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Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Their Wives After Few Years In Marriage? by Nobody: 9:27pm On May 23, 2020
Goalnaldo:
why are you breathing in only oxygen since you were born? Try other gas like ammonia, hydrogen sulphide.
Don't be ridiculous tryna compare breathing with picking up different women, are you for real? i tell you what, why not wear the same pant without washing it since you were born.

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Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Their Wives After Few Years In Marriage? by Nwaonyishi69: 9:29pm On May 23, 2020
Nothing hurts a man like nagging and coming to the other room dirty, or painted .
Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Their Wives After Few Years In Marriage? by Nobody: 9:34pm On May 23, 2020
fadah68:


Marrying the wrong person

When you're young, check your motives for marrying. Don't marry to copy your peers, or for social standing or out of pressure. Marry for love and companionship, marry the right person, marry your best friend. For if you marry the wrong person or for the wrong reasons, you will have to put up with that person the rest of your life. Things might get worse between you two; then depression, physical abuse, affairs, pain, shame, court cases, bitterness will define your mid-life years all because you chose the wrong one. Things will get worse when children are involved. Make the right choice of a spouse when you are young.
Well.. i say marry for fun because love doesn't exist, when you are done with having fun with one woman you divorce her and marry another one for fun and repeat.
Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Their Wives After Few Years In Marriage? by onyxo76(m): 9:34pm On May 23, 2020
becoming too relaxed and start watching yoruba film every night instead of reading something that will add value to her life..

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Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Their Wives After Few Years In Marriage? by worldclass68(m): 9:38pm On May 23, 2020
kiddkash:
you can't possibly eat rice for the rest of your life.
sometimes you have to try beans, yam , garri & egusi

women shouldn't take it personal




Lol......you actually nailed it bro......like you can't be watching just NTA for the whole yr nah grin grin cheesy


But how bout for both parties �...

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Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Their Wives After Few Years In Marriage? by AkuOlisa: 9:40pm On May 23, 2020
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Natural441:
but not all of them

You are quick to assume ALL men lose interest in their wife's few years into marriage at the same time quick to say SOME women are at fault.

When it comes to men you quickly Generalized it
But
When it Comes to women you are also quick to say SOME.
Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Their Wives After Few Years In Marriage? by lollybee15(m): 9:41pm On May 23, 2020
It's vice versa. Not applicable to men alone. Women do hide theirs.
Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Their Wives After Few Years In Marriage? by OkunrinMeta: 9:44pm On May 23, 2020
Braindealer:
The only and main reason why marriages dont last is notin but childishness; lack of self decipline and ignorance.

Marriage is a union of two MATTURED adults. Every other little reason you think causes faild marriages; like cheating, money, sex all fall under not being matured enough.

ONLY MATURED MINDS REMAIN IN MARRIAGE!

O shey Metuselah. El Mature

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Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Their Wives After Few Years In Marriage? by MrBrownJay1(m): 9:44pm On May 23, 2020
the major reason must definitely b.... because the husband finally realize what his wifey looks like without makeup, mop on her head, fake nails, fake eyelashes, fake skin complexion, fake push up bra etc... i mean, wouldnt you if your wifey was on of the below:

Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Their Wives After Few Years In Marriage? by Goalnaldo(m): 9:44pm On May 23, 2020
gypsey:
Don't be ridiculous tryna compare breathing with picking up different women, are you for real? i tell you what, why not wear the same pant without washing it since you were born.
if staying with one woman is boring, don't you think breathing in only oxygen is boring too? The same way wearing only one pant is?
Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Their Wives After Few Years In Marriage? by Educhelssy: 9:47pm On May 23, 2020
Natural441:
My fellow nairalander let us discuss the reason men lose interest in there women after few years in marriage.
Na see finish Dey cause am mostly
Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Their Wives After Few Years In Marriage? by abu12: 9:49pm On May 23, 2020
hmmm
Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Their Wives After Few Years In Marriage? by Nobody: 9:54pm On May 23, 2020
As for me, I was always interested in my wife and I am not like most men who cheat, but she treats me like some undeserving low-life. She never fails to remind me of some better boyfriends she has had before me. I kept putting up with the sh**t until she started actively trying to ruin my life.
Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Their Wives After Few Years In Marriage? by Sharmeenator(m): 10:00pm On May 23, 2020
Stillthebest:


