enemyofprogress:
and the fokn night should be in her matrimonial home abi? Some people go just dey talk like sey dem get coronavirus

Inception:

enemyofprogress:
and the fokn night should be in her matrimonial home abi? Some people go just dey talk like sey dem get coronavirus

Amanda4life:
They should allow this woman to be.

She needed attention. From the so called "the father of her children which he failed to do.
Because he is with another woman. The emotional trauma this lady is going thru is non of his business.

If I are her too I will like to source for another suitor.

There are good men out there

The so called yank I man is a chronic liar.

When yo have a liar as a spouse as a liar.
You are into deep shit

Okoroawusa:

You keep saying matrimonial... there is no matrimonial because they are not married.

Did you watch the video at all?

Xisnin:
Mumu adulterer.
Let us look at her argument.
1. I was not married therefore I owe no one loyalty
2. I was not cheating, the man bought me drugs and I asked him to sleep over.
3. He traveled abroad and abandoned me bla bla bla


Obviously, the third reason is the real reason.

You are not legally married but you are living in his house and he is the father of your children.

The idiot should have rented her own apartment to entertain various guests.
The idea that only married people should shun infidelity is asinine and stupid.
There is no such law or rule anywhere. Neither is there a punishment for cheating
while married in Nigeria's constitution. It is totally up to a person to cheat or not cheat in a relationship.

Want to sleep around?
Stay away from a stable relationship or tell your intending victim
that you are a loose cannon who is not interested.

And to the dummies who believe that only a married person can cheat, you will learn the hard way.
Nobody ever stops cheating because they are married, they may pause for a while but they will resume.

TruthSpeaker:
MUMU YORUBA LADY (YOUR ACCENT SOLD YOU OUT). YOU JUST DISPLAYED YOUR LEVEL OF STUPIDITY BY POSTING THIS VIDEO ONLINE TO TRY TO JUSTIFY YOUR IDIOTIC ACTION. YOU ARE A CHEAT AND YOU WERE CAUGHT RIGHT HANDED, THAT IS NOT THE END OF THE WORLD. NO NEED FOOLING YOURSELF IN A QUEST FOR DECEIT OF OTHER PEOPLE INTO BELIEVING YOUR COCK AND BULL STORY. EVEN KINDERGARTEN KIDS WOULDN’T BELIEVE THIS ILL-COOKED LIES.
YOU BETTER KEEP LICKING YOUR WOUND IN SHAME AND SHUT THE FVCK UP. YOU ARE NOT THE FIRST TO CHEAT AND GET CAUGHT, NEITHER WILL YOU BE THE LAST. YOU ONLY HAPPY TO BE A REAR SPECIE THAT WILL UPLOAD A NASTY VIDEO LACED WITH LIES TO TRY TO JUSTIFY YOUR ACTION. SPEND YOUR TIME THINKING OF HOW YOU ENJOYED THE DICK AND HOW YOU CAN CONVINCE THE DUDE TO FVCK YOU ONE MORE TIME IN A SAFER LOCATION WHERE YOU WOULDN’T GET CAUGHT.
NOBODY SHOULD GET ME WRONG, I’M NOT A TRIBALIST. I JUST FISHED OUT THE YORUBA IN HER BECAUSE OF HER ACCENT. SHE SOUNDS EDUCATED BUT HER LIES MAKES HER LOOK STUPID ALL THE SAME.

Stallione:
Will u shut up,sensless pig that thinks thru the anus

golddare:


You have no idea at all. You are talking as if you have seen all cases.

SweetCunt97:
Abeg if you come to my house and it's late, ogbeni you go enter that darkness go house o. She simply had another motive asking him to stay. Obvious the husband was waiting to catch her in the act.


How can a reasonable human being invite a man into her matrimonial home? As in wetin neighbors go talk? No shame, no regard for her husband. Aluu

Iamsofavoured:
What stupid Husband, in absentia? Please, everyone has needs and if all she said about the suppossed Husband is true, then she just cant continue to rotten while the useless man and his family members live their lives. Its called Live and let Live!

sisisioge:


But his kids leave there as well...shouldn't he pay for his children's accommodation? She said he asked her to desist from attaching his name to hers and she obliged. Biko, imagine your sister has been tossed after having kids for a "in the abroad" man that turned out to eventually marry someone else, refused to marry her and blatantly asked her to move on...won't you support her moving on?

