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Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by abbey621(m): 12:48am On Jul 02, 2020
DozieInc:

Let's say they were both drunk and the man was the one telling the lady to stop but she continued anyway and sex happened.
In this case who is guilty?

This is where sentiments comes in, if the man first laid the accusation, this would be believable but the woman threw the first punch hence favorable sentiments sways towards her. Just like when our parents comes to separate fights between your siblings, the one crying loudest or looking more hurt will be believed over the one who stays silent or is smiling grin grin grin
Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by freshboi88: 12:58am On Jul 02, 2020
Dobson43:





Na sense you need to get. Who mention Hollywood here? Better go drink your medicine

Na u need Ur advice pass
Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by atanda247: 2:36am On Jul 02, 2020
Omo na to go buy doll o as ladies come be no go area now. Say no to rape but for every wrong accusations na thurder go strike you o.
Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by rupeelicious(f): 4:41am On Jul 02, 2020
This is the problem I have with this consent thing they talk about.
How does one obtain this consent?
The atmosphere gets charged between two adults, one touches the other, and they respond and graduate to the next level till they climax.
When again and how is the consent to be got?
Who obtains this consent from the other? Man? Woman? Thought women said we all are equal? Shouldn't they be equally accountable too? What now makes her a victim and not the man?
Sometimes though I think the people who judge these cases take their decisions in favour of women so women out there won't refuse to open their legs in future........ Smh

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Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by DozieInc(m): 8:39am On Jul 02, 2020
rupeelicious:
This is the problem I have with this consent thing they talk about.
How does one obtain this consent?
The atmosphere gets charged between two adults, one touches the other, and they respond and graduate to the next level till they climax.
When again and how is the consent to be got?
Who obtains this consent from the other? Man? Woman? Thought women said we all are equal? Shouldn't they be equally accountable too? What now makes her a victim and not the man?
Sometimes though I think the people who judge these cases take their decisions in favour of women so women out there won't refuse to open their legs in future........ Smh

You have made good points.

One thing I know. Giving someone certain privileges without some level of responsibility on their part will certainly lead to abuse and misuse of such privileges. This is what is playing out here.

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Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by Richie77: 8:48am On Jul 02, 2020
Naija female doctors are hmmm.
Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by Olayemi244(m): 8:52am On Jul 02, 2020
Tell me more about this please. How can anything that has tyre, engine and breast puts one into trouble.


Tallesty1:
They were both drunk sirWhich kain stupid law be that?

Two drunk people had sex and one is accused of rape? Is the law mad?

The guy too didn't consent to sex that night so she has no case.




Let them keep throwing rape accusations upandan and continue making it difficult for women in need of help to get help.

The doctor has been housing a guy for long but no issues, he housed a girl for 4 months.

Gave her food, access to internet etc and what he gets in the end is being labeled a rapist.

No wonder our men up there have been killing their women, especially those in the medical field.







I always tell men to be careful around anything that has tyre, engine or breasts.


It will definitely give you troubles.
Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by clevybrown(m): 9:02am On Jul 02, 2020
AUSVINS:
This guy is trying so hard to defend himself with proofs,witnesses and records of chats ... it only points to one fact,he had everything carefully planned.
meaning he may be guilty?
Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by ocelot2006(m): 9:11am On Jul 02, 2020
phemmyfour:
"They were both drunk"

Being drunk is not a consent sir

Did he give his consent before she had sex with him? He was drunk after all.
Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by emmaodet: 2:25pm On Jul 02, 2020
sassysure:

She didn't. It might be termed manipulative sex.
Which one be manipulative sex again ngwanu?
Must we always coin out a word for everything?
Since the law favours a woman now, it a civilized country but if the reverse is the case, we start hearing a backward country and uncivilized.
This is an unfair law yet we just think nothing is wrong with it and casually debating about it as if it's normal.

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Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by Nobody: 10:27am On Jul 03, 2020
BluntTheApostle:


Show me where they filed charges?

Show me a screenshot of them claiming that they have filed charges and counter charges.
grin

Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by Adeoye2103: 12:45pm On Jul 03, 2020
TheKingIsHere:


If she decides to file a case to Uk where the Dr resides, he is finished,.....


Hey you the battle has begin


Alleged sexual allegation: Popular Twitter influencer - Dr. Olufunmilayo sues his accuser, Bolanle Aseyan, demands £10,000 for damages
Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by Adeoye2103: 12:45pm On Jul 03, 2020
BluntTheApostle:


What he posted is just his own story. And it has a hole which a lawyer will exploit.


