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Re: My Wife Has Turned My Children Against Me by gbemishile: 5:45pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
If it ain't working Get the hell out Divorce should be the last option and it's distasteful in the sight of God,but if ain't working anymore,please get the hell out |
Re: My Wife Has Turned My Children Against Me by DabuIIIT: 5:45pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
Bola146: Don't mind that woman wrapper. The man in question must be hiding something terrible from us.. he must have neglected those kids and his wife. He may have abused them.. Why is he not responding here? 8 Likes |
Re: My Wife Has Turned My Children Against Me by 1stola: 5:45pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
Paul8000:Don't waste your life with people that are making your life miserable for the sake of anything. If you die, your children will live their lives. Tell her you'd divorce her if you refuse to change. Start talking to your children too. Start telling them all the things she's doing to hurt you. Let everything be balanced. If at the end the situation remains the same, divorce her! 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Has Turned My Children Against Me by ImaIma1(f): 5:45pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
Paul8000: Obviously, you didn't spend time with your kids and let them get to know you also. How come your wife has the upper hand with them? If you had invested your time with your children for the past 15years, their mother would not be able to fill their heads with nonsense because they know you for themselves. But since you are a stranger to them, they will believe what the person they are familiar with tells them. Men will leave all the parenting to their wives and later cry fowl and say their wives are poisoning the kids against them. Where were you when they were growing up? 12 Likes |
Re: My Wife Has Turned My Children Against Me by OJOAYODEJI(m): 5:45pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
I feel your pains but just continue your job as a responsible father to all the kids. Try and neglect her for now, concentrate on your children. Buy the kids there best gifts which you know they will appreciate. Also ensure whenever you are paying there school or any bills ensure you give them the receipt individually and make them know you made the payment of possible. I actually feel your pains but also ensure you have sessions of prayer with them at morning and night, you can start with the younger ones ,am sure the elderly ones will join you by God's grace. Just relax your mind. Women can be frustrating at times but a man don't need to kill himself when they bring up there issues. God will help you. |
Re: My Wife Has Turned My Children Against Me by Amya(f): 5:46pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
cococandy: Stop this. Learn to give benefit of doubts before you end up maligning the minds of some that might want to give useful advice. If a story seems fake to you, scroll down. Such negative comments do more harm than good. 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Has Turned My Children Against Me by hollah123: 5:46pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
Ladylite:u better don't make matters worse by deceiving the op,it's obvious d op did something bad that makes d woman care less so if he travels for long d wife can just get a sugar boy n it will add to op miseries 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Has Turned My Children Against Me by Nobody: 5:47pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
Paul8000: I may be wrong , but that is where the problem with you and your family started from. Plus, don't think your children did not notice when you were cheating. They know. God knows they know. And they hold a grudge against you permanently because you disrespected their mother by cheating on her. My advise to you is simple. Pray about what to do next, pray to God to heal your marriage and your relationship with your wife, then go and get some counseling from a pastor with experience in such matters. N.B: To all those guys shouting 'Side chicks are the best'..this is the result of keeping side chicks. Your child will not respect you. 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Has Turned My Children Against Me by AdaoraNK(f): 5:47pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
Children love their dad more depends on how much affection you give them. Secondly, the issues you have with your wife may be so 'bad' that it affected the 3 oldest emotionally , though you did not disclose it. The solution is keep pleading with your wife and turn a new LEAF. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Has Turned My Children Against Me by mimimile93: 5:47pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
SweetCunt97:There's exit door |
Re: My Wife Has Turned My Children Against Me by GeniusWeb: 5:48pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
Show this thread to all your children that can read and understand.. |
Re: My Wife Has Turned My Children Against Me by vezycash(m): 5:48pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
Paul8000: If you're telling the truth, guy commot the house. Familiarity breeds contempt. You are staying in the house too much. If you're telling the truth, go rent another house somewhere else. The kids will find you come guaranteed. Even if you don't want to rent, there is another way. When I was a child, no matter the quarrel btw my parents, we dare not interfere - even when my old man no drop cash. Because see him once a week. Monday to Saturday, he leaves before 4am and returns earliest 10pm. So when he's home on Sundays, his respect is there. Get busy, hustle harder, and your respect will appear. You're not the first guy to cheat and will not be the last. If she no want do make she tell you. But if you're still together, she must show you the respect. In fact, I'm suspecting her self. There's a guy somewhere giving her liver. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Has Turned My Children Against Me by BlackPantherCri: 5:48pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
You lost my sympathy when you mentioned you cheated on her. Cheating... Na, for me, that's the end of love, fidelity, trust and respect. Sorry Bro, ask your creator for forgiveness 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Has Turned My Children Against Me by Elinosweet143(f): 5:51pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
I can imagine your pain. I advice you try and have a sit out with your kids, take them out on a treat then sit and talk with them without the interference of your wife try to know what their problem is with u, make peace with them that should be the first move if u succeed in getting them to understand everything without painting their mother black, then you'll also tell them how much u love their mom and ask for their help, i bet u they will intervene and help restore peace but u must back up your plans with prayers and show more love than anger. Do this properly and thank me later |
Re: My Wife Has Turned My Children Against Me by DanseMacabre(m): 5:51pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
