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Husband And Wife Quarrel Over Pregnancy by justitiaomnibus(m): 4:15pm On Feb 19, 2020 |
My close friend's husband has asked her to seek abortion because he is not ready to father another child. according to him, the economic situation of the country is not such that one should be having babies and that he does not want to have a child without capacity to give the child the kind of upbringing that he wants for his children. The couple currently have a child that is less than a year old and her husband thinks that one is enough for now and/or even ever. But my friend has a different perspective. She says her husband wants at least three children but doesn't want to have them now because he doesn't know what the future holds. She says she didn't plan to take in again given that she is still nursing their first child but she was lactating and her menstrual cycle had been very unstable after her first child so she didn't know that she had taken in again until she started to feel signs of pregnancy. Now her husband wants her to take out the pregnancy and she is refusing. she called to ask me if i know where she can terminate the pregnancy, but i advised her to keep it. she sent me the screenshot of their conversation regarding the pregnancy and i feel like engaging him on her behalf. What do i tell him and whats your advise for my friend? |
Re: Husband And Wife Quarrel Over Pregnancy by justitiaomnibus(m): 4:18pm On Feb 19, 2020 |
hh |
Re: Husband And Wife Quarrel Over Pregnancy by justitiaomnibus(m): 4:20pm On Feb 19, 2020 |
her words to him... i understand his points and i understand her take too. there is the need to strike a balance and take a decision that wont be regretted. |
Re: Husband And Wife Quarrel Over Pregnancy by UjuJoan2: 4:22pm On Feb 19, 2020 |
Chai . . . see what marriage has degraded to. So sad! |
Re: Husband And Wife Quarrel Over Pregnancy by crackkhaus: 4:24pm On Feb 19, 2020 |
If your friend sent these screenshots to you, why would she save her husband's number as My Queen. This is NOT a chat between husband and wife, more like two single people who are just having sex OR one person trying to be funny. 6 Likes |
Re: Husband And Wife Quarrel Over Pregnancy by justitiaomnibus(m): 4:26pm On Feb 19, 2020 |
what exactly is your point? and what do you think marriage should be upgraded to? UjuJoan2: |
Re: Husband And Wife Quarrel Over Pregnancy by nlPoster: 4:27pm On Feb 19, 2020 |
The husband should remember to be responsible in his sexual practices next time. In case anyone is in this situation (the chats might be fake). |
Re: Husband And Wife Quarrel Over Pregnancy by Foodqueen(f): 4:27pm On Feb 19, 2020 |
Is it "my queen" that sent you this screenshot or " "my king" or better still you sent it to yourself. |
Re: Husband And Wife Quarrel Over Pregnancy by justitiaomnibus(m): 4:29pm On Feb 19, 2020 |
They are very legally and lawfully married and they have a child from that marriage. The man says he wants to hold on having more children and the wife is pregnant again. That's a conversation between them probably screenshot from husbands phone. crackkhaus: |
Re: Husband And Wife Quarrel Over Pregnancy by justitiaomnibus(m): 4:32pm On Feb 19, 2020 |
The Chats are not fake pls. and your advise will help anyone in a similar situation. How can a married man be responsible in his asexual practices with his wife? nlPoster: |
Re: Husband And Wife Quarrel Over Pregnancy by crackkhaus: 4:33pm On Feb 19, 2020 |
justitiaomnibus:Oh really, it's from the husband's phone now. I guess your friend (the wife) went to her husband's phone to screenshot chats that she should have on her own phone, then sent it to you. Is this the explanation? 2 Likes |
Re: Husband And Wife Quarrel Over Pregnancy by justitiaomnibus(m): 4:35pm On Feb 19, 2020 |
YES. crackkhaus: |
Re: Husband And Wife Quarrel Over Pregnancy by crackkhaus: 4:40pm On Feb 19, 2020 |
justitiaomnibus:Clap for yourself |
Re: Husband And Wife Quarrel Over Pregnancy by MrBrownJay1(m): 4:42pm On Feb 19, 2020 |
what a foolish woman...!! the man is giving her proper reason as to wife they CANNOT have another child yet, and this emotionally disturbed woman still want to keep the child. ARRANT NONSENSE! 2 Likes |
Re: Husband And Wife Quarrel Over Pregnancy by Fountainofyouth(f): 4:43pm On Feb 19, 2020 |
1 Like |
Re: Husband And Wife Quarrel Over Pregnancy by nlPoster: 4:47pm On Feb 19, 2020 |
