eni4real:
She is someone's wife now!!!

and so she should kill her with sex abi

skedman:
The best solution is to always delay his food . He will fight for food rather than sex
He has something in his belly that why is libido is high

Skedman on point! One police man when i dey cell bin tell me say "if hungry never catch you, you no go get sense"...lol lockdown boredom may also be playing a huge part..

leonard002:
Your problem is not new, so, here's a solution that has worked for people in the past.

Discuss with him and prepare a schedule for having sex. Thrice weekly, twice weekly, four times weekly. Whatever works for you both. You guys should decide and come up with the days of the week.

Then stick to those days. He will comply if he is loving and understanding. He won't disturb you further on the off days and it will be something you both will look forward to.

Sex should be enjoyed and shouldn't be a chore to both parties.

Good luck.

This is the most unspontaneous sex I've ever read about!!

Rozz:
and so she should kill her with sex abi

Nobody will die... She needs to develop different ways of satisfying the man. Not just by penetration!!

I hope you are learning too??

LilMissFavvy:
It's so pathetic that mature folks would give such advice. Even if you listen to couple talks most of them say 2-3 times weekly is okay for them, highest should not exceed 4times. Yet people cannot get a grasp of what OP is feeling, imargine having a daily friction on such a sensitive organ daily. It will be painful.

Second wife is a good option tho

obinnanelson4:
A woman who thinks like you will make a bad wife. is that how to console a lady who brought her marital problem for advise? terrible!

Don't stress yourself she is not married... She doesn't qualify.. No be nairaland again??

zedegit:


You should communicate more on how he can please you and make you willing.

I get pleased whenever I want it. He pleases me

LilMissFavvy:
Not true. Our fore fathers did not marry many wives because one woman is not enough for them, rather they married many wives because ''plenty wives'' was seen as an achievement and prestige, likewise plenty kids. The mere fact that women of old gave birth to battalion kids, means they were always pregnant, nursing kids, nursing birth wounds, too busy, unhealthy, etc. One healthy woman is naturally enough for one healthy normal man. Or have we not heard how young wives in polygamous marriages go out because of their husbands inadequacies?

We all saw very sensible advice some people gave here, some suggested mouth action, pre-intimacy, etc, to keep the man okay. There is nothing like ''its in the bloodline'', it's mere superstition.

What are you afraid of??
The man have the right to marry another wife, so that he will not kill his wife with sex!

Unless the wife devise non-penetrative strategies to satisfy her husband, the man(who has a high libido) will need a new wife to satisfy him!!!

I hope he is rich enough tho!!!

Always pray for a rich husband

Julietsim:
My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years now. He is a very good man . He is not a cheating type. The only thing is he likes sex so much that he always wants to have it everyday. I am tired. This lockdown has even increase the issue. Please how can one cope. Is there any married lady that has experienced this. How did you handle it

Give his number to a sexy mistress

eni4real:
Nobody will die... She needs to develop different ways of satisfying the man. Not just by penetration!!

I hope you are learning too??

learning what,go jor

Rozz:
learning what,go jor

You are a fast learner!

James289:
Everyday is not Christmas, which one is sex everyday? If he is angry make e knack head for wall

It may not really be everyday... Something tells me the op is trying to paint an extreme picture to drive her 'SOS' home although she said almost.. But who even has sex everyday like Sunday through Sunday? Shior! Maybe the hubby just has a high libido and that's all..

Lizboh:




My sister, some of us are having the same experience. I've been married to my husband for the past 20yrs, and its sex sex everyday except on my period. We've had series of issues because of it but oga no gree change. Most times I start fights because I don't want to do but he will still come for it. What I've doing for more than 2yrs now is just to lay back and allow him do what he want without participating ( he no kuku dey mind again)..I also pretend to sleep when he is doing it. Most people here will not understand what you are going through, just learn to live with it. Thats my own advise

Julietsim:
My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years now. He is a very good man . He is not a cheating type. The only thing is he likes sex so much that he always wants to have it everyday. I am tired. This lockdown has even increase the issue. Please how can one cope. Is there any married lady that has experienced this. How did you handle it

1. I learnt there are some herbs women put in the man's food to reduce his sex drive. Some women know about this. Ask around.

