Efemena_xy:

What a question! You sure know how to throw the spotlight on someone sha

Okay, how do I answer this without sounding too crude?

One of the joys of married life is that you get to explore different bedmatics with your hubby. As long as there is mutual understanding between you both, anything goes. It's a constant learning process and as long as I'm comfortable with what's being done to my body, then why not? Like Ronke and CC mentioned, your hubby is no mind reader, so if you want something, then ask.

For example, I found out that during my pregnancies (especially at the late trimester where the missionary and wheelbarrow positions were uncomfortable) - one of my favourites was to lie back and get hubby to sit ontop / pin me down, i.e sit on my b[i]o[/i][b]o[/b]bies so I could go down on him while he did the same for me. He never would have done it if I hadn't initiated it...and this was at 8months gone

Yes, lightly applied B-D-S-M also works for me (won't go into further details here). But having said that, getting spanked loudly on the rear before entry is one of my favourites

Pls I'm a good girl o! Just attempting to answer your question honestly...

eeeeeeehhhhhhhhh, Efeeeee. If i hear say i no try dis one tonight eehhn....

Abeg wetin be B .D .S .M make try dat one too......

Time to give my son aburo...*winks*

My dear,

make you google the meaning of Bleep before you try am o!

I nor fit type the meaning out here. Too raw 'n I don't wanna get banned either. Let's just say, it's kinky s/e/x taken to another level

Efemena_xy:

Now that's food for thought!

Where in London am I gonna find those sexy beads sef?

Check the stores ma'am...some of these africa stores...my hubby loves them on me, can't do without it.

Poster, How come you posted with Rol/ed and replied as ese maro? I am guessing you are the same person who opened the post about tailing and snooping on your husband because you believe he myst be a cheat.
Anyway, be that as it may, I will advice that you grow up, I know you are still young and not mature enough to have married when you did but now you are married please grow up.
Tell your husband what you want, he is your husband and you are one body one flesh, show him. He will also enjoy it
Cheating has no place in a marriage

debrief08: Poster, How come you posted with Rol/ed and replied as ese maro? I am guessing you are the same person who opened the post about tailing and snooping on your husband because you believe he myst be a cheat.
Anyway, be that as it may, I will advice that you grow up, I know you are still young and not mature enough to have married when you did but now you are married please grow up.
Tell your husband what you want, he is your husband and you are one body one flesh, show him. He will also enjoy it
Cheating has no place in a marriage

I kinda noticed it too that the first two posters typed in the same way with their useless SMS language. Some people are just attention seeking frogs.

Last time it was no cheating husband thread where that Maclatunji was there preaching John 3: 16 to me for telling her my mind, now she has started another one of ex-boyfriend cheating. Started a thread with one ID and used another ID to reply the same thread almost immediately trying to justify her reason for wanting to cheat. For all we know this could be a 14 yr old playing pranks on here.

Bloody maggots

^^ The heck!!

You mean I've probably been wasting my time on a stoopid, jobless, attention seeking, JSS3 dropout??!!

Tgirl, abeg delete all my posts & quoted posts for this thread. Nor be small pikin stuff I write for here.

How does having two ID's makes me so unserious.am not sure I will be Foolish enough 2 make you guys look like jokers.Tanks anyway.

ese-maro:
How does having two ID's makes me so unserious.am not sure I will be Foolish enough 2 make you guys look like jokers.Tanks anyway.

wow so you actually own the two id's. So now its no more you feeling unsecured about your husband being REAL cause he dosnt cheat on you. You now want to cheat on this same man God as given you as a husband,with your ex for that matter. Young woman i dont pity you at all,cause you know what is right from what is wrong.... You better find ways to spice up your marriage, read books and browse....

So she starts a thread then replies herself with this

ese-maro:
So wat do we do 4u?u ve feelings,u ve it.

And wonders why people think she is not serious??

Okay naa

^^^^^ Lol........LMAO. you gat to be kidding me!!!!

Efemena_xy: ^^ The heck!!

You mean I've probably been wasting my time on a stoopid, jobless, attention seeking, JSS3 dropout??!!

Tgirl, abeg delete all my posts & quoted posts for this thread. Nor be small pikin stuff I write for here.

There was this 14 yr old girl in 2008 that was a frequent poster in the sexuality section. No one knew she was a 14 yr old until I think she left her lappy on and her mum came across her nairaland ID still logged on and you know what they say about curiosity and the cat. . . . . . . that woman almost died of heart attack that day, this woman registered that same day and begged people to ignore her daughter's posts and threads from then forth that she was only 14. Some people told her to prove to them that she was really the mother to this girl and she took I think(can't remember and please don't quote me) a snap shot of her daughter's still logged on NLD page. For all we knew then that girl could have changed her ID to something else.

Who would have know that girl was only 14 with the amount of grossed out rubbish she used to post then. SIGH

Sisi_Kill: So she starts a thread then replies herself with this



And wonders why people think she is not serious??

Okay naa

Na underaged school drop out wey dey fantsize about being married. Mtcheew!!

Girl go read your books & stop trying to rub shoulders with the big girls.

And hopefully this time, you go manage pass your JAMB.

Nonsense!

lol i guess she forgot, so funny.

Sisi_Kill: So she starts a thread then replies herself with this



And wonders why people think she is not serious??

Okay naa

Anyway lemme just reply d ladies.I ve 2 I'd 's so I logged d first one out because my hubby might check my phone anytime which is normal.I didn't want him 2 knw wat I posted on NL,because he keeps wanting 2 knw if I dnt post any topic @ all.so I logged in d other one of which I registered a long time ago buh neva use it.am not wat u guys tink.am dropping my BBpin for d ladies only so u can add me shw u my pix so u knw am not d Jss3 drop out u re talkn abt.its very degrading 2me nah,my househelp is d one in JSS3.am a medical student in my finals,University of Nigeria.290AD3DA.

