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4 Things You Say At Work That Can Ruin Your Career by Opinionated: 3:27pm On Jul 11, 2017
Here are things we say casually at work without even realizing how damaging they can be to our career. As a result, we must be careful with the things we say at work. Jumia Travel, the leading online travel agency, shares 4 things you say at work that can ruin your career.

Sorry I’m Late – Again

Frequent lateness to work paints you as disrespectful and unable to value time; frequently apologizing for this lateness just makes it worse by additionally painting you as irresponsible. If you were truly serious sorry for your lateness, you would do what it takes to come early regardless of the excuse. You should try to do whatever it takes to be punctual, because the moment frequent lateness is associated with you, it can kill your work reputation in the long run.

That’s Impossible


No manager or employer wants to get the feedback of negativity, lack of conviction and inability to deliver on responsibilities from employees, therefore, rather than saying that what is being asked of you is impossible, simply state your concerns as clearly as possible and ask your manager for some input and help on the matter. You need to choose your words carefully when challenged at work in order to thrive in your career, and try as much as you can to ensure your comments reflect a positive, can-do and confident demeanor. If what the management is asking really can’t be done, let them see it themselves, but let it not be for lack of trying on your part.

I Can Handle This (When You Can’t)

In a work environment, it pays to under-commit and over-deliver, rather than over-commit and under-deliver. The latter just makes you look incompetent and earns you a bad work reputation that can ruin your career. You might think that you should never be negative and say you can’t do a certain task that has been assigned to you, but it pays to be realistic and honest about what you can do. You need to be careful about is how you communicate what you can’t do to your manager, and rather than saying you can handle something that you know you can’t, let your manager know your reservations and assure him that you will give it your best shot. If you find along the way that you just can’t pull it off, you can ask your colleagues for help or go back to your manager and explain the difficulties you encountered along the way that you can’t seem to get through. This will make you look less incompetent.

Don’t Tell Oga I Said This But…

Remember the saying, ‘the walls have ears’, you’ll be surprised at how true this is, especially in the workplace. Sometimes it’s better to keep your mouth shut on certain issues and if you must say it, say it to friends or family, not co-workers. Resist the urge to say anything that could devastate your career if it gets back to your boss, because even the best kept secrets have a way of getting out.

source: http://www.opinions.ng/4-things-say-work-can-ruin-career/

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Re: 4 Things You Say At Work That Can Ruin Your Career by Nobody: 4:13pm On Jul 11, 2017
Okay...depends on your working environment.

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Re: 4 Things You Say At Work That Can Ruin Your Career by Pearly255(f): 4:13pm On Jul 11, 2017
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Re: 4 Things You Say At Work That Can Ruin Your Career by Chuukwudi(m): 4:14pm On Jul 11, 2017
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Re: 4 Things You Say At Work That Can Ruin Your Career by veekid(m): 4:14pm On Jul 11, 2017
Not in Nigeria, another oyinbo thread

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Re: 4 Things You Say At Work That Can Ruin Your Career by mexygirls(f): 4:14pm On Jul 11, 2017
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Re: 4 Things You Say At Work That Can Ruin Your Career by Horlaarsco: 4:14pm On Jul 11, 2017
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Re: 4 Things You Say At Work That Can Ruin Your Career by DICKtator: 4:14pm On Jul 11, 2017
F you!!

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Re: 4 Things You Say At Work That Can Ruin Your Career by Kizyte(m): 4:15pm On Jul 11, 2017
Yeah, also be careful what you write on your VC I mean CV. My chat with my boss below. grin

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Re: 4 Things You Say At Work That Can Ruin Your Career by Nobody: 4:15pm On Jul 11, 2017
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Re: 4 Things You Say At Work That Can Ruin Your Career by Remzie(m): 4:15pm On Jul 11, 2017
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Re: 4 Things You Say At Work That Can Ruin Your Career by Kizyte(m): 4:15pm On Jul 11, 2017
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Re: 4 Things You Say At Work That Can Ruin Your Career by coolcacuz: 4:16pm On Jul 11, 2017
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Re: 4 Things You Say At Work That Can Ruin Your Career by SIRKAY98(m): 4:17pm On Jul 11, 2017
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Re: 4 Things You Say At Work That Can Ruin Your Career by ANNOY(m): 4:17pm On Jul 11, 2017
OP u are not a liar.
Re: 4 Things You Say At Work That Can Ruin Your Career by Iamabimbola(m): 4:18pm On Jul 11, 2017
Wow op, this is so true, remembered when a manager at work was fired cos he said he cld deliver a job, i still feel bad for him till today, only if he kept is mouth shut at the meeting, he just got the job so he was over zealous, accepting every offer, didn't know that was a trap for him! He didn't even last up to 6 months in the job.

