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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by PHijo(m): 3:16am On Apr 28, 2020 |
I strongly believe any young man who doesn't want sex from his wife every day must be getting it elsewhere. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by EngineerOloye: 3:17am On Apr 28, 2020 |
I imagine you genuinely intend to help and that your advice was given with good intentions. However, maybe rereading it objectively could have highlighted some pointers to unhelpful suggestions with looming unintended consequences, especially if you are in a loving marriage relationship. The lockdown would naturally increase sex activities... Even Google indicates increase in pornographic surfing around the globe. Don't scatter someone's home with your keypad abeg. @Iambell please be sure to find an appropriate time and way to communicate your concerns with your husband. You should know the best times as he is your husband 2. I am assuming it affects your health,so let him see that. Even if it's not affecting your health it certainly will begin to affect your emotions and feelings towards him. 3. Agree on a compromise 4. Also pray about it... You both should satisfy each other and not labor eachother. As you are complaining too much, he may also be complaining too little. Ideal number is relative and good news is... Sex drive drops with age, so the worst is gone. Don't quote me sha... [color=#550000][/color] Jesuisbelle: |
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by princemillla(m): 3:23am On Apr 28, 2020 |
Julietsim: Am a married man I av been there befor. Belive me it's a phase. It will fade off soon. Don't deny him of his supposed right. The moment u start giving excuse not to touch will be his excuse for going out. So use ur sense to introduce some other funs into the game. Be wise |
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by jimakeabi: 3:26am On Apr 28, 2020 |
share him with your female friends...very simple |
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Bugcompiler(m): 3:26am On Apr 28, 2020 |
She's not a intimacy gadget. If after two years she's still complaining, it implies her system isn't structure for that stress. Discus it with him please, u are human too |
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Raphael007(m): 3:34am On Apr 28, 2020 |
Jesuisbelle: I assume you are not married if you were you won’t talk like this. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Nobody: 3:37am On Apr 28, 2020 |
Macphenson: I think so. I am 14 years married. No married woman ever gives her husband the sex he wants. Even the nymphomaniac lady. They work, they take care of kids, do housework, they are often tired, or not in the right emotional place. So, if I get it right, the times you do allow him to sleep with you get on your nerves. You hate sex, and you didn't tell him. You will push him to other women. If you only knew how many women give signals to him everyday, or how many he would successfully toast... 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Jacqueline22(f): 3:40am On Apr 28, 2020 |
Davash222:Lol |
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Raphael007(m): 3:43am On Apr 28, 2020 |
Frankcallys:Your head correct joor, women will give you all kinds of condition before marriage and when married the same condition, if you dnt want to sleep with your husband everyday let him be, that secretary at the office will help her take good care of him, and she should pray he doesn’t meet all this runs girls. They will teach him a thing or two about sex he won’t remain the same again 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by guychidile: 3:45am On Apr 28, 2020 |
hmn,na waoo |
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by topas100(m): 3:46am On Apr 28, 2020 |
Mutual understanding should be the watchword here.... There are ways to discuss such issues with your husband without getting him angry,also get him to join you in some house chores |
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by theewhy: 3:47am On Apr 28, 2020 |
Just make use of KY jelly to relieve you of dryness and pain...at least that wld minimize pain small 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by adesys: 3:47am On Apr 28, 2020 |
This is zerious |
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Algold: 3:54am On Apr 28, 2020 |
The day he stops asking you for sex, ask questions ooo. U better let him enter many times as he wants in a day? Most people with high sex drive didn't f**k much or didn't f**k at all before marriage. Trust me give him two years from now his demand for it will drop... For now service him right, left and centre... You know what use am tire am na him go they bed u sey e don do I trust my wife... The best thing that ever happens to me Julietsim: 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by mozona(m): 3:55am On Apr 28, 2020 |
the only way is to return his bride price thank you |
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Wiseplus123: 4:01am On Apr 28, 2020 |
I am exactly like your hubby and I been married for 6 years now. I don't joke with morning sex everyday except on Sundays. She has gotten use to it now. Initially it wasn't funny at all. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Miner13: 4:05am On Apr 28, 2020 |
Lizboh:that strategy/ies /are what julietsim needs. sex everyday when there is work can't even think or imagine it |
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Bigchristo: 4:06am On Apr 28, 2020 |
Davash222:as you wan spoil me now waiting you gain? |
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by GOFRONT(m): 4:07am On Apr 28, 2020 |
Wow.....The same way I dey service my wife......Guy my libido too high.. She gat no choice, Everytime I knock, she open it.... |
