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Re: Pastor Anita Oyakhilome Absent From Sharon's Wedding? (Photos) by Offpoint: 12:48pm On Oct 07, 2018
Maestro21:


You are thinking offpoint. You people love drama.
you guys should leave me alone on nairaland naw... ahn ahn... wetin I do una naw? how is he thinking me for God sakes?
Re: Pastor Anita Oyakhilome Absent From Sharon's Wedding? (Photos) by johnwell(m): 12:50pm On Oct 07, 2018
Austema:
It is a shame in the body of Christ that this is happening in the family of men/women of God

Not a shame to the body of Christ sir, but to Believers Lovers of the World.

This Jerry curl man has nothing to do with Christianity, he publicly said he's not associated with CAN/PFN, na only God knows where he belongs.

I love the wife's action, no time for pretence. What a shame.
Re: Pastor Anita Oyakhilome Absent From Sharon's Wedding? (Photos) by mechanics(m): 12:57pm On Oct 07, 2018
Shelumiel:
There were allegations of infidelity in the marriage of Chris Oyakilome and his wife .Perhaps the bitterness of standing with an unfaithful husband was the reason for her absence.
She should have forgiven her husband no matter what happens.
Re: Pastor Anita Oyakhilome Absent From Sharon's Wedding? (Photos) by Shelumiel: 1:08pm On Oct 07, 2018
mechanics:
She should have forgiven her husband no matter what happens.
That is easier said than done . There is a proverb that says " to err is human, but to forgive is divine ". Except God touches the heart of that woman , I do not foresee a happy ending here

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Re: Pastor Anita Oyakhilome Absent From Sharon's Wedding? (Photos) by Maestro21: 1:42pm On Oct 07, 2018
Kayelyon:


Every believer's first allegiance is to the word.

We do not justify evil or wickedness.

The details of her divorce papers are too sad for a Christian marriage. Let alone ministers of the gospel.

I bet you, if Pastor could go back in time. He would either

1) Marry a different woman(whom he'll truly love and cherish).

or

2) he'll rather treat Anita, his wife, differently.

Wise people can tell from body movements in the ministry. The marital crisis brought many couples in CE together. Since the separation, we've seen less separation of couple pastors to different locations.
More open celebration of marriages.

It's clear Pastor doesn't approve of those previous wrongs.

And neither should we justify it.

You are supporting divorce papers here not the word. She did not make any argument that wives of genuine MOG have not made before. She was married since 1992 and nothing changed (at least going by what people who have been there since then said). As for open marriages etc that one is another sweet speculation to spice up your narrative. In marriages where both members are Pastors..they usually had different assignments and it is still the same. God's word does not change to accommodate time.

In all of these, we are still commenting on speculations. There are at least 2 CEC members on this thread who said she was there with her second daughter. But since this story suits clickbaits..this one will subsist.
Re: Pastor Anita Oyakhilome Absent From Sharon's Wedding? (Photos) by mechanics(m): 1:46pm On Oct 07, 2018
Shelumiel:
That is easier said than done . There is a proverb that says " to err is human, but to forgive is divine ". Except God touches the heart of that woman , I do not foresee a happy ending here
That's right, she can only do that once she possess that grace of God, since God has forgiven us our sins, who are we not to forgive people that really hurt us.
Re: Pastor Anita Oyakhilome Absent From Sharon's Wedding? (Photos) by Twik: 2:05pm On Oct 07, 2018
GoTV:
sad As a born again Christian, I'm ashamed people still attend this man's church or seek marital counselling in his church despite his failed marriage. The bible says in the book of Psalms that a man shall leave his parents and stick to any amount of women he desires. Yet this man heads a church and he couldn't resolve his marital crisis to the extent that his Ex wife doesn't deem it fit to attend their daughters marriage yet this unforgiving pretenders sold millions of copies of Rhapsody of realities to millions of gullible Christians. Even if he was a chronic womanizer as alleged by the bitter wife, they couldn't shield their swords for their daughter's sake I'm sometimes ashamed to be a Christian. Hate them or not Muslims are better than we Christians cos they practice what they preach sad

You are not a born again Christian, you are a born again Devil! You are not even a Christan so go scam others. i don't attend christ embassy but i will never judge! a pastor because of my Bible. and yes i listen to pastor chris because his messages are just bomb!.
Re: Pastor Anita Oyakhilome Absent From Sharon's Wedding? (Photos) by dyydxx: 2:09pm On Oct 07, 2018
Maestro21:


You are supporting divorce papers here not the word. She did not make any argument that wives of genuine MOG have not made before. She was married since 1992 and nothing changed (at least going by what people who have been there since then said). As for open marriages etc that one is another sweet speculation to spice up your narrative. In marriages where both members are Pastors..they usually had different assignments and it is still the same. God's word does not change to accommodate time.

