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Re: I Was A Husband: My Experience by Reggie2(m): 4:02pm On May 14, 2020 |
I saw a long list of responses to your liberational outbursts but could only read a few. The moral of the story is: going beyond appearance. Twice you mentioned that your estranged wife was not 'a bad woman'. And although this is your side of the story, I could still figure out your 'manly' failures. Women are quite a funny fragile lot who needs to be governed when in a relationship. When you lose your 'leadership' role or play the victim they treat you like trash. No one on this forum can guarantee you a smoother relationship as you move on with another woman. On the contrary, your estranged wife may become 'humbled' as your fortune has changed for better. You did not mention if both of you attended the same church or worshipped the same God - this would have made a big difference. Your reason to leave her parents out of the feud is not tenable - there's a reason Africans have a strong inlaw affinity. Your wife must be nuts to go outside for sex while denying the same to you. The gravity of this adulterous attitude can only exonerate you if, in all honesty, you did not mess around within the period of litigation: we all make mistakes and fall into temptation. I might sound strange in my approach, but reconciliation is a sacrifice that does not come cheap! The future of your child is at stake for no fault of hers. If your wife is indignant and unrepentant, then it's no use going back to woe her. But if she shows guilt on the role she played, remember you were vindicated when God turned your fortune around. It's time to bring out the manhood in you, forgiveness is a virtue and not a weakness. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Was A Husband: My Experience by Olulinks(m): 4:02pm On May 14, 2020 |
I never knew you were not married. iHart: Build first your business before relationship or home. I didn't learn this early. You are doing well bro. 1 Like |
Re: I Was A Husband: My Experience by Liliantalks: 4:02pm On May 14, 2020 |
Ybaby:u can imagine how frustrating it can be |
Re: I Was A Husband: My Experience by Torino234: 4:03pm On May 14, 2020 |
Read again my guy[qquote author=LuQuLuQu post=89461556] You said you earlier worked with an international college and they folded up? Do schools fold up? [/quote] |
Re: I Was A Husband: My Experience by Kokaine(m): 4:04pm On May 14, 2020 |
Obingene:same here mehn. I'm scared of it. To me... Love is all about been rich. Its possible not to be loved when rich. But then its certain not to be loved if not rich. If you are not rich, then love is just a mirage. And when you are rich, even though you don't find true love, you can buy something that almost look like it. Something you can manage till it ever crosses your way |
Re: I Was A Husband: My Experience by concernedmember: 4:05pm On May 14, 2020 |
@Op, since you are free now,can we date? |
Re: I Was A Husband: My Experience by Renida: 4:05pm On May 14, 2020 |
Ceasardgreat: My brother. Thesedays I've subjected all my friends and everyone around me to such test o. Once they fail, disconnect straight up. Life is short 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Was A Husband: My Experience by Kanmagram(m): 4:06pm On May 14, 2020 |
Awwww. Dear God, give me a good wife, not a demon 1 Like |
Re: I Was A Husband: My Experience by Lugianostar(m): 4:06pm On May 14, 2020 |
You really have the time in the world to write all these!!!! What can you do now? |
Re: I Was A Husband: My Experience by Lamanii22(f): 4:06pm On May 14, 2020 |
Samakus: Okay... Thank you very much... Marriage involves work. I will work for my marriage to work. I will be married. And I will enjoy it. Thanks again. God bless you 2 Likes |
Re: I Was A Husband: My Experience by PrimadonnaO(f): 4:07pm On May 14, 2020 |
Prymestrr: You’re living in fantasyland. Better snap out of your reverie. 2 Likes |
Re: I Was A Husband: My Experience by udemzyudex(m): 4:07pm On May 14, 2020 |
faithfull18: Sometimes when i read stories like this i begin to wonder if i can tolerate such. I'm the type that gets worried easily, and it makes me feel restless, I can think about it for days. Will I be able to tolerate such without going nuts? That's why I always say that I believe in divorce, if I try my best and things are not working out, I'll let it go. 7 Likes |
Re: I Was A Husband: My Experience by emmaodet: 4:08pm On May 14, 2020 |
crackland: Ohhhhhh Modern man don suffer .... Chaiiii 3 Likes |
Re: I Was A Husband: My Experience by iLegendd(m): 4:08pm On May 14, 2020 |
