I hv a sista who suddenly falls in love with a guy she met recently and the guy was her choice of a man. The met months ago and my sister is crazy in love wt hm and the guy loves her too.
The guy is making plans to come for the introduction and other stuff that wl follow bt there is a problem,and the problem is that the guy is a strict vegetarian. I asked my sister if shes suspecting any cult behaviour from him or bn too religious and she said no bt said that their family including hs siblings were all vegetarians. My sista is nt a vegetarian and she likes meat that she cnt afford to deprive herself of that all d years of her life bt d difficult part of it is that d guy agreed that she cn be cooking meat seperately and be keeping it on the refrigerator for her own use and never to cook other meals wt d same pot. She said that d guy used to buy meat for her weneva they went for outing and he is too caring and a perfect gentleman.
pls cn this be a problem later for them or cn both be able to maintain it. Ur suggestions are highly welcome.tnks

He loves her and buy's meat for her.
So that means she can as well cook meat for herself when she gets married.




That one is a vegetarian doesnt mean one is in a cult

[b]Being a vegetarian means he values anything with life so much ([/b]I think his' is a family tradition).

Afterall I intend to be a vegetarian as soon as I get married


Love is all that counts and from your post the guy loves her,yeah she can proceed to marriage.


Just to be on the safer side they can as well talk about their different food orientation before they get married

thanks for ur reply bt if u become a vegetarian and ur wife doesnt want,can u be able to tolerate her and keep to her own principle wtout interferance?

Am a type O blood and meat is what I naturally enjoys eating bt cnt marry a vegetatian as a wife. Bt in ur sisters case,i dnt think there wl be much problem since she wl be doing the cooking.,bt dnt b surprise that she wl later join her husband and bcome a vegetarian.

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"millitant vegetarians" shouldn't date meat eaters.

I find it difficult to understand the veggie philosophy. They eat living things too. Tree are living things, they've got feelings. They bleed when cut.

Back to topic
Finding a common ground is the key.

How person go dey wey no go like meat? How

It sounds like they already have some amount of respect for each others choices about eating meat or not.So its a good foundation to build on in these regards. I dont see it as any problem at all. Im sure over time they will establish a routine for cooking that works for both of them. Im a vegetarian( I dont like meat) and I was in a relationship with a meat eater and it worked fine. We would still cooked meat for him, and he enjoyed the meatless food we made. No problem.

Abeg why is the poster taking paracetamol for her sister's headache?

What happens with d children, will they be allowed to eat meat or not. That is one very impt area she has to thrash out wit her soon to be hubby. Let dem agree to avoid anytin unpleasant in future.

C'mon girly, there is nothing to it. They'll be fine.

There is noting wrong here as long as both of them are committed to making this work

God bless u all for ur comments,i never believe its going to work bt nw am convinced.