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Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Their Wives After Few Years In Marriage? by AlienAnt: 6:39pm On May 23, 2020
Its simple, watching NTA all day can be so boring. U just have to view other stations
Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Their Wives After Few Years In Marriage? by Gemineye: 6:40pm On May 23, 2020
Natural441:
My fellow nairalander let us discuss the reason men lose interest in there women after few years in marriage.
I hate all this kyn thread undecided. You guys make Marriage look like a horror movie with all these kinda topics

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Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Their Wives After Few Years In Marriage? by sonnie10: 6:40pm On May 23, 2020
See-finish mentality.

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Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Their Wives After Few Years In Marriage? by hammerP: 6:41pm On May 23, 2020
THE PERSON U DATED IS NOT NECESSARILY THE PERSON IN YOUR HOUSE.


THE ONLY WAY TO ESCAPE IT, IS TO BE VERY BUSY AND ONLY BE AROUND AT NIGHT TO SLEEP.


THIS WAY, U CAN BUY SOME MORE TIME.

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Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Their Wives After Few Years In Marriage? by Hypocrit: 6:41pm On May 23, 2020
E clear say na marriage week we commot and nai we still dey enter so...
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the marraige topics don tire me like covid19 life scores.

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Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Their Wives After Few Years In Marriage? by Tatashi: 6:42pm On May 23, 2020
Nitric:


True to an extent grin


Mine had fallen balls and started having big tummy with smelling armpit and i lost interest in him.

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Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Their Wives After Few Years In Marriage? by israelmao(m): 6:42pm On May 23, 2020
It's mostly on the ground of physical outlook.
Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Their Wives After Few Years In Marriage? by Carloslehder: 6:42pm On May 23, 2020
Cos they're pusseys what else
Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Their Wives After Few Years In Marriage? by ednut1(m): 6:42pm On May 23, 2020
Doing the same thing for years is tiring

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Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Their Wives After Few Years In Marriage? by Nobody: 6:42pm On May 23, 2020
Braindealer:
Right from genesis, men are fast and intuative, while women are slow and deliberate. A man is hardly confortable in a single position for a long time. It doesnt matter if its confortable for him or not.

It only takes great effort and determination to break the attraction.
Another brilliant input

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Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Their Wives After Few Years In Marriage? by Davefed(m): 6:43pm On May 23, 2020
when relationship is build on sex escapades rather on friendship what do you expect? Friendship is what sustains marriage,without it no marriage will last.
Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Their Wives After Few Years In Marriage? by principalgee: 6:44pm On May 23, 2020
Couples taking advise from a bachelor who has not even plan when to engage.

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Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Their Wives After Few Years In Marriage? by Asadujames202(m): 6:44pm On May 23, 2020
MelaninSkinGirl:
1. Lust/Infatuation disguised as Love.
2. Planning for the magnificent wedding but after the wedding they realise they have nothing in common and are not compatible.
3. Kids changes things and many parents cannot adapt to this change.
4. Both wife and husband lose their looks, the wife is able to adapt but the man is not.
5. Other factors like finances can affect the marriage.




Why should a man adapt to such disgusting body change
Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Their Wives After Few Years In Marriage? by tete7000(m): 6:45pm On May 23, 2020
Because the marriage was built on faulty foundation
Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Their Wives After Few Years In Marriage? by Happyguy201: 6:46pm On May 23, 2020
So many women rush into marriage for gain and financial reason when is no longer flowing for them that's when the problems start I have an uncle who just got married last year because of this coronavirus he lost his job and now always at home they have spent all the money he saved meanwhile the woman was not doing anything no work nothing only depends on the man for everything now the woman is threatening to leave the man because she claims he can no longer take care of her now my question is this supposed to be marriage or a business deal? Because it seems to me that majority of ladies nowadays only after what a man has once you go broke or you start having financial problems that's when the love will be thrown out the window so guys think twice before you go into marriage with any girl especially someone who is not working or doesn't have a job or financially stable because she will become a liability and nag you to death when you can no longer afford the material things for her

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Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Their Wives After Few Years In Marriage? by betonnaira: 6:46pm On May 23, 2020
eating d same food all d time no good for da body, once in a while there should b mix up.
Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Their Wives After Few Years In Marriage? by Sexyjigga(m): 6:47pm On May 23, 2020
Marry your best friend.... Someone who is open to you... Someone you love beyond sex... Sex can be gotten anywhere and from anyone.... Most people nowadays love and marry for sex and beauty...

