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A Warning To Career Girls | A Gonzalo Lira Video by Smile4mee01: 7:59am On Jul 29, 2020 |
If you are a young lady, i think this video is worth watching . https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1QrpHu_vx4c |
Re: A Warning To Career Girls | A Gonzalo Lira Video by Hathor5(f): 8:28am On Jul 29, 2020 |
I met a friend last week for dinner who had had a flourishing career before she got pregnant last year. She delivered the baby in February. She said her life has changed for the worse. Women should know themselves and not be guided by self-proclaimed experts on womantology. 7 Likes |
Re: A Warning To Career Girls | A Gonzalo Lira Video by Belafonte(m): 1:03pm On Jul 29, 2020 |
Hathor5: This is interestng. Did she give any insights on what she considers as a worsening of her life? Gestation itself? Childcare? Covid? Care to share? |
Re: A Warning To Career Girls | A Gonzalo Lira Video by Belafonte(m): 1:05pm On Jul 29, 2020 |
I generally agree with this dude, even though I think he made quite a few generalisations and wrong statements. I'd probably rate the info in this video 4 out of 10 1 Like |
Re: A Warning To Career Girls | A Gonzalo Lira Video by Hathor5(f): 4:27pm On Jul 29, 2020 |
Belafonte: The pregnancy was difficult in the last two months. She mentioned the sleepless nights, the fatigue, the fact that she is at home all the time (had a busy social life before with many hobbies), total drop in the libido, painful intercourse, no time to take care of herself even though her mother lives next door and helps (of course everything revolves around the baby) and that she misses her job. She has found a business opportunity which would allow her to work from home which tells me that the fatigue is not her main problem. 3 Likes |
Re: A Warning To Career Girls | A Gonzalo Lira Video by Heloct(f): 5:10pm On Jul 29, 2020 |
Ladies should settle into whatever they want to be and not be discriminated for being different. 1 Like |
Re: A Warning To Career Girls | A Gonzalo Lira Video by Unnerve: 5:19pm On Jul 29, 2020 |
Personally, I believe a lot of women are quite confused on exactly what they want and how they want their lives to go. 2 Likes |
Re: A Warning To Career Girls | A Gonzalo Lira Video by Klass99(f): 5:27pm On Jul 29, 2020 |
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Re: A Warning To Career Girls | A Gonzalo Lira Video by Hathor5(f): 5:33pm On Jul 29, 2020 |
Klass99: She wants to sell jewelry from home. She will have home gatherings and try to sell it to people (mostly ladies) she knows. She got a suitcase with jewelry worth a lot to present to her visitors. I don't know how lucrative that is. She is just interested in me spending my money now. I doubt it can replace the fulfillment she felt in her previous job but I didn't try to discourage her. You are a smart young lady. You will soon find something better. 1 Like |
Re: A Warning To Career Girls | A Gonzalo Lira Video by Klass99(f): 5:34pm On Jul 29, 2020 |
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Re: A Warning To Career Girls | A Gonzalo Lira Video by Hathor5(f): 5:36pm On Jul 29, 2020 |
Klass99: Damn right! Why can't people accept that we can't all be the same? 1 Like |
Re: A Warning To Career Girls | A Gonzalo Lira Video by Klass99(f): 5:40pm On Jul 29, 2020 |
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Re: A Warning To Career Girls | A Gonzalo Lira Video by Klass99(f): 5:42pm On Jul 29, 2020 |
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Re: A Warning To Career Girls | A Gonzalo Lira Video by Hathor5(f): 5:45pm On Jul 29, 2020 |
Klass99: I mean what I said. Have you ever considered investing in the stock market? There are great books on how to go about it. 1 Like |
Re: A Warning To Career Girls | A Gonzalo Lira Video by Unnerve: 5:45pm On Jul 29, 2020 |
Klass99:A lot of women is not the same as ALL women, but please if the shoe fits, you're allowed to wear it. Na your own matter com taya me pass if you didn't understand 1 Like |
Re: A Warning To Career Girls | A Gonzalo Lira Video by Hathor5(f): 5:47pm On Jul 29, 2020 |
Klass99: It would help him to understand that this world offers far too many possibilities for us to choose only one. |
Re: A Warning To Career Girls | A Gonzalo Lira Video by Unnerve: 5:47pm On Jul 29, 2020 |
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Re: A Warning To Career Girls | A Gonzalo Lira Video by Klass99(f): 5:55pm On Jul 29, 2020 |
