I met her 7 months ago and we have been the best of friends.One day she found an article belonging to a female in ma house,suspects and accusations start cropping up.Finally she began to demand for a spare key but i refused, and she decided to quit the relationship,what do i do:

Give her the spare key if u have nothing to hide. What's so bad in that? or is she a thief/robber?

she decided to quit the relationship,what do i do:

Just because of spare Key, _{*Shake Head*} Guy Don't !
Beside you just met her 7 month ago,Well if you insist then give her a try.

something does not sound right here,
I do not know why why she will be demanding for a spare key.
maybe she does not trust u or she is just damn possessive.

If u ask me, don't give it to her becos she is pressuring u, give it to her becos u want to.

and if she wants to quit the relationship, let her do so and u just move on, maybe it was just not meant to be.

she does sounds like fire!

If u've got nothing to hide then why the fuss about giving out the spare

Busta:

something does not sound right here,
If u ask me, don't give it to her because she is pressuring u, give it to her because u want to.
and if she wants to quit the relationship, let her do so and u just move on, maybe it was just not meant to be.

Word

if she is going to quit d relationship cos of the keys then she will quit without a reason,besides she wants the keys cos the things she saw in your house, what will happen when she has the keys probably she will tell you who to invite to your house.you are seeing the signs now.

She quit the relationship because u didn't give her a spare key?!
Guy hold your key!
Ever wondered why she needs a key so desperately?
Don't give yourself the"she is over posessive" or "she dosn't trust me" crap! Think further.

Ummmm. . . .seems like u really aren't ready for that stage in the relationship though??

Cos u are hesitant to give her your keys I'm guessing u really are not fully committed to her yet,

and her way of dealing wid it is to dump u!!

so yeah maybe u need to find someones that'll tolerate ur bad habit so to speak

And ermm. . .good luck too!!

Pls don't give her, 7 months is not enough to establish full trust moreover, you are just dating and not engaged, today's girls have 4 eyes, they can do anything.Let her go if her reason is just cos of spare key, sooner or later she will get back to her senses hoping that it won't be too late for her.Cheers!

Absolutely not,

dubeilo:

[b]I met her 7 months ago and we have been the best of friends.[/b]One day she found an article belonging to a female in ma house,suspects and accusations start cropping up.Finally she began to demand for a spare key but i refused, and she decided to quit the relationship,what do i do:

So u guys arent dating? and she is demanding for a key

if you really love her, i dont see why u cant give her the keys for peace sake. you give her the keys and you talk to her about her attitude towards it. after all, its not by holding keys, u could still do what you want to do elsewhere with out her knowledge, so make her understand that.

Hey Toyos120

You are one fine woman!

Please keep your key bros. She dumped you just cause of your spare key ? Please let her be and that is if you don't have any bones in your closet .

Obviously ,she's a thief waiting to sell everything in your house and then go out of town.Think Twice before giving her your spare key

your story is confussing and not complete. is she just "your best friend" or your girl friend (lover)? you said she quit the relationship. that means there is a serious thing going on between both of you. ask her what she needs your spare key for and get back to me with more inform. then i can advice you. for now DON'T GIVE HER YOUR SPARE KEY!!!!

Never give a girl your house keys fool, the next thing you know she will start to move in on you.

My boyfriend has the keys to my home but not to my bedroom.

one love

dnt even try it, you will come back from work one day and find out her clothes have taken one side of your closet, and before you know it, her pictures will be on your walls, and then pots, yam pounding mortar go arrive your kitchen, . guy wrapper go dey hang for your lines. then u are doomed.

@poster
its not wise, dont even dream it, u never can predict a human being or trust one human being are incomprehensible, even if u do be rest assured that its gonna cause u some small troubles that u can or might be incapable of solving.

cheers!

na u sabi

If you are just BEST OF FRIENDS then where is your GIRLFRIEND
your post is kind of funny oooo abi how my friend go want spare key to my room when we are not dating hope she does not want want to rape you one of this days sha?
Well if you ask me its not wrong to give your trusted girl friend your key, BUT its wrong to give just a friend ( an opposite sex for that matter ) your spare key. Best of friends ko best of friend ni

If you are just BEST OF FRIENDS then where is your GIRLFRIEND  
your post is kind of funny oooo abi how my friend go want spare key to my room when we are not dating hope she does not want want to rape you one of this days sha?
Well if you ask me its not wrong to give your trusted girl friend your key, BUT its wrong to give just a friend ( an opposite sex for that matter )  your spare key. Best of friends ko best of friend ni

epi:

My boyfriend has the keys to my home but not to my bedroom.

one love

my gf has the key to my house and bedroom but not to my wardrobe

abeg give am the key to EVERYTHING! wats d bigdeal??

.

OP.
Let her go,Cause if you try giving out the Key then believe me she would sell all the funitures in your house . . . Nigerian girls are not to be treated that way at all . . .Don't give her the key ooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo

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