In all of these, we are still commenting on speculations. There are at least 2 CEC members on this thread who said she was there with her second daughter. But since this story suits clickbaits..this one will subsist.

It's a lie o. she wasn't there. I was in church today that Pastor Benny hinn preached and i'm still going back for the Communion service. They called for thanksgiving and No mother or sister only her and her husband and her husband's people and Pastor Ken oyakhilome and their sister. No where to be found Anita. Even when they gave Sharon the mic to say something she thanked everybody but didn't mention the Mom or sister.

Ask yourself where are the pictures?? it is impossible for her to be present there yesterday and she will not snap with her daughter haba. Even those that watched the Live event on TV couldn't find the mom or sister.

It also seems the younger sister is siding with the mom and sharon the dad. it is well jare. Only God knows the whole truth for sure

P.S Edited: the younger sister charlene was there
Re: Pastor Anita Oyakhilome Absent From Sharon's Wedding? (Photos) by dyydxx: 2:13pm On Oct 07, 2018
WisdomCanada:
New post we will see is, "Anita Oyakhilome with Sharon at her wedding today".

Previous reports were making the rounds earlier about Postor Chris's enstraged wife not honouring their daughter's wedding, this report has however been debunked by the new bride who went on intagram to post a picture of herself with her younger sister and mum.

Bloggers shaa.

This is a lie. How can someone come and just spew lies. make una dey take am easy o

https://www.instagram.com/explore/tags/sharonoyakhilome/
Re: Pastor Anita Oyakhilome Absent From Sharon's Wedding? (Photos) by Maestro21: 2:15pm On Oct 07, 2018
dyydxx:


It's a lie o. she wasn't there. I was in church today that Pastor Benny hinn preached and i'm still going back for the Communion service. They called for thanksgiving and No mother or sister only her and her husband and her husband's people and Pastor Ken oyakhilome and their sister. No where to be found Anita. Even when they gave Sharon the mic to say something she thanked everybody but didn't mention the Mom or sister.

Ask yourself where are the pictures?? it is impossible for her to be present there yesterday and she will not snap with her daughter haba. Even those that watched the Live event on TV couldn't find the mom or sister.

It also seems the younger sister is siding with the mom and sharon the dad. it is well jare. Only God knows the whole truth for sure

You are right @ Pastor Anita but wrong @ Sister. A poster, Ochedi made a thread and said the sister was the Chief Bride's maid. Her pictures from the traditional wedding are there and she was there live. I have not seen official pictures of the white but if she was there for the Trad, odds are she was there for the white.
Re: Pastor Anita Oyakhilome Absent From Sharon's Wedding? (Photos) by sirjomore(m): 2:16pm On Oct 07, 2018
GoTV:
sad As a born again Christian, I'm ashamed people still attend this man's church or seek marital counselling in his church despite his failed marriage. The bible says in the book of Psalms that a man shall leave his parents and stick to any amount of women he desires. Yet this man heads a church and he couldn't resolve his marital crisis to the extent that his Ex wife doesn't deem it fit to attend their daughters marriage yet this unforgiving pretenders sold millions of copies of Rhapsody of realities to millions of gullible Christians. Even if he was a chronic womanizer as alleged by the bitter wife, they couldn't shield their swords for their daughter's sake I'm sometimes ashamed to be a Christian. Hate them or not Muslims are better than we Christians cos they practice what they preach sad
Osheyyy Judge. U sound like a good Christian
Re: Pastor Anita Oyakhilome Absent From Sharon's Wedding? (Photos) by Sarkin: 2:17pm On Oct 07, 2018
Thonee:

You're never a Christian but an ordinary church goer if only u even go to the church. If Muslims are better in ur sight go n join them and throw bomb.
really?
This is what you can come up with?
You must really be a weak warmonger or just a duncé.
Re: Pastor Anita Oyakhilome Absent From Sharon's Wedding? (Photos) by Sarkin: 2:18pm On Oct 07, 2018
Thonee:

You're never a Christian but an ordinary church goer if only u even go to the church. If Muslims are better in ur sight go n join them and throw bomb.
really?
This is what you can come up with?
You must really be a weak warmonger or just a duncé...
Re: Pastor Anita Oyakhilome Absent From Sharon's Wedding? (Photos) by dyydxx: 2:22pm On Oct 07, 2018
Maestro21:
False stories galore.

