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Re: My Father Kept Malice With Me For Four Year For This Reason by Pidggin(f): 6:39am On Mar 20, 2016 |
ireneidiva: I think his dad has gotten over it, rather it's the OP who finds it hard to understand why his father reacted the way he did. |
Re: My Father Kept Malice With Me For Four Year For This Reason by naijathings(m): 7:02am On Mar 20, 2016 |
Pidggin: men like him? can you tell me what type of man the OP is ? do you know his weaknesses? do you know his likes and dislikes ? yeah 5 years was spent. so that means there is a time frame for a human being to make personal assessment and evaluation and make a change in the right direction? I have said much on this issue but it is not for everyone to understand.. so dear, stick to your opinion. free world. 2 Likes |
Re: My Father Kept Malice With Me For Four Year For This Reason by igwegeorgiano(m): 7:43am On Mar 20, 2016 |
flokii:how bro? |
Re: My Father Kept Malice With Me For Four Year For This Reason by igwegeorgiano(m): 7:51am On Mar 20, 2016 |
DickDastardly:sure bro u are on point. |
Re: My Father Kept Malice With Me For Four Year For This Reason by flokii: 8:37am On Mar 20, 2016 |
igwegeorgiano: Dnt mind me.. was only joking from what I read, ur dad wanted a priest, buh you didn't.. now you're okay and happy with the way things are. that's really nice.. most parents do that (tho. some hide theirs) they want to av doctors, lawyers, engineers etc.. just overlook ur dad's actions nothing feels great as choosing ur own career path in life |
Re: My Father Kept Malice With Me For Four Year For This Reason by igwegeorgiano(m): 9:04am On Mar 20, 2016 |
flokii:thanks bro well stated. |
Re: My Father Kept Malice With Me For Four Year For This Reason by Purity01(f): 11:11am On Mar 20, 2016 |
nerilove:he has made his decision dear. At d age of 20 one is expected to be mature to make desired life choices. Op, igwegeorgiano I am glad u opted out after having d knowledge dat ure not cut out to be a priest. if its only cox u cant be celibate and I give u respect for that. Many people tow d line of preisthood to please dier family members to dier own detriment. what if u get in dere and find a lady u like, then u start playing hide and seek game. some even go as much as indulging in homosexuality just to ease of d sexual frustration not cox they enjoy same sex. once again dear frnd, I am glad u made a life for ir self. God wld settle d scores btwn u and dad in no time, amen. |
Re: My Father Kept Malice With Me For Four Year For This Reason by igwegeorgiano(m): 12:13pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
Purity01:thanks bro. everything is good now btw my dad and i. no squabbles at all. 1 Like |
Re: My Father Kept Malice With Me For Four Year For This Reason by nerilove(m): 12:34pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
Purity01:my dear Purity, I'm not against Igwe opting out, what I'm vexed is about he not quiting till after Philosophy of 5yrs. I mean if priesthood is not for you, you better quit immediately than trying to please your parents for those years. |
Re: My Father Kept Malice With Me For Four Year For This Reason by Prettiepearlz(f): 2:45pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
Ezedon:so he should do what he doesn't want to do because he is honoring his father. Do you even know what it takes to be a Catholic priest. So you want him to follow his father's will and then be one of those priests that will be sleeping around with girls, and forgetting their vow? Pls let's stop saying my bible says this, my bible says that. Try and always reason with situation of things first before bringing the bible into it. 1 Like |
Re: My Father Kept Malice With Me For Four Year For This Reason by richyblink1(m): 4:29pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
nerilove: Abeg park well!! You seem like a tyrant that will bully your children into becoming what you want irrespective of their feelings and desires. He has clearly stated that his mind is not there. Do you want him to end up being the type of priest that would be camping women in every 36 states of the country? Ogbeni, try again later. Thank you 1 Like |
Re: My Father Kept Malice With Me For Four Year For This Reason by richyblink1(m): 4:33pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
Pidggin: Becoming is a priest is a calling. Samuel was a son that was conceived on covenant between Hannah and God. It's a different case from the op's. 1 Like |
Re: My Father Kept Malice With Me For Four Year For This Reason by bukatyne(f): 4:46pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
igwegeorgiano: Kenamo! So you left father work because of chopping pussy Abi? Anyways, on your wedding night, bring out your JT and tell your wife to kiss it. After that, tell her to be grateful you followed your heart else her JT would have been locked up in a seminary. To the ladies, may our JTs not be locked up in a seminary and hidden under robes of priesthood..... Isseeeeeeeeeee! On a serious note, what do you want to be? 2 Likes |
Re: My Father Kept Malice With Me For Four Year For This Reason by nerilove(m): 8:00pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
richyblink1:Look at this fool, you can allow your children to be whatever they wanna be, even being an olosho or a cultist in school. You own dey your body. I never said he didn't do well. I supported his move. So Bleep off my mention. 2 Likes |
Re: My Father Kept Malice With Me For Four Year For This Reason by prissyluv(f): 11:43pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
Pidggin: Sorry to quote you,but i don dey fear for your children already. 1 Like |
Re: My Father Kept Malice With Me For Four Year For This Reason by Memejem: 10:40am On Mar 22, 2016 |
Not everyone is created to be a preist. It's good he realized it and left in while he was young. Imagine if he continued and shamed not only himself and his family but the church by his actions. His dad can be disappointed. He has the right to feel that way. But in his wisdom he should recognize that it wasn't a good fit for his son.it doesn't mean that his son is leaving God or the religion. He just has a different position. He knows his weaknesses and strengths. Pidggin: |
Re: My Father Kept Malice With Me For Four Year For This Reason by chigoizie7(m): 11:18am On Mar 22, 2016 |
Pidggin: High hope fire. He doesn't want any high hopes for him. All he wants is to fulfil his selfish interests of answering "papa father", nothing else . How could u call "mortgaging your son's happiness for yours a high hope"? He never cared for what the son wanted b4 pushing him to be a rev father. If he so desires that "rev father status" why didn't he go for it as a youth in his time? I love social sciences, I am also good in pure sciences too, but my love and passion for social sciences no be here. Mum wanted me to study either med lab or medicine, dad wanted me to study accountancy or economics, simply because he is a chartered account. I got sad, not because I couldn't do it, but because they never asked me what I wanted, I went for mums, wrote pume, didn't get d med lab, but I got bch. After 2yrs, I wrote another jamb, and filled statistics. because I got tired of satisfying their selfish gains. Would have gone for economics but it will be fulfilling dad's dreams. I graduated from the dept of statistics unizik 2014. Whenever we talk about admissions and all that for my siblings, I always tell them to their faces. "Thank God I went for statistics and not for med or acc or eco" them go just de look me,knowing that I am taunting them. Today, all my siblings are studying the courses of their choice, no one influenced them, @least not my parents, it is sickening to make people happy @ your own detriments. 1 Like |
Re: My Father Kept Malice With Me For Four Year For This Reason by Teespice(f): 12:42pm On Mar 22, 2016 |
nerilove: walahi, you deserve slap. |
Re: My Father Kept Malice With Me For Four Year For This Reason by nerilove(m): 1:40pm On Mar 22, 2016 |
Teespice:you are very lucky that. I'm in good mood today, I would have given it to you in your own coin. Fucking asshole |
Re: My Father Kept Malice With Me For Four Year For This Reason by Teespice(f): 1:45pm On Mar 22, 2016 |
nerilove: I have sha said what I want to say. with this mindset of yours I am scared for your unborn children. if you like be in a bad mood and rain all the insults you want, it still won't change my perception of what I think of your comment. |
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