2. Start a business that will require you either come back late at night or a business that makes you travel to the next town for 2 or 3 days each week.

3. Offer him the option of BJ/mouth action without viginal penetration any time you're feeling virginal pains.


Thank me later.

Ariza:
Ahn Ahn. It's not up to this nah.



Why do people assume a lot on this forum?

Seems you are new to nairaland... Many frustrated single men and women roam about here... The posts they make here end up hurting them more in real life... The forum is full of fantasies let it not get to you..

sassysure:

It's not advisable to live with that. At first ladies see this as form of showing affection and continue to enable it so to pull out is now problem.

I don't know about others and I don't lack self esteem but I will never allow a man to pound me more than twice a week. We check out this before saying I do.
That's part of compatibility.
If we can't agree on that, all man go his way. Can't continue doing something I don't enjoy. men like that have high sexual hormones. They should learn how to masturbate, get fulfilment from mouth action or even bang sex doll and leave me alone. I didn't come to this world to rump everyday.

eeyhaa! Very touching... Sorry about your gender "miss victim" please do endeavour to have a d!ck on your reincarnation.. Thank you

GraGra247:





1. I learnt there are some herbs women put in the man's food to reduce his sex drive. Some women know about this. Ask around.

2. Start a business that will require you either come back late at night or a business that makes you travel to the next town for 2 or 3 days each week.

3. Offer him the option of BJ/mouth action without viginal penetration any time you're feeling virginal pains.


Thank me later.

Am a fanmilk agent....ask anyone that knows about being an agent for fanmilk. I work between 7am -11am, then go back to work around 6pm to get home by 12am. We should just leave the debate, she will adjust in time...she will get a suitable timetable for herself

Rozz:
learning what,go jor

Darling. Ok u win. I don't want u to lost a big shance to make money.

How much just to kiss & hug u for 1 minutes?

sassysure:

Well, she said her vaginal walls have no feelings and are constantly dry. I don't wear the shoe so I wouldn't know.

Her mother should talk to the man, yes. It's a woman to man talk and an elderly woman is needed to send the message home with its consequences.

My friend missed the opportunity when her mum came for the first òmùgwò and noticed what was happening. She begged this girl and she was busy doing my husband my affair.
Her biggest mistake. Six yrs down the line, she was giving me a frantic call. Shame wouldnt allow her to call her mum. All.the feelings she had for this guy were just melting away.
Worst is that if she is not with this guy for like 3 or 2 days, he will go out and do it.
Is that not madness?

Just cut the trash already... You are just speaking through the mirror of a woman.. An unmarried one at that... See there is no schedule/timetable for a mans sexual urge.. Our forefathers and indeed some religion that accept polygamy are not foolish...case closed!!

Rozz:
Why will he want to kill someone's daughter with sex everyday

So all of a sudden the "i am your wife" blackmail has turned to "somebody's daughter" eh kwa?? Continue... I know this is not you..

LilMissFavvy:
Not true. Our fore fathers did not marry many wives because one woman is not enough for them, rather they married many wives because ''plenty wives'' was seen as an achievement and prestige, likewise plenty kids. The mere fact that women of old gave birth to battalion kids, means they were always pregnant, nursing kids, nursing birth wounds, too busy, unhealthy, etc. One healthy woman is naturally enough for one healthy normal man. Or have we not heard how young wives in polygamous marriages go out because of their husbands inadequacies?

We all saw very sensible advice some people gave here, some suggested mouth action, pre-intimacy, etc, to keep the man okay. There is nothing like ''its in the bloodline'', it's mere superstition.

It's in the blood line is not any mere superstition. The reason many men can't stay with one woman is simply as a result of what they got from there progenators.
Almost all our forefathers were polygamists and it had nothing to do with achievement. Men married more than one wives.

We have uncountable cases of men unsatisfied with one woman. These things run in the blood line. Just like thievery, prostitution and many vices all are blood line problems.

It's just that some men use self control to hold themselves from misbehaving. The battle that men go through to control themselves is not easy one.
That's why I get angry when a woman who doesn't know what it means to be in a man's body will just open there mouth and be talking nonsense.

