Hh

To avoid the first problem listed above, jus start with a baby-mama.

Ujauju34:
Wedding just they scare me

wedding and marriage. We plenty wey dey Fear this prison

Didn't borrow a kobo for my wedding.
I told myself it's best not to go ahead with the wedding plans than to acquire debt after the whole thing.
And it happened. Had enough money left in my account after the wedding.

Ginaz:
Marriage life isn’t easy. It take mistakes, efforts to make it right and God too. Most couples don’t put God in their marriage. Once you’re married, God should be the cord of your union . Adhere to the Bible’s principles on love , family and patience.

Hello

The mods said I shouldn't say a damn in this write up,....was banned for weeks,...happy banning mods,...happy recovery to me

J111333:
Everything may be right but number one is for fools.
Who borrows to wed? If you don't have money for big wedding, go to the beach or a park and wed godammit.

people. A lot of people borrow to impress. Most people don't have the ability to Not give a fxck!

Did I see unavoidable?

The regret part sent shivers down my spine...The more reason am scared as hell...what I see now is just people wanting to get married to ease themselves of family and societal pressures..people no longer pay attention to details and rever faithfulness and commitment...sometimes U just wish u could live a life devoid of unnecessary expectations but guess that's impossible..sighs

adedayoa2:
Where is tosyne2much? Cut ypur coat according to your material so as to avoid number 1.

I'm right here oooo and I've noted that already

virgoquin:
Only people who are not wise accquire huge debts during wedding to impress people who don't even care.

What happened to cutting your coat according to your size Anybody who is pressuring you to have a big wedding should be ready to sponsor it

according to your cloth sef cos you fit get big size.

tosyne2much:
I'm right here oooo and I've noted that already

lol, this actually looks like your thread.

adedayoa2:
lol, this actually looks like your thread.

You don really sabi wella to that extent ehn

Gammeline:
Nice writeup

are you sure your number is correct?

Nice write up.
Most people cannot even define marriage correctly.
All they know is 'marry' and 'born children'.
I call them regressive baboons.

Most people engage in number one, is good for a would be couple to plan according to his or her means to avoid stories that touches the heart.

That number 1 still make me go crazy. What if after borrowing to Wed and in process of servicing the debt, ur wife say she doesn't want again. How you wan do am?

Oh

No woman is perfect, just pick your own witch and start pouring anointing oil for the rest of your life.

Jaynom:
wedding and marriage. We plenty wey dey Fear this prison

You wil be scared if you have not reached the age

BarrElChapo:
No 2 is a constant occurrence

Unfortunately so...Never allow an ex to mess with your present or future.

Very informative

noble71:
you see that number one many people are on that table just to impress people who don't even care about you. I have said it, what I have is what I am going to plan my wedding with. If money for rice no de I will cook beans. once is 6pm everybody will go to their house.

I said more than this before i got married ,but it is practically impossible in naija even if it is a parlour wedding you want to do you must still owe one iya kemi 5k for local honey or photograhper his balance i just advice intending couples to let the debt be very little 5k or 10k here and there not in the hundreds (if na hundreds of thousand you are not yet ready )

virgoquin:
Only people who are not wise accquire huge debts during wedding to impress people who don't even care.

What happened to cutting your coat according to your size Anybody who is pressuring you to have a big wedding should be ready to sponsor it

Maybe the size got too big and they forgot to adjust according to the cloth they have.

Thing is, once it reaches that time unless you have some above-average financial intelligence skills and you have practised self-discipline, you may not be able to manage the money flow.

bonnyhope:


You wil be scared if you have not reached the age

I'm speaking from experience. Marriage is not a bed of roses people have been programmed to believe

Nice

6, and 7 are the reasons I enjoy my single life..
These two require trust and so much compromise. I think if you're with the right person though then you'd be compatible as far as extended families are concerned. If you are both close to yours or maybe you both agree that you separate from your families and that you two own your own family. It's not easy... It's freaking scary.

7 could be a deal breaker depending on the secret.

is this what they mean by 'inside life'

Jaynom:
I'm speaking from experience. Marriage is not a bed of roses people have been programmed to believe

What age is he talking about?

People haven't got a clue

virgoquin:
Only people who are not wise accquire huge debts during wedding to impress people who don't even care.

What happened to cutting your coat according to your size Anybody who is pressuring you to have a big wedding should be ready to sponsor it

It should be: Cut your coat according to your Cloth.

Nairaland is d only book many youths today read, we should not derail them further..

So True and good advice too

Guest007:


What age is he talking about?

People haven't got a clue

Lol ... Zero clue

Please may I ask about number 2, is it right for husband to request for number of her ex again after he deleted it immediately he got married . In the name of we are neighbors (their parents houses are beside each other till today)? He didn't ask the lady out per say, but he used to enter her room, they could have had sex in her room if not for a distraction. And after d guy's wedding ,the lady told dis guy that, him marrying another lady pained her so much, she was expecting him to ask her out but d guy didn't.
Then the guy realizing this, deleted her number from his phone. When he heard of the lady's wedding which he attended , he started chatting her on facebook, d husband's wife wasn't pleased with it but no choice. Recently, the wife found out they now chat on whatsapp, d husband said he requested for her number again via facebook. He said coz they are neighbors. The husband had to even lie to the lady when she asked why he didn't have her number again, he said he lost contacts when he changed his phone, which is wrong. The husband purposely deleted the lady's number for peace to reign in his marriage.

Pls is the husband right to have her number again and be chatting d lady, as the wife doesn't feel good each time she sees this lady or their chat, thinking they might have seen each other's unclothedness even if no sex as he claimed.