At times when i go through journals and ,newspapers . I hear parents who disown children for several reasons. Notable among them are

TENAGE PREGNANCY

Fathers often disown their daughters with unwanted pregnanancy for bringing shame to the house

DISABILITY

Parent after given birth to a child discover he is born blind,lame ,deaf and dumb etc and dont want to carry the stigma often abandon d child

NONBIOLOGICAL FATHER

husbands discovering that one of d children isnt his own through DNA asks d wife to let go of the child.

UNAPPROVED BEHAVIOR

Parent who have tried to disuade their ward from smoking,drinking,womanising,armed robbery,tatooing, etc disown their child


The list goes on and on.u can add more.

What wil make you ever think of disownin ur child.is it worth it? Does it help curb d issue or does it worsen the case?

Any parent who disowns his/her child is an irresponsible parent!

Who are you disowning him/her for?

When you were doing that it, it was so delicious that you forgot you'll be responsible for the outcome - a child!

If you disown him, who will then own him?

If you played your part as a parent there would be no reason to dis-own the child now will there

I agree with you Uju. I can't disown my child for getting pregnant or stuff like that, but I can for this. . .

engrtee:

UNAPPROVED BEHAVIOR

Parent who have tried to disuade their ward from smoking,drinking,womanising,armed robbery,tatooing, etc disown their child

. . .and if I may add, ritual killings for money and the likes. But, I will also be willing to take him back once he repents.

[quote author=Tgirl4real]I agree with you Uju. I can't disown my child for getting pregnant or stuff like that, but I can for this. . .



. . .and if I may add, ritual killings for money and the likes. But, I will also be willing to take him back once he repents.[/quote

wil u disown ur child coz u tink it wil make him repent or cos u dont want to be asociatd wit d bad omen,u dont want to be called the mother of an armdrober,ritual killer.why would u?

What about diowning a child cos of the mother's bad behaviou? Like refusing to have anything to do wit the kids if the mother for example, tried to kill the father?

so the kids suffer because mom and dad can't get along?

Nothing. . .even if they tried to kill moi!
My love is unconditional.
Yup! It is hereditary!

Why would any man disown a child, it shows deficiency in the parents responsibility. Even the prodigal son was never disowned,despite his many atrocities.rather the father gave him a second chance.

It is only a failed parent that resolve to disowning his/her/their child.
I believe that, if parents perform their duties as expected of them, their children will turn out and make them proud. Above all, love conquers all, before any parent can think of disowning his own child, then, that parent has been full of hatred and bitterness against d child.

I can never disown my child for any reason,disowning him does not stop people from associating you with him or her.What is the point of being a mother if you can actually disown a child you don't want?My child will always be my child.

Nothing...will guide/correct him/her till eternity!

Many things but I no fit tell exactly. If the country permits I will. But I will rather spend time teaching them than spend time scolding them.

Absolutely nothin. I think a parents love should be unconditional and if your child turns out bad i really believe you played a part in What he or she is.

NEVER. If he engages in anti social behaviours, I will ask myself where i got it wrong. Behind every failed child is a failed parent; either dad or mum.

NOTHING.

Saying I've disowned him doesn't change the FACT that's its my blood flowing through his veins.

Blazzay: Nothing. . .even if they tried to kill moi!
My love is unconditional.
Yup! It is hereditary!

no worry dey there you go soon know weda unconditional love exist in the grave

nothing!!nothing!!

What would you say about a child who try to kill you or who disowns you himself

Disowning a child is an admittance of gross failure on the part of the parent(s) / guardian(s).

Afterall, no child is born bad. Children are what you make them.

Nothing! D child 4rm my sp*e*rm remains my child.

Nothing on that list will make me disown my child. All of it is acquired character that he or she might drop anytime but one thing that will make me disown my child is Homosexuality.
I won't only disown, I will make sure I kill him myself. Nonsense.

Nothing mehn! My child is my child forever.

Nothing.

Dats,When my child killed me

God forbid wateva it is dat wil make me do dat.The trauma will be too much for the child .

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You cannot deny paternity of a child born by your wife if she remained married to you for at least 6 months prior to having the child (DNA test or no DNA. Dna test itself is subject to error or manipulation, this is a fact). And in matters of inheritance, you are not allowed to disinherit your child under any circumstance (to will your child out of sharing in your estate). Excellent, you will say. That's the position in Islam.

[size=15pt]very difficult to answer ...[/size] i guess that is my answer ..

I would disown my child if he convert to be a muslim.

I will disown only if the child say am not his/her father