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| My Mother In-Law Checks My Phone, How Do I Stop Her? by kekakuz(m): 9:39am On Jun 27, 2017 |
Having a cool mother in-laws is something most people would like but its turning to something else for me. When ever she is around, she picks my phone and immediately enters my WhatsApp messages.at first I felt she make a mistake but last night makes it the 5th time it's happening. yesterday, I slept off in the living room and by the time I woke around 12am, I discovered my phone was not by my side. I searched for it everywhere and when I still could not find it, I proceeded to my wife's room to pick my wife's phone and call my line, to my amazement, I saw my mother in-laws on my phone. I was angry at first but I had to control myself i collected the phone and I discovered she was in my email and Facebook messaged and she even knows my unlock pattern. am tired of this but I don't want to disrespect her. how do I deal with this. 15 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: My Mother In-Law Checks My Phone, How Do I Stop Her? by whodeyhere: 9:41am On Jun 27, 2017 |
Nna men!!!! Password the phone na 237 Likes 5 Shares |
| Re: My Mother In-Law Checks My Phone, How Do I Stop Her? by dingbang(m): 9:43am On Jun 27, 2017 |
Mr Husband you are making me laugh ... First your MIL enters your bedroom when you both are sleeping ... Don't u lock the door? Second she knows your lock pattern... Are you telling us now that you dont know how to change it? 290 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: My Mother In-Law Checks My Phone, How Do I Stop Her? by johnsmitthen: 12:29pm On Jun 27, 2017 |
Better if you can change the lock pattern. She would really feel ashamed to ask you about pattern and would definitely stop doing such type of things. 15 Likes |
| Re: My Mother In-Law Checks My Phone, How Do I Stop Her? by byvan03: 12:33pm On Jun 27, 2017 |
She is disrespectful, tell her not to touch your phone again or tell her daughter to warn her! 33 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: My Mother In-Law Checks My Phone, How Do I Stop Her? by sisisioge: 12:55pm On Jun 27, 2017 |
Tell her not to touch your phone again, then password it! In fact, stop smiling too much with her. Which kinda iranu be that? Luuubish! 48 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: My Mother In-Law Checks My Phone, How Do I Stop Her? by angiemartinez(f): 12:58pm On Jun 27, 2017 |
This one weak me o 14 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: My Mother In-Law Checks My Phone, How Do I Stop Her? by NoToPile: 1:19pm On Jun 27, 2017 |
Some people just don't understand what boundaries mean you just got to tell them directly. 16 Likes |
| Re: My Mother In-Law Checks My Phone, How Do I Stop Her? by fluxbush(f): 1:27pm On Jun 27, 2017 |
Tell your wife to warn her mum. If the situation doesn't change, change am for mama. Warn her to stay off your stuff. If she tries to emotionally blackmail you with age or what not( as is typical with Nigerian elders ), threaten to report her to her husband or any elderly male figure in the family. Shikena 17 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: My Mother In-Law Checks My Phone, How Do I Stop Her? by eyinjuege: 1:47pm On Jun 27, 2017 |
Change your pattern. Then inform your wife you're not happy with her mother not respecting your privacy. Ask her to politely discourage her mum from touching your phone. It's actually very rude and disrespectful. 27 Likes |
| Re: My Mother In-Law Checks My Phone, How Do I Stop Her? by jieta: 1:59pm On Jun 27, 2017 |
kekakuz:she just want to know if her daughter is safe with you 8 Likes |
| Re: My Mother In-Law Checks My Phone, How Do I Stop Her? by joyAA(f): 2:19pm On Jun 27, 2017 |
Na wa! That's very poor of her. Just avoid keeping it within her reach, change the lock pattern, jokingly ask her to pick either using your phone or buying her a new phone... just to pull her legs BTW, doesn't she have hers ? Or isn't it internet enabled? Anyho, just let her no you don't like it in a friendly but stern manner, she'll get the message  All the best 7 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: My Mother In-Law Checks My Phone, How Do I Stop Her? by Ishilove: 3:28pm On Jun 27, 2017 |
Jokingly tell her to back the fvck off your stuff  Seriously, change your unlock pattern and password it with advanced security and then tell your wife to tell her mum to...back the fvck off!  1 Like |
