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9 Signs That Say She Loves U by Phizzie555(m): 11:02am On Aug 04, 2012
*Nine Signs That Say She Loves You*

1. Communication
She calls you often, wants to know what you’re
doing, and shares her day’s activities. When you ask
about her plans for the evening, or the weekend, or
even the whole summer, she doesn’t hedge or put
you off. She is open and forthcoming.

2. Exclusivity
When she only wants to see you, and does not give
you the “space” talk, as in, “I need my space,” and is
not craning her neck to watch other men walk by,
you have her attention. She makes it known to you
and to everyone else that she does not want to date other people.

3. No Conflicting Messages
She makes you her one and only love interest and
does not send you conflicting messages. She does
not say things like, “I’m in love with you, you are my
soul mate, I can’t live without you…AND…I saw my
ex yesterday and I think I still have feelings for him.” This kind of message will drive you crazy. You will
feel like the rubber ball attached to the paddle by a
slim rubber string, batted back and forth. The real
message that is being sent is: come here… and go
away. You can’t win. But if she loves you, her words
and thoughts are straight forward and you do not feel batted around.

4. Family and Friends
She makes plans to introduce you to her family and
friends. When you meet them, you realize they
already know a lot about you because she has
obviously talked about you. Most of them (except the
few jealous ones) are warm and friendly and genuinely excited for her that she has found
happiness.

5. The Future
When she talks about her plans for the future, she
automatically includes you in them. She has places
she wants to take you and sights she wants to show
you. She follows through on her suggestions. She
might also mention marriage and children, if only in an abstract way, to evaluate your reaction.

6. Affirming
She speaks often of how proud she is of you. She
does this privately and publicly. She thinks the work
you do is the most important thing in the world and
loves for you to tell her about what you
accomplished during the day. She is happy to help you with your work in any way she can.

7. Gifts
She has noticed what you like, admire, and read, and
brings you gifts that reflect what she has observed.
The quality of her gift shows the level of her
perception about what you like. If she is rich, she
may buy you expensive presents. If she is not, she may send cards, books, or poems. If she is not rich
and she sends a Porsche or a pricey suit, she’s got
some problems. Have the grownup conversation
with her about how you don’t like gifts she can’t
afford. That would be a very loving thing to do.

8. Touchy
Your girl may be the touchy type, which is not the
hyper-thin-skinned poor sport, but the warm,
snuggly sort. She may show her love and affection by
holding your hand when you’re together, giving big
long hugs, frequent kisses, and putting her arm through yours. Her favorite date may be a movie at
home so she can cuddle up with you.

9. Helpful
Another overt sign of love is how helpful she is.
When she does the garbage detail, helps in the yard,
helps you prepare a speech, or cooks your favorite
meal, she wants to be in your life! To move these feelings along, and to better
understand where she is, ask her what she wants
her future to look like. If she has you in it, and a time-
line for certain events that bind you together, the ball
is in your court. What do you want? Remember: in order for love to sustain itself, it needs
to flow back and forth. If you do all of the above also,
your relationship should be on track.

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Re: 9 Signs That Say She Loves U by Phizzie555(m): 1:10pm On Aug 04, 2012
8. Touchy
Your girl may be the touchy type, which is not the
hyper-thin-skinned poor sport, but the warm, snuggly sort. She may show her love and affection
by
holding your hand when you’re together, giving
big
long hugs, frequent kisses, and putting her arm
through yours. Her favorite date may be a movie at home so she can cuddle up with you.
Re: 9 Signs That Say She Loves U by Phizzie555(m): 1:11pm On Aug 04, 2012
7. Gifts
She has noticed what you like, admire, and read,
and brings you gifts that reflect what she has observed
Re: 9 Signs That Say She Loves U by Phizzie555(m): 1:12pm On Aug 04, 2012
nice piece
Re: 9 Signs That Say She Loves U by Nobody: 1:25pm On Aug 04, 2012
Phizzie555: nice piece
Na you start thread, na you still dey hail yourself. You be confirm agama agama.

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Re: 9 Signs That Say She Loves U by obowunmi(m): 1:42pm On Aug 04, 2012
How soon should she begin to exhibit this? One month? Two months? Immediately....how soon will you give a woman to study you?

