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Re: Would You Marry A Man Like Your Dad? See Replies Girls Gave by Nobody: 10:15pm On Jun 03, 2017
genieluv:
Holly Majority of African fathers have failed cos most of them still believed in some archaic cultures of their african fore-fathers like polygamy, male superiority n strict female subserviency n inferiority.

Fathers of this modern age will definitely be better as westernization is becoming more pronounced and modern african men are becoming more monogamous, affectionate n female supportive, respecting women's rights more.
I dont like this ypur comment, not because its not true....based on your opinion which I obviously cant oppose, but my problem is that you settle the score on western culture which you dont belong to.

West belongs to the westerners....africa is yours. I think the peoblem might be that Africans are brought up in a way that denies freedom of expression and a subtle show of appreciation to wife may be denied/seen as weakness. Each region has its culture and norm of doing thing, sticking to that is wise.

Ma'am, mind you, I am not against your opinon but have you noticed what the western culture has turned Africa to. The attire, language use and repect wise? Terrible I say.
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YES YES YES

Awesome dude that one. Infact, I wish my husband to be exaclty like him grin. This young woman I am today was mostly brought up by a man. Hurray to him.

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Re: Would You Marry A Man Like Your Dad? See Replies Girls Gave by Ngokafor(f): 10:16pm On Jun 03, 2017
genieluv:


Daaaa, the most annoying part!
After causing so much problems, heartbreaks n troubles in their young age. They will now repent in their old age, carrying a big bible as if that was the way they always were. lol grin scammers


...lol@'carrying big bible e.t,c'..chai you are harsh. cheesy

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Re: Would You Marry A Man Like Your Dad? See Replies Girls Gave by Mujtahida: 10:17pm On Jun 03, 2017
genieluv:
Holly Majority of African fathers have failed cos most of them still believed in some archaic cultures of their african fore-fathers like polygamy, male superiority n strict female subserviency n inferiority.

Fathers of this modern age will definitely be better as westernization is becoming more pronounced and modern african men are becoming more monogamous, affectionate n female supportive, respecting women's rights more.
Before you hype up Western civilization as the framework for successful relationship just know that with the way Europe and America is going marriage as you know it will be outdated in the next 30-50 years time and you know why? Marriage as an institution has failed over there. Divorce rate is exceedingly high. Most people do not even marry there, they just have partners which they change at will. So don't use Western culture as the template for a good marriage.

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Re: Would You Marry A Man Like Your Dad? See Replies Girls Gave by ALVA001: 10:17pm On Jun 03, 2017
Philpham:
I will not wish him to marry my worst enemy, he was a disgrace and all his kids regretted having him as a father.
This is harsh.
I am very sorry for what you passed through.
Re: Would You Marry A Man Like Your Dad? See Replies Girls Gave by MfonIrocks: 10:18pm On Jun 03, 2017
NEVER!!!

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Re: Would You Marry A Man Like Your Dad? See Replies Girls Gave by Nofuckgiven: 10:21pm On Jun 03, 2017
dominique:


They must find a way to blame the woman, typical!
So it's only the mother that raises the child right? Fathers just sit down, fold their arms and bark orders at everybody. Truth is, most of those men grew up watching their dad treat their mums like dirt. They see it as a normal thing and act same way towards their wives. Also, the type of friends they keep determines their behaviour. Men should set a good example by treating their wives right so their sons can learn from them.
That is exactly what I am saying. We are saying the same thing! The mothers spend more time with these kids when they are young and so have the most impact on them.
Re: Would You Marry A Man Like Your Dad? See Replies Girls Gave by Nofuckgiven: 10:23pm On Jun 03, 2017
cococandy:

Actually men have a role to play in raising their sons too.

As for the question, mine is no
We are both saying the same thing. Mothers spend more time with kids in their formative years and have a higher influence over them while still young.

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Re: Would You Marry A Man Like Your Dad? See Replies Girls Gave by repogirl(f): 10:29pm On Jun 03, 2017
Many women will say no but truth is most will end up marrying someone similar to their fathers. The conditioning is hard to break.

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Re: Would You Marry A Man Like Your Dad? See Replies Girls Gave by EzeUmuokorobia1(m): 10:30pm On Jun 03, 2017
Welcome my friends to "Fatherhood" the most thankless job in the world.

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Re: Would You Marry A Man Like Your Dad? See Replies Girls Gave by Nobody: 10:39pm On Jun 03, 2017
The answer is YES!!!

The responses here are nothing to write home about, I hope this generation of fathers learn from the mistakes of their fathers.