Pastor Chris will never not invite his wife to this wedding. She was even the one who broke the news of the engagement. I did not see her in the pictures online..but someone said she was there. There were many others who were there who have not appeared in the pictures. Time will reveal more.

someone said...who said?? grin grin grin

bros stop spreading lies. How will she be there and it will not be breaking news. People were eagerly anticipating to see her and you say she was there and nobody saw her. was she invisible? did she just hide in one corner? did she disguise that nobody can recognise her?

abeg just say things as they are biko.
Re: Pastor Anita Oyakhilome Absent From Sharon's Wedding? (Photos) by Maestro21: 2:27pm On Oct 07, 2018
dyydxx:


someone said...who said?? grin grin grin

bros stop spreading lies. How will she be there and it will not be breaking news. People were eagerly anticipating to see her and you say she was there and nobody saw her. was she invisible? did she just hide in one corner? did she disguise that nobody can recognise her?

abeg just say things as they are biko.

I never claimed to be there. I am not even in the country. And when I realised that person was wrong I agreed with you and corrected the part that you too were wrong in. What lies am I trying to spread? I never claimed I saw her there.
Re: Pastor Anita Oyakhilome Absent From Sharon's Wedding? (Photos) by dyydxx: 2:35pm On Oct 07, 2018
Maestro21:


I never claimed to be there. I am not even in the country. And when I realised that person was wrong I agreed with you and corrected the part that you too were wrong in. What lies am I trying to spread? I never claimed I saw her there.

sorry just saw your former posts. I have checked that ochedi post and that was charlene. she was there you were right. The mom was absent but the sister was present. those are the real facts

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Re: Pastor Anita Oyakhilome Absent From Sharon's Wedding? (Photos) by winnah(f): 2:41pm On Oct 07, 2018
GoTV:
sad As a born again Christian, I'm ashamed people still attend this man's church or seek marital counselling in his church despite his failed marriage. The bible says in the book of Psalms that a man shall leave his parents and stick to any amount of women he desires. Yet this man heads a church and he couldn't resolve his marital crisis to the extent that his Ex wife doesn't deem it fit to attend their daughters marriage yet this unforgiving pretenders sold millions of copies of Rhapsody of realities to millions of gullible Christians. Even if he was a chronic womanizer as alleged by the bitter wife, they couldn't shield their swords for their daughter's sake I'm sometimes ashamed to be a Christian. Hate them or not Muslims are better than we Christians cos they practice what they preach sad


if u don't have any thing to say y not shout up.

did he restrict his wife from coming,
was he the one that divorced the wife.

be very mindful the way u run ur mouth
Re: Pastor Anita Oyakhilome Absent From Sharon's Wedding? (Photos) by generationz(f): 2:46pm On Oct 07, 2018
GrabHisBalls:
You're thinking nonsense!

Two things are likely to be responsible for her absence...

1. During their marital conflict phase, the girl took her dad's side of the story as any child would if faced with such a situation and the mum isn't happy with her for it or...

2. She decided not to show for the wedding for reasons best know to her.

That said, she can never cease to be her mother. She and her husband may never reconcile, but there's a 99.9% possibility that she would reconcile with her daughter.

Stop thinking money is everything as the mother isn't poor or came from a poor background.

but the father is way richer and more connected
Re: Pastor Anita Oyakhilome Absent From Sharon's Wedding? (Photos) by Yewandequeen(f): 3:06pm On Oct 07, 2018
Atigba:


She made the right decision not to have attend the marriage to avoid unnecessary distractions

A lot of church mmembers and family members that had faith in her, who couldn’t have the opportunity to speak to her about the devorce would use the marriage ceremony as an opportunity. Which might ruin the day for her daughter.

This is the best marriage gift she can give to her daughter, stay away to avoid distractions.
on this premise I concur with you.

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Re: Pastor Anita Oyakhilome Absent From Sharon's Wedding? (Photos) by salt1: 3:21pm On Oct 07, 2018
cescky:


Just shut up..keep beating around the bush..I've told you your devilish...she was in court, what evidence did she put on the table , that she was being cheated on..keep typing here like an uneducated person.


I'm sorry to say this, but you come across as a very rude person. You're devoted to your pastor, but you're doing him a disservice by dissing people like this.
Maybe, just maybe, he's teaching you to sound arrogant and intolerant.