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Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Their Wives After Few Years In Marriage? by uvie66: 6:47pm On May 23, 2020
No more BJ from the wife.
Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Their Wives After Few Years In Marriage? by Nobody: 6:47pm On May 23, 2020
Davefed:
when relationship is build on sex escapades rather on friendship what do you expect? Friendship is what sustains marriage,without it no marriage will last.
65/100
Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Their Wives After Few Years In Marriage? by Nobody: 6:48pm On May 23, 2020
Sexyjigga:
Marry your best friend.... Someone who is open to you... Someone you love beyond sex... Sex can be gotten anywhere and from anyone.... Most people nowadays love and marry for sex and beauty...
66/100
Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Their Wives After Few Years In Marriage? by Mbenny(m): 6:48pm On May 23, 2020
;Dthe way you sit down a photo grapher snapped you that's the way you will appear

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Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Their Wives After Few Years In Marriage? by Nobody: 6:48pm On May 23, 2020
betonnaira:
eating d same food all d time no good for da body, once in a while there should b mix up.
This point is good for undisciplined, loose men

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Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Their Wives After Few Years In Marriage? by judedwriter(m): 6:49pm On May 23, 2020
Naturally romantic love tends to wane in marriage as it gets older.

When a couple can't keep the romantic spark in their marriage, it becomes routine and boring. It takes a lot to keep the romance in marriage.

Marriages that last longer are often built around solid friendships than romantic love. Of course, it will take a lot of sacrifice and forgiveness, not just friendship for any marriage to last so long.

But when a spiritually mature couple love each other equally with God's love, with no conditions attached, it's going to be 100% successful.

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Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Their Wives After Few Years In Marriage? by Nobody: 6:49pm On May 23, 2020
Wives also lose interest in their husbands if they are not intentional about keeping the interest.

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Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Their Wives After Few Years In Marriage? by Omoluabi16(m): 6:50pm On May 23, 2020
Thats because you realise you probably never loved her as you thought you did.One could get blinded by some 'virtues' which turns out to only be temporal, or the love for that things wears off. If you truly love a spouse, you can never get tired of her.When there is a defect in one of her xtics, other pleasant things will suffice. People do 50 years and are still crazy about each other.

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Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Their Wives After Few Years In Marriage? by Stephenomozzy(m): 6:51pm On May 23, 2020
It goes both ways;

Marrying out of societal pressure - what they felt was 'love' for actually a scheme to fulfill marriage by age.

- Lack of variety and adventure - They no longer see the need to maintain the romance and fun they had while dating that mostly inspired the decision to get married. That's to say they before bored of routine - doing the same thing over and over again.

- Unhygienic or Lack of Good Dressing Sense - That you've married is not the end of the line; some begin to see no need in trying to look good and/or presentable within and outside the house.

- Pressure from Work and Lack of Moral support

et cetera

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Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Their Wives After Few Years In Marriage? by OdogwuAkataka1(m): 6:51pm On May 23, 2020
divineuk:
Physical futures(going out of shape)
Change in character and so on...mind you no man would marry a woman with the intent of loosing interest in the future, something must have changed
This is nothing but the truth
Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Their Wives After Few Years In Marriage? by Food4totcaterin: 6:51pm On May 23, 2020
Monotony ...
Spice it up with different exciting and fun things.

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Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Their Wives After Few Years In Marriage? by ismoney: 6:52pm On May 23, 2020
Correct it. Say some men as it’s same in some women. Don’t generalize it.

God bless Nigeria.

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Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Their Wives After Few Years In Marriage? by HantaVirus(m): 6:52pm On May 23, 2020
Men are polygamous in nature... No matter how faithful a man looks to his wife, there's this urge to cheat... Even Beyonce was cheated on by Hov.

cry

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Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Their Wives After Few Years In Marriage? by luvmijeje(f): 6:53pm On May 23, 2020
It's vice versa. Women also lose interest in their husband. And the reason for it is pretense. People hides who they truly her before marriage. They hide their flaws or turn blind eyes to their flaws.

Secondly because they are desperate to get married they ignore conflict. The best time to fight over what you can't live with in your marriage is during courtship. What you can't accept in your marriage don't accept in your courtship.

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Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Their Wives After Few Years In Marriage? by 9icekenpat: 6:53pm On May 23, 2020
Well I'm going to answer this from the psychology perspective. Most Men make up is to conquer territories that is where the fun is. Most men love resolving puzzles and discovering new things men love complexity but would most time deny it. Keep him hungry and curious.

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