| Re: My Mother In-Law Checks My Phone, How Do I Stop Her? by Jahblessme: 5:45pm On Jun 27, 2017 |
I hope this is a joke. How old are you? Two? Collect the phone and politely tell her to never touch your phone without permission. Then tell your wife to sing it like song for her Haaaa   8 Likes |
| Re: My Mother In-Law Checks My Phone, How Do I Stop Her? by Nobody: 5:52pm On Jun 27, 2017 |
Whatever gave your MIL the courage to pick your phone at night and at will, needs to be addressed. It's more shocking than the act of taking your phone. If you tell her to leave your phone without addressing the underlying see finish _she might take your boxers next. Lock your phone and firmly tell her not to take it again, or you can let your wife do it. That's some new school MIL though, my MIL can't even get past the home-screen of mine if she tries. 24 Likes |
| Re: My Mother In-Law Checks My Phone, How Do I Stop Her? by Young03(m): 7:15pm On Jun 27, 2017 |
As u make ur bed, so u with lay on it Na u be ur own problem 8 Likes |
| Re: My Mother In-Law Checks My Phone, How Do I Stop Her? by Nobody: 7:45pm On Jun 27, 2017 |
If you have a nice collection of erotic porn on your phone it could be the main reason she is sneaking through your phone all the time. My mother in law does the same to me too. 13 Likes |
| Re: My Mother In-Law Checks My Phone, How Do I Stop Her? by EZEIGBO1OFIMO: 7:57pm On Jun 27, 2017 |
LastMumu: ... mumu21 Likes |
| Re: My Mother In-Law Checks My Phone, How Do I Stop Her? by poshestmina(f): 8:07pm On Jun 27, 2017 |
I don't think there's anything I hate more than someone checking my phone  . Use a very loooooong password nobody can guess. What nonsense! 3 Likes |
| Re: My Mother In-Law Checks My Phone, How Do I Stop Her? by Allwility: 9:20pm On Jun 27, 2017 |
Haba that's not much of a problem na. Change the password but dont say anything to her and when next she tries to unlock your phone, just give her this look. 102 Likes 2 Shares
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| Re: My Mother In-Law Checks My Phone, How Do I Stop Her? by badaoyeyemi(f): 9:47pm On Jun 27, 2017 |
LastMumu:see As I Dey Look You...Re U Married 1 Like |
| Re: My Mother In-Law Checks My Phone, How Do I Stop Her? by dangotesmummy: 9:49pm On Jun 27, 2017 |
Keep your phone where she won't have access to it 1 Like |
| Re: My Mother In-Law Checks My Phone, How Do I Stop Her? by Nobody: 10:48pm On Jun 27, 2017 |
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| Re: My Mother In-Law Checks My Phone, How Do I Stop Her? by tuscani: 11:23pm On Jun 27, 2017 |
I was angry initially when reading, I thought you were a female, but when I discovered that it was even your wife's mother, I just realised that you are such a fool. THE FAULT OH BRUTUS, IS NOT IN OUR STARS FOR IT IS IN US BECAUSE WE ARE WEAKLING 17 Likes |
| Re: My Mother In-Law Checks My Phone, How Do I Stop Her? by tuscani: 11:25pm On Jun 27, 2017 |
jieta:You are such a fool. It is people that cheats that are most suspicious. She must have cheated on her own husband, mtchew 3 Likes |
| Re: My Mother In-Law Checks My Phone, How Do I Stop Her? by tuscani: 11:27pm On Jun 27, 2017 |
| Re: My Mother In-Law Checks My Phone, How Do I Stop Her? by Nobody: 11:50pm On Jun 27, 2017 |
tuscani: Oshey Tilapia, awon it Shakespeare. Julio Ceasar beware.  34 Likes 1 Share
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| Re: My Mother In-Law Checks My Phone, How Do I Stop Her? by kekakuz(m): 1:16am On Jun 28, 2017 |
tuscani:why u dey vex |
| Re: My Mother In-Law Checks My Phone, How Do I Stop Her? by cococandy(f): 5:17am On Jun 28, 2017 |
Her attitude is so disrespectful. Tell her point blank to stop it. You don't want to be afraid of disrespecting her when she's already disrespecting you. Also talk to your wife about it. This is wrong on many levels. It needs to stop! If you have to reduce the smiling and familiarity to get it to stop, so be it. 9 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: My Mother In-Law Checks My Phone, How Do I Stop Her? by cococandy(f): 5:19am On Jun 28, 2017 |
tuscani:Yea. Because it would be somehow better if the OP was a female.  5 Likes |
| Re: My Mother In-Law Checks My Phone, How Do I Stop Her? by Nobody: 6:30am On Jun 28, 2017 |
dingbang: The story weak me. The op must be high on expired viju milk. 2 Likes 1 Share |
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