This is when a man or a woman risk his/her life just to monitor or catch an unfaithful partner red handed. there are people who usually go the extra mile to prove/confirm their suspicion when it comes to the issue of infidelity either in a relationship or marriage. just like the case of a wife who decided to pay her husband an unexpected visit inorder to catch him red handed, having heard of his numerous affairs with several women in town. the woman and her husband lives apart cos of her work. the woman lives and works with an oil company on an island off PH, while her husband lives in PH. and cos of this, her husband has been using it as an opportunity to cheat on her steady. and in order to confirm her suspicion and all the rumour she's been hearing, she decided to pay him an unexpected visit and also risk her life by using a local speed boat to cross the sea (which was also very rough at that time) to port harcourt instead of using a much safer vessel for the trip. you can see the extent some people can go, all becos of love? what if the unexpected had happened to her while crossing the sea (God forbid!) what would be her story later? the highest she can do, is to scream, shout, shove or slap the hell out of her husband and his mistress if she happens to catch them in the act. but you know some men, are very good in hiding things like that. most men do theirs in coded places such as hotels or in any of their friend's place, if they dont want their wives or neighbours to suspect or report them to madam. So, her taking such a risk may not even be justified or give her the desired result at the end of the day. So, why kill yourself then? it's just like someone paying a private investigator to spy on his or her wife/husband. for wetin? that's taking things too far. this is a normal practice abroad, where couples spy on each other due to lack of trust. but it's also gradually cripping into our society as well. cos some of our people are doing it now. abi na lie? please na beg I dey beg, life na jeje. dont kill yourself or go mad becos of love. you only have one life to liv

Where do you people get this

NO.
I nearly did once.
When I risked the dangers of armed robbers and rant into them in order to see a sweetheart in Enugu.