn't that much of a deterrent to many people, I suppose...

I grabbed my pearls when I read comments from people who claimed they know people who have never cheated or cheated. Unless you personally was there every step of the way...you don't know if they have or haven't cheated

You can only hope they haven't.

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I stopped reading after "I have been married for 30 years and it has been a struggle.".

I wouldn't take any advice from anyone whose marriage was a struggle. This is not what it is supposed to be, in my opinion.

Mindfulness:
I stopped reading after "I have been married for 30 years and it has been a struggle.".

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cococandy:

Do you finally agree with me without any limitations?

Mindfulness:


Do you finally agree with me without any limitations?

Haha.Yes.

On this issue

cococandy:

Haha.Yes.

On this issue

You look beautiful in your profile pic.

Mindfulness:


You look beautiful in your profile pic.

Thank you.

Blush blush**

Mindfulness:


You look beautiful in your profile pic.

I'm telling you. Cococandy always does. Fine babe. My brother is very lucky.

EfemenaXY:


I'm telling you. Cococandy always does. Fine babe. My brother is very lucky.

Aww guys. Don't make me turn pink

Thank you

EfemenaXY:


I'm telling you. Cococandy always does. Fine babe. My brother is very lucky.

She is what I call classy.

I also love that she is not wearing high heels in this pic.

I don't like this kind of high heels. Too crass. I prefer different ones. Classy, graceful, feminine ones.




I got myself a new pair of shoes today.

let her be consoling herself there.

Mindfulness:


She is what I call classy.

I also love that she is not wearing high heels in this pic.

I don't like this kind of high heels. Too crass. I prefer different ones. Classy, graceful, feminine ones.




I got myself a new pair of shoes today.

OMG!!!

Give her feet a couple of years and you won't recognise them. I don't like those high heels either. It's too much na. But then again, it depends. It'll work well for those in the modelling business or for pole dancers.

Thanks again.

I do like that kind of heels though. just can't walk in them.

Most loubs come in that style anyway.

Got a pair of sexy MKs that caught my eye just the the day and I can't even wear them for now.
All flats for now .

Mindfulness:


She is what I call classy.

I also love that she is not wearing high heels in this pic.

I don't like this kind of high heels. Too crass. I prefer different ones. Classy, graceful, feminine ones.




I got myself a new pair of shoes today.

EfemenaXY:


OMG!!!

Give her feet a couple of years and you won't recognise them. I don't like those high heels either. It's too much na. But then again, it depends. It'll work well for those in the modelling business or for pole dancers.

If they pay me money for wearing these ugly bricks, I will wear them too but I won't damage my spine for free.

I prefer those ones occasionally.

[img]http://ell.h-cdn.co/assets/cm/15/01/980x490/54a752560309b_-_elle-high-heels-h-elh.jpg[/img]

Without the gold and not so high. I love elegance and elegance means simplicity.