OP i get the answer to ur problem.My great grand papa get one strong love medicine and the medicine still dey wit me.if u need am jus halla me.na only ten thousand naira u go pay for it.na chicken change be dat abi?

Goldieluks:


I endorse this post too. @OP this is where you both have to define the love you've been proving to eachother all this while. Everyday is not christmas. You and your girl should know that there comes a time in a relationship where things don't seem like what they used to be. It is only steadfastness that would enable you two scale through.

If you two decides to move on, there's no guarantee that this same thing will not repeat itself in your new relationship. Things like this is bound to happen in every relationship, so go back to your girl and sort things out with her.

My piece!

very true. cos relationships take work. and if both of u dont work on it, then u will have d same issues with ur next relationships.

so poster, u hv to be sure beyond reasonable doubt that u guys cant work thing out be4 u part.

@Gentle_J:
there's something dat mak u to love him or her before,think about dat,u can still lov each order if u want,but let forget about love now,
the important thing in marriage is future, love is somtin u can bid, is not must dat u we lov sombody dat u want to marry
if u have future wit the person marry and bid the lov, take a good look arround u, and ask q, how many maried people lov befor the
marry, wat mater is the person u want to marry,if it is okay ,love is just a feeling's, mostly act in relationship,
and end up in bad way
this is my opion,

Gentle_J: Tanx u all, bt d truth is dat we feel our consience wud haunt us if we went bck on our promises. Everybody knws us 2geda, even family n frnds. Dey all see us as a happy couple.

that is exactly the point you guys got it all wrong!!! Getting married cos its gona save face than kiss and say goodbye when the love dies!!! Ask your partner in the dead of the night or in his/her sober moment his genuine thoughts about d relationship, confide in him/her the fact dat ur love is waxing cold and marriage may not mend it if u guys don't rediscover together wat went wrong and fix them!!!!

Frankisu: Wow!! I gues its a common phenomenon. Its always tougher and more dramatic wen d end aproaches. Its to be expected. D fact dat you guys r not tinking of parting ways no matter the circumstances shows that u are meant for each other. Pls, make haste the wedding and have fun with your soul mate. Hapy married life in advance!
#talkin out of experience

Full of wisdom and worthy of emulation. Experience is surely the best teacher. Passing through the same predicament with the OP. Things really do get messed up towards the end. Pressures from all sides. Within and without, fear of the unknown i.e what to expect in the marriage, working so hard to please people especially on ur wedding day. All of these and so much more makes U think less and less of ur partner. Everything will be fine with time. How are U sure that calling it quits or changing ur partner will actually solve the problem? Similar situations may arise with others. Don't be caught up in an unending cycle of indecision. All the best.