I pity you. You may think you're a hero, but you're the type of nice guy women hate and will ALWAYS cheat on. If you're a man reading this, please, read what's in the link below and be wise unlike other men who have decided to be blind. Link: https://www.nairaland.com/5857665/two-threads-all-men-must |
Re: I Was A Husband: My Experience by dederocs(m): 4:08pm On May 14, 2020 |
Most Nigerian women do this, they only marry cos they feel they need you to support them, once the table turns, you see the Jezebel in them...that is why men chase money nowadays, and only marry when established. No money no respect from Nigerian women,they dont like sex, they dont love, they just marry for convenience. 4 Likes |
Re: I Was A Husband: My Experience by Gamboh55(m): 4:09pm On May 14, 2020 |
Ybaby: Your submission stinks to the high heavens. Didn't you read where he said he was also making his own little contributions. You ladies taught yourselves to be selfish. Trials come and go. You can possess the whole world and lose it in a second. You ladies just need to use ur brains more often and know that life is not a bed of roses. 14 Likes |
Re: I Was A Husband: My Experience by crackland: 4:10pm On May 14, 2020 |
emmaodet:Yes oo, my comment was for someone like her...not a wife with sense. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Was A Husband: My Experience by PrimadonnaO(f): 4:10pm On May 14, 2020 |
CHoccolaTE: Money doesn’t fix all things. The wealthier his son gets, the more distant he would be. The son will have family and aspirations of his own. His old father would be left at the mercy of paid domestic help with no real affections for him. That’s even if the son doesn’t grow up dysfunctional... and starts battling marital problems of his own. 4 Likes |
Re: I Was A Husband: My Experience by Goodman247: 4:10pm On May 14, 2020 |
The op was talking about a kid, later he was talking about kids, most of the stories in nairaland are fake 3 Likes |
Re: I Was A Husband: My Experience by myettiallah: 4:10pm On May 14, 2020 |
Telling your story to defend yourself is a waste of time... At the appointed time the truth will unleash itself but not through me |
Re: I Was A Husband: My Experience by Prymestrr(m): 4:11pm On May 14, 2020 |
PrimadonnaO:You read to many romance novels Wake up to life. Even your name leaves so little to be desired. Only sissies worship primadonnas |
Re: I Was A Husband: My Experience by Gamboh55(m): 4:13pm On May 14, 2020 |
LadyGA:I can't believe such is coming from a lady. With this mentality, you will surely have a good home and may God give u a man worthy of u. 5 Likes |
Re: I Was A Husband: My Experience by Olulinks(m): 4:13pm On May 14, 2020 |
This is the second piece am reading from you on this matter. What God help you with is your experience. You are quite experienced. No need for long story you've done well. However I have a question for you. Many inexperienced young dudes should have asked this. But I will help them. tunmiluabi: I have been married for 8 years and my question is, what have you learnt in marriage? What would you have done differently if you are given a chance to start all over again with your wife? |
Re: I Was A Husband: My Experience by Renida: 4:14pm On May 14, 2020 |
zeus2412: Why should marriage be a war in the first place |
Re: I Was A Husband: My Experience by Liliantalks: 4:16pm On May 14, 2020 |
Ybaby:supported 100%% 1 Like |
Re: I Was A Husband: My Experience by Renida: 4:16pm On May 14, 2020 |
OkoroPeugeot: Preach. Many men in this generation see pepper but just don't say it |
Re: I Was A Husband: My Experience by Ikjosh04: 4:16pm On May 14, 2020 |
All i can say is, it is well. |
Re: I Was A Husband: My Experience by Arkmanbuddy(m): 4:17pm On May 14, 2020 |
BlissB: Ehyah, I feel you! 1 Like |
Re: I Was A Husband: My Experience by Liliantalks: 4:18pm On May 14, 2020 |
Goodman247:I thought I was the only one that noticed |
Re: I Was A Husband: My Experience by dayleke: 4:18pm On May 14, 2020 |
Renida: And you too. I'm assuming you are a female too. I saw what you tried to do but unfortunately life is like that. Some people just don't have it and only hold onto what they wanna belief. |
Re: I Was A Husband: My Experience by abujoe: 4:20pm On May 14, 2020 |
women are mean, stingy and greedy. if its there own, you will hear, but....You have to go ahead, there are more to live. 1 Like |
Re: I Was A Husband: My Experience by kenodrill: 4:20pm On May 14, 2020 |
Deep!....really so deep! |
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