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I've Just Lost A Girl I Thought I Would Marry by kay4kelvin(m): 12:15pm On Dec 12, 2007 |
Hii Can sumone tell me what to do,I just lost a gurl I always had in mind I wil marry.well, am kelvin a Nigeria graduate from FUTO. There is dis gurl ,I always had in mind,de gurl grew under my nose,i know the stuff she is made off,beautiful and mannerd infact she gat it all. For me, I was in my 5th/final year in the university when she entered 1st year in the University,I graduated,even though I was buying her gift,but I did not make my intension know to her but I always show concern in everything she does,I teach her sciences thoses days b4 her university and during her university. For me, I was waiting for the right time for me to let her know my intensions cos I dont want to date her for long b4 marriage Wanted to get a sustainable job She is a sister to my close pal and I dont want to date her like dat I got a job after service after like six months of searching for one but the job is not gud enough. I said no, I neded a beta one, before I cud tell her anythin so dat it will not sound so unserious. A year later ,I got an oil servicing job,I went to her , took her out, TELL HER MY INTENSIONS AND FEELINGS Behold ,she is engaged,she was crying , asking me where have I been, but she said ,she is sorry that her mind is fixed and she can not afford to disappoint her love. Cna sumone tell me what to do, Do I still have a chance or I shud 4get her Engr Kelvin |
Re: I've Just Lost A Girl I Thought I Would Marry by ThoniaSlim(f): 12:30pm On Dec 12, 2007 |
no one's to be blamed but you. you don't expect her to break of her engagement, that wouldn't be fair on the present guy. you made a big mistake by not coming clear on your intentions towards her. even though you might have been rejected at least its better than not trying at all. i suggest you move on with your life and allow her to be with her fiance because trying to break them apart my just resort in Karma catching up with you. at least it would serve as a lesson not be afraid of rejection and always make your intention clear to the person you like or love. 1 Like |
Re: I've Just Lost A Girl I Thought I Would Marry by sweetlizzy(f): 12:38pm On Dec 12, 2007 |
sorry dear! but it was all ur fault and virtually nothing can be done at this time. act faster next time. |
Re: I've Just Lost A Girl I Thought I Would Marry by IykeD(m): 12:49pm On Dec 12, 2007 |
I guess we all make mistakes at one time or the other.I think waiting to get a Job b4 making your intentions know was not the right thing to do.Afterall, she was still in her first yr in school, so i see no need in trying to impress her with a good job or do i call it enticement!. |
Re: I've Just Lost A Girl I Thought I Would Marry by realkemmy(m): 1:28pm On Dec 12, 2007 |
eeyyaahh! pele. carry on with your life. when there is life, there is hope. all the best man. |
Re: I've Just Lost A Girl I Thought I Would Marry by zignor(m): 1:32pm On Dec 12, 2007 |
Dude, leave her alone . . . learn to strike while the iron is hot |
Re: I've Just Lost A Girl I Thought I Would Marry by 9star(m): 1:47pm On Dec 12, 2007 |
nigeria film. Title : I thought i would marry u Starring : kay4kelvin,realkemy,thonia slim Producer : Nairaland Director : sweetlizzy. Location :FUTO Executive producer : Zignor |
Re: I've Just Lost A Girl I Thought I Would Marry by zignor(m): 2:00pm On Dec 12, 2007 |
@9star . . .infact, you're a correct guy . . .very funny I can't stop laughing my ass off |
Re: I've Just Lost A Girl I Thought I Would Marry by ufobabe(f): 2:07pm On Dec 12, 2007 |
hope someone is reading and learning fast from this! @poster, sorry. |
Re: I've Just Lost A Girl I Thought I Would Marry by Uzzyan: 2:10pm On Dec 12, 2007 |
ufobabe: Yes o hope someone is reading this. Make the right moves at the right time. Kelvin dear sorry but gat to move on with ur life ok. if it has happened like this u shld know then that she is not the one God has mapped out for u 1 Like |
