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Re: She Got Pregnant At 11 But Today She Is Married And Also A Masters Holder by luminouz(m): 5:35pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
zeb04:No wonder! |
Re: She Got Pregnant At 11 But Today She Is Married And Also A Masters Holder by teamsynergy: 5:39pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
some folks r just too damn narrow minded. just becos a single mom didnt acknowledge her husby, it's now a single mothers thing... some of u av neva even dated a gal older Dan u or a single mom, u r already judging ... everybody is different and for those thinking its a stigma to marry a single mom, think again.. single mom get married and live hapily and if u tink d man deserves an applause, u definitely sexist... u marry out of love and contentment, not out of pity... marrying a single mom is no biggy. . if u can't do it , it doesn't mean others wont... can't stop ma bro from marry one, cos I can do it ma sef..... 4 Likes |
Re: She Got Pregnant At 11 But Today She Is Married And Also A Masters Holder by mamachizzy(f): 5:40pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
moral of the story. FALL DOWN 6 TIMES, STAND UP 7 TIMES.
However, I think she should have appreciated her hubby too 2 Likes |
Re: She Got Pregnant At 11 But Today She Is Married And Also A Masters Holder by Nobody: 5:42pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
Mayflowa: Unfortunately their love resurfaces again and the husband of the lady with the baby daddy of her son had a showdown, where she was working... It was messy that day..pls lemme not go into more details..its complicated |
Re: She Got Pregnant At 11 But Today She Is Married And Also A Masters Holder by Nobody: 5:42pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
Joavid: May have been a young teen ,14 - 16ish , nothing was said about him 1 Like |
Re: She Got Pregnant At 11 But Today She Is Married And Also A Masters Holder by fr3do(m): 5:42pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
dominique: she should have married her son then, nonsensical talk and defense! 2 Likes |
Re: She Got Pregnant At 11 But Today She Is Married And Also A Masters Holder by dominique(f): 5:44pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
Acidosis: Lol, you think I conceded so quick You made her achievement count as nothing just because she did not acknowledge an husband who probably was not present during the heat of her struggles. You indirectly stigmatized her by saying she is lucky that a man married her despite being a single mum All in a bid to make her look bad, you decided to inject her grandma into the equation. I hope you don't have the typical Nigerian male mentality that believes that everything must revolve around them and they're doing women favour by marrying them My take I'm not the judgemental type, once a mistake has been made, don't dwell on it. Learn you lessons and move the hell on. Some girls who got pregnant at a young age turn themselves into victims and make an even bigger mess of their lives. But this one didn't, she picked herself up, improved herself and is raising a young man. To you none of that counts because she did not acknowledge a man. 5 Likes |
Re: She Got Pregnant At 11 But Today She Is Married And Also A Masters Holder by dominique(f): 5:46pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
fr3do: Did she beg her husband to marry her or did she put a gun to his head? Nobody can take a child's place in the heart of a mother. 3 Likes |
Re: She Got Pregnant At 11 But Today She Is Married And Also A Masters Holder by 2mNaira: 5:52pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
TV01: This is.a very good submission. |
Re: She Got Pregnant At 11 But Today She Is Married And Also A Masters Holder by Mayflowa(m): 5:55pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
Amelian: Wow! Please tell me more. I love gist. I actually knew it but just didn't want to be forward. Your friend would become more happy at home. Not of her husband but of the new affection she found again. She will be less concerned of her husband taunts. Of course, the husband will see through it. 1 Like |
Re: She Got Pregnant At 11 But Today She Is Married And Also A Masters Holder by Ugosample(m): 5:55pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
ItsQuinn: Marry her That counts for something, because especially in Nigeria. Are you saying the man does not deserve some acknowledgment? |
Re: She Got Pregnant At 11 But Today She Is Married And Also A Masters Holder by vectoh(m): 5:56pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
ItsQuinn:you are the reason why nigeria is in recession! jus read wat u typed....No No No....does it make sense to you? |
