When Rihanna sang that song about finding love in a hopeless place i think it was me she had in mind...the reason am bringing my story to nairaland is because i believe i will get a fair judgement and advise.
i'm a young lady ripe for marriage and in a relationship of 5 years with a married man( dont judge me yet) he is my first love and after a while we lost communication he got married i carried on with my own life. After a while we got talking and one casual day of hanging out has turned into five years of unending romance....the problem here is that he is madly in love with me as i am also his first love but he got married to his wife cuz of money and a hope for a better life.Even tho the Sex is not great we have still been happy together cuz we both love the time we spend together and how we treat each other: money is far from anything here.
even though i love him beyond words and i consider him the best thing that has ever happened to me as all these years have been the best years of my life... i feel the need to end the relationship.
he is my best friend...
in essence am asking the best way to opt out of the relationship someone plz give give me advise out of it
the worst part now is that he has introduced me to his brother do u think me and the brother stand a chance to make our relationship work or should i run out now b4 things get complicated

Eeyyaa...pele! E go better!

Can someone slap this girl back to reality. What nonsense

better wake up
he is using you.
Just feeding you lies
so you ca remain a spare tyre!

Wake up to reality!

THEN STOP LOVING IN HOPELESS PLACES

hmm, let me see. U said we shldn´t judge u. Well no one on NL wld judge u, rather u wld judge urself. Hmm, u said u fell in luv wit a man dat happens 2 be ur best friend and that sound so nice and mushy until u said he was married and our antennas went like twing twing twing. Wait!!!! u r opening ur thighs and nyash 4 a married man and u don´t want 2 be judged......I believe u made our point 4 us.

AmBeautiful: better wake up
he is using you.
Just feeding you lies
so you ca remain a spare tyre!

Wake up to reality!

Gbam!
@ OP, so wat‘s d essence of ur story? You need somebody to tell u you are doing d right tin sheh?
See brain washing ooo.
The guy don wash ur brain finish.
He‘s eating his cake and having it back.
5 gud years of being foolish.

omotola1:
Gbam!
@ OP, so wat‘s d essence of ur story? You need somebody to tell u you are doing d right tin sheh?
See brain washing ooo.
The guy don wash ur brain finish.
He‘s eating his cake and having it back.
5 gud years of being foolish.

i have always known ts an illusion...but this like an addiction how do i stop?

ameeno:
i have always known ts an illusion...but this like an addiction how do i stop?

As far as i'm concerned, the only way to stop it is to get someone else, but for now he's the only one shining ur congo... So i hope u find someone to take over from him, but meanwhile, let him keep shining ur congo.

fluid26: Eeyyaa...pele! E go better!

wetin go beta?

Mynd_44: Can someone slap this girl back to reality. What nonsense

If you wear the shoes, you know where it pinches. Don't judge my brother

She doesnt need advice....she has the solution in her palms.

ameeno:
i have always known ts an illusion...but this like an addiction how do i stop?

Whoever says congo shining is the reason for their bond and close relationship.

Mynd_44: Can someone slap this girl back to reality. What nonsense

Slap? I thought you were talking about kicking her dumba$$ out of arrant fantasy.

@post . . . Just try to fall in love with someone else, only can untie yourself from that bond.

D-Explorer:

Slap? I thought you were talking about kicking her dumba$$ out of arrant fantasy.

blawdy hypocrites!

Amya:

blawdy hypocrites!

Speak in English

Women don't make sense. They just need someone to wind up their emotion. But when emotion beclouds sense of judgment I don't know what to call it.

@poster. Delete his fone number and warn him never to call you. If he does, report him to his wife.

D-Explorer:

Slap? I thought you were talking about kicking her dumba$$ out of arrant fantasy.

If that works, no problem

for the fact that you know he is married, go and look for your better half some where else mam

Mynd_44:
If that works, no problem

Oh yeah, it does work effectively.

Wtf I don't even

*singing* in love,in love,u gotta act like a woman and think like a man!.

Babe this is infatution,this man is Using you and wastin your time,let go off him,he's not your man,he's married,wake. Up from ur slumber before its to late for you.try give yourself a dirty slap so you can face reality.

Rihanna had you in mind when she sang you find love in hopeless place? Keep telling you self that and it just might end up been true!

7footre: Rihanna had you in mind when she sang you find love in hopeless place? Keep telling you self that and it just might end up been true!

Nicely noted team positivity

D-Explorer:

Oh yeah, it does work effectively.

Then kick away until she comes to her senses

He sleeps with, go back to his number 1(wife) and u are ok with it for five years. I hope u will b ok wit ur future husband (if u decide to get one) when he he sleeps with u and go back to his number 2.