cococandy: Hmmm. You've got a good head on your shoulders. |
Re: My Wife Has Turned My Children Against Me by chatinent: 5:51pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
I'd advise you don't wash your dirty linen in public. |
Re: My Wife Has Turned My Children Against Me by Campala(f): 5:52pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
If only we can hear her own side of the story cos I believe she has her own story to tell. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Has Turned My Children Against Me by fk001(m): 5:55pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
cococandy: So you have never seen a home where one of the parents is turning the children against the other? |
Re: My Wife Has Turned My Children Against Me by sexybash(f): 5:55pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
DominusPrime:Oya complete it for him Story writer |
Re: My Wife Has Turned My Children Against Me by Uniqueteco(m): 5:55pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
My brother, there's another joystick outthere giving your wife the joy of her life. Now do these: 1. find a discrete way of running a DNA test on the children. 2. Call all the children to order after confirming you fathered them and if they didn't adhere bros, LEAVE THE HOUSE FOR THEM. A time is coming when your children will need you. 5 Likes |
Re: My Wife Has Turned My Children Against Me by Martinez39s(m): 5:55pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
Gracealone:It's one thing for a woman to disrespect a man, it's another thing to wickedly turn his children unjustly against him. If a woman has issues with the man, let her keep the dispute between her and her husband. How can a parent claim to totally love her children when she uses them as mere pawns in her quarrels with her husband? Why unjustly turn the children's heart from a father that loves them just because of a dispute with the father? It takes a soul with a devilish, selfish, and thoughtless aspect to do something like that. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Has Turned My Children Against Me by Adeyebi24(m): 5:55pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
Your suggestion make sense bro. |
Re: My Wife Has Turned My Children Against Me by Amya(f): 5:55pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
This story hurts me so much because my mum played that card too. Now my dad is late and I wish I had a better relationship with him before he passed. My Dad wasn't a bad man, it's now so obvious I was heavily brainwashed by my mum. I hope your kids dont feel as i do someday. 8 Likes |
Re: My Wife Has Turned My Children Against Me by Timileyin1234(m): 5:55pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
If you have your money, get another woman pregnant and leave them. She is a bitter woman. That was why our fore-fathers pluralized women Somebody whey don born 5pikin expecting me to be faithful. I can’t take my wife inciting my children against me, if I couldn’t beat senses into her, I would marry another wife 5 Likes |
Re: My Wife Has Turned My Children Against Me by Dantedasz(m): 5:55pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
1Sharon: Usually women with low self esteem issues do this. |
Re: My Wife Has Turned My Children Against Me by HazardMan(m): 5:58pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
Do it the gentleman way. Stop talking to your wife and the 3 disrespectful brats. Don't eat anything from her, just act like they don't exist. Don't keep money for food so they will know the impact you are having on them as a father. Go out, buy food for yourself and the two little kids always. Do this for just 1week and she will be the next person to come on nairaland with topics like "HOW TO GET BACK MY MAN". "HOW TO ASK YOUR MAN FOR FORGIVENESS". "HOW DO I APOLOGIZE TO MY MAN, E.T.C". 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Has Turned My Children Against Me by richmindx: 5:58pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
Kindly follow up those advice but don't also forget to find a way to embarrassed your wife in the midst of your children and the neighbors. To do this, try to make an arrangement with a guy that's very close to which your wife doesn't know. Tell him to come to your house and act as a man friend to your wife. He will come to your house when your wife is at home, he will confront your wife as a guy man why your wife refused to visit him again after she seduced him and make him to fall in love with her...etc Ironic: 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Has Turned My Children Against Me by Amya(f): 5:58pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
Martinez39s: 100% true. That woman does not even love her children, cos if she did, she wouldn't involve them in her personal dispute with their dad. Her act is messing them psychologically. All for cheap points. Sad. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Has Turned My Children Against Me by hermesprogidy(m): 5:58pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
Fucking weak motherfucker. I don't believe this story. 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Has Turned My Children Against Me by Overlordrichy(m): 6:00pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
Paul8000: Its like you don't love your wife again, you only want your children I'm sorry to say I don't think you will be able to solve this problem |
Re: My Wife Has Turned My Children Against Me by professore(m): 6:00pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
Have you considered your wife my be possessed? Well, it is not the case of hitting her. You have one solution. Pray till you see changes. |
Re: My Wife Has Turned My Children Against Me by Nobody: 6:00pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
You and your wife need to put your act together fast. Your children will soon lose respect for you both. The primary thing you and your wife owe your children is to respect each other, especially in their presence. Don't even attempt to use force to make your children 'turn to your side'. Let them see you treat their mother right and let them see their mother treat you right. When you have finally won the heart of your wife, let her know that you dislike her discussing your issues with the children. Except you have forgotten how to win your wife's heart, make her feel loved again. One thing most women don't know is that when they discuss their grievances between their spouse with their children, they reduce their respect and end up traumatizing the kids... You have not been there for your wife, your children have been performing your role of a husband and confidante, and this is not a responsible act on your part. Your wife is really bitter with you, and it didn't start today. I'll sincerely tell you, if it's me, I won't let you have it easy with me after you've hurt me over again. It is very easy to win a woman's heart again, most men don't just know this. If what you wife is accusing you of is true, turn a new leaf. Do all you can to work out your relationship with your wife. That is the best thing you can do for your children. 4 Likes |
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