Very correct but there are still alot;
The wife stops Glowing, refuses to use fragrance thus smell bad, makes home to look tattered , series of corrections that are not adhered to, stop dressing well, always on stupid dresses at home rather than the bum shorts, adding Weight while losing shape because of excess eating, looking unkept in the names of motherhood.

Lack of vacations, lack of romance over time, body odours and mouth odours.
Constant unnecessary quarrels. Making the home to look tattered.

Note* this goes both ways!

Lack of respect from the woman(women who enjoy marriage see their husbands as role models and that husband will turn around to worship her) men are the most stupid sex if properly pampered.

Above all, no man that has gone out since morning and came back home with nothing would be loving, romantic or still have interest in himself let alone his wife.

Being 'broke' for long can cause it.

Disclaimer: Money isnt the main thing that keeps interest in marriage intact but true love. Where there's true love, money will find that place one way or the other.


The bolded is the real reason. A man can still cheat on the low without disrespecting you. But give a man a deserving respect and pampering, you will get the best out of him. He might still cheat, but you will be a jewel he would admire for the rest of his life. Women need to understand this. A man needs pampering and respect, not just sex or being a good home maker

Thanks for that piece OP

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Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Their Wives After Few Years In Marriage? by medolab90(m): 10:08pm On May 23, 2020
GOFRONT:
Reason why I chose to remain single..

Move on to the next pvssay if you tired of the current one....

Until you reach 35 till you know wetin dey sup.
Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Their Wives After Few Years In Marriage? by MrNipplesLover(m): 10:08pm On May 23, 2020
dasparrow:


You do know that women age right? So you want a woman to retain her sexiness forever but the man is allowed to loose his handsomeness - that's if he ever was handsome - grow a pot belly like he is 9 months pregnant and start balding. Not to talk of failing health due to poor eating habits and overall unhealthy lifestyle.

With this mindset of yours, it is no wonder that most Nigerian marriages are nothing but scam. No wonder a day cannot go by on Nairaland and a topic on a problematic marriage does not hit front-page.






don't use my own mindset to judge 'most Nigerian marriages', bro.


let me deal with my own mindset while others find their own ways.






stay blessed, bro.

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Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Their Wives After Few Years In Marriage? by laiperi: 10:14pm On May 23, 2020
After the beauty, wealth, children and vanities what remains is friendship.

Friends always miss one another presence, words, voice, jokes and silliness.

Marry your friend not your lover.
Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Their Wives After Few Years In Marriage? by Nobody: 10:17pm On May 23, 2020
Goalnaldo:
if staying with one woman is boring, don't you think breathing in only oxygen is boring too? The same way wearing only one pant is?
Jeeeezz!! what kinda dumb suggestion is this? how old are you? you still think it's okay, to compare breathing with picking up prostitutes or women?

you sound really ridiculous, like a minor. grin grin if your husband dies will you die with him? you will not move on to marry another man? i am sure you will not answer yes to this my question.


I would throw my wife (if i was married) under a moving train to save my own life. i marry another one.

