obowunmi: For me, nothing wrong in chasing after a woman. I like someone that is not haste in their decision.

I just wonder if there is a sign? Symbol? Something......

sessydoo:


Yes Miss B, i want to put a ring right now if u allow me. But honestly is she ur gel? do u know her personally? if yes pls help me tell Bimbo to learn how to behave in public. We boarded the same plane from heathrow airport to Nigeria and i was so ashamed to see Bimbo shouting on her phone, even after they have asked evrybody to switch-off their mobil fones. not nice at all

Did i just say Bimbo?? pls pardon me, it was this busty babe that acts yoruba movies, foluke daramola. dnt think i ve met bimbo one-to-one b4

stereo: I'm no sexist. I like her stand on finding the right person; the one she wants to be with forever and all that.

But then I've to say this is the kind of thinking; the idea of getting the ideal, complete man that leaves people getting old and lonely. Nobody wants to be alone.

Don't be fooled. Maybe she's not good enough for the men she claims to have turned down.

Just my opinion. No attacks please.

ypzilanti:

I agree that there is nothing wrong with chasing a woman. There is normal shakara, (that is welcome) and then there is NO! NO! NO! If you are very persistent, you can change the NO by the time the girl is dangerously beyond 30 years .

There is no special sign...I have two friends that have told me that they knew immediately they saw their wife that she was the one. One of them is living in hell now, the other one is quite happy with his choice.

My own experience is to find a nice lady that likes you too, and date her consistently for at least a year. Consistently means weekends, and weekdays not just on dates but doing things that you usually do alone together. Listen to what she says, watch what she does. What are her ambitions and aspirations? How does she treat you and your friends? By about 3 months you should know if you want to continue with the relationship. If you both like each other, and you are compatible, at some point you will take precedence in her life and vice versa...nobody will tell you at that point that you should go and seal the relationship at the altar.

pro01: Hmmm. . .incredible. It's always interesting to see someone stick a huge, fat middle finger up in the face of tradition - more so when done with such artistry as Bimbo just did.

I meant to diss the flabbiness out of her when I saw the topic, as I thought it must be a really bitter case of sour grapes. However, reading the main post has left me confounded by the sheer clarity of her thought, eloquence of her words, and persuasiveness of her argument. I shamelessly have to admit that I am persuaded by these arguments, regardless of her real motives.

All these UI products no dey fall hand at all.

dokkyelele: Dont be deceived my friends.
She is screwing someone l know but she's not a lez, very sure.

obowunmi:

Got it. Seems like time and prayers will tell.

Missy_B:



When I find the person that makes me feel I can do this forever, then I am ready." Bimbo Akintola, 37.

Missy_B:
I thought as much! Bimbo is too classy and courteous to act like a market woman in public.

Missy_B: Make I see picshore first. Anything less than a diamond ring is a No, and I shall wait, even till 70, until I find that man willing to give it to me.

Missy_B:

"I will be 70 and still be single if I do not believe honestly that I have found the right person. We are all on earth as individuals. Some of us will marry; some of us will not. Some of us will have children, some of us will not. So I never judge myself according to other people's standard.
Marriage is such a huge deal and I'm not in a hurry to go there. That's the truth.

If you find maybe two of my ex's, you will find out that I've had proposals. But I turned them down because at the end of the day, you are saying 'I pick this person above everybody else in the
world, till death do us part.' I had better believe that! If I don't believe it, it's not going to happen.

If I'd wanted to be married 15 times over, I would have. But I won't marry for people, I will marry for me. When I find the person that makes me feel I can do this forever, then I am ready." Bimbo Akintola, 37.

Missy_B: That's my girl!

Missy_B:

"I will be 70 and still be single if I do not believe honestly that I have found the right person. We are all on earth as individuals. Some of us will marry; some of us will not. Some of us will have children, some of us will not. So I never judge myself according to other people's standard.
Marriage is such a huge deal and I'm not in a hurry to go there. That's the truth.

If you find maybe two of my ex's, you will find out that I've had proposals. But I turned them down because at the end of the day, you are saying 'I pick this person above everybody else in the
world, till death do us part.' I had better believe that! If I don't believe it, it's not going to happen.

If I'd wanted to be married 15 times over, I would have. But I won't marry for people, I will marry for me. When I find the person that makes me feel I can do this forever, then I am ready." Bimbo Akintola, 37.

Missy_B:

"I will be 70 and still be single if I do not believe honestly that I have found the right person. We are all on earth as individuals. Some of us will marry; some of us will not. Some of us will have children, some of us will not. So I never judge myself according to other people's standard.
Marriage is such a huge deal and I'm not in a hurry to go there. That's the truth.

If you find maybe two of my ex's, you will find out that I've had proposals. But I turned them down because at the end of the day, you are saying 'I pick this person above everybody else in the
world, till death do us part.' I had better believe that! If I don't believe it, it's not going to happen.

If I'd wanted to be married 15 times over, I would have. But I won't marry for people, I will marry for me. When I find the person that makes me feel I can do this forever, then I am ready." Bimbo Akintola, 37.