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Re: 9 Signs That Say She Loves U by BecaciaBarbie(f): 2:23pm On Aug 04, 2012
fresh_dude: Na you start thread, na you still dey hail yourself. You be confirm agama agama.
lol...maybe he copied nd paste it! Those things he outlined aint new anyway...nothn special abt it...bt good job!
Re: 9 Signs That Say She Loves U by Caseless: 5:40pm On Aug 04, 2012
Eyya! It's disheartning i cant find all dis. Pls, any gal with this listed above..shld apply in person. Other signs are: 1. When she cause u hrtaches and prevent u from findin cure. 2.wen she conive wt otedola and sss 2 carry out a sting operation on you.
Re: 9 Signs That Say She Loves U by Nobody: 5:52pm On Aug 04, 2012
A nice piece. Another suitable title will be: 9 SIGNS THAT SAYS SHE WANTS YOU TO MARRY HER

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Re: 9 Signs That Say She Loves U by Mcleo007(m): 6:17pm On Aug 04, 2012
Nearly all that are listed here seem like a wishlist. A case of near impossibility
Re: 9 Signs That Say She Loves U by BecaciaBarbie(f): 6:56pm On Aug 04, 2012
Mcleo007: Nearly all that are listed here seem like a wishlist. A case of near impossibility
Actually it is verry possible! When a girl is head over heels in-love wid u, u sure to find all dis in her character! Bt dis happens mostly, when d guy isnt really givn her attention nd dat drives gals crazy nd makes them feel powerless...
Re: 9 Signs That Say She Loves U by Nobody: 7:07pm On Aug 04, 2012
Becacia_Barbie:
lol...maybe he copied nd paste it! Those things he outlined aint new anyway...nothn special abt it...bt good job!
No mind the Terry G.
Re: 9 Signs That Say She Loves U by Csami(m): 7:44pm On Aug 04, 2012
Op, one question abeg.

All this things na for naija gals? Na question o.
Re: 9 Signs That Say She Loves U by roseybridge(f): 7:48pm On Aug 04, 2012
OMGosh!!! That's bloody funny!!! Laughed till I got hiccups cheesy
fresh_dude: Na you start thread, na you still dey hail yourself. You be confirm agama agama.
Re: 9 Signs That Say She Loves U by Phizzie555(m): 8:26pm On Aug 04, 2012
fresh_dude: Na you start thread, na you still dey hail yourself. You be confirm agama agama.
listen, are you always this stupid or are you just making a special effort today?
Re: 9 Signs That Say She Loves U by AdeniyiA(m): 8:47pm On Aug 04, 2012
Mcleo007: Nearly all that are listed here seem like a wishlist. A case of near impossibility
well, you said 'nearly'
if u avn't experienced it b4 doesnt mean its impossible. infact,a lady nearly completed the list on me last yr, i had to find an escape route(nt ready 2 b pinned dwn...lol) its jst dt av noticed dt dos u luv aint always luvin u equally in return(d risk in luv), well smtims it might be d taste

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Re: 9 Signs That Say She Loves U by engrtee(f): 11:36pm On Aug 04, 2012
val_dee: A nice piece. Another suitable title will be: 9 SIGNS THAT SAYS SHE WANTS YOU TO MARRY HER

am stil waiting for signs that SHE HATE U
Re: 9 Signs That Say She Loves U by jenny2007(f): 7:43pm On Aug 05, 2012
val_dee: A nice piece. Another suitable title will be: 9 SIGNS THAT SAYS SHE WANTS YOU TO MARRY HER

My thoughts exactly! @op, and why should she introduce you to her family before you have introduced her to yours? One word comes to mindsadshe's)desperate (to hook u)
Re: 9 Signs That Say She Loves U by Phizzie555(m): 5:44pm On Aug 08, 2012
fresh_dude: Na you start thread, na you still dey hail yourself. You be confirm agama agama.
U r a gross ignoramus - 144 times worse than an
ordinary ignoramus
Re: 9 Signs That Say She Loves U by Phizzie555(m): 5:48pm On Aug 08, 2012
fresh_dude: No mind the Terry G.
u have a room temperature IQ.... Fo ooL
Re: 9 Signs That Say She Loves U by ollyboy009(m): 7:19pm On Aug 08, 2012
My fianx has al diz qualities, bt av known 4 long dat she lovs me,i tot she we change diz atitudes at 1st bt she doesnt.we v bn dating for 4 yrs nw.proudin of her though she cud b sturbon atimes
Re: 9 Signs That Say She Loves U by Ligxy(f): 8:15pm On Sep 28, 2012
fresh_dude: Na you start thread, na you still dey hail yourself. You be confirm agama agama.
Can't just stop laughing. Hahahahahahahahahaha
Re: 9 Signs That Say She Loves U by deshclones(m): 8:46pm On Sep 28, 2012
Fcckin thread and fcckin op...useless signs indeed...same gal will show you these signs but will run off with another man ...nansense..
Re: 9 Signs That Say She Loves U by kpolli(m): 10:06pm On Sep 28, 2012
Phizzie555: *Nine Signs That Say She Loves You*

1. Communication
She calls you often, wants to know what you’re
doing, and shares her day’s activities
. When you ask
about her plans for the evening, or the weekend, or
even the whole summer, she doesn’t hedge or put
you off. She is open and forthcoming.

