It's just too obvious that this is LIE.

A man is his house... imagine nonsense


Bros u weak me o. Push that disrespectful bìtch out of your house

What rubbish is that

double0seven:
It's just too obvious that this is LIE.

Bros forget o. People dey see all manner of rubbish in the name of marriage

kekakuz:
Having a cool mother in-laws is something most people would like but its turning to something else for me.
When ever she is around, she picks my phone and immediately enters my WhatsApp messages.at first I felt she make a mistake but last night makes it the 5th time it's happening.

yesterday, I slept off in the living room and by the time I woke around 12am, I discovered my phone was not by my side. I searched for it everywhere and when I still could not find it, I proceeded to my wife's room to pick my wife's phone and call my line, to my amazement, I saw my mother in-laws on my phone.

I was angry at first but I had to control myself i collected the phone and I discovered she was in my email and Facebook messaged and she even knows my unlock pattern.

am tired of this but I don't want to disrespect her. how do I deal with this.

if a hear...

How did she get close to your phone?
How close are you to her?
Is she a slay queen?
Does she has crush for you?
What has been her daughters reaction?
So many questions to answer if this is not big fat lie.

Hope you are not sleeping with her?

If you are not, tell her straight to let your phone be and possible change the password

Be careful, you this boy!

PaperLace:
Whatever gave your MIL the courage to pick your phone at night and at will, needs to be addressed. It's more shocking that the act of taking your phone. If you tell her to leave your phone without addressing the underlying see finish _she might take your boxers next.

Lock your phone and firmly tell her not to take it again, or you can let your wife do it. That's some new school MIL though, my MIL can't even get past the home-screen of mine if she tries.

You again? Are you sure you're telling the truth? I smell lies everywhere

Alot of marriage counselors roaming around Nairaland these days.... Na waa

vertueptime:
Send her packing or rather open the door when shes in the bathroom

SMH......CAN YOU DO THAT TO YOUR MUM?

Buy any of these phones with finger print scanner or betterstill change your password.simple!!

Sorry ohh, I just want to ask... is ur mother in law a slay queen?

I'd advice you to use a password instead of an unlock pattern. If the situation remains the same, talk to your wife about it

kekakuz:
Having a cool mother in-laws is something most people would like but its turning to something else for me.
When ever she is around, she picks my phone and immediately enters my WhatsApp messages.at first I felt she make a mistake but last night makes it the 5th time it's happening.

yesterday, I slept off in the living room and by the time I woke around 12am, I discovered my phone was not by my side. I searched for it everywhere and when I still could not find it, I proceeded to my wife's room to pick my wife's phone and call my line, to my amazement, I saw my mother in-laws on my phone.

I was angry at first but I had to control myself i collected the phone and I discovered she was in my email and Facebook messaged and she even knows my unlock pattern.

am tired of this but I don't want to disrespect her. how do I deal with this.

kekakuz:
Having a cool mother in-laws is something most people would like but its turning to something else for me.
When ever she is around, she picks my phone and immediately enters my WhatsApp messages.at first I felt she make a mistake but last night makes it the 5th time it's happening.

yesterday, I slept off in the living room and by the time I woke around 12am, I discovered my phone was not by my side. I searched for it everywhere and when I still could not find it, I proceeded to my wife's room to pick my wife's phone and call my line, to my amazement, I saw my mother in-laws on my phone.

I was angry at first but I had to control myself i collected the phone and I discovered she was in my email and Facebook messaged and she even knows my unlock pattern.

am tired of this but I don't want to disrespect her. how do I deal with this.

You are funny bro. You dont have to confront her. Just change your pattern lock; its that simple. I wonder why you are stressing over it when you have a simple solution

I guess they paid the house rent, you work in their family company.. Cos dat wat men dat gold dig go tro

kekakuz:
Having a cool mother in-laws is something most people would like but its turning to something else for me.
When ever she is around, she picks my phone and immediately enters my WhatsApp messages.at first I felt she make a mistake but last night makes it the 5th time it's happening.

yesterday, I slept off in the living room and by the time I woke around 12am, I discovered my phone was not by my side. I searched for it everywhere and when I still could not find it, I proceeded to my wife's room to pick my wife's phone and call my line, to my amazement, I saw my mother in-laws on my phone.

I was angry at first but I had to control myself i collected the phone and I discovered she was in my email and Facebook messaged and she even knows my unlock pattern.

am tired of this but I don't want to disrespect her. how do I deal with this.

Tell her to stop snooping in your privacy. You also need to password protect your phone. Your wife supports what her mother does, then don't give her the password.

In marriage, you and your wife need to have each other's passwords in order to excercise transperancy. But in this case, it will be prudent to not give her your phone's password only IF she's supports her mother.

poshestmina:
I don't think there's anything I hate more than someone checking my phone . Use a very loooooong password nobody can guess.


What nonsense!

but the reverse is the case with me here ma,I have nothin to really hide using my phone, no , nothing special, na only one person dey give me sleepless whatsapp sms, but those have stopped now, so anyone can access my phone at any time of d day, my mind is so clean on that .Use to keep some Indecency movie way back and that kept me on my toes and heart attack whenever any one tries plucking up my phone!!my heart jumps !, so i had to stop that nonsense and get straight. God go help us with this phone secreices all over the world .

kekakuz:
Having a cool mother in-laws is something most people would like but its turning to something else for me.
When ever she is around, she picks my phone and immediately enters my WhatsApp messages.at first I felt she make a mistake but last night makes it the 5th time it's happening.

yesterday, I slept off in the living room and by the time I woke around 12am, I discovered my phone was not by my side. I searched for it everywhere and when I still could not find it, I proceeded to my wife's room to pick my wife's phone and call my line, to my amazement, I saw my mother in-laws on my phone.

