ALAYORMII:
The meaning of Orobosa in Yoruba tho

ALAYORMII:
The meaning of Orobosa in Yoruba tho

That reminds me of her handsome brother "Oroborababa" All of them just dey see obo, I pray obo will not kill them, the Orobosa and Oroborababa.

NemzySeries:
I dunno weda to call morally loose or a male hoe sef.........u av wife & pikin yet U're trying to still findout abi measure d amount of affection another lady has 4 u weda itz ascending or declining abi but lemme tell u 1 tin u dunt kw, any married man dat goes outside hiz matrimonial territory is automatically cursed by God & bliv me I'm not jst saying dat as a story to scare u but itz biblical......I personally is not a saint, infact fornication is not new to me but bliv me dat I'm currently running away frm a married woman whom ordinarily I shd av settled her case long ago talkmore of u a married man.....so itz best u allow d lady & stop any form of adultery or fornication & focus more on building a beta relationship with ur wife & kids instead of perfectly working ur way 2wrds destruction by d say tin u av @ home.....dunt say we didn't warn u & remember itz a single guy advising u dis much

Well, thanks. I have made my decision already. if you read the page well.

Even though its not easy and its painful on both side, I have ended the relationship. we had been quarrelling since yesterday, a fight I personaly created for this purpose and she kind of suspected it.

She can see the relunctance in me, but I have to stand my ground. we have not spoken to each other now for some hours, something that has never happen b4. so thanks everyone, even though other colleagues are making jest, I dont care the deed is done already. thanks everyone, I can now have peace of mind and admire from afar.

enshi:
So you are on of those people who got federal job through back yard Doors abi... You even had the mind to come here and say shit despite being a married man.

I know you are talking about the unadvertised civil defence or Prison jobs... Instead of you to lay low and enjoy the awoff you still wan infidelize in the whole thing..

Ur thunder go come from redeem camp or sambisa forest

You need to add DSS, Police, Immigration, Fire Service and NDLEA to your list as they all recruited recently secretly or not, so you shouldnt have a grudge cos I even had to wait for 6 good years for this job as a masters degree holder before I could hold down this. If you are offered same opportunity, will you say because they didnt advertise the job you wont take it while you have been jobless for years? so please keep your fire and thunder for your self. and if you are truly pained, write a petition to the President.

Good morning.... If she is playing some sort of psychology on me, I will agree its working. Apart from that, the whole school has even labelled us as partners, we have developed apart from emotional relationship, a good working relationship to get ourselves to the top in the job. She is a Lawyer while I hold a Maters degree in History, International Relations and Strategy, we seem to have a working plan,....... we may end up loving eachother but I dont want a second wife or have kids outside my marriage.

Somehow which is unclear to me, I have been able to keep reasonable balance at home and she seem to always remind me of my wife and kid, asking me if I have called them and joked with them on phone but if that is also part of the psychological mind games, I dont know. My daughter's birthday is coming in days, she is already planing on gifts and she told her mum about her friend, so whenever they speak on phone, her mum is always aking of me and wanted to speak to me on phone but I have declined that.

But for how long?

The way we are operating, I beleive she can fly in to anypart of the country where I am at the slightest opportunity to see me.

Apart from emotionally, we have assised eachother through our various connections and we have become inseparable on all front.

But I have started praying about this as well, especially during the night for God's assistance so that I can have the emotional and physical boldness to make the right decision on this matter. Let the will of the Lord be done. But I sincerely dont want more than a friend, my wife is sufficient and satisfying to me. My wife is even more pretty, more homely and as in, she is a big blessing in my life. we dated for seven good years, when the going was tough, I dont know why I am facing this right now, why me? why cant she just meet another guy? Why do I find it difficult to ignore and reject the affection that our friendship is generating? which was some of the easiest thing for me to do before I met her.

God Help me.

RSAV:
You guys are still greyhounds. Crush amongst colleagues is common. You better act matured and tread softly so you don't damage a life long working relationship.

