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Re: What Will You Do If Your Son Turns Gay? by BlackMamba69(m): 2:54pm On Jan 26, 2021
RisenPhoenix1:
Cut him off. I will no longer recognize him as my son, though I can tolerate lesbianism from my daughter, because I know that the tendency comes somewhat naturally to women.

So you'd be ok if you walk in on your daughter licking another woman's cunnt?

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Re: What Will You Do If Your Son Turns Gay? by Nobody: 3:02pm On Jan 26, 2021
BlackMamba69:


So you'd be ok if you walk in on your daughter licking another woman's cunnt?

I obviously won't be ok seeing it live, but if I knew she had a homosexual lifestyle, it would be more understandable. I can get that a woman is sexually attractive even to another woman; I find them so myself; but I can never fathom how a man can be found sexually attractive by another man. What is there to attract? It's like having sex with an ugly, hairy, smelly he-goat. Any of my sons doing that is going to be given full intervention from the best psychiatrists money can buy; and if he's adamant, I'm absolutely disowning him.
Re: What Will You Do If Your Son Turns Gay? by BlackMamba69(m): 3:15pm On Jan 26, 2021
RisenPhoenix1:


I obviously won't be ok seeing it live, but if I knew she had a homosexual lifestyle, it would be more understandable. I can get that a woman is sexually attractive even to another woman; I find them so myself; but I can never fathom how a man can be found sexually attractive by another man. What is there to attract? It's like having sex with an ugly, hairy, smelly he-goat. Any of my sons doing that is going to be given full intervention from the best psychiatrists money can buy; and if he's adamant, I'm absolutely disowning him.

Gays and lesbians are just as bad as each other tbh.

Regarding attraction, perhaps gay men just hate women's private parts because it's wet, slimy and brings out discharge ?
Lesbians are just confused beings since they use all sorts of devices that resemble a male's private part to pleasure themselves undecided

Either which way, homosexuality is a mental disorder.

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Re: What Will You Do If Your Son Turns Gay? by Nobody: 3:21pm On Jan 26, 2021
BlackMamba69:


Gays and lesbians are just as bad as each other tbh.

Regarding attraction, perhaps gay men just hate women's private parts because it's wet, slimy and brings out discharge ?
Lesbians are just confused beings since they use all sorts of devices that resemble a male's private part to pleasure themselves undecided

Either which way, homosexuality is a mental disorder.

Not really. Female sexuality is very different from that of male sexuality. Men have to forcibly overcome their feeling of natural revulsion for other men before they can become homosexuals, while women have no feeling for revulsion in the first place; which is why they can hug, kiss (even on the lips) and touch each other anywhere very freely. Can you kiss a man on the lips, or rub his body while complimenting him on his fine shape? Women do that all the time. Women also have a tendency to be attracted to whatever gives them enjoyment, and if that's another woman, they don't register the difference. That's why I believe that; unlike in men; homosexuality comes naturally in women, and so I can excuse it, though obviously I still won't like it. In men however, it is totally inexcusable.
Re: What Will You Do If Your Son Turns Gay? by Nobody: 3:23pm On Jan 26, 2021
I do not pray or hope for such but if it happens, I'll get him to see a hypnotherapist or hypnotist. I am certain that will help. If not, I'll use occult/mystic powers to persuade his mind back onto the right path.
Re: What Will You Do If Your Son Turns Gay? by Nobody: 3:27pm On Jan 26, 2021
RisenPhoenix1:


Not really. Female sexuality is very different from that of male sexuality. Men have to forcibly overcome their feeling of natural revulsion for other men before they can become homosexuals, while women have no feeling for revulsion in the first place; which is why they can hug, kiss (even on the lips) and touch each other anywhere very freely. Can you kiss a man on the lips, or rub his body while complimenting him on his fine shape? Women do that all the time. Women also have a tendency to be attracted to whatever gives them enjoyment, and if that's another woman, they don't register the difference. That's why I believe that; unlike in men; homosexuality comes naturally in women, and so I can excuse it, though obviously I still won't like it. In men however, it is totally inexcusable.

You are wrong IMHO.

The only reason you feel like that is because you are male. You can see and are also attracted by what a lesbian sees in another woman. That's why it is probably possible for straight men to watch lesbian porn without feeling revulsion.

It is not natural for one to be attracted to someone of the same sex, male or female.

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Re: What Will You Do If Your Son Turns Gay? by Nobody: 3:31pm On Jan 26, 2021
FrLukas:


You are wrong IMHO.

The only reason you feel like that is because you are male. You can see and are also attracted by what a lesbian sees in another woman. That's why it is probably possible for straight men to watch lesbian porn without feeling revulsion.

It is not natural for one to be attracted to someone of the same sex, male or female.