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Re: Would You Marry A Man Like Your Dad? See Replies Girls Gave by airex(m): 10:39pm On Jun 03, 2017
dayo2me:
did u just say people? have i disturbed you, when, how, and what have i said that disturb your heart from regular beating?
My friend keep quiet and go to bed. Even if you're hustling for girls, do it with dignity.
Re: Would You Marry A Man Like Your Dad? See Replies Girls Gave by Nobody: 10:40pm On Jun 03, 2017
IdeyFindWife:
Let's just hope this lot are not confusing 'Dad' with "Sugar-Daddy" grin!

Most Naija chicks' hunger and neediness stem from father-figure failures. Jumping into town crying "give-me, give-me" and the usual "buy-me-pant, buy-me-bra" chorus because old man failed to be the all-weather father xmas and the rest of us boys gotta pay angry?

I can bet most gals are giving their No's mostly based on Dad's inabilities to provide financial family-utopias, shelling out money, spoiling them silly and being totally cool and trendy. But only the sincere few will search really deep and give their No's based on the fact that "the man sucked bigtime"!

This karamel-girl tho...she's the real MVP...she wan taste am for the "other-room" ;Dashawo-alert cheesy!

10/10 analysis.

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Re: Would You Marry A Man Like Your Dad? See Replies Girls Gave by Nobody: 10:43pm On Jun 03, 2017
Euphoria19:
Big NO,and i wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy either

It's that bad huh!!
Re: Would You Marry A Man Like Your Dad? See Replies Girls Gave by Codyt(m): 10:44pm On Jun 03, 2017
jmoore:
Many fathers have failed.

undecided
And.... Still failing... It breaks my heart embarassed

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Re: Would You Marry A Man Like Your Dad? See Replies Girls Gave by Nobody: 10:45pm On Jun 03, 2017
airex:
My friend keep quiet and go to bed. Even if you're hustling for girls, do it with dignity.
hustling for girls? are they money that one will be hustling to get?
and what is not dignifying in wat i av said? i want u to be coherent in ur explanatn pls, dnt just come here to attack me
Re: Would You Marry A Man Like Your Dad? See Replies Girls Gave by TonyeBarcanista(m): 10:45pm On Jun 03, 2017
Berbierklaus:
Only few Nigerians men should not be called daddy but sperm donor.
Some of those saying yes is just because of blood,most men were never there for their kids.

As for me,I would love to marry someone like Tonyebarcanista's dad grin

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Re: Would You Marry A Man Like Your Dad? See Replies Girls Gave by Codyt(m): 10:46pm On Jun 03, 2017
Tahrah:
My dad is too amazing for words.
I wish I could say this about mine.... embarassed
Re: Would You Marry A Man Like Your Dad? See Replies Girls Gave by Mcowubaba: 10:51pm On Jun 03, 2017
ugybabe2020:
he never believe in girl education, my dad never train his girls, he abandoned us the girls
Chai cry cry we can see the evidence in your English composition.

Don't worry, you'll meet and marry a better man.
Re: Would You Marry A Man Like Your Dad? See Replies Girls Gave by babasolution: 11:03pm On Jun 03, 2017
genieluv:
Most of our African fathers were brought up to believe that real men are supposed to be Alpha- males.

Traits of alpha males - Polygamous, unnafectionate, unemotional, brutal, assertive and low esteem/discrimination of females!

These are the reasons majority of we young african women of today will not wish for our fathers' kinds. We are more westernized smiley


women just believe westernization is a good thing,you people dont know its otherside,you just see the surface,wonen are so myopic
Re: Would You Marry A Man Like Your Dad? See Replies Girls Gave by AlwaysUltraPad: 11:04pm On Jun 03, 2017
midehi2:
YES: because my dad is so caring and protective, No: because he was fvcking other cute asses, but he has changed now, old age grin
indomie shidren sef
Re: Would You Marry A Man Like Your Dad? See Replies Girls Gave by missyadorable(f): 11:07pm On Jun 03, 2017
Mujtahida:

You are really impassioned about this. How was he? Free your Dad and free yourself. Since you hate him so much if you don't free him you might recreate him in your man. Just saying. I wish you all the best in your relationship


He was and is still a demon
I have long freed him,of what use is he to me now that I am married,changed my surname and don't need his money?
God will punish him and he will live a lonely wretched life and die a loser

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Re: Would You Marry A Man Like Your Dad? See Replies Girls Gave by Mujtahida: 11:11pm On Jun 03, 2017
missyadorable:



He was and is still a demon
I have long freed him,of what use is he to me now that I am married,changed my surname and don't need his money?
God will punish him and he will live a lonely wretched life and die a loser
Sorry. Thank God you are married. Peace and Cheers.

