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Pls Advice by GB102(m): 4:11pm On Sep 07, 2012
I am a 23year old female. My parents died when i was 8 yrs and so i dropped out of school because no-one could afford enough
money to pay my fees. I then met this guy when i was 14 and he
struggled to send me back to school. He was selling fruit by the
street just to pay my fees. He then got a job as a truck driver and
continue to send me to school even to the university, of which i
am eternally grateful to him for... indeed there are angels made by
God to help the needy in times of trouble.
My problem is that i feeli can't continue with this
relationship because he is not my type, i am notthe girl that i used
to be when he first sawme, dont get it wrong, i am honestly
appreciative of what God has used him to do in my life but i just
cant get totally committed to him
based on pity or how hehelped me. So im thinking How best can i tell him that he is not my type without hurting his feelings?? I
am grateful that he sent me to school but i can't be in a relationship with him anymore. I want somebody of my own class not a truck driver.
Please Advice me
Re: Pls Advice by deniyor: 4:14pm On Sep 07, 2012
No1 when did you become a female?

Now back to post, there is no way to tell him that will not drive a big knife in his heart.
That is life. He will feel unfairly treated and rightly so, but it is what it is.
Re: Pls Advice by uboma(m): 4:43pm On Sep 07, 2012
u are an ingrate. Y didnt u reject his material gift plus sponsorship when u were in dire need? Now that u think u hv arrived, u now see him as being inferior to u. Put urself in his shoes and tell me(us) how u wil feel.

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Re: Pls Advice by omega25red(m): 5:02pm On Sep 07, 2012
This is not your original story. This has been posted on NL before.
Re: Pls Advice by Mynd44: 7:55pm On Sep 07, 2012
omega25red: This is not your original story. This has been posted on NL before.
Posted more than 5 times
Re: Pls Advice by Lolaabokoku(f): 8:22pm On Sep 07, 2012
Post ur own too.. Y are nairalanders always after peoples thread?
Re: Pls Advice by kokoye(m): 8:58pm On Sep 07, 2012
The joys of recycling.
Re: Pls Advice by cindyrella(f): 9:35pm On Sep 07, 2012
Everybody wan open thread undecided
Re: Pls Advice by ijebabe: 10:17pm On Sep 07, 2012
^^ LOL!
Re: Pls Advice by Mynd44: 3:53am On Sep 08, 2012
Attention seeking is a biatch

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