Then how do you explain the touching and kissing that women do among themselves? Can you do it to a fellow man?

I think what is unnatural is exclusive lesbianism, but not bisexuality or extremely fluid sexuality in women.
Re: What Will You Do If Your Son Turns Gay? by Nobody: 3:43pm On Jan 26, 2021
RisenPhoenix1:


Then how do you explain the touching and kissing that women do among themselves? Can you do it to a fellow man?

I think what is unnatural is exclusive lesbianism, but not bisexuality or extremely fluid sexuality in women.

Not all women touch or kiss themselves. Those that do are lesbian inclined. No woman should be turned on by the sight of another female body. It is not natural.

Note that lesbian inclined is different from active lesbian.
Re: What Will You Do If Your Son Turns Gay? by Nobody: 3:50pm On Jan 26, 2021
FrLukas:


Not all women touch or kiss themselves. Those that do are lesbian inclined. No woman should be turned on by the sight of another female body. It is not natural.

They all do it. I never said anything about sight. Women are not majorly turned on by sight sexually, but by touch. And in this, a touch by male or another female works equally well.

FrLukas:

Note that lesbian inclined is different from active lesbian.

One leads to the other. And I think it would be wrong to call such women lesbians. Lesbians are exclusively attracted to the same sex. Most women are not; they can be attracted to either at different times and willing enough to try it if put into the right mood. Men on the other hand will never consider trying it out with another man unless they are homosexual from an early age (when they were sexually more fluid due to higher hormone levels); such as from boarding school indoctrination.

If you have any honest, down to earth girl as close friends, ask them whether they'll consider making out with other women. You'll be surprised at how many have already done so, and/or will be willing to do so.
Re: What Will You Do If Your Son Turns Gay? by Nobody: 4:21pm On Jan 26, 2021
RisenPhoenix1:


They all do it. I never said anything about sight. Women are not majorly turned on by sight sexually, but by touch. And in this, a touch by male or another female works equally well.



One leads to the other. And I think it would be wrong to call such women lesbians. Lesbians are exclusively attracted to the same sex. Most women are not; they can be attracted to either at different times and willing enough to try it if put into the right mood. Men on the other hand will never consider trying it out with another man unless they are homosexual from an early age (when they were sexually more fluid due to higher hormone levels); such as from boarding school indoctrination.

If you have any honest, down to earth girl as close friends, ask them whether they'll consider making out with other women. You'll be surprised at how many have already done so, and/or will be willing to do so.

Nigerian population is around 180 million.

Let's assume half is female. That's 90 million.

Let's assume a quarter of that is already sexually mature. That's 22.5 million. How many females do you know personally enough to say this about them? 1 million? 10 million?

If you've only come across lesbians in the entire time you've traversed this God's green earth, you may want to change your circle of acquaintances and friends.
Re: What Will You Do If Your Son Turns Gay? by Nobody: 4:25pm On Jan 26, 2021
FrLukas:


Nigerian population is around 180 million.

Let's assume half is female. That's 90 million.

Let's assume a quarter of that is already sexually mature. That's 22.5 million. How many females do you know personally enough to say this about them? 1 million? 10 million?

If you've only come across lesbians in the entire time you've traversed this God's green earth, you may want to change your circle of acquaintances and friends.

I see you still don't understand the fact that I never said all women are lesbian. You still do not see the difference between sexual fluidity and strict lesbianism.

Some traits are fundamental and common enough to a sex to be very easily validated. It is not necessary to interview 1 million or 10 million women to know this. Have you looked into the pants of 1 million women before you realised that all women have vaginas? What an irritating postulation.

I see you are lost for better argument. Goodbye.
Re: What Will You Do If Your Son Turns Gay? by Nobody: 4:35pm On Jan 26, 2021
RisenPhoenix1:


I see you still don't understand the fact that I never said all women are lesbian. You still do not see the difference between sexual fluidity and strict lesbianism.

Some traits are fundamental and common enough to a sex to be very easily validated. It is not necessary to interview 1 million or 10 million women to know this. Have you looked into the pants of 1 million women before you realised that all women have vaginas? What an irritating postulation.

I see you are lost for better argument. Goodbye.

Like I said, that you've only met lesbian women don't mean they all are.

The difference between the male of the human species and the female is physical and very obvious. You don't need to check a woman's underpants to know that she's female.

How exactly do you identify a lesbian woman? Dem dey write am for their head?