justitiaomnibus: justitiaomnibus: Responsible sexual practices means preventing pregnancy. It's much easier than asking the wife to abort after having sex. 1 Like |
Re: Husband And Wife Quarrel Over Pregnancy by justitiaomnibus(m): 4:49pm On Feb 19, 2020 |
OKAY crackkhaus: |
Re: Husband And Wife Quarrel Over Pregnancy by justitiaomnibus(m): 4:51pm On Feb 19, 2020 |
Why is this a problem? Aren't they husband and wife? I did not ask her this your question though because i didn't consider it necessary. Fountainofyouth: |
Re: Husband And Wife Quarrel Over Pregnancy by Oluneutral: 4:51pm On Feb 19, 2020 |
crackkhaus: Don't mind the op. He's the one insulting his wife for getting pregnant again and so early. I think child-spacing plans should be the responsibility of both couple and not for the wife alone. Moreover, from the wife's explanation of irregular menstruation after the first childbirth, it's obvious that the pregnancy wasn't intentional on the part of the wife. But then, there should be amicable solution without resorting to exchange of insults by both of them. 2 Likes |
Re: Husband And Wife Quarrel Over Pregnancy by crackkhaus: 4:55pm On Feb 19, 2020 |
Oluneutral:Whatever is going on in that chat, I highly doubt it's between a husband and wife. The OP probably impregnated his single mom fvck-mate. |
Re: Husband And Wife Quarrel Over Pregnancy by Fountainofyouth(f): 4:56pm On Feb 19, 2020 |
justitiaomnibus: Your narrative is different from your screenshot that's why people are asking questions, we have many fake stories here so we have to be sure we are not advicing a lone ranger who is laughing at us through his/her phone or keyboard, or a robot, ya dig? 1 Like |
Re: Husband And Wife Quarrel Over Pregnancy by Oluneutral: 4:58pm On Feb 19, 2020 |
crackkhaus:[b] This is also a possibility. |
Re: Husband And Wife Quarrel Over Pregnancy by Amanee(f): 4:59pm On Feb 19, 2020 |
This thread is a joke |
Re: Husband And Wife Quarrel Over Pregnancy by powerkey: 5:00pm On Feb 19, 2020 |
UjuJoan2: Who told you they're married? they are not married at all. This is as a result of girls accepting ice cream relationship from small boys. The boy is highly irresponsible. 1 Like |
Re: Husband And Wife Quarrel Over Pregnancy by justitiaomnibus(m): 5:01pm On Feb 19, 2020 |
Okay. That's some experience talking here. Any proposed amicable resolution from you in the circumstance? Oluneutral: |
Re: Husband And Wife Quarrel Over Pregnancy by sisisioge: 5:02pm On Feb 19, 2020 |
Wow...so the guy sent the screenshots? Wowzerful 1 Like |
Re: Husband And Wife Quarrel Over Pregnancy by justitiaomnibus(m): 5:05pm On Feb 19, 2020 |
I dig and understand your doubts. Its no robot or lone ranger, this is actually a real life situation demanding your noble advise, if any. Apologies that narration makes you doubt. Not everyone is good at telling his stories straight up like that without caving in within. I you you dig too Fountainofyouth: 1 Like |
Re: Husband And Wife Quarrel Over Pregnancy by SpyAC(m): 5:07pm On Feb 19, 2020 |
justitiaomnibus:pls hlp me tell them this, can de be able to allow me take care of the pregnancy and probably adopt the bby at the end? Pls am seriously serious... |
Re: Husband And Wife Quarrel Over Pregnancy by justitiaomnibus(m): 5:12pm On Feb 19, 2020 |
What you have said does not flow from the post and conversation but you are free to believe your insinuations which does not flow from the conversation. You can doubt and that is okay. Imputing your inverted insinuations into the matter that seeks your advise is not right. crackkhaus: |
Re: Husband And Wife Quarrel Over Pregnancy by Oluneutral: 5:12pm On Feb 19, 2020 |
justitiaomnibus: See question o! My friend, it takes two to tangle! Na you impregnated your wife or a single mother, na you too dey throw insults up and down. Why didn't you think of amicable resolution should incase a pregnancy occur from your unprotected sexcapade? Now you're here, confusing confusion, uploading one thing and typing another thing. Abeg, always think with your brain and not with your totoros next time. |
Re: Husband And Wife Quarrel Over Pregnancy by Oluneutral: 5:14pm On Feb 19, 2020 |
sisisioge: You dey mind him? He probably thought everyone is like him. |
Re: Husband And Wife Quarrel Over Pregnancy by justitiaomnibus(m): 5:14pm On Feb 19, 2020 |
hah. okay. probably an option for them to consider. SpyAC: |
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