^^ Kiddo.

It's way past your bed time. Abeg go sleep jor.

You've had your fun. Now leave it at that.

ese-maro:
Anyway lemme just reply d ladies.I ve 2 I'd 's so I logged d first one out because my hubby might check my phone anytime which is normal.I didn't want him 2 knw wat I posted on NL,because he keeps wanting 2 knw if I dnt post any topic @ all.so I logged in d other one of which I registered a long time ago buh neva use it.am not wat u guys tink.am dropping my BBpin for d ladies only so u can add me shw u my pix so u knw am not d Jss3 drop out u re talkn abt.its very degrading 2me nah,my househelp is d one in JSS3.am a medical student in my finals,University of Nigeria.290AD3DA.

We dont believe you.

Post your real pictures here

No Medical student would write Buh instead of BUT

ese-maro:
Anyway lemme just reply d ladies.I ve 2 I'd 's so I logged d first one out because my hubby might check my phone anytime which is normal.I didn't want him 2 knw wat I posted on NL,because he keeps wanting 2 knw if I dnt post any topic @ all.so I logged in d other one of which I registered a long time ago buh neva use it.am not wat u guys tink.am dropping my BBpin for d ladies only so u can add me shw u my pix so u knw am not d Jss3 drop out u re talkn abt.its very degrading 2me nah,my househelp is d one in JSS3.am a medical student in my finals,University of Nigeria.290AD3DA.

hahahaha - dropping your pin on a public forum too? home girl must really be desperate. when boys descend on you with crazy requests, don't come back here squealing like a gorilla high on viagra!

coogar:

hahahaha - dropping your pin on a public forum too? home girl must really be desperate. when boys descend on you with crazy requests, don't come back here squealing like a gorilla high on viagra!

How did you know the OP is a girl?

it could be 190 having fun

OP prove me wrong by posting your picture

dayokanu:

How did you know the OP is a girl?

it could be 190 having fun

OP prove me wrong by posting your picture

For once, we're on the same wavelength.

Amazing thing here is that this useless thread dey generate traffic. Nearly 1900 views. A jump of almost 500 views in just a couple of hours...

ese-maro:
Anyway lemme just reply d ladies.I ve 2 I'd 's so I logged d first one out because my hubby might check my phone anytime which is normal.I didn't want him 2 knw wat I posted on NL,because he keeps wanting 2 knw if I dnt post any topic @ all.so I logged in d other one of which I registered a long time ago buh neva use it.am not wat u guys tink.am dropping my BBpin for d ladies only so u can add me shw u my pix so u knw am not d Jss3 drop out u re talkn abt.its very degrading 2me nah,my househelp is d one in JSS3.am a medical student in my finals,University of Nigeria.290AD3DA.

. When is Seun giving us a roflmao smiley?! Does your hubby know your BB pin?

dayokanu:

We dont believe you.

Post your real pictures here

No Medical student would write Buh instead of BUT

What is she saying about Buh,But and medical student.Dnt Talk wat u dnt knw nah.dese re just funny ways of typing and has notin 2 do wit student or not

dayokanu:

How did you know the OP is a girl?

it could be 190 having fun

OP prove me wrong by posting your picture

she's a girl.
only a nigerian female can write "but" as "buh"
standard!

dayokanu:

How did you know the OP is a girl?

it could be 190 having fun

OP prove me wrong by posting your picture

Wat makes u feel I can't post someone's pix.y dnt u post urs first

Efemena_xy:

For once, we're on the same wavelength.

Amazing thing here is that this useless thread dey generate traffic. Nearly 1900 views. A jump of nearly 500 views in just a couple of hours...

Mena just dey para.I be ur isoko sister O.from Emevor.dnt take it too personal.am 4 real.u can add me on BB

ese-maro:


Wat makes u feel I can't post someone's pix.y dnt u post urs first

ese-maro, ladies first!
if you are serious about your gender then post what you have to post and stop wasting time! this is not the romance zone - theres a zero tolerance here for bullshittng and pussyfooting!

coogar:

hahahaha - dropping your pin on a public forum too? home girl must really be desperate. when boys descend on you with crazy requests, don't come back here squealing like a gorilla high on viagra!

Does a delete button exist?

ese-maro:


Wat makes u feel I can't post someone's pix.y dnt u post urs first

Dayo, someone's taken a shine to you o!

Just be on the look out for the matchet weilding, BB searching fantasy hubby on your trail ...

ese-maro:


Does a delete button exist?

yes it does.....if you look hard enough!

Efemena_xy:



Dayo, someone's taken a shine to you o!

Just be on the look out for the matchet weilding, BB searching fantasy hubby on your trail ...

she probably wants dayokanu to replace her ex.....
it's baffling that a woman can come on a public forum and admit she's about to cheat!
there must be something wrong with the water people drink in that country these days.
the moral decadence is nauseous!

ese-maro:


Mena just dey para.I be ur isoko sister O.from Emevor.dnt take it too personal.am 4 real.u can add me on BB

So why you dey embarrass us like this naw?

No. I don't believe you.

Efemena_xy:



So why you dey embarrass us like this naw?

No. I don't believe you.

The 2 username was a mistake.Buh I just came 2 nairaland 2 ease off wat I had in mind.notin wring in speaking out.ur comments have helped alot

Ok am out.NL just ended for me cos no one would ever take me seriously on dis forum.Tanks for d earlier advice anyway.it helped.

not yet Uhuru my sister ese.
Dayo likes you. he can take your fantasy to the next level through roundabouting.