Baseless and silly argument is what you're putting forward. All women are lesbian indeed.
Re: What Will You Do If Your Son Turns Gay? by Palehair: 6:50pm On Jan 26, 2021
RisenPhoenix1:
Cut him off. I will no longer recognize him as my son, though I can tolerate lesbianism from my daughter, because I know that the tendency comes somewhat naturally to women.
So if both your kids were gay, you will kick out your son and leave your daughter? Hypocritical much and just because sexual fluidity is more present in women doesn't mean its absent in men either, men just know how to mask theirs because of society and when you mask something for years eventually the true face will be revealed, hence this generation, they are tired of it, I should know, i studied human sexuality for years... Double standards and please not every woman have a lesbian in them, that's just ignorant.
Also I implore you to please read extensively on the "male gaze" and "queer theory"
Yet again if you are gonna be hard on your son and give him an ultimatum which is either to be straight or y'all depart, he might try to mask his sexuality to please you but he will definitely be miserable

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Re: What Will You Do If Your Son Turns Gay? by Nobody: 7:18pm On Jan 26, 2021
Palehair:

So if both your kids were gay, you will kick out your son and leave your daughter? Hypocritical much and just because sexual fluidity is more present in women doesn't mean its absent in men either, men just know how to mask theirs because of society and when you mask something for years eventually the true face will be revealed, hence this generation, they are tired of it, I should know, i studied human sexuality for years... Double standards and please not every woman have a lesbian in them, that's just ignorant.
Also I implore you to please read extensively on the "male gaze" and "queer theory"
Yet again if you are gonna be hard on your son and give him an ultimatum which is either to be straight or y'all depart, he might try to mask his sexuality to please you but he will definitely be miserable

So I'm hypocritical, they're my kids. Besides, he's not gay. He likes girls, and is showing every sign of being a player, even at his age. Doesn't take after his more gentle daddy at all tongue
Re: What Will You Do If Your Son Turns Gay? by Nobody: 7:27pm On Jan 26, 2021
FrLukas:


Like I said, that you've only met lesbian women don't mean they all are.

The difference between the male of the human species and the female is physical and very obvious. You don't need to check a woman's underpants to know that she's female.

How exactly do you identify a lesbian woman? Dem dey write am for their head?

Baseless and silly argument is what you're putting forward. All women are lesbian indeed.

Sigh okay. Our statements and arguments have no common point at all. It is obvious you're playing football while I'm playing basketball. There cannot be a logical conclusion to this.

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Re: What Will You Do If Your Son Turns Gay? by Palehair: 7:36pm On Jan 26, 2021
RisenPhoenix1:


So I'm hypocritical, they're my kids. Besides, he's not gay. He likes girls, and is showing every sign of being a player, even at his age. Doesn't take after his more gentle daddy at all tongue
Well good for you, I was picturing a different scenario in which he's gay but he's not
Re: What Will You Do If Your Son Turns Gay? by Nobody: 7:43pm On Jan 26, 2021
Palehair:

Well good for you, I was picturing a different scenario in which he's gay but he's not

No, thank God. I was only answering the hypothetical question. I don't mind homosexuals as long as they don't intrude anywhere near my sphere of attention, but actually tolerating a deviant son would be an absolute no-no for me.
Re: What Will You Do If Your Son Turns Gay? by Palehair: 7:51pm On Jan 26, 2021
RisenPhoenix1:


No, thank God. I was only answering the hypothetical question. I don't mind homosexuals as long as they don't intrude anywhere near my sphere of attention, but actually tolerating a deviant son would be an absolute no-no for me.
Yea, it's your choice to accept him or not. I wouldn't have tagged your post if it weren't for the hypocrisy I saw in it, I mean as a sexuality minor, it's not a choice for both genders, don't throw off one and accept the other.
Re: What Will You Do If Your Son Turns Gay? by Nobody: 7:53pm On Jan 26, 2021
Palehair:

Yea, it's your choice to accept him or not. I wouldn't have tagged your post if it weren't for the hypocrisy I saw in it, I mean as a sexuality minor, it's not a choice for both genders, don't throw off one and accept the other.

No. I'm convinced that the tendency is more natural to women than to men. I feel that if a woman does it, she can still be reformed and have a normal sex life. A male homosexual cannot. Yecch.
Re: What Will You Do If Your Son Turns Gay? by theMagnet: 8:29pm On Jan 26, 2021
naijadrivablog:
mu egba mimo wa! cheesy
Na "holy cane" go solve am. I don't like what I hate.
Bring me the holy cane cheesy grin Emu condo mimo wa! Dem go flog am sotey he go turn womaniser cheesy
Re: What Will You Do If Your Son Turns Gay? by Palehair: 8:34pm On Jan 26, 2021
RisenPhoenix1:


No. I'm convinced that the tendency is more natural to women than to men. I feel that if a woman does it, she can still be reformed and have a normal sex life. A male homosexual cannot. Yecch.
It's nature is not excluded to women only, it's only that way because of the patriarchy, there are women who have a strong aversion to it, case point, my aunt, she might puke at just the mention of the word "lesbian" but she adores gay porn despite the fact that she's married, she loves gay porn like crazy, not just her... I know women who love it too and sexuality can't be reformed, it might be delayed though due to factors but never reformed.
Yes, bisexual women can be with men just like bisexual guys can be with women not hardcore lesbians and gays besides sleeping with the opposite doesn't mean a lesbian isn't a lesbian
Re: What Will You Do If Your Son Turns Gay? by Teleprompter(f): 10:41pm On Jan 26, 2021
I don’t spoil my kids to the extent that they know I would always support them... No !