Greyhounds? what do you mean by that?

willanderson:
quote author=Sugarladypleaser post=49484786]I am in training with one of the paramilitary departments, one my first day in camp during documentation, this lady approached me, she is in her 30s, we started talking and we just clicked.... we exchanged phone nos and from there, we always stick together in camp, talking, laughing and going out together. Even when we went home on break, we are always talking by phone calls, whatsapp for long hours.
I am married with a kid and I told her on that first day we met, she seems disappointed by it, but decided not to show it. we have become very close and apart from the fact that I like her, I have developed feelings for her, and I believe she has developed feelings for me too. Her brother is also always in touch with me.

We met just a little over 3 months ago. We will be commissioned with same rank, she is from Awka but based in Abuja, I am from Ibadan but based in both Lagos and Ibadan.

presently, I am fighting hard to bring down the lovely feelings I have for her, but I discover she is always telling me stuffs like, she is not moved by trivials, she doesnt fall in love easily, she is mean, etc..... is she trying to fight the feeling?

Is it that she doesnt have feelings for me or she is trying to pretend or she is put off by the fact that I am married?

Is she pretending?


Matured comments alone pls


In my opinion y'all both like each other and can't help it. The handwriting is written on the wall. You have to create a boundary because she is clearly crossing the line coming at you like that knowing you married. You have to let her know her place in a polite manner and also remember y'all have a different lifestyles. It's sweet in the beginning but when you live with her then you will truly see the real her and then you already lost your wife to someone else. Stay woke bro

Thanks, I appreciate. we have 2 and a half months to go now, I just plan to see it out and the natural distance will creep in to seprate us. I can only say this here cos I know she doesnt use nairaland, cos if she reads this, she will know that she is the person in question.

Ioannes:
Let me help you complete the story... And then you will break her heart and she will join the ranks of those calling Yoruba guys Yoruba demons.

Keep on cheating on your wife. The karma that will smack the two of you in the guts is just right behind you.

Well, I dont get your point at all, anyway thanks for commenting.

Today, we started IT, we were still posted to same facility to do IT. She is in the admin while I am posted to the field, but she came three times to check on me at my duty post with chilled water and some snacks. she closed earlier than me but waited for me so that we can go back together.

This lady is just glued to me......

Some single guys are interested in her ooo, she refuse to give them face, I asked her to give one of them chance and see if it can be good, she said she doesnt feel safe around any of them and that they are bad boys....and she is not interested.

mizthorlu:


you need to thread with caution henceforth, if not, you'll send another post explaining how you cheated on your wife.
as a single lady, there are time's I meet guys I like but in a relationship but I keep them close hoping we'll be together once the relationship break's.
I know you are trying, please try and cut down the no of minute or hour's you speak to her, avoid those smiles and eye contact in class... it shows you are leading her on(just telling you what I feel o).
I believe in prayer, pray against any strange woman.
when you are with her, why not call your wife and give her those loveylovey talks.... She'll feel it

Thanks....... I never knew someone can just take serious interest in me like that, cos fine, a no fine ooo. I am just an average guy. And my wife even fine pass this lady, but I dont know how I just become so interested in her, even though its something I should be ashamed of and should not say because I am married, I have feelings for her.

She drinks, I dont, she clubs I dont, yet, we are still relating well.

GiMngo:

Ok I think I understand you better now. It means you can persevere till the end of the training. Remain strong!

Thanks........ its not easy.

GiMngo:

Oga...I'm sorry but the truth is you lack discipline. For happiness sake, you have a wife and a kid. Why won't you develop feelings for her when all you are becoming attached and intimate with her. Do you love your wife and kid? Embrace them with the love of a husband and father, build up your family.

Well, I thank you for your comment, but thats not the truth. I am disciplined.
My wife is the only person I ever approached, dated, love and married. Her unclothedness is the only one I have ever seen and touched. Not many men is that disciplined. Of course I love my wife and our kid......... So, my brother, I am among some of the few disciplined men around.

nnamdiokere45:
oga y r u even bothered abt dis...na single pple dy reason dis one na

I know I shouldn't be bothered, but I am and I cant stop it. posting will divide us and I will wait till then.

AuroraB:
Oga, divorce your wife and move in with the new lady already naa . Je a gbo
oro Oshi

Thanks, even though I asked for matured comments alone, you still gatecrashed. Thanks though.

austine4real:
u don't knw maybe to fvck her or date her ?


