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Re: I Want To Get Married, But My Parents Don't Like The Girl by uchennaq(m): 6:28am On Dec 20, 2017 |
I pity how some people comment on delicate issues like this and moreover Nairaland is not the right place to seek advice. Some people think that some parents are bigot and myopic, let me tell you, don't use your mouth to bring curses upon yourself and your generation. This guy didn't say anything about this girl she wanted to marry, behavior etc. I am strongly suspecting that the parents have seen something not good and are trying to prevent their son in making a mistake. Remember the Mom's threat of dying. Bros a marriage that your parents did not approve will never work because I don't know who you will present as your parents during traditional marriage. Please don't listen to useless advises here. Why don't you go and seek advise from a pastor or even a marriage counselor? Sometimes it is good to let somethings go, don't forget there are so many young, old, matured, immature, sexy and unsexy woman out there. BEWISE |
Re: I Want To Get Married, But My Parents Don't Like The Girl by soromummy(m): 6:29am On Dec 20, 2017 |
Young man face your life and live people matter stop taken drugs on another person sickness, the family knows there reasons more than you do. So face front |
Re: I Want To Get Married, But My Parents Don't Like The Girl by Nobody: 6:35am On Dec 20, 2017 |
Follysho707: after all we are all fellow nigerian. |
Re: I Want To Get Married, But My Parents Don't Like The Girl by Trustme2(m): 6:35am On Dec 20, 2017 |
MicheyJ1:What about orphans getting married |
Re: I Want To Get Married, But My Parents Don't Like The Girl by Peterosky(m): 6:47am On Dec 20, 2017 |
MicheyJ1:.Yet, many marriages with the blessings of parents never ended well. My brother, commit your marriage into the hands of God and it will see success. Do your best to be your wife best friend and you will see your marriage blossom. And try the best you can to ensure that you and your wife keep away from third party interference in your marital affairs and watch the beauty of marriage.I have said my own. He that has an ear, let him hear what wisdom have just revealed. 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Get Married, But My Parents Don't Like The Girl by Deo1986(m): 6:57am On Dec 20, 2017 |
Well i can belief in this new dispensation, people still fall in love to the extent of clinging to the guy/girl irrespective of parental disapproval! Me, mama says son, i dont like that gal. I'll say me too. And discard her with just a phone call. Never gonna hurt my mama with a bitch that added nothing to my prosperity. |
Re: I Want To Get Married, But My Parents Don't Like The Girl by Tamakay(m): 7:02am On Dec 20, 2017 |
I don't have any advice for now but I don't really fancy the combination. Edo and Igbo and the supposed mother inlaw who's from Edo standing on her words; if I were the girl, I would be the first to stop the relationship. |
Re: I Want To Get Married, But My Parents Don't Like The Girl by lilytender: 7:03am On Dec 20, 2017 |
I have use my wife's moniker here each time callous moderators ban me unjustly. I am a Muslim from Ogun married to a Christian from Kwara. We are happier than the guy's parents. For those who will ask "are your children Muslims or Christians?" Be reminded that the fact that you bring up a child in the Church or in the Mosque does not mean that such a child cannot grow up to be an Atheist. 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Get Married, But My Parents Don't Like The Girl by Marcofranz(m): 7:04am On Dec 20, 2017 |
giles14: Yeah part of it And I thank God for that. The world would have been a terrible place to live in if all the women were like anambra women. |
Re: I Want To Get Married, But My Parents Don't Like The Girl by Draei: 7:15am On Dec 20, 2017 |
Deo1986: Someone you wanna marry turns a βitch overnight just because of your parent's disapproval? You need help. 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Get Married, But My Parents Don't Like The Girl by Austinoiz(m): 7:43am On Dec 20, 2017 |
Op, you no go go heaven ooo. See as u dey lie like omotete. Instead of you to say it's you, you're here using your friend as cover. Wait, that your friend no sabi Nairaland? Why you carry ds matter for head like gala if it's not your matter? |
Re: I Want To Get Married, But My Parents Don't Like The Girl by Austinoiz(m): 7:45am On Dec 20, 2017 |
munas: Na u bros, no dey lie like a kid |
Re: I Want To Get Married, But My Parents Don't Like The Girl by Austinoiz(m): 7:53am On Dec 20, 2017 |
ehardetola: So an orphan has no senior relatives to stand in as his/her parents in your imagination abi |
Re: I Want To Get Married, But My Parents Don't Like The Girl by Hantonia(f): 8:12am On Dec 20, 2017 |
Go Nd See Ur Parish Priest Nd Explain Tinz 2 Him He Could Invite Ur Parents 2 Talk 2 Dem |
Re: I Want To Get Married, But My Parents Don't Like The Girl by iamrammy(m): 8:16am On Dec 20, 2017 |
thesicilian:what have they seen in this case, they barely know the girl... |