You can come for me if you please
Re: Pastor Anita Oyakhilome Absent From Sharon's Wedding? (Photos) by salt1: 3:30pm On Oct 07, 2018
asuustrike1:

There are consequences for wrongdoing in Christianity.
Romans 6:23 says, “For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord.” At its core, sin is rebellion against God. Our sin separates us from God, the creator and sustainer of life. Jesus said, “I am the way and the truth and the life” (John 14:6a). God is known as the great “I AM.” Life is in God. So, when we sin and become separated from God, we become separated from true life. Therefore, perforce, we experience death. Three points of clarification are needed:

First, sin does not necessarily result in physical death right away. Romans 6 is not telling us that when we sin we will physically die. Rather, it is referring to spiritual death.

Second, when we are saved in Christ, we are rescued from ultimate spiritual death and brought into ultimate spiritual life. Paul told the Romans, “The gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord” (Romans 6:23b).

Third, even believers’ sins will still result in a type of spiritual “death.” Though we are rescued from the ultimate penalty of sin (eternal separation from God), we are not exempt from the natural consequences of a broken relationship with the Father. When we sin, we experience the symptoms of spiritual death. We may feel guilty, empty, confused, or disconnected from God. We act as the unrighteous rather than as the righteous. Our sin, even as believers, hurts the heart of God and grieves His Spirit (Ephesians 4:30). Though it does not sever our relationship with Him, our sin does put a barrier between us.


This is exactly the wrong doctrine that Oyakhilome is teaching : once you are a believer, even sin will not severe your relationship with God.

How does this even make sense to you? The righteousness of the righteous will not count for him in the day that he commits sin.
God is no respecter of persons. The Bible has examples of those who were once godly, but fell into sin, and lost their relationship with God.
Please my dear friend, don't base your hope of eternity on the wrong interpretation of the Bible given by any man of God. You can read the Bible yourself.
The wages of sin is death!!!!! And sin is sin whether committed by the clergyman or layman.
Re: Pastor Anita Oyakhilome Absent From Sharon's Wedding? (Photos) by Kayelyon: 3:30pm On Oct 07, 2018
Maestro21:


You are supporting divorce papers here not the word. She did not make any argument that wives of genuine MOG have not made before. She was married since 1992 and nothing changed (at least going by what people who have been there since then said). As for open marriages etc that one is another sweet speculation to spice up your narrative. In marriages where both members are Pastors..they usually had different assignments and it is still the same. God's word does not change to accommodate time.

In all of these, we are still commenting on speculations. There are at least 2 CEC members on this thread who said she was there with her second daughter. But since this story suits clickbaits..this one will subsist.

Not everyone here is ignorant.
Rev Chris and Anita got married in 1991.

Pastor Anita was clearly not in this wedding.

Charlene, the bride's sister however was there (her chief bridesmaid).

About the divorce papers or the events that surrounded the break up, let's just leave out petty matters.

All I'll say is, everyone is learning.

Scripture is clear on the roles of husbands to their wives & wives to their husbands.

Thank God the body of Christ has many examples of couples in the ministry who have modelled Christ's love for the church, and the church's submission to Christ.
Re: Pastor Anita Oyakhilome Absent From Sharon's Wedding? (Photos) by julieton: 4:09pm On Oct 07, 2018
marriage is not easy for anyone I don't know why people are just louding Anita & oyak's marriage & divorce news as if they are angels.
Re: Pastor Anita Oyakhilome Absent From Sharon's Wedding? (Photos) by Maestro21: 4:13pm On Oct 07, 2018
Kayelyon:


Not everyone here is ignorant.
Rev Chris and Anita got married in 1991.

Pastor Anita was clearly not in this wedding.

Charlene, the bride's sister however was there (her chief bridesmaid).

About the divorce papers or the events that surrounded the break up, let's just leave out petty matters.

All I'll say is, everyone is learning.

Scripture is clear on the roles of husbands to their wives & wives to their husbands.

Thank God the body of Christ has many examples of couples in the ministry who have modelled Christ's love for the church, and the church's submission to Christ.

Thank you. The difference between 1991 and 1992 brings a paradigm shift to your narrative.

I did however concede she was not in the wedding as new evidence filtered through (my posts right after evince that). Grateful to God that I laid my claims on posts here and not that I saw anything first hand.

