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|She Is Confused & Needs Ur Candid Advice by Fudey(f): 2:31pm On Sep 07, 2012|
Hi all,this is my girlfrnd's plight n i need u all 2 assist me with ur advice. She met dis guy july last yr n they 've been talking on fone.last week she travelled 2 visit d guy n he said he wants 2 see her parents immediately dat his plans are 2 marry her by oct dis yr.now my frnd barely know him but d guy has involved his family 2 d extend dat his mother calls her,he had introduced her 2 his boss,he was previously staying wit a cousin but he got a 2bdrm flat n bought a car abt 2months ago wit d hope dat he has found a wife but d problem is dat my frnd said she doesnt seem to love dis guy n she is not convienced abt d relationship,she doesnt hv dis inner peace in her whenever d marriage thoughts comes up n besides her parents said no 2 d relationship wen she did mention it.now she wants 2 quit but doesnt know how 2 go abt it.ur candid advice is what she seeks.d blames are already on her 4 giving him a green light but d truth is dat she cant continue.
|Re: She Is Confused & Needs Ur Candid Advice by bjbaba: 3:09pm On Sep 07, 2012|
baby girl dont break is heart cos he is inlove wit u.be patient the love will show it self from ya side
|Re: She Is Confused & Needs Ur Candid Advice by omosexy1: 3:12pm On Sep 07, 2012|
The beauty of women. Wen dem wan marry; husband no go show. Wen husband show; dem no go wan marry.
|Re: She Is Confused & Needs Ur Candid Advice by Nobody: 3:16pm On Sep 07, 2012|
before we proceed care to answer this few questions:
- why did she go to visit the guy?
- have they been intimate?
- if yes then WHY?
- did she beg/borrowed/tricked some money off this man?
- has she repayed the money?
here is something your "friend" could say to this guy:" I am very sorry but after spending a few days with you, i have realized that we were not meant for one another. i didnt feel anything from you, i dont care for you the way i should care for a man i would like to marry. furthermore, my parents are against this union and i would never go against their wishes. I certainly wouldnt want to waste you time (and mine) so i wish you all the best in your search for a future wife and hope that you will be successful. yours truly "
|Re: She Is Confused & Needs Ur Candid Advice by frank317: 3:19pm On Sep 07, 2012|
omosexy1: The beauty of women. Wen dem wan marry; husband no go show. Wen husband show; dem no go wan marry.
No b small thing. I feel for the guy sha. Pls the earlier she tells the guy, the better for both of them. Marriage no b by force.
|Re: She Is Confused & Needs Ur Candid Advice by xynerise(m): 3:23pm On Sep 07, 2012|
MRbrownJAY: @OPread my thought. Best way to quit a relationship
|Re: She Is Confused & Needs Ur Candid Advice by Fudey(f): 7:08pm On Sep 07, 2012|
MRbrownJAY: @OPTanx bro,she actually visited him 2 get 2 know him more,but after she heard 4rm her parents her mind was just off him n she only stayed wit him 4 like 6hrs,she didnt sleep over at his place ,they were not intimate,she never borrow a dime 4rm him or tricked him of any cash.dis might sound strange 2 believe but is d truth.tanx 4 d advice
|Re: She Is Confused & Needs Ur Candid Advice by Mynd44: 7:34pm On Sep 07, 2012|
If all you said in reply to MBJ's questions are true, then the matter is as good as solved. Just say it as he typed and she is in the clear
|Re: She Is Confused & Needs Ur Candid Advice by Nobody: 12:58pm On Sep 08, 2012|
^^^^ case closed indeed!
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