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Re: A Warning To Career Girls | A Gonzalo Lira Video by Unnerve: 5:59pm On Jul 29, 2020 |
Klass99:Lol |
Re: A Warning To Career Girls | A Gonzalo Lira Video by bukatyne(f): 6:04pm On Jul 29, 2020 |
Belafonte: Summary please. Is he against pursuing a career before marriage or pursuing a career at all? Generally, I think our society is just maturing into women saying they want to build a career first before marriage. Most of the successful women I know are married with kids. It is on NL I started hearing women deliberately saying they don't want to get married because of a career or marriage is stifling. For their society, it is a different kettle of fish. Anyways, the idea of attempting to build a career before marriage doesn't make sense (economic, planning, strategy) to me. If a woman decides not to marry at all (E. G. Mother Theresa dem dem), that's another discussion. However, why would you want to spend your most productive years building some else's dreams? Why do I want to spend my twenties and mid/late thirties solely focused on my job to the detriment of starting a family and start thinking of marriage in my late 30s or 40s? By then, you are probably in mid/managerial level and a pause is much more disruptive than when you are just starting. When you are done with kids, you can launch deep for a longer period of time if that is your thing. Listened on a program yesterday that said male fertility has dwindled about 60% in 40 years and men are having more fertility problems. So you have women past 35 trying for kids with men whose fertility is dropping. Bad bad combo. There is a time and season for everything. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: A Warning To Career Girls | A Gonzalo Lira Video by mariahAngel(f): 6:08pm On Jul 29, 2020 |
Unnerve: It's not really about confusion. I think it is more like women are afforded the luxury of grace to explore all options, then finally settle for what it is they really love to do. It is not the same for men. Then again, it could be confusing at the end |
Re: A Warning To Career Girls | A Gonzalo Lira Video by mariahAngel(f): 6:12pm On Jul 29, 2020 |
Hathor5: That could also lead to confusion and indecisiveness. |
Re: A Warning To Career Girls | A Gonzalo Lira Video by Nobody: 6:13pm On Jul 29, 2020 |
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Re: A Warning To Career Girls | A Gonzalo Lira Video by Hathor5(f): 6:17pm On Jul 29, 2020 |
mariahAngel: It does. Some people even feel overwhelmed with the endless choices they are presented with but I would have it no other way. I love to choose from the buffet of life. 1 Like |
Re: A Warning To Career Girls | A Gonzalo Lira Video by Nobody: 6:20pm On Jul 29, 2020 |
The moment you realize the dynamic nature of human and your limitation of living only one life. Then will you realize how little you have lived while trying to put everyone in a box. May we not be that person trying to control erosion with a basket. . Sometimes it's good to live and let live, you will be doing more good to yourself than the other. 2 Likes |
Re: A Warning To Career Girls | A Gonzalo Lira Video by Hathor5(f): 6:22pm On Jul 29, 2020 |
Palema007: Words of Wisdom. |
Re: A Warning To Career Girls | A Gonzalo Lira Video by Klass99(f): 6:28pm On Jul 29, 2020 |
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Re: A Warning To Career Girls | A Gonzalo Lira Video by mariahAngel(f): 6:35pm On Jul 29, 2020 |
Hathor5: Buffet. I like that. 1 Like |
Re: A Warning To Career Girls | A Gonzalo Lira Video by Nobody: 6:35pm On Jul 29, 2020 |
Klass99:Lol it is total Madness to impose, dictate or direct how people live. It is a complete waste of effort, time and energy to try to work out a PATH for all to follow. Just as it is A1 madness when a person want to control direction flow of water using a basket. Lol . Only a mad person will attempt that. 2 Likes |
Re: A Warning To Career Girls | A Gonzalo Lira Video by Nobody: 6:36pm On Jul 29, 2020 |
Hathor5:Thanks Hath 1 Like |
Re: A Warning To Career Girls | A Gonzalo Lira Video by Klass99(f): 7:27pm On Jul 29, 2020 |
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Re: A Warning To Career Girls | A Gonzalo Lira Video by Nobody: 7:34pm On Jul 29, 2020 |
Klass99:I don't know who you are talking about. |
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