Re: I Want To Get Married, But My Parents Don't Like The Girl by CaptainG00D: 8:16am On Dec 20, 2017 |
sugah: Pls i cant read this long trash.. Heed to my advice if u hav sense thats all and edit that initial post of urs. |
Re: I Want To Get Married, But My Parents Don't Like The Girl by macdonaldik: 8:17am On Dec 20, 2017 |
ehardetola:
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Re: I Want To Get Married, But My Parents Don't Like The Girl by jerekokafor(m): 8:33am On Dec 20, 2017 |
if he loves her he should marry her and for is parent not accepting is bad am also a catholic they teach to always love one another |
Re: I Want To Get Married, But My Parents Don't Like The Girl by lastclaire4(f): 8:36am On Dec 20, 2017 |
thesicilian:I don't think there is anything seen here. If there is then the mother should come out with a valid reason. After her parents allowed her marry a non-indigene she wants to spoil that of her child cos she is not directly involved. Mtcheew |
Re: I Want To Get Married, But My Parents Don't Like The Girl by Deo1986(m): 8:42am On Dec 20, 2017 |
Draei:Someone's pained. Hey, opened your eyes. Us logicians dont give fucq 'bout marriage ok? So i think you need a bigger help. |
Re: I Want To Get Married, But My Parents Don't Like The Girl by SILVA112(m): 8:47am On Dec 20, 2017 |
Naughtysite: I no blame u '' so if ur fada day 90 ( if at all him go reach ) and day ask him abt his children ' he will say I don't have children ' dat I have adults abi '' ode |
Re: I Want To Get Married, But My Parents Don't Like The Girl by SILVA112(m): 8:52am On Dec 20, 2017 |
connkg:Thank u very much ' I already knw wr it is in d bible okay '' sabina |
Re: I Want To Get Married, But My Parents Don't Like The Girl by Nobody: 8:59am On Dec 20, 2017 |
victorazyvictor:After keeping her for 10 good years, why won't the mum become your fore-runner? They can't afford for you to leave again na. Infact, if you venture to say I don't want again, the kind of curses that will be rained on you ehh. 10 years is not a joke. |
Re: I Want To Get Married, But My Parents Don't Like The Girl by victorazyvictor(m): 9:03am On Dec 20, 2017 |
Loisemm: That's the strategy, them they come tire and she is advancing in age too, other relationship couldn't work because we loved each other |
Re: I Want To Get Married, But My Parents Don't Like The Girl by Nobody: 9:11am On Dec 20, 2017 |
I would advise both parties to go their way. Few of those kind of relationships in which parents don't support, eventually work out fine. Even if the couple grow together in love, will you keep being at logger heads with the parents? There are many other suitable men and women in this wide world. Nobody should force his or her way into a family. If they don't want you for whatever reason, find your way out on time. Especially as a lady. Men can still afford to wait around but a lady has got less time to do that. Respect yourself. @Op, tell your friend to try his best. And if his parents still resist, he should gently allow the lady move on. Except he knows his own case will be among the few that turn out well. |
Re: I Want To Get Married, But My Parents Don't Like The Girl by Draei: 9:13am On Dec 20, 2017 |
Deo1986: Tha' fučk are you even ranting about now? Seems breakfast isn't served yet, bye man. |
Re: I Want To Get Married, But My Parents Don't Like The Girl by 9nice1x: 9:32am On Dec 20, 2017 |
My take on the stand of parents to marriage: Don't go ahead, they have seen something you did not see but they cannot possibly be expressed coherently or with decorum. Please, in anyway possible break the relationship and move ahead with your life with another person. Pls, Pls, Pls. munas: |
Re: I Want To Get Married, But My Parents Don't Like The Girl by Danachuks(m): 9:43am On Dec 20, 2017 |
munas: just imagine an Edo man saying Anambra women, are not good, how I'm I sure he didn't marry his wife when she returned from ITALY |
Re: I Want To Get Married, But My Parents Don't Like The Girl by bedspread: 9:44am On Dec 20, 2017 |
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Re: I Want To Get Married, But My Parents Don't Like The Girl by Rozaytee: 9:47am On Dec 20, 2017 |
some naija parents and choosy choosy... on whom to marry.... Mtcheeeeew 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Get Married, But My Parents Don't Like The Girl by blackbeau1(f): 11:01am On Dec 20, 2017 |
greypencils:this isn't about being a man or not . Whether you like it or not , there's a stronger emotional attachment between you and your family than between you and your wife at least initially . Also apart from the emotional attachment part , if your family starts fighting your wife , if she fights back , the whole world considers her to be ' a disrespectful wore who broke up a family '. So because she can't fight back , the only part of the argument you keep hearing is your family's part. You keep hearing one thing long enough, you are gonna believe it and adopt it . |
Re: I Want To Get Married, But My Parents Don't Like The Girl by blackbeau1(f): 11:02am On Dec 20, 2017 |
Mariinee:thanks |
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