This is the second time she did this same thing to me. This pained me more.
Last night was a sad one for me. I hate to waste food but I was compelled to throw away a whole pounded yam and oha soup that should have served 2. So this my in law and his wife had an issue which we had wanted help resolve. While I was preparing dinner, the husband came into my kitchen and so I decided to serve them but first I'd asked the wife if she was interested and she sure jumped @ it on hearing it'll be served with oha soup her native soup. So I did the needful. After serving this woman, she decided to just eat the fish and meat � and she then returned my pounded yam and soup to me. I then asked if she doesn't do pounded yam but to my amazement she never even knew what the swallow I served her was because she never tasted it. I'd wanted eating it cos she didn't touch it but I heard something say drop that food��. I should have kept it in the fridge but it's been 3 days without light. Last last, I just had no choice other than throw the food away.‬
‪My pain now is how can you say you want something yet you waste it�‍♀️�‍♀️�‍♀️For kingdom sakes, people are starving and dying of starvation ��‬
After the whole happenings, I decided to tell the husband that that was the last time I was gonna ever serve the wife food again. I'm still not happy though.

Was i wrong to have taken such decision and was it right I'd told the husband that �‍♀️

bbjummy:
This is the second time she did this same thing to me. This pained me more.
Last night was a sad one for me. I hate to waste food but I was compelled to throw away a whole pounded yam and oha soup that should have served 2. So this my in law and his wife had an issue which we had wanted help resolve. While I was preparing dinner, the husband came into my kitchen and so I decided to serve them but first I'd asked the wife if she was interested and she sure jumped @ it on hearing it'll be served with oha soup her native soup. So I did the needful. After serving this woman, she decided to just eat the fish and meat � and she then returned my pounded yam and soup to me. I then asked if she doesn't do pounded yam but to my amazement she never even knew what the swallow I served her was because she never tasted it. I'd wanted eating it cos she didn't touch it but I heard something say drop that food��. I should have kept it in the fridge but it's been 3 days without light. Last last, I just had no choice other than throw the food away.‬
‪My pain now is how can you say you want something yet you waste it�‍♀️�‍♀️�‍♀️For kingdom sakes, people are starving and dying of starvation ��‬
After the whole happenings, I decided to tell the husband that that was the last time I was gonna ever serve the wife food again. I'm still not happy though.

Was i wrong to have taken such decision and was it right I'd told the husband that �‍♀️

May be she is pregnant food aversion might occur.

My dear u did the right thing. I think that woman is sick in the head.

uruba23:

May be she is pregnant food aversion might occur.

She isn't pregnant oo. She said she wouldn't want to sleep hence why she didn't eat the food. Can you imagine

Since na d 1st time...leave am.

Wyzkyd:
My dear u did the right thing. I think that woman is sick in the head.

Exactly what the husband said too.

donbachi:
Since na d 1st time...leave am.

Second time o. This pained me more

bbjummy:
Second time o. This pained me more

she no try

bbjummy:

She isn't pregnant oo. She said she wouldn't want to sleep hence why she didn't eat the food. Can you imagine

She is forming posh on your food, i wanted to say you should put the food in the dinning and let then serve themselves but the result would still be same....just make sure her portion is very very small next time.

You have try.... na so them dey do, we dey try solve one case here self.

uruba23:

She is forming posh on your food, i wanted to say you should put the food in the dinning and let then serve themselves but the result would still be same....just make sure her portion is very very small next time.

Nice idea but seriously I won't give her a chance next time.

ojun50:
You have try.... na so them dey do, we dey try solve one case here self.

Ah! This thing is really serious oo

Erediauwa:
A whole pounded yam? You're too generous and it might lead into something not pleasant for you.


Try and reduce that generosity especially when it comes to food.

As for that dumb woman, give her 70km space henceforth.


Na winch we dey call her type for Warri.

ose... I'm giving her 100 yards oo

bbjummy:

Ah! This thing is really serious oo

My wife broda almost spoil my mood this morning.

The worst part na elder broda to my wife......

ojun50:

My wife broda almost spoil my mood this morning.

The worst part na elder broda to my wife......

It's just not easy tolerating a lot from your inlaws.

bbjummy:

It's just not easy tolerating a lot from your inlaws.

Yea, one just have to use wisdom

So how did Covid-19 get into the picture?

She lacks decorum.

bbjummy:

Second time o. This pained me more

You need not continue accepting such behavior.

ecolime:
So how did Covid-19 get into the picture?

This happened as a result of stay home

She ate the meat and fish??

Next time, do not cook for them.
If they are hungry, give them bread and tea.
Both husband and wife!!

If she returns food to you, tell her no one eats leftovers in your house. Package it and give her to go with it.

Who taught Nigerians this rubbish of taking the meat and leaving the rest of the food??

Long throat won't let her say No polietly instead of wasting your food

bbjummy:

This happened as a result of stay home

Okk... Do not cook for them again.

Winneygirl:
She ate the meat and fish??

Next time, do not cook for them.
If they are hungry, give them bread and tea.
Both husband and wife!!

Lesson learnt. Thank you

missimelda01:
Who taught Nigerians this rubbish of taking the meat and leaving the rest of the food??

Long throat won't let her say No polietly instead of wasting your food

So annoying oo. I'm still trying to heal

Winneygirl:
If she returns food to you, tell her no one eats leftovers in your house. Package it and give her to go with it.

just exactly what my mother in-law does. Lesson learnt

I honestly don't think there should be a next time.