Re: She Got Pregnant At 11 But Today She Is Married And Also A Masters Holder by vectoh(m): 5:59pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
ItsQuinn:Now, who told you she married the guy that got her preggy? |
Re: She Got Pregnant At 11 But Today She Is Married And Also A Masters Holder by Nobody: 5:59pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
Yes it does vectoh: 1 Like |
Re: She Got Pregnant At 11 But Today She Is Married And Also A Masters Holder by Ugosample(m): 5:59pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
teamsynergy: I agree with you 1 Like |
Re: She Got Pregnant At 11 But Today She Is Married And Also A Masters Holder by Nobody: 6:00pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
Ugosample:who marriage epp? |
Re: She Got Pregnant At 11 But Today She Is Married And Also A Masters Holder by Nobody: 6:02pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
And who told you she didn't marry the guy that got her preg? It's not stated on the post tho, if it's not the same guy then I take back all what I said vectoh: 1 Like |
Re: She Got Pregnant At 11 But Today She Is Married And Also A Masters Holder by Mayflowa(m): 6:02pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
TV01: O boy, you should be working for a newsprint media or owning an opinion magazine. See essay! |
Re: She Got Pregnant At 11 But Today She Is Married And Also A Masters Holder by Ajiowe: 6:02pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
Very very determined in her challenges, others would have thought how to go and abort the child. Today she is proud of her child. Glory be to God for her. |
Re: She Got Pregnant At 11 But Today She Is Married And Also A Masters Holder by Acidosis(m): 6:06pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
dominique: You really don't see any wrong in a married woman calling her son her life? Do you know what that means? If you say men should not demand events to revolve around them, why justify her praises to her son? or is the son not a man? If things can revolve around the son, what about the husband? Oh, I forgot the guy is the number 1 person in her life, not the husband (my only and main issue with her post BTW). Marriage is not by force anyways but if you must get married, stick with the ideal rules. 2 Likes |
Re: She Got Pregnant At 11 But Today She Is Married And Also A Masters Holder by aubventure: 6:10pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
ItsQuinn: |
Re: She Got Pregnant At 11 But Today She Is Married And Also A Masters Holder by 2mNaira: 6:11pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
zeb04: For your infornation it is a big deal to marry a single mum.Infact,a very big deal. Nothing can be further from the truth like saying , 'the world has moved on.' because it has not .I wouldn't know about in US,UK and Cabada, but in Nigeria it is a big deal. Besides, I don't think you are qualified to air that opinion. It is the men who has to do the marrying that should tell us if they think it is a big deal or not not a wonan who will never be in their shoes. If you have any single man who did get close to him and ask his opinion. He will tell you it took him a lot of courage. My sister you may not know it, but the man will suffer subtle stigmatization and will be the but of many jokes and unpleasant references that is not to talk of the rejection and persecution he may have suffered from his folks for that his choice. 1 Like |
Re: She Got Pregnant At 11 But Today She Is Married And Also A Masters Holder by GdexFolami(m): 6:11pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
menix:lolz no oh, through her mouth.unexpected Mouth Gig |
Re: She Got Pregnant At 11 But Today She Is Married And Also A Masters Holder by dominique(f): 6:11pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
Acidosis: If her husband and her son are drowning and she can only save one, who do you think she will save? 1 Like |
Re: She Got Pregnant At 11 But Today She Is Married And Also A Masters Holder by flokii: 6:11pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
and so? when did masters or marriage become a yardstick to measure success.. if you like give birth at 8yrs, it's ur own cup of tea. rubbish.. Next! 2 Likes |
Re: She Got Pregnant At 11 But Today She Is Married And Also A Masters Holder by Nobody: 6:13pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
She is strong willed. That boy making face in the pix should be advised to stay off social media especially Nairaland. He might get into unnecessary argument one day and someone with acidosis would tell him that his mama should have closed her legs. Where is the boy's dad btw? I have a feeling this girl was straffed by someone living in the same house with her. |
Re: She Got Pregnant At 11 But Today She Is Married And Also A Masters Holder by TamedWolf90: 6:17pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