Again, that scumbag is expected to pay for the apartment his children live in! Abi is she expected to singlehandedly cater for the kids needs?

sisisioge:
Chai! Men are scum! Why was he shouting when he wasn't even married to her but married to someone else! Anyways, I believe her because in the first video, she didn't act like a caught wife.


So shouldn't she sue the guy as well as his unfortunate siblings? Awon wereys oshi!

gracegrace668:
Madam say the truth. You were not expecting your "husband" that night. Your moves were been monitored unknown to you and it was simply left for you to be caught red handed.

When it gets to a certain time, male guests have to leave the visit for another day or go back if they are already around. You were cheating on your husband, your stories are not adding up.

TheGoodJoe:


The emotional roller-coaster the woman has gone through is not child's play. I felt for her when she talked about deleting every link she had to him online, based on the man's instruction.

The man is mean.

golddare:


If you know what women suffers from abroad husbands you wont be talking like this.

Amanda4life:


People don't have an idea how it feels when you don't have someone who truly cares for you, who can pat your back , from time to time to tell you everything is going to be okay.

srclark:
the woman is a very useless woman ,she knew what she was getting into before having 3 kids with the man ,and it is not a new thing we know the extent some men go just to remain abroad and be able to meet up with their responsibilities back home (even if you have to be a slave to another woman over there ) this is just a case of over assumption and it has taken the better part of her now ,you said he abandoned you bla bla bla so the best thing for you to do is bring another man into the house and start having sex with him the same house your kids stay in within an estate madam if you do not even respect the man and yourself at least respect your kids ,people see things and talk . WHEN YOU ASSUME TOO MUCH YOU WILL END UP SETTLING FOR LESS.

Belafonte:


Why does she still live in his house? If she has moved on then she should move on fully. Issa simpu sturvs

Excuzeme:
After reading most of the responses of "Nairaland Nigerians" on this issue, l can conclude that this country is in great danger!
Danger from under-developed brains, danger from misplaced priority, danger from inability to think and articulate problems, danger from corroded values and morals, danger from complete disorientation, danger from acute ignorance!
Most people did not even watch the Video but where commenting based on the twisted narration the Poster made, which did not reflect the true situation of what the woman "confessed" with her own mouth!

I just wonder how this country will look, in say twenty years from now, judging by the kind of Yoots and young adults that we are breeding today.
So Sad.

Lest l forget, the fornicating woman has choices, instead of demeaning herself and even making it worse with her puerile and assinine excuses
- Despite not being legally married, the fact that they leave together as husband and wife and have children in that context, still makes them husband and wife, with all the moral responsibility to each other, like they were legally married.

- Not being legally married is not a license for cheating
- If she feels the "union" does not meet her needs, she should have just INFORMED the man and pack out of their home and move on with her life. Marry someone else, Bleep whoever she wants, whenever she wants...... but like all greedy people, she wants to "eat from both sides", Be a wife and not be a wife!

- That the man went to seek greener pastures (like most Nigerians do nowadays), is also not an excuse to become a LovePeddler in his absence. If and when he becomes a citizen, with the right to bring his wife and children over to America, will you say because he left for long, that you will forfiet the opportunity?
- Even if he marries another "citizen woman" over there like most Men do, to seucre their Green card (Arrangee marriage), is it not always with the knowledge and consent of their wife or does everyone in the family not benefit from it, including extended family members? When did tha now become and excuse for fornication?
- Is it not sad that most people commenting cannot read, listen and comprehend a short story or how come no one spotted the lie this adulterous woman was spinning when she first said the man did not come home, but later said he came home, when she said he abandoned his child (they have only one girl child, most commentattors didnt even hear that in her video!) but later said he was preparing papers for his daughter, to take her abroad and that he was afraid she would not consent to his taking his daughter abroad?

- How come folks did not notice that the man had good knowledge of what she has been doing (cheating) over a long time and this last episode was well organised just to "bust her open" in a final, in the presence of many people. Why would a husband who knew his wife was fucking around, be keen to be with her or even come back to her or want to be with her after that?
The man is no longer interested in her as a wife (due to her cheating) and did what he did not, to expose her publicly less she starts telling another "cry-me-a-river story" in future, as we know most women will do when their action backfires on them.
In the good old days when travelling from Nigeria to UK took three Months by Sea, our Mothers will wait for years, fro their husbands to come back from abroad, without soiling themselves with promiscuity but women of nowadays are competing with Dogs, in shagging around!
Just leave a wife for a few weeks while trying to improve the family fortunes and that is all the excuse she needs to exhibit innate harlotry!

