please my people it has been a long time I wanted to know who is a caring man. This is because most of our ladies out there, if you don't take them to gifts shops, fast food joints or you don't send recharge cards to them you are not caring. please who is that caring man?

A caring man is a rich and generous man.

Akintoso:

please my people it has been a long time I wanted to know who is a caring man. This is because most of our ladies out there, if you don't take them to gifts shops, fast food joints or you don't send recharge cards to them you are not caring. please who is that caring man?

ol boy you don answer your self finish!

Seun:

A caring man is a rich and generous man.

abi o

Seun:

A caring man is a rich and generous man.

yes. . the likes of me

~Sly~(*_*):

yes. . the likes of me

A caring man, accordin to my research is a man dat can Bleep his wife vry well throughout d nite without restin. If u re rich and generous and u can nt Bleep WELL, ur wife will say out re nt carin at all cos u dey lack 4 dat thin well .

A caring man to ME OH (not every girl is the same sha). Is one who is concerned about his girls state of well being, physically, mentally and emotionally and at least attempts to do something to improve her wellbeing.

Emotionally - make her laugh or smile, make her feel attractive or loved by complimenting her and telling her you lover her and need her and why she is special, helping her spiritually, providing children, always ask her how she is feeling and actually want to know how she is feeling.

Physically - if she is tired help her out by taking on her chores, or not allowing her to carry heavy loads, or picking her up from work or uni in your car instead of allowing her to use okada or trek, massaging her back if it aches etc.

Mentally  - helping her fulfill her desires whether it is to be a businesswoman or career woman, go to school, do some research, help you with your business (so she does not feel bored or worthless), taking away the stress of financial burden too perhaps.

Anyway if you can do all of these things NO ONE can deny you are not caring. But you don't have to do all of these things to be a caring man, it depends on if she is able to do these things for herself or not and if she even considers these things to be issues on the first place. In fact to me, it is that he is genuinely trying that matters more, not even the succeeding. That's my definition of a caring man, there may be some omissions but I think you get the idea.

Here are some dictionary defintions too:
Adjective"Feeling and exhibiting concern and empathy for others"

Noun "a loving feeling"- love - a strong positive emotion of regard and affection; "warmheartedness"
To be concerned or interested: Once inside, we didn't care whether it rained or not.
To provide needed assistance or watchful supervision: cared for the wounded; caring for an aged relative at home.
To object or mind: If no one cares, I'll smoke.

To have a liking or attachment: didn't care for the movie.
To have a wish; be inclined: Would you care for another helping?

Sometimes a guy may care for the physical needs of a girl when she does not need it and needs the emotional or vice versa, you get what I mean. When she says you are not caring why don't you ask her what she means by that?

iice:

@Topic, one who cares

lol. that is the shortened version of my own. teehee!

@ ellj na wa o

A man who cares is the one that simply cares.

He is caring because he cares for your need.

A caring man is the type that isn't afraid to tell you when you are wrong, because he cares.

Nihil-ce-M:

@ ellj na wa o

A man who cares is the one that simply cares.

He is caring because he cares for your need.

A caring man is the type that isn't afraid to tell you when you are wrong, because he cares.

Yes I agree.

What is na wa o? Because the post was long, I have that habit - I like to be thorough so that people don't ask me twice or claim i am being vague! lol.

a caring man, hunhun
MUNGUN dats the short form
Xtics
1 Rich and very generous showers her with gifts
[b]2. infact generous is the key word, doesnt mind forgiving his wife several times for her sins like cheating on him both sexually and emotionally, some dont even mind her fooling around.[/b]3. Even if e sabi do understands that variety is the spice of life so e no dey vex
4. takes the woman and her finds out and spoils them, at least if she no tell u say u dey caring, her friends would tell her
5. he is at his girls beck and call, does the dishes, helps with her clothes, cleans her shoes,

e be like say i go stop for here make others contribute, if u need more input im at ur service

but no 2 is very key cos she go dey use u as example to all her friends "my man is so caring dat even when he found out i was cheating on him he forgave me, and the next time i did it he still forgave me. i love him so much and he loves me too". then the friend sef go use u as example to her own man by saying the same. believe me a man can be more caring than dat

infact generous is the key word, doesn't mind forgiving his wife several times for her sins like cheating on him both sexually and emotionally, some don't even mind her fooling around.

With that definition of a caring man, would you then agree that a woman should be a woman that allows her husband to sleep with other women in her home and still forgive him?

well wouldnt be able to answer that here, the topic is "Who is a caring man", dont think the guy will appreciate me xrising women.

would have loved to help but sorry i cant answer dat here. try talk about caring men, stay focused on the topic

Someone who is very selfless - thinks about others before himself.

I can see some people here have been used by women, ndo, ini, pele oh! That does not mean you should stop being caring just be wise!

Don1DeMaco:

a caring man, hunhun
MUNGUN that is the short form
Xtics
1 Rich and very generous showers her with gifts
[b]2. infact generous is the key word, doesnt mind forgiving his wife several times for her sins like cheating on him both sexually and emotionally, some don't even mind her fooling around.[/b]3. Even if e sabi do understands that variety is the spice of life so e no dey vex
4. takes the woman and her finds out and spoils them, at least if she no tell u say u dey caring, her friends would tell her
5. he is at his girls beck and call, does the dishes, helps with her clothes, cleans her shoes,

e be like say i go stop for here make others contribute, if u need more input im at your service

but no 2 is very key because she go dey use u as example to all her friends "my man is so caring that even when he found out i was cheating on him he forgave me, and the next time i did it he still forgave me. i love him so much and he loves me too". then the friend sef go use u as example to her own man by saying the same. believe me a man can be more caring than that

You were not asked to give a subjective answer, so you don fail.
A woman knows a caring man and can distinguish him from a mungun.
Have you ever seen how a woman talks about a caring man when he is not there?
You'd think he is a god, but as for the mungun;
you'll think she is talking about a domestic animal.

A caring man is a caring man and can't be otherwise.
If a woman hasn't yet understood the meaning of that word, bad for her.
Her ignorance can't in anyway influence the meaning of that word.

A man who fulfills the emotional, physical and material needs of a woman.

A caring man is the one who give attention, observe situation around and act according to his ability .

ell77:

I can see some people here have been used by women, ndo, ini, pele oh! That does not mean you should stop being caring just be wise!

LMAO

iice:

@Topic, one who cares

lol.
hapi new year dear.dis your colour,hmmn wont talk naw.

caring man
a phrase coined by women to describe and deceive their mugu into being regarded as loved.
another word for it is being called Nice guy.

@ bennygee

Then I guess a caring woman in your definition is the one that allows you to do anything and get away with it.
Just because you have been a mugu for a lady doesn't mean you should spread your hatred and bitterness on this thread.

When a woman meets a mugu, she uses him and dumps him.
When a woman meets a caring man, she dumps all the mugus she has been dating and those include people like you.

Pele, things go better!

@post,caring man is someone who lavish cash wella
ba ishu je like mad

A caring man is someone that take ladies to gifts shops, fast food joints and also send recharge cards always, that is a caring man

@ michelin
i got wisened a long time ago before u saw ur first period.
i dont fall for such sweet crap as "caring guy".
what women dont understand is that a guy will only give if he wants and can afford to.
if u have a mugu good for you.
but i've opened my eyes a looong time ago

@ topic

A caring man? Its ehhnnn, ME!