Re: I've Just Lost A Girl I Thought I Would Marry by Lola4eva(f): 2:24pm On Dec 12, 2007 |
9star: |
Re: I've Just Lost A Girl I Thought I Would Marry by tonib(f): 2:27pm On Dec 12, 2007 |
really you were so slow and sum1 with a fast action took over eeeyyyyyyyaaahhhhhh soooorrrrrrrrrryyyyyyyyyy. just let the girl be and move on with your life cos i believe if you were in the guy's position you wouldnt want sum1 2 break your relationship |
Re: I've Just Lost A Girl I Thought I Would Marry by CrazyMan(m): 2:35pm On Dec 12, 2007 |
You messed up everything; at least you should have told her how you felt about her. You can’t be buying presents for a girl, showing her love and care and still be shy of telling her what’s on your mind. What kind of a guy are you? Anyway like the old saying Experience is the best teacher. |
Re: I've Just Lost A Girl I Thought I Would Marry by chuckdee4(m): 2:44pm On Dec 12, 2007 |
"If u love someone, u let them go, if they come back to u thats when u know they're urs to keep" Let the girl be, it was ur fault u didn't let her know how u felt when u had the chance, there are girls out there who on't mind if u don't have a 6 digit wage job. Next time when u see someone u like go fo rit, ur circumstance will not mean anything to her if she likes u |
Re: I've Just Lost A Girl I Thought I Would Marry by onyekang1(f): 2:44pm On Dec 12, 2007 |
sorry dude, better luck next time! |
Re: I've Just Lost A Girl I Thought I Would Marry by Gbemyte(f): 2:59pm On Dec 12, 2007 |
kelvin sorry we all make mistake but try and rise from where u fall.U ll see bone of ur bone somewhere else. wat u did was like one of nigeria movie not man enough.try and make hail while d sun shine. |
Re: I've Just Lost A Girl I Thought I Would Marry by akaluka: 3:03pm On Dec 12, 2007 |
take 10 tablets of valium 5 at a go it should help calm you down |
Re: I've Just Lost A Girl I Thought I Would Marry by NihilceM: 10:24pm On Dec 12, 2007 |
MR GRADUATE NA INTENTIONS NOT INTENSIONS. WHICH KIND GRADUATES DEY NAIJA TODAY? NO WONDER I NEVER HEAR OF THE PLACE WHERE YOU FOR GRADUATE. @ topic Next time act fast. Why didn't you ask her out in the first place or you thought that buying her gifts would make her wait? Don't ever think that people live according to your time and wish. |
Re: I've Just Lost A Girl I Thought I Would Marry by FactorChic(f): 10:54pm On Dec 12, 2007 |
Nihil-ce-M: God go bless u o, na so me too see am I no wan talk b4 sef Mr. Graduate ur English sef na wa @ d topic U waited too long and u want to date her for a short period b4 u marry her? why would u date someone for not too long then talk about marriage .anyways,that'll teach u a lesson to always tell people how u feel about them b4 it's too late. Let her be and move on with ur life |
Re: I've Just Lost A Girl I Thought I Would Marry by chiegemba(f): 11:06pm On Dec 12, 2007 |
Eya!!! "God would provide" |
Re: I've Just Lost A Girl I Thought I Would Marry by Uzzyan: 4:00am On Dec 13, 2007 |
sure |
Re: I've Just Lost A Girl I Thought I Would Marry by ifyalways(f): 4:05am On Dec 13, 2007 |
sorrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrry but try another number and God help you make i for no enter voicemail again |
Re: I've Just Lost A Girl I Thought I Would Marry by Faitymine(m): 7:39am On Dec 14, 2007 |
Make the hale when the sun is shining, Pele o Hope you're learning now, abi?[color=#000099][/color] |
Re: I've Just Lost A Girl I Thought I Would Marry by Faitymine(m): 7:51am On Dec 14, 2007 |
So next time act fast before it hurt you. Pele! [color=#000099][/color] |
Re: I've Just Lost A Girl I Thought I Would Marry by Buttercups: 8:08am On Dec 14, 2007 |
