bjcole:


Well said, Infidelity would be greatly reduced if we can keep our emotions and thoughts in right place. I see every act of infidelity as foolishness and ignorance. It's just like seeing fire and deliberately putting hand in it. Every Spouse should deliberately and consistently act in ways that would discourage infidelity too.

Well said bjcole .

The list of reasons for indulging in infidelity is inexhaustible. Infidelity is an act of indiscipline and selfishness. No God fearing woman will indulge in it or encourage it. The society has become so immoral dt ppl don't respect boundaries anymore. I've come to realise that a lot of men( single n married) do not respect the wedding ring even when u flaunt it in their faces. So women really need to be disciplined, pray hard, get busy and stay away from bad company.

keishablack:
The list of reasons for indulging in infidelity is inexhaustible. Infidelity is an act of indiscipline and selfishness. No God fearing woman will indulge in it or encourage it. The society has become so immoral dt ppl don't respect boundaries anymore. I've come to realise that a lot of men( single n married) do not respect the wedding ring even when u flaunt it in their faces. So women really need to be disciplined, pray hard, get busy and stay away from bad company.

You are very on point madam, why will a sensible and responsible man will want to sleep with another man's wife even if the said wife is loose? every man out there sleeping another man's wife is a coward, respect the wedding ring and sanctity of marriage pls.

ifyalways:
Like Richy would say. . . Its all the other spouse's fault. So @OP, here goes :
Oga is not doing his husbandly kpekus duties well. He needs to work on his pot belly, research deeply on the internet on how to keep the fire burning and glowing, he also needs to invest in "sexy" men thongs et all.
Oga is stingy.he has refused to spend on madam so she's banging outside for money and contracts.

Seriously,cheats do so for very varying and stoopid reasons. Sometimes for no reason at all.

Ogbuopi,gbukenelu Ify opi n'oliro ugwo akwukwo ya!

Hmmmm,the best thread ever.

...Or she just wanted to Bleep someone else for a change.

Everyone seems to be ignoring the most obvious of reasons here, lol. Being in a happy marriage doesn't mean you're not daily having to actively work against your baser instincts and strong attractions to other people. You might just fail. Sure, being in an unhappy relationship/marriage further aggravates the issue, but the struggles are the same. The only difference is, the person in the happy relationship will think twice and work harder against singlehandedly destroying something that gives them joy.

The same thing that will make a "happily married man" sleep with another woman!

Good for the goose?
Good for the gander!
Shikena o!

So many factors can make a woman seek consolation in the arms of another man
1. Lack of understanding/emotional issues between her and her husband
2. Lack of intimacy or inability to satisfy her in bed
3. An uncaring husband, women are very sensitive and need constant love and affection
4. Financial issues and work place opportunities, like the instance you gave about her sleeping with her boss/colleague
5. Seeking adventure/thrill when the marriage has become too boring and the woman just wants to explore because her husband doesn't give her any excitement
6. Revenge... Husband is cheating , so what a man can do a woman can do better

When all these things are going on, there is lack of happiness. A happy woman will never cheat on her husband

diva90:
So many factors can make a woman seek consolation in the arms of another man
1. Lack of understanding/emotional issues between her and her husband
2. Lack of intimacy or inability to satisfy her in bed
3. An uncaring husband, women are very sensitive and need constant love and affection
4. Financial issues and work place opportunities, like the instance you gave about her sleeping with her boss/colleague
5. Seeking adventure/thrill when the marriage has become too boring and the woman just wants to explore because her husband doesn't give her any excitement
6. Revenge... Husband is cheating , so what a man can do a woman can do better

When all these things are going on, there is lack of happiness. A happy woman will never cheat on her husband

From your definition madam, who is a happy woman? is it when a woman is not happy that she cheats? do you really think a woman has any reason to cheat? considering that when you cheat, you don't only offend your spouse, you offend God big time.

bjcole:

From your definition madam, who is a happy woman? is it when a woman is not happy that she cheats? do you really think a woman has any reason to cheat? considering that when you cheat, you don't only offend your spouse, you offend God big time.

No reason to cheat - I agree
You offend God big time when you cheat - I agree

How I wish some men would not subject their wives to such intense emotional trauma that pushes them onto the shoulders of another man, to preserve their sanity.

manosteel:
Considering the rate of infidelities in our society, especially coming from a woman that can be described as happily married, with a loving husband, and having everything, yet end up sleeping with another man say her boss in the office. One will begin to ask the important question, what are the things that can make a happily married woman sleep with another man? I believe knowing some of these things will help us to take necessary corrections and save our homes.

A happily married woman will not sleep with another man unless she has been raped.