I am happy that the word of God has documented teachings of Paul on certain issues including marriage so that newage beliefs, hearsay and bitterness will not supplant it.
Re: Pastor Anita Oyakhilome Absent From Sharon's Wedding? (Photos) by Truthchiz: 5:03pm On Oct 07, 2018
AFONJACOW:
the kind hair Relaxer that will be Sold/used in Lagos because of this particular wedding are more than enough to finance Ghana annual budget
Choi you are very funny!
Re: Pastor Anita Oyakhilome Absent From Sharon's Wedding? (Photos) by Truthchiz: 5:20pm On Oct 07, 2018
Bridget95:
pastor Chris is a great man.the man has led Chris embassy to great heights.His wife became so pained for whatever reason and left him .How do you want the man to solve a marital problem with a woman who was hell-bent in wanting him to fail.
that woman you are abusing has been and has supported that man for years. Don't say this rubbish aboutf her. She worked hard to help raise the church into what it is today. Stop that nonsense oh!
Re: Pastor Anita Oyakhilome Absent From Sharon's Wedding? (Photos) by DavSagacity(m): 5:39pm On Oct 07, 2018
jesmond3945:
have you not heard of sharia? Go to kano and commit adultrey, let them catch or be caught drinking alcohol. Haven't you heard were people are lashed? How old are you, because your question is very immatured.
See English... blood of lala.....what do you mean by ? "Haven't you heard were people are lashed". It's such a pity for you. Did you read the nonsentical nonsense you typed before posting it.??. Anyway its Adultery Not adultrey.
You need to go back to primary school to learn simple and correct English words.
Re: Pastor Anita Oyakhilome Absent From Sharon's Wedding? (Photos) by Truthchiz: 5:55pm On Oct 07, 2018
A woman who announced the engagement when they wanted it to be shrouded in secrecy. 'marry in secret let no one know' taaaa... the girl cried to her mom. She went to her facebook page pastoranita.org and made it known to the public to liberate her daughter. CE people came for war on the post calling it false and malicious information. You can imagine how such good news was labelled ' false and malicious ' go to her facebook page and refer if I lie. She didn't attend the wedding. Those ladies abusing the woman. Una doo oh...
Re: Pastor Anita Oyakhilome Absent From Sharon's Wedding? (Photos) by jesmond3945: 6:44pm On Oct 07, 2018
DavSagacity:

See English... blood of lala.....what do you mean by ? "Haven't you heard were people are lashed". It's such a pity for you. Did you read the nonsentical nonsense you typed before posting it.??. Anyway its Adultery Not adultrey.
You need to go back to primary school to learn simple and correct English words.
thank you for your correction well noted.
Re: Pastor Anita Oyakhilome Absent From Sharon's Wedding? (Photos) by Hmmm9: 7:10pm On Oct 07, 2018
GoTV:
sad As a born again Christian, I'm ashamed people still attend this man's church or seek marital counselling in his church despite his failed marriage. The bible says in the book of Psalms that a man shall leave his parents and stick to any amount of women he desires. Yet this man heads a church and he couldn't resolve his marital crisis to the extent that his Ex wife doesn't deem it fit to attend their daughters marriage yet this unforgiving pretenders sold millions of copies of Rhapsody of realities to millions of gullible Christians. Even if he was a chronic womanizer as alleged by the bitter wife, they couldn't shield their swords for their daughter's sake I'm sometimes ashamed to be a Christian. Hate them or not Muslims are better than we Christians cos they practice what they preach sad


Hey Gotv, no one is stopping you here from porting.I have seen your negative comments on Christianity. How we hailed the kannywood actress for supposed immorality bla bla bla. The northern daughters of the rich& mighty of Islam do get married, don't they.We see what they put on too. Keep on fooling yourself...ISIS from Islam and the Syrian war has created migrants and refugees for now and how many have been welcomed by their nearby Islamic brothers like UAE, Qatar, Saudi Arabia and even Iran But rather open arms waited them in Europe by Christians and the irreligious. I pity those uninformed that you are further confusing.
Re: Pastor Anita Oyakhilome Absent From Sharon's Wedding? (Photos) by Kayelyon: 10:57pm On Oct 07, 2018
Maestro21:


Thank you. The difference between 1991 and 1992 brings a paradigm shift to your narrative.

I did however concede she was not in the wedding as new evidence filtered through (my posts right after evince that). Grateful to God that I laid my claims on posts here and not that I saw anything first hand.

I am happy that the word of God has documented teachings of Paul on certain issues including marriage so that newage beliefs, hearsay and bitterness will not supplant it.

Lol �

Okay
Re: Pastor Anita Oyakhilome Absent From Sharon's Wedding? (Photos) by Ochedi(m): 12:49am On Oct 08, 2018
Maestro21:


You are right @ Pastor Anita but wrong @ Sister. A poster, Ochedi made a thread and said the sister was the Chief Bride's maid. Her pictures from the traditional wedding are there and she was there live. I have not seen official pictures of the white but if she was there for the Trad, odds are she was there for the white.

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