My kids know that there are some things I can’t live with. If such occurs, it is because they no longer need me in their life. I can never tolerate or accommodate such. If they love me as I love them, it would be over my dead body and not to my face.

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Re: What Will You Do If Your Son Turns Gay? by LutanFyah: 10:41pm On Jan 26, 2021
cooooooks:
Why don't you mind your own blawdy business?

Are they disturbing you? No.

You are not happy in your life so you go look to disturb somebody else's.

Shut your ass up, if you're taking dick up your sick ass, you'll be arrested and locked up for 14 years.
Re: What Will You Do If Your Son Turns Gay? by cooooooks(m): 11:49pm On Jan 26, 2021
Why are you obsessed with ass-dick-taking?

Are you curious?

Is this a cry for help young sir?

Also, that '14-year' law is almost certainly unconstitutional. It almost definitely infringes on the right to:
- freedom of association,
- freedom of thought, conscience, and religion,
- life
- dignity
- personal liberty
- privacy
- freedom from discrimination
- freedom of expression.

All these are constitutional rights.


LutanFyah:
Shut your ass up, if you're taking dick up your sick ass, you'll be arrested and locked up for 14 years.



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Re: What Will You Do If Your Son Turns Gay? by cooooooks(m): 11:50pm On Jan 26, 2021
This is how people die alone despite having family.

Teleprompter:
I don’t spoil my kids to the extent that they know I would always support them... No !

My kids know that there are some things I can’t live with. If such occurs, it is because they no longer need me in their life. I can never tolerate or accommodate such. If they love me as I love them, it would be over my dead body and not to my face.

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Re: What Will You Do If Your Son Turns Gay? by cooooooks(m): 11:52pm On Jan 26, 2021
So you acknowledge that some people will live fake lives just to avoid violent violations of their rights by other 'people'?

You acknowledge that these people will 'change' only because of the assault you gleefully want to mete on them?


theMagnet:

Bring me the holy cane cheesy grin
Emu condo mimo wa!
Dem go flog am sotey he go turn womaniser cheesy

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Re: What Will You Do If Your Son Turns Gay? by cooooooks(m): 11:58pm On Jan 26, 2021
The minute he can, he will leave his dad out of his life if that is the price to get out of the misery.



Palehair:

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Also I implore you to please read extensively on the "male gaze" and "queer theory"
Yet again if you are gonna be hard on your son and give him an ultimatum which is either to be straight or y'all depart, he might try to mask his sexuality to please you but he will definitely be miserable

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Re: What Will You Do If Your Son Turns Gay? by Palehair: 9:40am On Jan 27, 2021
cooooooks:
The minute he can, he will leave his dad out of his life if that is the price to get out of the misery.



Exactly and believe me, it hurts
Re: What Will You Do If Your Son Turns Gay? by LutanFyah: 9:48am On Jan 27, 2021
cooooooks:
Why are you obsessed with ass-dick-taking?

Are you curious?

Is this a cry for help young sir?

Also, that '14-year' law is almost certainly unconstitutional. It almost definitely infringes on the right to:
- freedom of association,
- freedom of thought, conscience, and religion,
- life
- dignity
- personal liberty
- privacy
- freedom from discrimination
- freedom of expression.

All these are constitutional rights.


You can keep blabbing about constitutional rights, if you're caught fvcking your fellow man or woman, you'll serve the state with hard labour for 14 years.
Re: What Will You Do If Your Son Turns Gay? by cooooooks(m): 11:44am On Jan 27, 2021
When herdsmen attack your community, remember this statement.


If you don't respect the rights of others, don't expect people (like you) to respect your rights.

You can keep blabbing as the herdsmen raid, rape and main you and your people.

LutanFyah:
You can keep blabbing about constitutional rights, if you're caught fvcking your fellow man or woman, you'll serve the state with hard labour for 14 years.

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Re: What Will You Do If Your Son Turns Gay? by LutanFyah: 12:20pm On Jan 27, 2021
cooooooks:
When herdsmen attack your community, remember this statement.


If you don't respect the rights of others, don't expect people (like you) to respect your rights.

You can keep blabbing as the herdsmen raid, rape and main you and your people.

Don't just get caught, cos you'll definitely go in for it for 14 years.

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