Hmmmm, such a hubby needs some sleeping pills lolz. OP Neva said u should administer one o...Anyway since he is a good man why don't u have a deep convo and let him know the koko in that regards...

Perogbangba:
learning

Smart girl .. Simple understanding and communication can solve this...But some are just ranting up and down even when they don't qualify to comment..

kalufelix:
You'd be surprised many married men go through torture just to have sex with their legally wedded wives... Some hide it while others resort to cheating... Monogamy remains the biggest scam/evil of modern Christianity targeted at the seed Carriers to subdue them and checkmate population growth...

That was what I was trying to let that lady that was running her mouth know.
Many married men go through a lot as regards that, even pastors. Which man doesn't like sex. Sometimes these women are very selfish.


I remember I read one research that highly sexed libido men who there wives understand the power become very rich and wealthy. That extremely rich men are highly libido men. Sex radiates energy that can be turned to money by couples that understands this hidden secret.

just passing

djon78:


That was what I was trying to let that lady that was running her mouth know.
Many married men go through a lot as regards that, even pastors. Which man doesn't like sex. Sometimes these women are very selfish.


I remember I read one research that highly sexed libido men who there wives understand the power become very rich and wealthy. That extremely rich men are highly libido men. Sex radiates energy that can be turned to money by couples that understands this hidden secret.

One even said it has to be twice a week like its some scheduled Uefa champions league match ... Wetin stop man from having a quickee with ein wife for kitchen or before leaving for work.. If its not done in a selfish manner

Gaggi:
Only a man without discipline and ambition will be thinking of sex everytime. Perhaps, he has a condition making him preoccupied with sex, he should see a therapist.

Sex is not food and only hormonal boys are always in the mood. I was like your husband in my teens and early 20's and so were most guys but it is natural to grow out of it.

With age comes discipline and with personal development, sex takes the back burner. Your husband has issues and he needs to sort it out before he kills himself with over exertion.
PS.
I strongly believe it's a fake story though.

I hope you read the comment of the woman that has been married for 25yrs. With a 20yr old son.. I strongly advice you speak for your own libido next time...

chinwezdasilva:
would it hv stopped you from marrying him?

Good question..

kalufelix:
So all of a sudden the "i am your wife" blackmail has turned to "somebody's daughter" eh kwa?? Continue... I know this is not you..

so you don't see any problem with the husband demanding for it daily,its not normal and like someone already typed he should go see a doctor

kalufelix:
I hope you read the comment of the woman that has been married for 25yrs. With a 20yr old son.. I strongly advice you speak for your own libido next time...

Any man who can't control himself is not a man. Manage your libido, if your wife can't match your excesses then go and get a intimacy gadget.
Sex is mutual and if your partner says she can't cope with your excesses then let her be. By the way the woman you are referring to didn't say her husband is a dog on heat.

Davash222:
Advice him to get a second wife, so you can be relieved of your DUTY!!

Duty, thought it's a mutual thing

LilMissFavvy:
Only a numbskulll would say that sex on a daily basis is a normal thing. I have read severally in write-ups from experts that 2-3, times sex in a week is is normal for healthy married people. it's a pity when a lady does the right thing by abstaining till marriage, then ends up with these kinds of issues. Anyman who has sex everyday has a serious issue and should seek medical help. I don't know why any male should say that a woman cannot experience pain due to daily sex, who told you, are you a woman to speak? The word nymphomaniac still exists in the dictionary, the OP should seek counselling and be hopeful for the lockdown to end so that her husband can get busy again, and life goes back to normal.

Blah blah blah.. You said men have no clue about women's pain... But how do you know a man who sexes everyday isn't normal.. Besides the op said 'almost' and I'm sure you didn't get the picture..

Gaggi:

Any man who can't control himself is not a man. Manage your libido, if your wife can't match your excesses then go and get a intimacy gadget.
Sex is mutual and if your partner says she can't cope with your excesses then let her be. By the way the woman you are referring to didn't say her husband is a dog on heat.

I usually don't go back and forth with mentions especially when I'm the first to encroach but the 'dog on heat' caught me.. You didn't have to import those words to suit your narrative... She said she has mastered some tactics she has been using for two years now.. My point is that the her husband is still very much sexually active...