2. Exclusivity
When she only wants to see you, and does not give
you the “space” talk, as in, “I need my space,” and is
not craning her neck to watch other men walk by,
you have her attention. She makes it known to you
and to everyone else that she does not want to date other people.

3. No Conflicting Messages
She makes you her one and only love interest and
does not send you conflicting messages. She does
not say things like, “I’m in love with you, you are my
soul mate, I can’t live without you…AND…I saw my
ex yesterday and I think I still have feelings for him.” This kind of message will drive you crazy. You will
feel like the rubber ball attached to the paddle by a
slim rubber string, batted back and forth. The real
message that is being sent is: come here… and go
away. You can’t win. But if she loves you, her words
and thoughts are straight forward and you do not feel batted around.

4. Family and Friends
She makes plans to introduce you to her family and
friends. When you meet them, you realize they
already know a lot about you because she has
obviously talked about you. Most of them (except the
few jealous ones) are warm and friendly and genuinely excited for her that she has found
happiness.

5. The Future
When she talks about her plans for the future, she
automatically includes you in them. She has places
she wants to take you and sights she wants to show
you. She follows through on her suggestions. She
might also mention marriage and children, if only in an abstract way, to evaluate your reaction.

6. Affirming
She speaks often of how proud she is of you. She
does this privately and publicly. She thinks the work
you do is the most important thing in the world and
loves for you to tell her about what you
accomplished during the day. She is happy to help you with your work in any way she can.

7. Gifts
She has noticed what you like, admire, and read, and
brings you gifts that reflect what she has observed.
The quality of her gift shows the level of her
perception about what you like. If she is rich, she
may buy you expensive presents. If she is not, she may send cards, books, or poems. If she is not rich
and she sends a Porsche or a pricey suit, she’s got
some problems. Have the grownup conversation
with her about how you don’t like gifts she can’t
afford. That would be a very loving thing to do.

8. Touchy
Your girl may be the touchy type, which is not the
hyper-thin-skinned poor sport, but the warm,
snuggly sort. She may show her love and affection by
holding your hand when you’re together, giving big
long hugs, frequent kisses, and putting her arm through yours. Her favorite date may be a movie at
home so she can cuddle up with you.

9. Helpful
Another overt sign of love is how helpful she is.
When she does the garbage detail, helps in the yard,
helps you prepare a speech, or cooks your favorite
meal, she wants to be in your life! To move these feelings along, and to better
understand where she is, ask her what she wants
her future to look like. If she has you in it, and a time-
line for certain events that bind you together, the ball
is in your court. What do you want? Remember: in order for love to sustain itself, it needs
to flow back and forth. If you do all of the above also,
your relationship should be on track.

Egbon, parole girls don start to dey act concerned too ooo, so that part is invalid
Re: 9 Signs That Say She Loves U by fankasibe: 10:31pm On Sep 28, 2012
If u want to knw that a Nigeria girl loves u, she will not ask for BlackBerry and Brazilian hair.
Re: 9 Signs That Say She Loves U by HumbledbYGrace(f): 1:29am On Sep 29, 2012
fankasibe: If u want to knw that a Nigeria girl loves u, she will not ask for BlackBerry and Brazilian hair.
The Nigger provides for wateva she wants but she loves him to bits or only Nigerian girls r like that?
Re: 9 Signs That Say She Loves U by Kenistry(m): 3:37am On Sep 29, 2012
ollyboy009: My fianx has al diz qualities, bt av known 4 long dat she lovs me,i tot she we change diz atitudes at 1st bt she doesnt.we v bn dating for 4 yrs nw.proudin of her though she cud b sturbon atimes
cambridge
Re: 9 Signs That Say She Loves U by Mynd44: 4:21am On Sep 29, 2012
I hate lists
Re: 9 Signs That Say She Loves U by Dopefiend(m): 3:11pm On Sep 29, 2012
Phizzie555: U r a gross ignoramus - 144 times worse than an
ordinary ignoramus

Phizzie555: u have a room temperature IQ.... Fo ooL


Why u dey take am P? undecided grin grin grin
Re: 9 Signs That Say She Loves U by DukeNija(m): 3:54pm On Sep 29, 2012
Real G's don't need this crap.
We really don't care.
Re: 9 Signs That Say She Loves U by Nobody: 4:10pm On Sep 29, 2012
Duke_Nija: Real G's don't need this crap.
We really don't care.

cool
Re: 9 Signs That Say She Loves U by Mynd44: 4:42pm On Sep 29, 2012
Duke_Nija: Real G's don't need this crap.
We really don't care.
After printing a copy right?

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