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Re: I Am Broken I Need Advice From Matured Minds by Klass99(f): 8:54am On Oct 31, 2020 |
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Re: I Am Broken I Need Advice From Matured Minds by Broken2020: 9:10am On Oct 31, 2020 |
Klass99: Thanks sis, one of the wisest advice on this thread. God bless you and I wish you the best husband you wish for. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Broken I Need Advice From Matured Minds by Broken2020: 9:14am On Oct 31, 2020 |
crackhaus: Thanks boss happy to get advice from reasonable people like you. God bless you boss. 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Broken I Need Advice From Matured Minds by KevinDein: 9:21am On Oct 31, 2020 |
Broken2020:Lmao, watch her regret her actions few years from now and watch her advisers laugh at her. People never learn. 3 Likes |
Re: I Am Broken I Need Advice From Matured Minds by Klass99(f): 9:24am On Oct 31, 2020 |
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Re: I Am Broken I Need Advice From Matured Minds by Broken2020: 9:27am On Oct 31, 2020 |
Klass99: I don’t mind if anyone castigates me but insults no no no. Anyways thanks for your advice 3 Likes |
Re: I Am Broken I Need Advice From Matured Minds by Gerrard59(m): 9:27am On Oct 31, 2020 |
Broken2020: Omo I pity that man o |
Re: I Am Broken I Need Advice From Matured Minds by bukatyne(f): 10:06am On Oct 31, 2020 |
crackhaus: @bold: You are learning fast. All these in addition to protection. It is not easy to be the daddy of a family. The OP messed up (especially with the threats) that's why I suggest they work it out one last time. The girl also has issues however she is not here to receive her own kpankere. If things don't work out this last time, he can move on with the knowledge that he tried and lost. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Broken I Need Advice From Matured Minds by FanOfMyself: 11:26am On Oct 31, 2020 |
bukatyne:E be like say you get sense oo and different from most of them here |
Re: I Am Broken I Need Advice From Matured Minds by djon78(m): 12:29pm On Oct 31, 2020 |
FanOfMyself: Buka get sense well we'll. Her wisdom dey too much Always looking forward to her contributions |
Re: I Am Broken I Need Advice From Matured Minds by crackhaus: 12:36pm On Oct 31, 2020 |
bukatyne:Lol, nor be only learning fast... |
Re: I Am Broken I Need Advice From Matured Minds by GboyegaD(m): 2:28pm On Oct 31, 2020 |
bukatyne: Don't you think such helps. It is easier when you know the personality of whom you are advising of that information is available |
Re: I Am Broken I Need Advice From Matured Minds by bukatyne(f): 7:31pm On Oct 31, 2020 |
GboyegaD: I agree with you. However, if he was going to provide it, he won't have opened an alternate moniker. If you find it, biko tag me. |
Re: I Am Broken I Need Advice From Matured Minds by bukatyne(f): 7:31pm On Oct 31, 2020 |
crackhaus: Add hot prayer warrior too. |
Re: I Am Broken I Need Advice From Matured Minds by crackhaus: 7:40pm On Oct 31, 2020 |
bukatyne:Kuku kill the man eh... No wonder husbands dey first die on average. What does he get in return for all this pro bono work sef? |
Re: I Am Broken I Need Advice From Matured Minds by mariahAngel(f): 7:49pm On Oct 31, 2020 |
bukatyne: ...so that he can be haunted with it for the rest of his nairaland days? Nairaland is full of immature people who don't know where to draw the line. It is wiser to protect your identity. He does not need to prove anything to anybody. We have the option to either take it or leave it. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Broken I Need Advice From Matured Minds by Broken2020: 8:04pm On Oct 31, 2020 |
mariahAngel: Am not going to disclose it, I opened a new moniker one time for the purpose of giveaway somehow some people found my real moniker and they came for me. Even after I announced that the giveaway was over they were still quoting me via my real moniker. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Broken I Need Advice From Matured Minds by mariahAngel(f): 8:16pm On Oct 31, 2020 |
Broken2020: Careful... Or you might just give yourself away 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Broken I Need Advice From Matured Minds by stonecoldcafe: 2:18pm On Nov 01, 2020 |