Now she need to settle this


Alleged sexual allegation: Popular Twitter influencer - Dr. Olufunmilayo sues his accuser, Bolanle Aseyan, demands £10,000 for damages
Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by BluntTheApostle(m): 12:50pm On Jul 03, 2020
maynia:

grin

The date on the paper is 2nd July. That was yesterday.

As at the time I asked you, charges hadn't been filed.
Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by Nobody: 12:52pm On Jul 03, 2020
BluntTheApostle:


The date on the paper is 2nd July. That was yesterday.

As at the time I asked you, charges hadn't been filed.


grin
Hope you read it the sha.
Pele. It's well
Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by BluntTheApostle(m): 1:01pm On Jul 03, 2020
Adeoye2103:



Now she need to settle this


Alleged sexual allegation: Popular Twitter influencer - Dr. Olufunmilayo sues his accuser, Bolanle Aseyan, demands £10,000 for damages

There is nothing to settle here.

He still has to prove that she is lying, and that the accusations are false.
Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by BluntTheApostle(m): 1:13pm On Jul 03, 2020
maynia:


grin
Hope you read it the sha.
Pele. It's well

What is there to read there. That is just a summon. She would definitely file a counterclaim and they will have their time in court.
Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by Nobody: 3:18pm On Jul 03, 2020
BluntTheApostle:


What is there to read there. That is just a summon. She would definitely file a counterclaim and they will have their time in court.

She has 7 days to do that. tongue
Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by Nobody: 3:18pm On Jul 03, 2020
BluntTheApostle:


What is there to read there. That is just a summon. She would definitely file a counterclaim and they will have their time in court.

She has 7 days to do that. tongue
Or she pays the money or go to jail, wish her fellow false rape accusers can follow her to jail too grin
Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by BluntTheApostle(m): 3:33pm On Jul 03, 2020
maynia:


She has 7 days to do that. tongue
Or she pays the money or go to jail, wish her fellow false rape accusers can follow her to jail too grin

Na like that dem dey send person go jail for your village?
Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by Nobody: 3:35pm On Jul 03, 2020
BluntTheApostle:


Na like that dem dey send person go jail for your village?

Make she no pay, we go find out grin
Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by BluntTheApostle(m): 3:42pm On Jul 03, 2020
maynia:


Make she no pay, we go find out grin

He has to first win the lawsuit first. And if she can't pay the claim, he would seek a lien on some of her properties.

It is a lawsuit. No one is going to jail.
Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by Nobody: 3:42pm On Jul 03, 2020
BluntTheApostle:


He has to first win the lawsuit first. And if she can't pay the claim, he would seek a lien on some of her properties.

It is a lawsuit. No one is going to jail.

Make she no pay we go find out grin
Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by bizzibodi(m): 4:22pm On Jul 03, 2020
TheKingIsHere:


She actually posted pictures of herself enjoying and being happy in the guys crib before she deleted the tweet.

Men should wise up and avoid these demons in human form
Akuna!her akunality carry her to uk.
Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by airminem(f): 4:48pm On Jul 03, 2020
Tallesty1:
They were both drunk sirWhich kain stupid law be that?

Two drunk people had sex and one is accused of rape? Is the law mad?

The guy too didn't consent to sex that night so she has no case.

Thanks for these


Let them keep throwing rape accusations upandan and continue making it difficult for women in need of help to get help.

The doctor has been housing a guy for long but no issues, he housed a girl for 4 months.

Gave her food, access to internet etc and what he gets in the end is being labeled a rapist.

No wonder our men up there have been killing their women, especially those in the medical field.







I always tell men to be careful around anything that has tyre, engine or breasts.


It will definitely give you troubles.
Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by Unrated900(m): 6:43am On Jul 04, 2020
I need some chilling Heineken to read the budget
Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by techstack: 4:23pm On Jul 04, 2020
Dobson43:
sad





That they both had sex when they were both drunk can actually land him in hot water. A smart lawyer can turn the matter on its head.

As it stands, the lady has scores she wants to settle with the man and she is willing to go any length to tarnish his image.

I have advised my fellow men to draft an agreement before engaging in fuckery.


...*AGREEMENT BEFORE SEX!*
Due to the current and numerous allegations made by women, which include rape and many other sexual misconduct towards women, there is now an agreement to be signed before any poking "*action*".
Please print a Copy which can be used in the Court of Law .