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by efficiencie(m): 4:07am On Apr 28, 2020 |
It's funny how many act and speak like they have the manual of the life of anyone. @Julietsim you don't have to change him by yourself and who knows you may be the one that needs change...take the matter to the person who has the manual of your life and that of your husband, the Most High God, Jesus Christ. The counsels I have seen so far on this post will destroy your marriage quicker than you expect...if your marriage was joined in the presence of God then take the marriage back to God. Stop tinkering with what you did not manufacture...adversity exists to bring the righteous to the place of fellowship with God! 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by keneryhark(m): 4:11am On Apr 28, 2020 |
James289:who isn't jobless during this lockdown? remember this woman didn't bring this up prior to lockdown? |
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Miner13: 4:18am On Apr 28, 2020 |
Kuns84:your interest in female monicker is why you have the shi.t around you |
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Jeweltz(f): 4:19am On Apr 28, 2020 |
Wiseplus123: Na this kind of man I want in my life. God, give me a good husband that won't cheat on me. I don't mind giving him sex every minutes cuz I love sex too . Not all these fuckboys with swag and no sense at all 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by trumpcoat(m): 4:21am On Apr 28, 2020 |
You don't have to be afraid that if you don't give him everyday he might go outside, you can't statist a man, even if you give him you VJ to pocket he will still pocket it and search elsewhere for another VJ,everyday sex especially when you start having pain can cause infection or cancer, if you die he will mourn for something and still move on,God forbid, seat him down tell him about your pains,strategize a time for him may be twice a week or 3 times depending on your strength.God help you in your quest |
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by trumpcoat(m): 4:23am On Apr 28, 2020 |
You don't have to be afraid that if you don't give him everyday he might go outside, you can't statisfy a man, even if you give him you VJ to pocket he will still pocket it and search elsewhere for another VJ,everyday sex especially when you start having pain can cause infection or cancer, if you die he will mourn you for something and still move on,God forbid, seat him down tell him about your pains,strategize a time for him may be twice a week or 3 times depending on your strength.God help you in your quest |
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by geomekas: 4:24am On Apr 28, 2020 |
GreatChizzy: Truly I am surprised of complaints of having sex everyday. May be there's no pre-intimacy and your vagina is not wet before your husband penetrate you. Though am not always around with my wife, sometimes I work for 3weeks and 1 week off sometimes I stay for 4weeks and 1 week off in my job. Anytime, am around, we have sex almost everyday sometimes 3times in a day. I must put her in a mood before sex and she always enjoy it without complaint. I showed her this thread and she said that she can do it with me everyday especially in the morning. We have been married for 8 years now. Please communicate with your husband and trick him into spending more time on pre-intimacy. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Wendybrown(f): 4:25am On Apr 28, 2020 |
[quote author=CzarChris post=88928822] Some have food and cannot eat. I know you are suffering in silence, but you married a man with a very high libido. Express your feelings to him, the main essence of marriage is communication. I believe he loves you, he will listen. He might even start avoiding you after that, if he feels he is hurting you. I just pray this doesn't pushing him into getting a side chick. Just go on your knees. Another solution is this, do you have a child yet? If you do, and you get pregnant again, make sure he accompanies you to the labour room during child birth. Believe me he will need therapy, before deciding to have sex with you again. I know a married woman that complained to me to talk to her husband who is my friend to please stop over petting her even during sex, that since he watched her giving birth in the labour room. My guy has never been the same ever since. Na expo bi this ooo.[/quote You've spoken well but he could still come up with an argument that regularly having sex with her doesn't mean she has to get pregnant. And how about when she's done bearing children won't the situation still be same? Kai! this woman is in a serious dilemma. |
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Royalbloodline: 4:30am On Apr 28, 2020 |
Jeferious: � walahi u got me rolling on the floor with serious laughter! |
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by codesport(m): 4:32am On Apr 28, 2020 |
Jesuisbelle:....why can't you suggest to her to allow the man get a second wife instead of unnecessarily subjecting the man to unwarranted hardship?. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Wendybrown(f): 4:33am On Apr 28, 2020 |
isthatso: And I assume a "white man's" genetic composition is different from an "African man"? Please let's stop justifying what's not. U say our forefathers married more than a wife, I wasn't born then but from all I've heard and read I was made to understand that for most it was mainly for farming as that was the major occupation for them. Women are humans too my dear and it's grossly unfair to demand her to stick to a man all d days of her life while d man is allowed to marry as much as he wants and even philander about. |
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Aliyuminna(m): 4:36am On Apr 28, 2020 |
Get angry in peace Jesuisbelle: |
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