Yucee55:

I like this post. It is the actual truth of the whole matter. I ran out of relationship with gurls because of my experience with just one. NO REST 24/7. Complaints all over. If its not delay in calling her, its for failure to say, 'I Love u' and all sorts of rubbish. Mchew!

I will marry but under stringent certain CONTRACTUAL conditions. e.g she will be on probation for the 1st 2yrs. After observing her behaviours, then I will Renew it with her for 3yrs. If she consistently behave herself well to my satisfaction, then we renew it for another 5yrs. Should she give me the slightest headache, she will find her way.

Truckpusher: ....ENCOURAGE YOURSELVES,BECOS YOU'LL BE LONELY, SMELLY AND UNKEMPT WHEN YOUR 78 AND ABOVE. LIKE MY POST IF YOUR MARRIED AND HAPPY WITH IT NO MATTER THE ODDS.

babaowo: ....... notin boi...

billyG:
In your grand father day his word is LAW he is fear,obeyed,& respected by all his wives,he is like a wise one-eyed king solomon among his 11 blind wives but try yur grd fthr footstep today,just marry only 2 wives $ see if yu will last 2 yrs.

Orikinla:
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It has always been better to be single and happy than be married and miserable.

I know many married buddies who told me that they never knew that their so called sweethearts would later become their heartaches in marriage.
Women often hide their true characters until after marriage.

Of all the girlfriends I have dated, only one of them I can pass nights with with my two eyes closed.[/size]

Yucee55:

I like this post. It is the actual truth of the whole matter. I ran out of relationship with gurls because of my experience with just one. NO REST 24/7. Complaints all over. If its not delay in calling her, its for failure to say, 'I Love u' and all sorts of rubbish. Mchew!

I will marry but under stringent certain CONTRACTUAL conditions. e.g she will be on probation for the 1st 2yrs. After observing her behaviours, then I will Renew it with her for 3yrs. If she consistently behave herself well to my satisfaction, then we renew it for another 5yrs. Should she give me the slightest headache, she will find her way.

combatmedic:
Getting Married and Getting Heart Disease: A National Study

A report of an 8-year study of heart disease, based on a nationally representative sample of more than 9,000 people in late mid-life. When the study first started in 1992, the participants ranged in age from 51 to 60.

The participants were contacted five times from 1992 and 2000. Their marital status, cardiovascular health status, and health behaviors were assessed. Other information (for example, socioeconomic status) was also recorded.

There are five different marital statuses:
• Continuously married (i.e., first and only marriage)
• Remarried
• Widowed
• Divorced
• Always single

Let's look first at the prevalence of heart disease at the start of the study. (Heart disease = doctor diagnosis of heart attack, coronary heart disease, angina, congestive heart failure, or other heart problems, or stroke.) In the table below is the percentage of people (averaged across all ages) who had heart disease at the start of the study. Lower numbers indicate less prevalence of heart disease, so the group ranked #1 is the healthiest. The rank-ordering of heart disease for the 5 marital statuses was the same for the men as for the women. See if you can guess which marital status goes with each rank.

WOMEN MEN
1. 8.4 13.0
2. 8.7 13.5
3. 10.7 16.4
4. 10.8 16.5
5. 11.6 17.7

Okay, here are the answers:

1. Always single
2. Continuously married
3. Remarried
4. Widowed
5. Divorced

So there you have it. The lowest rate of heart disease is found among the women and men, ages 51-60, who had been single all their lives. The rates for the continuously married are higher, though not statistically so.

The study went on for years, and the authors calculated the probability of experiencing heart disease for each age, from 51 through 65. (See Table 5 in the article.) Of course, the probabilities increase with age for men and women of all marital statuses. Let's see where they end up at age 65. Here are the results for the MEN.

1. 29, always-single men
2. 33, widowed men
3. 42, remarried men
4. 46, continuously married men
5. 50, divorced men

Look at what has happened to the continuously married men. At 46%, the likelihood of having heart disease is greater for them than for any other group of men except the divorced. The always-single men are doing way better, at just 29%.

(For women at age 65, the probabilities were 32 for continuously married, 38 for always-single, 43 for widowed, 45 for remarried, and 47 for divorced. So even though men typically have higher rates of heart disease than women, the always-single men have the lowest rates of all 10 of the groups.)

The authors also looked at how the risk of heart disease changed for each successive year of marriage. Here, in their words, is what they found: "Each year in marriage increased rather than decreased the risk of cardiovascular disease by 2% for both men and women." The risk increased each year both in first marriages and in remarriages.

Because the authors collected data on health measures such as smoking and obesity, and on conditions described as morbid (really, that's the technical term), they could venture a data-based explanation as to why each year of marriage added to the risk of heart disease: "Longer marriages were associated with less healthy behaviors and an accumulation of morbid conditions, such as hypertension, diabetes, and high cholesterol."


Culled from: http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/living-single/200902/single-men-have-good-hearts


Basically, what this research proves is that the so-called 'peace of mind' that people say we get from being married seems to be at best elusive or at worst a mirage.

Orikinla:
Dating Singles Age 45+ Are Happier with their Sex Lives than Married Couples

http://kissesandroses..com/2010/05/dating-singles-age-45-are-happier-with.html

Seriously lets be honest, if you really take your time to really know somebody well, You can never be deceived.

I think the real issue is most guys are always running after the hole itself than the character that's the reason of the whole issue.

During the process of pursuing the hole, you fail to see the good girls, (as you are just after one thing) because they ain't trained to give you what you want as you want or act as slaves and then you go with the wild ones.Forgetting that the issue of "teaching a someone how to fish" also applies to relationships of course as well as everyday life.Forgetting it is really better to " buy a new house, furnish it and decorate it the way you want it, than allowing someone else decorate it for you"

Then after the sex escapades they end up marrying in so much of a rush without adequately scrutinizing the character of the lady in question.

Then after marriage and wahala comes everything points to the lady.

Marriage ain't a small thing, so u have to remember it has its own challenges.

So i advice single's to take the position of an 'interviewer, detective or police officer' on some issues when you want to get married. Even though its quite impossible to know everything about somebody at once but years

Truckpusher:
....ENCOURAGE YOURSELVES,BECOS YOU'LL BE LONELY, SMELLY AND UNKEMPT WHEN YOUR 78 AND ABOVE. LIKE MY POST IF YOUR MARRIED AND HAPPY WITH IT NO MATTER THE ODDS.