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Re: Would You Marry A Man Like Your Dad? See Replies Girls Gave by Flakosixfive(m): 11:12pm On Jun 03, 2017
Y'all can see how thankless the task of raising female children is. After all the trouble you take to give them a swell upbringing, what do you get in return? Nothing. Nothing at all!

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Re: Would You Marry A Man Like Your Dad? See Replies Girls Gave by Mujtahida: 11:13pm On Jun 03, 2017
babasolution:



women just believe westernization is a good thing,you people dont know its otherside,you just see the surface,wonen are so myopic
Marriage has crumbled in the Western world. Whites don't marry.

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Re: Would You Marry A Man Like Your Dad? See Replies Girls Gave by Shiitposter: 11:13pm On Jun 03, 2017
genieluv:
Most of our African fathers were brought up to believe that real men are supposed to be Alpha- males.

Traits of alpha males - Polygamous, unnafectionate, unemotional, brutal, assertive and low esteem/discrimination of females!

These are the reasons majority of we young african women of today will not wish for our fathers' kinds. We are more westernized smiley

The definition of alpha males defer a lot, and African's definition is just too extreme.

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Re: Would You Marry A Man Like Your Dad? See Replies Girls Gave by AlwaysUltraPad: 11:16pm On Jun 03, 2017
Philpham:
I will not wish him to marry my worst enemy, he was a disgrace and all his kids regretted having him as a father.
I feel your pain. I won't judge you. You must have gone through hell in his hand. He's still your father; your father and you should forgive him.


Don't be held down by this anger.

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Re: Would You Marry A Man Like Your Dad? See Replies Girls Gave by nkemdi89(f): 11:16pm On Jun 03, 2017
jmoore:
Many fathers have failed.

undecided
I slightly disagree with you on these, I believe instead that mothers has failed, most women tend to play the victim cards, even when there is problems between couples, the children should never be involved. When the two of them started the relationship the children were not there, so when issue arises couples should stop placing their children in between especially mothers. Growing up I remember when my parents had little misunderstanding we always want to take sides with mum, but she always remind us not to and assure us that our father isn't a bad man and he is best person for her. Today now we are grown ups and they are the only one at home living together like newly wedded couples. Some people condemning their father has received more humiliation from their boyfriends than what their mother experienced in marriage, yet they stay put to the relationship hoping it will lead to marriage.

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Re: Would You Marry A Man Like Your Dad? See Replies Girls Gave by gracevile: 11:20pm On Jun 03, 2017
amani337 :
Good day nairalanders,
I am a 100l student in need of financial assistance. Few days ago my dad sent me money telling me he's done with me for the semester and he's dealing with the needs of my 3 other siblings in different university. On getting to the ATM I decided to withdraw all the money because if I withdraw for the 3rd time using that ATM #65 will be deducted from my account. From the ATM I went straight to the market to buy foodstuffs and about paying for the goods I bought I couldn't find my money,i don't know how I lost it(maybe inside the tight keke I boarded or it fell down when I was paying the keke driver or I was picked pocket I just can't remember).i had to trek back home and called my dad and narrated what happened to him, he didn't believe me thinking i was trying to scam him and he has stopped receiving my call. My Exams starts 2weeks time and unable to concentrate due to hunger And thinking of how I am going to survive in the next 1 month when I we be through with my exams.
I will be very grateful if you can help me with a little to go through my exams, thanks.
Here is my account details,
First bank:3077401091
Acc name:millionaire exsco.
lies from the pit of hell e no go better for u
Re: Would You Marry A Man Like Your Dad? See Replies Girls Gave by Nobody: 11:29pm On Jun 03, 2017
missyadorable:



He was and is still a demon
I have long freed him,of what use is he to me now that I am married,changed my surname and don't need his money?
God will punish him and he will live a lonely wretched life and die a loser

Take it easy, ma'am. smiley

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Re: Would You Marry A Man Like Your Dad? See Replies Girls Gave by Nobody: 11:34pm On Jun 03, 2017
Codyt:
I wish I could say this about mine.... embarassed
What happened?
Re: Would You Marry A Man Like Your Dad? See Replies Girls Gave by genieluv(f): 11:35pm On Jun 03, 2017
ALVA001:

Really! you mean the ones killing their wives.

Re: Would You Marry A Man Like Your Dad? See Replies Girls Gave by Codyt(m): 11:35pm On Jun 03, 2017
Tahrah:

What happened?
He's so not doing right..... *covers face*

grin grin grin

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