The man should just take his daughter abroad and let the woman continue with her sufferhead boyfriend.
Anyone destined for suffering and poverty, even if you lock them inside the vault of Central bank, they will still suffer and die of poverty.

Excuzeme:
After reading most of the responses of "Nairaland Nigerians" on this issue, l can conclude that this country is in great danger!
Danger from under-developed brains, danger from misplaced priority, danger from inability to think and articulate problems, danger from corroded values and morals, danger from complete disorientation, danger from acute ignorance!
Most people did not even watch the Video but where commenting based on the twisted narration the Poster made, which did not reflect the true situation of what the woman "confessed" with her own mouth!

I just wonder how this country will look, in say twenty years from now, judging by the kind of Yoots and young adults that we are breeding today.
So Sad.

Lest l forget, the fornicating woman has choices, instead of demeaning herself and even making it worse with her puerile and assinine excuses
- Despite not being legally married, the fact that they leave together as husband and wife and have children in that context, still makes them husband and wife, with all the moral responsibility to each other, like they were legally married.

- Not being legally married is not a license for cheating
- If she feels the "union" does not meet her needs, she should have just INFORMED the man and pack out of their home and move on with her life. Marry someone else, Bleep whoever she wants, whenever she wants...... but like all greedy people, she wants to "eat from both sides", Be a wife and not be a wife!

- That the man went to seek greener pastures (like most Nigerians do nowadays), is also not an excuse to become a LovePeddler in his absence. If and when he becomes a citizen, with the right to bring his wife and children over to America, will you say because he left for long, that you will forfiet the opportunity?
- Even if he marries another "citizen woman" over there like most Men do, to seucre their Green card (Arrangee marriage), is it not always with the knowledge and consent of their wife or does everyone in the family not benefit from it, including extended family members? When did tha now become and excuse for fornication?
- Is it not sad that most people commenting cannot read, listen and comprehend a short story or how come no one spotted the lie this adulterous woman was spinning when she first said the man did not come home, but later said he came home, when she said he abandoned his child (they have only one girl child, most commentattors didnt even hear that in her video!) but later said he was preparing papers for his daughter, to take her abroad and that he was afraid she would not consent to his taking his daughter abroad?

- How come folks did not notice that the man had good knowledge of what she has been doing (cheating) over a long time and this last episode was well organised just to "bust her open" in a final, in the presence of many people. Why would a husband who knew his wife was fucking around, be keen to be with her or even come back to her or want to be with her after that?
The man is no longer interested in her as a wife (due to her cheating) and did what he did not, to expose her publicly less she starts telling another "cry-me-a-river story" in future, as we know most women will do when their action backfires on them.
In the good old days when travelling from Nigeria to UK took three Months by Sea, our Mothers will wait for years, fro their husbands to come back from abroad, without soiling themselves with promiscuity but women of nowadays are competing with Dogs, in shagging around!
Just leave a wife for a few weeks while trying to improve the family fortunes and that is all the excuse she needs to exhibit innate harlotry!

The man should just take his daughter abroad and let the woman continue with her sufferhead boyfriend.
Anyone destined for suffering and poverty, even if you lock them inside the vault of Central bank, they will still suffer and die of poverty.

TheGoodJoe:


Same kids the man abandoned to start a new family. Please, the woman has seen enough. You can not taste a pin of what she faces.

Belafonte:


Why does she still live in his house? If she has moved on then she should move on fully. Issa simpu sturvs

srclark:
the man still takes responsibility of the kids and thats why he his angry she brought another to his house .there is no manuscript to life some are married to business men some civil servants,some are married to soldiers .So you have to know what you are getting into ahead and make sure you are ready to cope( more like having a relationship with a transporter then after 3 kids you are complaining he travels too much ).

srclark:
the man still takes responsibility of the kids and thats why he his angry she brought another to his house .there is no manuscript to life some are married to business men some civil servants,some are married to soldiers .So you have to know what you are getting into ahead and make sure you are ready to cope( more like having a relationship with a transporter then after 3 kids you are complaining he travels too much ).

TheGoodJoe:


She did not know what she was getting into. She did not meet him as an abroad husband. She met him before he travelled to find a way to improve their lives.

Then he chose a different path, living her and the children behind.

He is free to go on with his life but should not complain where and when she chooses to satisfy her needs. She is human with feelings and he abandoned her.

Simple.