I was angry at first but I had to control myself i collected the phone and I discovered she was in my email and Facebook messaged and she even knows my unlock pattern.

am tired of this but I don't want to disrespect her. how do I deal with this.

believe me. u r a disgrace to manhood

Kachi buro ubanta kwai shikenan nothing less nothing more

Don't tell directly, tell ur wife in a romance way to tell her mom to stop checking ur fone cos if u do it, Dia will be disaster.

dingbang:
Mr Husband you are making me laugh ...


First your MIL enters your bedroom when you both are sleeping ... Don't u lock the door?


Second she knows your lock pattern... Are you telling us now that you dont know how to change it?

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i weak o

I'm not married yet but I feel you should discuss this with your spouse,she only will know how to get the message across to her without any feud.

kekakuz:
Having a cool mother in-laws is something most people would like but its turning to something else for me.
When ever she is around, she picks my phone and immediately enters my WhatsApp messages.at first I felt she make a mistake but last night makes it the 5th time it's happening.

yesterday, I slept off in the living room and by the time I woke around 12am, I discovered my phone was not by my side. I searched for it everywhere and when I still could not find it, I proceeded to my wife's room to pick my wife's phone and call my line, to my amazement, I saw my mother in-laws on my phone.

I was angry at first but I had to control myself i collected the phone and I discovered she was in my email and Facebook messaged and she even knows my unlock pattern.

am tired of this but I don't want to disrespect her. how do I deal with this.

Easy to say my brother,but I'm sure the guy never reach him boiling point yet,not even the spouse dey check him fone nah MIL shooo the mama nah CSI nii

sisisioge:
Tell her not to touch your phone again, then password it! In fact, stop smiling too much with her. Which kinda iranu be that? Luuubish!

gidjah:
but the reverse is the case with me here ma,I have nothin to really hide using my phone, no , nothing special, na only one person dey give me sleepless whatsapp sms, but those have stopped now, so anyone can access my phone at any time of d day, my mind is so clean on that .Use to keep some Indecency movie way back and that kept me on my toes and heart attack whenever any one tries plucking up my phone!!my heart jumps !, so i had to stop that nonsense and get straight. God go help us with this phone secreices all over the world .

It's shouldn't be about wats on d phone, ur mobile phone is ur personal belonging and if anyone nd I mean anyone wants to use it, the person needs ur permission first, regardless of wats in it.

na wah o!

tuscani:
I was angry initially when reading, I thought you were a female, but when I discovered that it was even your wife's mother, I just realised that you are such a fool. THE FAULT OH BRUTUS, IS NOT IN OUR STARS FOR IT IS IN US BECAUSE WE ARE WEAKLING

bros the guy just weak me. These are d ones falling men hand since garden of eden

Marshalxv:
I don't want to be disrespectful but sir you're write up is tempting me,you're the man of the house and yet you're relegating yourself to a third class member of your own house.what right does your mother inlaw have to walk into your matrimonial room without knocking? it pains me whenever I see this kind of post here ,I wonder why some men can't man up and act like a supposed man for once. ur asking for opinion when you can easily warn the old lady to mind her territory and stay off your shit,maybe next time she'll walk in while you're making out with your wife and slap you then you'll still come here and ask us what to do.Still no disrespect sir!

maybe the mother in law is the bread winner of the family. That is d only logical reason y things like this cud happen

some stories seem somehow to my reasoning.

enemyofprogress:
big plantain is all I have

lolzzzz

enemyofprogress:
big plantain is all I have

lolzzzz or cassava tuber .

kekakuz:
Having a cool mother in-laws is something most people would like but its turning to something else for me.
When ever she is around, she picks my phone and immediately enters my WhatsApp messages.at first I felt she make a mistake but last night makes it the 5th time it's happening.

yesterday, I slept off in the living room and by the time I woke around 12am, I discovered my phone was not by my side. I searched for it everywhere and when I still could not find it, I proceeded to my wife's room to pick my wife's phone and call my line, to my amazement, I saw my mother in-laws on my phone.

I was angry at first but I had to control myself i collected the phone and I discovered she was in my email and Facebook messaged and she even knows my unlock pattern.

am tired of this but I don't want to disrespect her. how do I deal with this.

firstly I find it very difficult to believe a man will bring it family matter to nairaland where jammbite and people dat don't give a f**k about marriage reside (Visit romance section you would know)
Secondly before u matched to the alter with ur wife, u passed through marriage counseling for siuation like dis and how to handle them, because marriage is not an easy school.
Lastly wat your mother in law is doing is very wrong in all facet of life but her protective skills has cloud her judgment which u won't blame her for, what makes you the man of the house is the ability to provide, makes crucial decision like dis aand still keep the family in one piece. My dear knowing the reason why you MIL is checking ur phone gives you a clear part on hw to solve d issue, if you follow all does nairalander dat have no clue on marriage dey will not only spoil ur marriage but the good relationship u have with u MIL .
Finally jokingly and and playfully start a serious conversation with her by hailing her of her CIA skills like "Mama so you are still protecting (wiffe name) after you have given her to me. Then she will ask why u said so, den tell her u have notice her scanning through you phone always (which she would understand immediately. Then assures her she has notin to fear and that u are for ur wife alone. Make I sttop here u know d rest. Handle the issue like dis and watch her love and ur wife increases for u. Tank me later.

fluxbush:
Tell your wife to warn her mum. If the situation doesn't change, change am for mama. Warn her to stay off your stuff. If she tries to emotionally blackmail you with age or what not( as is typical with Nigerian elders ), threaten to report her to her husband or any elderly male figure in the family. Shikena

A bold woman u are

Are you fucking your mother inlaw