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Re: 4 Things You Say At Work That Can Ruin Your Career by Ekakamba: 4:20pm On Jul 11, 2017
ANNOY:
OP u are not a liar.


How did you know? Have you tried the above and got fired?
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Re: 4 Things You Say At Work That Can Ruin Your Career by jaymejate: 4:23pm On Jul 11, 2017
what about "f**k you" or saying the current president is good.
Re: 4 Things You Say At Work That Can Ruin Your Career by AngelicDamsel(f): 4:24pm On Jul 11, 2017
..................... The most risky...........



I Can Handle This (When You Can’t)


When a demonic possessed person is brought to church and you tell the G.O, that you can handle it as a newly ordained pastor.

After deliverance session the demon beat the hell out of you.
Then the G.O says this demon can only be cast out by fasting and prayer........

You be like, but sir you didn't inform me before.

The G.O be like , haven't you read when Jesus told his disciples that some cases require fasting and prayer........
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Re: 4 Things You Say At Work That Can Ruin Your Career by abumeinben(m): 4:25pm On Jul 11, 2017
Telling your line manager: Oga I need your advice. I want to do MBA (distinction) to add to my 1st class so that I can seek higher promotion.
What's your advice sir?

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Re: 4 Things You Say At Work That Can Ruin Your Career by matbella(m): 4:26pm On Jul 11, 2017
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Re: 4 Things You Say At Work That Can Ruin Your Career by EDDGgold: 4:28pm On Jul 11, 2017
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Re: 4 Things You Say At Work That Can Ruin Your Career by mrwonlasewonie: 4:35pm On Jul 11, 2017
Gossiping at work

Office relationships/quickies and all those loose careless relationships

Syphoning company money.no matter how smart you are in a matter of time you'll be caught especially if there's disagreement between you and the people who cooperated to divert the money

Dating ihas daughter

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Re: 4 Things You Say At Work That Can Ruin Your Career by Guyman02: 4:35pm On Jul 11, 2017
abumeinben:
Telling your line manager: Oga I need your advice. I want to do MBA (distinction) to add to my 1st class so that I can seek higher promotion.
What's your advice sir?

The moment I told my Manager that I wanted to do an academic programme that was very relevant to the job, he started blackmailing and frustrating me because he became afraid I might be promoted after the course.
He sabotaged my efforts to the extent that I was seriously queried by management.

You handle this with care by assuring him that the programme is to help him and not to take over his position, blow his trumpet about how 'good' he is on the job and how he has 'helped' you in your career and has 'encouraged' to get further qualification.

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Re: 4 Things You Say At Work That Can Ruin Your Career by Wiseandtrue(f): 4:38pm On Jul 11, 2017
9ce one OP
Re: 4 Things You Say At Work That Can Ruin Your Career by Nobody: 4:39pm On Jul 11, 2017
Office politics.
Re: 4 Things You Say At Work That Can Ruin Your Career by abumeinben(m): 4:43pm On Jul 11, 2017
Guyman02:


The moment I told my Manager that I wanted to do an academic programme that was very relevant to the job, he started blackmailing and frustrating me because he became afraid I might be promoted after the course.
He sabotaged my efforts to the extent that I was seriously queried by management.

You handle this with care by assuring him that the programme is to help him and not to take over his position, blow his trumpet about how 'good' he is on the job and how he has 'helped' you in your career and has 'encouraged' to get further qualification.

Just tell him you're doing CCNA.

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Re: 4 Things You Say At Work That Can Ruin Your Career by abumeinben(m): 4:44pm On Jul 11, 2017
Guyman02:


The moment I told my Manager that I wanted to do an academic programme that was very relevant to the job, he started blackmailing and frustrating me because he became afraid I might be promoted after the course.
He sabotaged my efforts to the extent that I was seriously queried by management.

You handle this with care by assuring him that the programme is to help him and not to take over his position, blow his trumpet about how 'good' he is on the job and how he has 'helped' you in your career and has 'encouraged' to get further qualification.

Just tell him you're doing CCNA. grin
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Re: 4 Things You Say At Work That Can Ruin Your Career by xamiel: 5:06pm On Jul 11, 2017
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Re: 4 Things You Say At Work That Can Ruin Your Career by Blessytee(f): 5:16pm On Jul 11, 2017
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