Broken2020: I think you took this girl for granted. Excuses too full your mouth as to why you have not made an honest woman of her. People are always advising you, dont marry now, have the kid et al. 2014 till 2020 is an incredibly long time to leave a lady hanging. Unless you don't have legal right to remain in your abroad, you should hv settled this lady since. Yes, there is a pandemic but inside this pandemic, people hv been getting married still, traveling home too. Your excuses are too much sir. Don't get anyone else begging her. Stop crying for her, all na wash. She's probably heard you cry since 2015 when you begged her to terminate the pregnancy which today, you so dearly cling on to now and proclaim your son as your life. Now what should you do? If this lady is good and you still want to end up with her. draw up a plan where you can get home n formalize marriage with her. Don't call to beg and cry again. Send an audio or write a message detailing when you will come to see her family. Be very realistic and honest about this. Tell her your short term plan THAT INCLUDES HER AND YOUR SON as it relates to uniting as a family. Then wait for her response. If she still says no, then the game is truly over. In that case try to have a civil relationship with her for the sake of your son. But if she is a reasonable woman, you should get something positive. Good luck 3 Likes |
Re: I Am Broken I Need Advice From Matured Minds by Broken2020: 2:31pm On Nov 01, 2020 |
stonecoldcafe: Okay sir, but let me ask you have you stayed abroad before ? You just took what interest you and decided to castigate me with it. My brother if you dey go abroad you can’t tell how long you will stay, I have a document here but I can’t travel to Nigeria with it, I would have since gotten all my document but the pandemic put many things on hold, no issuance of documents here. Make I come Naija come lock myself for Naija, do you think it’s every country that still allow travel to Nigeria? You don marry? If not what’s stopping you and if yes congratulations. Go read again why my dad said hold on let her family settle themselves. You modified your comment and I appreciate your advice. My brother life get as e be, I don’t like the baby mama thing but sincerely speaking there are circumstances beyond my control, there are countries where money really can’t buy you everything. If I deport myself after marriage na to start afresh oo. Thanks bro I appreciate |
Re: I Am Broken I Need Advice From Matured Minds by bukatyne(f): 3:12pm On Nov 01, 2020 |
mariahAngel: Are you...... |
Re: I Am Broken I Need Advice From Matured Minds by bukatyne(f): 3:16pm On Nov 01, 2020 |
crackhaus: 1. A wife who willingly uses all her resources to bless her husband. 2. A wife who makes a home for her husband and kids. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Am Broken I Need Advice From Matured Minds by mariahAngel(f): 3:42pm On Nov 01, 2020 |
bukatyne: Am I what? E soro soke! |
Re: I Am Broken I Need Advice From Matured Minds by stonecoldcafe: 6:13pm On Nov 01, 2020 |
Broken2020: My brother, it is well. I don't know your personal circumstance or the country you reside in and what they allow or don'tallow. And that's why I stated in my last comment that you should draw up a realistic plan. Now If your personal circumstances will not allow you go freely marry and return then of course you need to do what is right for you. Nobody will advice you to get deported or reach Nigeria and hook. Every one knows it's not easy there with covid and this last riot. All the best 1 Like |
Re: I Am Broken I Need Advice From Matured Minds by Broken2020: 7:40pm On Nov 01, 2020 |
stonecoldcafe: Thanks bro |
Re: I Am Broken I Need Advice From Matured Minds by ozonechrome: 9:03pm On Nov 01, 2020 |
Broken2020: Why don't we hear from her. You've painted yourself like an angel. Someone that has visted you once why would they deny her visa a second time? You always threaten her with breakups and also body shame her. Seems like a toxic relationship to me. 3 Likes |
Re: I Am Broken I Need Advice From Matured Minds by Ishilove: 3:40am On Nov 02, 2020 |
thorpido:He wants to turn her to Lord of the ring. Anyway, the grass isn't always greener on the other side. If it is meant to be then she will return when her eyes is clear. The op has spoilt her. Take away some of the gifts and she will experience factory reset. Op you sef why do you always threaten her with break-up? You sef your way no pure |
Re: I Am Broken I Need Advice From Matured Minds by Broken2020: 5:51am On Nov 02, 2020 |
ozonechrome: Oga if you read my posts and comments again without loud music I guess you will have a bette understanding. I even acknowledged my mistakes, the issue of visa is neither her fault nor mine 1 Like |
Re: I Am Broken I Need Advice From Matured Minds by Broken2020: 5:53am On Nov 02, 2020 |
Ishilove: My brother wetin person see for past relationships dey make man fear oo 1 Like |
Re: I Am Broken I Need Advice From Matured Minds by Gloriagee(f): 6:54am On Nov 02, 2020 |
Just watch the so called friend turn around and try to get your attention. Your baby mama is soooooo gullible 2 Likes |
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