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| At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Nobody: 1:41pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
Please is there anyone else experiencing what I'm passing through now, because it's making me sad and depressed I can't believe my dad still whips me at my age.. I don't want to confront him because, he's still my father even though I feel gutted for his actions Yesterday I went to watch liverpool vs Arsenal match in a viewing center, and came back late at night by 9:55 pm, As soon as I came in, he was still awake in the parlor, what he did next was to use the cain he hid to start whipping me...i think is because I'm still living with him, at my age with no meaningful contribution right now, that's why I have no where to go to, It seems I'm now a burden to them in our house...because I 'm currently jobless now and unemployed for six months now, due to this pandemic... I was initially working in the hospitality industry as a waiter, but was laid off at the beginning of the covid-19 pandemic, ever since then things have gone from bad to worse for me..... I'm broke to hell at the moment I'm seriously depressed, I just wish I could relocate far away and look for something else to do, and fix my life back, but no where to go, I don't have anyone to help... � May God forgive me if I can't bear this anymore.... 105 Likes 8 Shares |
| Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Kriss216: 1:41pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
You’re a good writer. How you managed to skip your gender all through the post is orgasmic. 316 Likes 10 Shares |
| Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Prechgold1180(m): 1:48pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
How can your team Liverpool beat your dad arsenal 3-1 and you expect ur dad to be happy with you To make matter worse You were busy singing Liverpool anthem on this my bro it seems you are walking alone Packout or man up 104 Likes 5 Shares |
| Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by ignis: 1:50pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
Please drop your Dad's contact number so we can call him and tell him to stop flogging you. 302 Likes 5 Shares |
| Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Omihanifa: 1:51pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
You are finished  If you don't leave that house ASAP, it will get to a stage that he will be chaining you down for days for disobeying him 71 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Nobody: 1:53pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
Seems your dad is a perpetual ass whooper and since you're not yet making him feel proud to be a father, by travelling down home in a sleek car, perhaps on some weekends and dropping fat envelope in his hands, the only other way he feels like a father is by whooping your ass. Like people say, age is just a number, your parents start to regard you as an adult, the moment you're able to survive on your own and they can live off on you. If you're 50 years old still living under your parents and also living off them, then you're still a kid to them anytime any day, and your sorry ass can be whooped real bad, if situation warrants it. You don't amount to shiit to them, and they can fvck you up big time, if you trespass. Since, you're yet to clock the criteria of an adult, the only choice left is to continue enjoying the ass whooping, while you work hard in order to gather enough escape velocity to break away from all the gravity of joblessness, grounding your ass in your parents' house. 223 Likes 18 Shares |
| Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by stillondmatter: 1:55pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
That's what you get fro being too stubborn and lazy  No matter how tall/big an okro tree is,the owner will always be the boss 21 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Omihanifa: 1:58pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
Kriss216: He's obviously a male nah  146 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Olachase(m): 2:03pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
Are you sure ur dad is not Arsenal fans while you are Liverpool 194 Likes 5 Shares |
| Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by MAGG0T(m): 2:06pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
 What is left for him is to mine ur skull. 9 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Nobody: 2:09pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
Terryindeed:I don't have a laptop, I reside in Delta state 8 Likes |
| Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Nobody: 2:10pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
Kriss216:I'm a guy... 12 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Richy4(m): 2:15pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
You are his son.. there's nothing like I have no place to go.. Display a little madness one day and it will stop... Everyone has that in him or her but we all control it.. he should have stopped doing that nonsense immediately u clocked 20 @ most.. It's in your hands to stop it... If he tries to do it next time shove him a little not enough to make him fall but enough to let him know you have had it up to your neck... let him know that that madness got to stop... If he asked you to leave, tell him u are not leaving because u were in your father's house and if he's not he should point who your father is... I'm just mad right now at your docile way and When you realise that your dad is bullying you and not correcting you,then it will stop.. mchwwwww!!! 406 Likes 30 Shares |
| Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Kriss216: 2:16pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
situationreport:That’s good. You are 26, your father should accord you some respect. Flogging you like a kid should come with Resistance. You’re in your father’s house, when next your father misbehaves, tell him to move to his fathers‘ house. 179 Likes 8 Shares |
| Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by adegbenga80592: 2:37pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
Are you yes ur father is not weaponry spectators while you are Liverpool 1 Like |
| Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Righteousness89(m): 2:45pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