*AGREEMENT BEFORE SEX*......
I, __________________________, the undersigned Female Partner (herein referred to as the 'Screwee'), am about to enjoy sexual intercourse with________________________ (hereafter referred to as the 'Screwer'), certify the following:-
1. THAT I am above the lawful age of consent.
2. THAT I am not under the influence of any narcotic. N(s).
3. THAT the afore mentioned Screwer did not use any force, threats, coercion or promises to influence me.
4. THAT I, the Screwee, am in no fear of him whatsoever.
5. THAT I do not expect or wish to marry him.
6. THAT I do not know if he is married or not and neither do I care.
7. THAT I am neither asleep nor drunk.
8. THAT I am entering this relationship with him; because I love SEX and want it as much as he does.
9. THAT in the event that I receive full satisfaction, which I expect, I declare in advance the capacity and willingness for further participation at regular intervals.
10. THAT I will not act as a witness against him nor will I file charges against him in the event that,
(a) I contract an STD
(b) I become pregnant
(c) I feel that he is violating any legislation - moral, legal or otherwise.
*SIGNED BEFORE JUMPING INTO BED ON THIS* ___ *DAY OF* _____ (MONTH) ________ (YEAR) AT ______ (AM/PM)
________________________________
Signature of Screwee :=-...
PS: Not taking anything for granted...erryting is now strictly bizniz...

Hmmm
Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by MoneyMindset(m): 1:31pm On Jul 10, 2020
angelfallz:


It shouldn't be a matter of which one to believe, it's matter of "where is the evidence?"

Let me tell you this
Any woman, that goes on social media or wherever to accuse a man of raping her, most likely does not have evidence or most likely the rape never occurred. She might be just trying to bring the man down or blackmail him.
A woman that has evidence of rape would not come to SM to accuse you. She would go straight to the relevant authorities.
That is what many of you people don't know. That is why you bother yourselves with which rape accusation to believe or not to believe.
yeah �� she is looking for clout
Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by tony9k: 4:46pm On Aug 07, 2020
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You are still emotional. Reason logically bro. UK is not another galaxy. How do you define rape when both parties are drunk? Who initiated the sex and who is sane enough to determine who did what? Is there a CCTV in the house to judge this?

Even if the first case is rape(according to you), the second nko? Or the multitude of witnesses(his friends and brother) who knew of her BS? Be clear cut in your responses and approach.

I heard the guy is a hard core unbalanced nigga who outrightly condemns accused rapists without caring,listening or judging their own n part of the story. That,and the mere fact that he couldn't chase away a leech for four months and being subjected to abuse in his own house gives me no sympathy for him.



I think you should read about previous rape cases in the UK to determine on whose side the law is skewed.
Is it possible for a lady who went with a guy to his hotel room at 2am to allege rape and have a conviction in the UK. Yes and many guys have been so convicted. The judge or jury would not say that she knew what was going to happen by following him at 2am. That is what a typical naija would say.
Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by luminouz(m): 6:44pm On Aug 07, 2020
[quote author=tony9k post=92560313][/quote]

Quote me properly next time
Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by live4ever: 5:03pm On Jul 19, 2023
MoneyMindset:
Nigeria to UK

UK-based Nigerian medical doctor, Dr Funmilayo Harvey was accused of rape by another doctor Dr Bola Aseyan, has responded to the allegation.

In a post he just made on Twitter, the doctor stated that they met on Twitter in 2019 and despite never setting eyes on each other, the relationship was never stable.
Dr Funmilayo responds to rape allegation – We had sex twice
He further revealed that Bola, who is a practicing doctor in Nigeria, and not the UK, insisted on coming to the UK to visit, for reasons best known to her, as her Visa was initially not granted.

According to him, they had consensual sex, twice. The 1st being after they were both drunk, only for her to tell him the next day she didn’t give her consent to the sex they had.

He then mentioned that he specifically asked her if she was insinuating he sexually abused her and she replied saying NO.

In his rebuttal, Harvey wrote on how he accommodated Bola for 4 months in his apartment despite the duo not being in talking terms, and his only crime was him not allowing her into his heart.

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Source: https://mobile.twitter.com/DrOlufunmilayo/status/1278065186935648257


https://mobile.twitter.com/DrOlufunmilayo/status/1278220859921047553


https://mobile.twitter.com/DrOlufunmilayo/status/1278222879197466624


He's really lucky it didn't happen in America!
They'll most likely have jailed him cos they're far stricter on rape issues there. cool

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