I knw wht u wan hear eat n clean mouth but don't blame when u gets stuck in btwn

thanks.... I will just continue and ensure nothing happens till we are through here at the training college.

nma24:
She's trying to kill the feelings. You should be rejoicing. Go and love your wife wholeheartedly

I thought as much, but I can only wait for the traning to finish so that we can part ways and be just friends, but as it is now, I am totally helpless. like this morning I promise my self not to talk to her, but we did PE together and we have met 4 times after that discussing, chatting, holding hands and laughing. If she did not see me, she will look and search for me in the crowd of other students and I must confess I do that as well. If this continue, I pray I dont end up doing what I dont plan to do.

I just lose my guard around her, become defenseless and filled with emotions.

kiddoiLL:
come ogbeni shebi you said you're married and even have a kid, so why are you so hell bent on knowing how she feels? you better run towards your family cus the way i see this, you'll play an away match if you don't. nobody will catch you, but ask yourself does your wife deserve it if you do it?? by having feelings for another woman gan you are already being unfair to your marriage

I dont even know how I became attracted to her, last night we spent like 4 hrs together talking outside at night. this morning again we did PE together, she is jogging beside me all through..... and this will continue all day. even in class we still manage to have eye contact with smile. but she kept on saying she is not this and that........ I just want to know if she feels same way but pretending not to.

I am in training with one of the paramilitary departments, one my first day in camp during documentation, this lady approached me, she is in her 30s, we started talking and we just clicked.... we exchanged phone nos and from there, we always stick together in camp, talking, laughing and going out together. Even when we went home on break, we are always talking by phone calls, whatsapp for long hours.

I am married with a kid and I told her on that first day we met, she seems disappointed by it, but decided not to show it. we have become very close and apart from the fact that I like her, I have developed feelings for her, and I believe she has developed feelings for me too. Her brother is also always in touch with me.

We met just a little over 3 months ago. We will be commissioned with same rank, she is from Awka but based in Abuja, I am from Ibadan but based in both Lagos and Ibadan.

presently, I am fighting hard to bring down the lovely feelings I have for her, but I discover she is always telling me stuffs like, she is not moved by trivials, she doesnt fall in love easily, she is mean, etc..... is she trying to fight the feeling?

Is it that she doesnt have feelings for me or she is trying to pretend or she is put off by the fact that I am married?

Is she pretending?


Matured comments alone pls

Dollyak:

It is not an interest free loan as much as you would like to think. Go and do your research. Islamic Banking or Shariah Finance as it is usually referred to, is the biggest scam ever to have been perpetrated on the naive Muslim public.

Instead of paying market-related rates of interest on borrowings as they normally would at the regular banks, Muslims are instead charged extortionate rates of interest and this is now dishonestly called profit.

The moolas who sit on these Shariah Boards are the biggest beneficiaries of this rip-off of the Muslim communities. How sad to see piety betrayed by greed. How very un-Islamic! Oyo state people needs to be educated and really fast before they get even more stupidd. I was reading up on Oyo empire the other day, about how rich and successful it was. What a shame.

Yes, you passed through Ibadan and it was a long stretch of urban slums filled with poor people and dirty environment. Yes, thats how all Ibadan and Oyo state is. Infact one of those slum house is the State govt house, let me even justify your point the more. thers are no school in Oyo State, everything is slums like the 15 minute drive through experience you had. And these type of slums are only found in Ibadan and oyo state, not anywhere else in Nigeria or the world.

What do you mean by "Get even more stupid" ? mind the way you talk now. Who even needs your explanation? The average pepper seller or civil servant or better still the elites in Oyo state know what they are doing and did not invite Jaiz Bank to open up in ibadan. The Bank is free to open on every street in the state just like any other bank. kindly keep your lecture. An average Oyo state person is smart, and not gullible. they put their money where their mouth is. dont worry for them, let them worry for themselves.

Hello Obasy, I am very interested in this opportunity. I am very exposed to academic research writing because I have a Masters in History so I think I will be trainable. kindly add me to your trainning, my email

Swanye:
So Edo state get brown roofs too

Abio in Gov Ajimobi and Olubadan's voice.

Monimatic:
[size=16pt]Buhari Oh! Cameroon ti take over [/size]

In Olamide's voice "Cameroon ti take over, junketting o jawo mo" lol

Please