Am a guy,am inlove with my best friend's sister,she is very beautiful and I really care about her,she feels the same way towards me,and we made our feelings to each other known to ourselves 4years ago,we have shared lots of wonderful moments,but overtime I stopped reaching out to her because I felt that I was betraying my best friend, moreover am very close to the family and they see me more as a son,so it was like I was betraying their trust,but after so long I discovered that my feelings haven't changed, so we got back together (even if I still kept my present gf,which she is aware of) and I opened up to my best friend how I feel, he's really angry and vows that nothing will work out, the parents got a wind and they are not happy, feels like she's my sister cos I myself have lived years with them.... they made us cut communication but it's killing us, she sneaks to see me but stopped cos she's really scared... please what do I do,because this babe and I really clicked,she really understands me... am confused.. please y'al should advise a brother... thanks

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Move on.

Wudnt be great to fall in love with someone u knew for ages? U maybe like a bro to them but If ur not related to each other ,why they gonna opposed? Tell her parents much u love their daughter and about ur best friend, if she's really ur bestie she will surely understand ur feelings unless she has something for u as well..



Lastly, my kweshun is... DO U HAVE PLANS TO SETTLE DOWN WITH THIS GAYL U LOVE?
Coz if u don't have plans, better let her go.

Op,, are you 16?

The best friend is a male ,a guy like me,he is reasoning how will his friend be banging his sister,then settling down is what I wish for but the family issues, lastly the girl doesn't wanna let go, am at a cross road,remember I am holding on to another girl but it's not working

TrapQueen77:
Wudnt be great to fall in love with someone u knew for ages? U maybe like a bro to them but If ur not related to each other ,why they gonna opposed? Tell her parents much u love their daughter and about ur best friend, if she's really ur bestie she will surely understand ur feelings unless she has something for u as well..



Lastly, my kweshun is... DO U HAVE PLANS TO SETTLE DOWN WITH THIS GAYL U LOVE?
Coz if u don't have plans, better let her go.

The guy is 25,but she is 21

ucsparks:
Op,, are you 16?

NkayTiana:
The guy is 25,but she is 21

they should just fvck and get over this love story once and for all

Delicate matter.

But the biggest problem is that you still have a gf. If you didn't, it would be different.
You could have re-assured your friend that you're not at all about banging but ready to marry her. But she's just 21 and presumably still under parents care & control.

Believe me, if you were earning a decent income, she through with her NYSC at least and you propose to her, your friend would be delighted. Her family know your character and would be happy to leave their princess in your care.

Your friend is concerned about you using his sis little to play "five-a-side football" and zoom off with your gf or another girl into the sunset.

OP, are you a male?