Your Father is your Father! He can correct as he wants ! My GrandFather Dealt with his sons who Where Married.. More so when you are still under his Roof! 22 Likes 6 Shares |
| Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by yomi007k(m): 2:53pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
Did he ever warn you of late night movement? If you get hit by a car or arrested, will you not push the financial burden onto them. It is his house and you will have to live by his rules. If you want your freedom go and get your own place. By then, you will know that even FRERDOM comes with a PRICE. That's how life goes. 84 Likes 6 Shares |
| Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Nobody: 2:53pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
What is this!? @26  The old guy started treating me like a man when I booked my space in high school, took it to a whole new level when I aced my mock exams and SSCE in one sitting and secured a place at the university. I cannot relate with this, but man... I feel your anguish to some extent. Different strokes for different folks, I guess. But hey, I stink at giving advice but at some point, you have to give someone a little "surprise". Go figure, man. Go figure. Maybe you ain't sending the right message across to the man and it goes beyond just having a steady job and all that. But seriously, this is tantamount to adult abuse. No kidding. 30 Likes |
| Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by otipoju(m): 3:53pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
In SSS 1 while playing soccer across the street, I saw my father coming and I fled to the house...a girl that I was toasting was looking at me from the balcony and they teased me about it. I resolved that this nonsense had to stop !!! Afterall I was not doing anything wrong by playing football after school opposite our house. Why should I be running from my father simply because he could beat for flimsy reasons. After my WAEC at 16 years old, something happened and I knew for sure I done nothing wrong and I told him so. I resisted all attempts to beat me for one solid hour. Blocking, pushing away, holding but never hitting back in total silence until my ex soldier father was tired. The next day I told him I am no longer a small boy, that outside the house I lead and give directives to people and he needs to show me my respect and correct me with words as I would not tolerate any man hitting me without consequences. That I was not rebelling against his authority but he needs to recognize I am no longer I kid that does not know left from right. I became his greatest confidante after that. So your dad beating you at 26 is just a total no no. Tell him stop or you will be forced to fight him till you die. 172 Likes 10 Shares |
| Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by PureGoldh(m): 3:53pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
Local man is just speechless |
| Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Karleb(m): 4:04pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
Collect whatever he is using to beat you from him next time. If he finds another, collect it. Resist his beating, keep a very straight face while at it and make it known to him that such act must stop. It's not your fault you're jobless. Your papa no dey try at all o. If you don't make him stop now he might never stop. 144 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Mindlog: 4:15pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
Righteousness89: At his age, it is not right for the father to correct him through flogging. That your grandmother "dealt" with her married sons does not in any way justify such parenting style. Flogging an adult child, regresses him/her, it hits negatively on their self-esteem. 169 Likes 7 Shares |
| Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Righteousness89(m): 4:18pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
[s] Mindlog:[/s] If I was your Father! I will cane you for uttering this.. 18 Likes 5 Shares |
| Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Mindlog: 4:26pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
Righteousness89: You are certainly not because it is very dangerous to have a schizophrenic like you who exhibits religious delusions as a father because a child under you would have a higher outcome of becoming psychotic. 207 Likes 17 Shares |
| Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Righteousness89(m): 4:26pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
Mindlog: you are Speaking English.. When you Become a father you will understand better the Importance of Discipline.. 12 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Admiral49(m): 4:27pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
Only God and you know the type of father you have....please use wisdom and understanding to handle yourself with him, don't listen to the trash some may say here..just know some day it will end and it will be best if it ends with a good outcome...Jah wings you. 11 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Righteousness89(m): 4:28pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
Mindlog: I am very Sorry for Replying u! I thought you were a Reasonable young man.. 14 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Mindlog: 4:31pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
i Righteousness89: Punishment/Discipline should be age-appropriate! 110 Likes 7 Shares |
| Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by meobizy(f): 4:34pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
I don’t see any problem here. He should carry on. |
| Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Mindlog: 4:34pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
Righteousness89: Don't be sorry, I don't get affected by uncouth language I hear on a daily basis during sessions at the psychiatric wards, not to talk of a faceless forum. Cancelling a post that reflects a divergent view from yours is a reflection of a weak mind that cannot comprehend that others can also have their views. 168 Likes 12 Shares |
| Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by midehill(m): 4:50pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
Righteousness89: . 1 Like |
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