Kelvino, 'was in the days of our fathers that 'the patient dog eats the fattest bone', in this time and clime, there are so many hungry dogs and wolfs that the patient dog will end up with bone shards, if he ends up with anything at all, learning point: when you see and know what you want go for it like a MLB fielder! OK enough of playing oprah, if you sincerely know she is the one for you, dont stop trying. Don't stop, keep on making her know how true your feelings are, kick away any complex that i feel is hounding you, put on a confident garb, play the aggressive dog who always end up snatching the bone from the relaxed and contented dog, if she is yours, you will get her! last word, the most desperate, well intentioned person always mostly end up with the trophy! |
Re: I've Just Lost A Girl I Thought I Would Marry by efuah(f): 9:26am On Dec 14, 2007 |
Nihil-ce-M:Darling i don't expect this from you. . . graduate or no graduate, people can make simple spelling mistakes. @poster, sorry for the loss, next time act fast. . . . use ur brains don't wait for "miracles". |
Re: I've Just Lost A Girl I Thought I Would Marry by IykeD(m): 9:49am On Dec 14, 2007 |
@efuah, see me oh . All these people sef.We all know those kinda words are confusing sometimes moreover the brother has not told us that he Studied English Language in school.Please let's try to overlook certain things.Everyone makes such mistakes. |
Re: I've Just Lost A Girl I Thought I Would Marry by NihilceM: 4:04pm On Dec 14, 2007 |
efuah: Sweetheart if he had made the mistake just once I'd have left him alone but they
are three, I can't overlook. Once is a distraction, twice a mistake, thrice a pathology. IykeD: Iyke you olodo pass am. Because only a super olodo can make such a comment. Nor be english the guy take go school? Abi na him native language he take go university? Haa! Wonders shall never end. No wonder say our graduates dey speak kabu kabu english, afterall they nor read english course for school. *hisssssssss* |
Re: I've Just Lost A Girl I Thought I Would Marry by uchetobi(f): 4:15pm On Dec 14, 2007 |
at 9ster |
Re: I've Just Lost A Girl I Thought I Would Marry by Bblak(f): 5:05pm On Dec 14, 2007 |
ee yah So sorry. but i'm quite sure that u've learnt a lesson from this. Don't always Thought but Act Next time and never use the level of your wealth as a yardstick to asking a girl you love out.True love exceeds all that . |
Re: I've Just Lost A Girl I Thought I Would Marry by IykeD(m): 11:20pm On Dec 14, 2007 |
@Nihil-ce-M You are such a big fool, infact you are an animal, it's even obvious that you are one, you have no gender indication, meaning you are neither a guy nor gal, what does that leave you.AN ANIMAL!. What have you achieved with all your ENGLISH!, since you know all. If English was used for lectures in the University, and so what.Is it all the English words that he came across in the university.The guy said he studied Engineering, and some people who are science inclined do not give a hook about your English Language, yet they are the best in their field. There is this Professor of Computer Science who taught me Programming while in school, no lecture passed without him committing several blunders yet he is one of the best in the Country.Hasn't he gone to school to become a Professor?? Think before you insult people, cos you also have your own limitations, it might not be English since you know it all.Maths could be your weak point yet you have been taught maths right from Nursery School. Anu mpam! |
Re: I've Just Lost A Girl I Thought I Would Marry by NihilceM: 10:46pm On Dec 15, 2007 |
IykeD: Why have you chosen to insult yourself in public like this? Why have u decided to ridicule the entire Nigeria by saying that many of us can't speak proper English because that wasn't our main course at the University? Why are you so stupid? I am ashamed that you are a Nigerian like me. People like you are the ones that are destroying Nigeria because they are always ready to justify anything sh*t. SHAME ON YOU! |
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