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My Dear Sister In Islaam! by AbooMardiy1: 10:07pm On Apr 28, 2016 |
My Dear Sister in Islaam! It is better for you to marry at early stage before you fade out like rotten banana. It will sound horrible when your first child looks at you and calls you grandma. «Abu Mardiy Kewdirôrun At-thaqoofiy» |
Re: My Dear Sister In Islaam! by Sissie(f): 12:31pm On Apr 29, 2016 |
AbooMardiy1: Oh please, the sisters will marry themselves or the men are young forever 1 Like |
Re: My Dear Sister In Islaam! by Newnas(m): 2:31pm On May 01, 2016 |
Sissie: lool... from my experience, I think some sisters get deceived by their young age and the nonstop influx of proposals. So they just keep procrastinating and bouncing proposals. Anyway, I understand that for the women the matter is very complicated and a wrong decision for once is most likely a wrong decision for life. But, Even old men want to marry sweet young girls not women! |
Re: My Dear Sister In Islaam! by Sissie(f): 2:58pm On May 01, 2016 |
Newnas: The post was said in a demeaning way, there is nothing wrong in trying to make a proper decision, and older women are not "unsweet" 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Dear Sister In Islaam! by Newnas(m): 10:46pm On May 01, 2016 |
Sissie: He didn't mean to demean anyone, I'm sure you know. May Allah overlook our errors. As for the sweet and unsweet issue, I didn't say older women are unsweet, although my statement might imply it. But no doubt that a young virgin is far sweeter than others. I'm not talking from experience ooo!!! It's in the hadith, the messenger alyhissolaat wassalaam encouraged men to marry virgins. Jabir b. 'Abdullah (Allah be pleased with them) reported: I married a woman during the lifetime of Allah's Messenger (may peace be. upon him). I met the Apostle of Allah (may peace be upon him), whereupon he said: Jabir, have you married? I said: Yes. He said: A virgin or one previously marrried? I said: With due previously married, whereupon he said: Why did you not marry a virgin with whom you could sport? I said: Allah's Messenger, I have sisters; I was afraid that she might intervene between me and them, whereupon he said: Well and good, if it is so. A woman is married for four reasons, for her religion, her property, her status, her beauty, so you should choose one with religion. May your hands cleave to dust. (Muslim:3458) So from the above hadith we see that a young wife is recommended but some conditions are exceptions to the rule. Personally, I prefer a more mature lady even if she is a little older than me because one of my primary goals in marriage is someone who will give advices when I need to make decisions. And you know that older people are usually wiser and more fore-sighted. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Dear Sister In Islaam! by Nobody: 7:41am On Dec 18, 2016 |
^ lol. |
Re: My Dear Sister In Islaam! by MrOlai: 8:28pm On Dec 18, 2016 |
This really got me laughing... Female medical students taking selfie...
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Re: My Dear Sister In Islaam! by Nobody: 4:19am On Dec 19, 2016 |
Honestly smh May Allah bless all of the sisters working in the medical field, making life easier for the rest of us. 1 Like |
Re: My Dear Sister In Islaam! by Nobody: 6:35am On Dec 19, 2016 |
MrOlai:Lmao |
Re: My Dear Sister In Islaam! by MrOlai: 2:54pm On Dec 19, 2016 |
snapscore: Allahuma Amin. |
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