r231: Nobody

greatgod2012:


i dont agree, one party must surely benefit than d other, pls be sincere.



@sisi kill, pls what do u mean?

r231:

Ok.....it's suppose to be equal

dayokanu: Its the women who benefit more

Especially in the West

Fhemmmy:

Explain how and why now . . .

r231:

Cus the cops will through you out and she gets to keep the house, the car and make you pay child support if possible

Fhemmmy:

That is not in Marriage, that is aftermath of the marriage or should i say thru separation/Divorce . . .

dayokanu:

In marriage, the woman has the financial support, and security she craves outside marriage she continues to get the same and the man is made to pay to keep her at a certain level of comfort
The man in most cases loses out on his freedom and also financially

Fhemmmy:

Haba . . . The woman lost her freedom as well, not all women got the financial support from the man, some are self made as well, so that is not good enuf and in normal setting, it is the woman and the man that brings the money together . . .

Fhemmmy:

That is not in Marriage, that is aftermath of the marriage or should i say thru separation/Divorce . . .

r231:

Says who

Well around here they through you out for the woman o....

Fhemmmy:

Chief, Marriage is the union and the woman will only call the cops on you when you have done her wrong or she does not want you anymore ( To me that is not marriage time, that is the darkest hour of the marriage) thus my saying not in marriage . . she might do it and her eyes clear oh, but at the time while she is doing it, i dont count that time as marriage time

dayokanu: ^^ You even said it, Its the mother shedding tears on his behalf not even the guy. Do you think a girl wont care that she is unmarried.

Most of the things most men enjoy, they drop in marriage. E.g hanging out with friends, Going out, Making noise watching football, flirting, drinking etc

Being a single man hardly makes a difference. You know Dimeji Bankole became Speaker as a single man. Gowon became President as a single guy, and President Buchanan of the US was never married

r231:
Lol
Yea you are right

Fhemmmy:

Only a woman would the man beat up and yet still sleep with her at night, only a woman will be so tired and yet the man wanna eat poundo yam and the woman will crawl out of bed and still please the man . . . We, Men needs to really appreciate our African sisters, the good ones oh, [b]cos some are curses to the man[/b]

Fhemmmy:

Only a woman would the man beat up and yet still sleep with her at night, only a woman will be so tired and yet the man wanna eat poundo yam and the woman will crawl out of bed and still please the man . . . We, Men needs to really appreciate our African sisters, the good ones oh, cos some are curses to the man

dayokanu:

Only a woman would bring nothing to a marriage and expect to leave with million belonging to the man ;only a woman would argue she expects to be compensated for doing what she longed for all her life.; Only a woman would have little qualification and expect to live a big life.
Ask most guys that how can you drive a BMW, they would say if I make money,
While some womens answer would be if I marry a rich guy

dayokanu:

Only a woman would bring nothing to a marriage and expect to leave with million belonging to the man

only a woman would argue she expects to be compensated for doing what she longed for all her life.

Only a woman would have little qualification and expect to live a big life.

Ask most guys that how can you drive a BMW, they would say if I make money,

While some womens answer would be if I marry a rich guy

dayokanu:

only a woman would argue she expects to be compensated for doing what she longed for all her life.

Fhemmmy:

Not only a woman longed to be married, many men wanna be married too . . . and there is nothing wrong with those that dont wanna be married, it is an individual choice . . . but i dont agree that it is only a woman wanted it.

Fhemmmy:
I am not sure the kinda women you are referring to, while some women are lazy like some men
, there are well achieving ladies out there as well, that are not in marriage for what they can grab but for love and when the love turns sour, you dont expect them to walk away with nothing. . . .There are some women that the man even move into the lady's house after the wedding, cos it is not about what he has and what she has, it is about what "They" have

dayokanu:

Only a woman would have little qualification and expect to live a big life.

Fhemmmy:

Not only a woman longed to be married, many men wanna be married too . . . and there is nothing wrong with those that dont wanna be married, it is an individual choice . . . but i dont agree that it is only a woman wanted it.