dominique: D if our kid is drowning alongside me, who would you save 1 Like |
Re: She Got Pregnant At 11 But Today She Is Married And Also A Masters Holder by GdexFolami(m): 6:17pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
Acidosis:ask ur mom who shes loves d most between u and ur dad.And by the way her son should b her life nah,do u knw hw much she sufferred over the boy.The husband she married might divorce her tommorrow fah. 3 Likes |
Re: She Got Pregnant At 11 But Today She Is Married And Also A Masters Holder by fof1: 6:23pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
[quote author=ChuzzyBlog post=49819198][img]http://1.bp..com/-ng-XqiTpImc/V-9fCs7hNvI/AAAAAAAAC10/DXVftaHS7VsNoVwB8iVZKjD6tDqQf-aMQCLcB/s1600/13522076_1399987613351573_1692072364753228667_n.jpg[/img] Exclusive to Chuzzyblog This is a clear case of determination and self will. We sometimes make mistakes in life but what matters is what we make out from such mistakes. Sometimes we fall, Instead of dusting our bums and move on, we accept defeat. This Lady's story is an inspiration to all. Read below:- [b]My story goes thus, sometime 20 years ago, I was naive and influenced by peer pressure. My dad was and is still a strict disciplinarian,mum on the other hand was a bit soft on us and let us have our way. She practically covered for and took sides with me especially (being her only daughter amongst 3 sons). I got out of hand and starting moving with the wrong set of friends, got pregnant at age 11 (primary 5)and then my whole world crumbled. The harsh reality of life began to unfold as I had to drop out of school, I couldn't sit for my First School Leaving Certificate Examination(FSLC). People in my neighbourhood made mockery of me my dad couldn't bare it, so he sent me out of the house and I had to go to the village to live with my grandma. In order to survive and fend for myself (as grandma isn't working) I had to summon courage and face my own devil, I knew I was the cause of my predicaments and didn't put the blame on my mum or anyone. I started street hawking selling all sorts ranging from tapioca (kpokpo garri), roasted pork meat, roasted maggots, Madiga bread, sachet water etc. Few months later I had my baby,saved some cash (through hawking) which I used to re-enroll for my FSLC, I passed with a "merit". Still in the street hawking business, I saw myself through secondary school, I was determined to show my folks that I truly regretted my actions and is now a serious child. Enrolled for WAEC cleared all my papers likewise my JAMB and then gained admission into the university. When my dad saw how focused I had become, they took my child and I back, sent me off to the university and took care of my baby. To cut the long story short, I'm now a M.ed holder from the University of Lagos State Akoka, a successful teacher and happily married by His grace. My son is currently a 200Level Law student. Strangers thinks he's my younger brother because the age gap between us is so close, and he's growing taller by the day. My son is my life, he's the reason I am where I am today as his presence into this world made me a responsible individual. He's my victory story, he knows what I went through and is determined to make me a proud mum [img]http://3.bp..com/-12Q8KvNvOrE/V-9gRHf9UFI/AAAAAAAAC18/sPmCFXGl0wsGKjc_SHcAStZ9BZ1cyEDrQCLcB/s1600/14224791_1466273653389635_3817349786248929430_n.jpg[/img] #TeamUnion #Unstoppable[/b] SOURCE: Chuzzyblog U ARE INDEED A DANGEROUSLY GOOD ROLE MODEL. GOD IS GOOD TO ALL WHO REALISES THEIR ERRORS AND MERCIFULLY MOVES ON. THAT'S D VERY GOOD EXAMPLE U HV BECOME. LET OUR FIRST SON STAND TALLEST AND MOVE ON TO GREATNESS.NO ONE CAN STAND BEFORE U TO POINT ANY STINKING LITTLE FINGER AT UR PAST.JESUS IS OUR FINAL ABITER. CONGRATULATIONS AND PLS ENJOY UR WELL DESERVED MARRIAGE.GOD BLESS U FOR D STRENGHT AND COURAGE TO SHARE THIS WITH D SOCIETY,SUCH THAT FELLOWS CAN BE ENCOURAGED TO DO RIGHT EVEN FROM THEIR WRONG. LOVE U REAL GOOD. |
Re: She Got Pregnant At 11 But Today She Is Married And Also A Masters Holder by GdexFolami(m): 6:31pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
zeb04:you said 'no big deal',lolz who wan dey Bleep self-contained pusssy,my dear think nah.thats love for u cuz I can't do that. |
Re: She Got Pregnant At 11 But Today She Is Married And Also A Masters Holder by AngelZee: 6:32pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
God bless you and ur son |
Re: She Got Pregnant At 11 But Today She Is Married And Also A Masters Holder by Acidosis(m): 6:37pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
dominique: Only a f00lish woman will save her child, leaving her husband behind. Same husband that can get her pregnant again to make more babies. 2 Likes |
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