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Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Their Wives After Few Years In Marriage? by cococandy(f): 10:21pm On May 23, 2020
Just another thread to promote male promiscuity. grin

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Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Their Wives After Few Years In Marriage? by cococandy(f): 10:22pm On May 23, 2020
Sharmeenator:


The bolded is the real reason. A man can still cheat on the low without disrespecting you. But give a man a deserving respect and pampering, you will get the best out of him. He might still cheat, but you will be a jewel he would admire for the rest of his life. Women need to understand this. A man needs pampering and respect, not just sex or being a good home maker

Thanks for that piece OP

Same way your woman can cheat on the low while respecting you cool

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Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Their Wives After Few Years In Marriage? by cococandy(f): 10:23pm On May 23, 2020
Ryan03:
its always the wives that becomes toxic. Lol
don’t mind them

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Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Their Wives After Few Years In Marriage? by cococandy(f): 10:24pm On May 23, 2020
Goalnaldo:
why are you breathing in only oxygen since you were born? Try other gas like ammonia, hydrogen sulphide.

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Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Their Wives After Few Years In Marriage? by cococandy(f): 10:24pm On May 23, 2020
lightangel65i:


Another idi0t ignored

When your own logic is turned towards you it’s sound idiotic huh?
Who would have thunk it?

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Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Their Wives After Few Years In Marriage? by cococandy(f): 10:26pm On May 23, 2020
chlowi:
going theough some comments here ......Nigerian women this , Nigerian women that, coming from people who have sisters at home and daugters or wd soon beget daughters ....... the bashing of women (Nigerian) in this forum is out of this world .........we all would be alright

The misogyny on this forum is so toxic you can smell it over the internet

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Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Their Wives After Few Years In Marriage? by Goalnaldo(m): 10:28pm On May 23, 2020
gypsey:
Jeeeezz!! what kinda dumb suggestion is this? how old are you? you still think it's okay, to compare breathing with picking up prostitutes or women?

you sound really ridiculous, like a minor. grin grin if your husband dies will you die with him? you will not move on to marry another man? i am sure you will not answer yes to this my question.


I would throw my wife (if i was married) under a moving train to save my own life. i marry another one.
you guys use 'only one soup' Bader dash to justify your promiscuity smh. Death is a different case bro.

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Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Their Wives After Few Years In Marriage? by petitejolie(f): 10:31pm On May 23, 2020
Caleycash:
because real love is a scam!!!... the only real love one gets is from his MOM and God, the rest are conditional and big time scam!!!
mom...like the one that drowned her child to death, d one that tied her child in a sack, d one that dumped her baby in the dust bin

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Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Their Wives After Few Years In Marriage? by justuschi50: 10:32pm On May 23, 2020
GOFRONT:
Reason why I chose to remain single..

Move on to the next pvssay if you tired of the current one....
guy the way things they be eh most guy of nawa day want get marriage, they don't know the discipline of marriage
Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Their Wives After Few Years In Marriage? by Goalnaldo(m): 10:33pm On May 23, 2020
lightangel65i:


Another idi0t ignored
as usual resorting to insults. I used basic logic to expose the flaws in your reasoning. You guys are just using the one soup'nonsense to justify your promiscuity smh.

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Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Their Wives After Few Years In Marriage? by Nobody: 10:34pm On May 23, 2020
Goalnaldo:
you guys use 'only one soup' Bader dash to justify your promiscuity smh. Death is a different case bro.
but isn't that changing of another man? look! i am sure some women are promiscuous too, or have you never heard of women with multiple boyfriends?
Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Their Wives After Few Years In Marriage? by Goalnaldo(m): 10:38pm On May 23, 2020
gypsey:
but isn't that changing of another man? look! i am sure some women are promiscuous too, or have you never heard of women with multiple boyfriends?
I have seen them and I have never been a fan of their lifestyle.
Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Their Wives After Few Years In Marriage? by Nobody: 10:46pm On May 23, 2020
Goalnaldo:
I have seen them and I have never been a fan of their lifestyle.
Good, just because you don't approve of their lifestyles doesn't mean they are not allowed to be promiscuous, women are even worst than men, some women are sleeping with married men knowing that they are married, some even snatches other women's husbands.
Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Their Wives After Few Years In Marriage? by legendsilver(m): 10:48pm On May 23, 2020
Most men presently have this problem

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